10 better ways to battle sworn enemies
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http://inspire99.com/sworn-enemies-10-basics-to-deal-with-them/ Why do we have enemies? Don’t worry, we are not going to profess here that enmity is bad, I can easily say - “the mentality of enmity can poison a nation’s spirit” or something in that essence, but we all know that don’t we? I mean it is great to aspire to be a perfect person, but at some part, I feel that it is ok to be a little limited, a little real and also a little human! What do we feel about our enemies? The natural course of answer is – We are all lovely people here in this world, our enemies are the ones who are absolutely immature, who don’t know how to handle a conversation, who don’t know how to behave or who don’e even know how to respect us! Does this at any point seem like a familiar rationalization? I am guessing you would have had these thoughts at least at some point in your life, maybe during a conversation or a debate or even a fight. No matter what the reason is I think it is safe to assume that we have had enemies and we have dealt with them in different ways and moved on with our lives. Presenting a few of those learnings with the mistakes we have done and suggestions as to how we can deal with them better!TRANSCRIPT
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WHY ARE THEY YOUR ENEMY?
What is the exact reason as to why they are your enemy? What is it that they have done to deserve your enmity?
“I don’t know, I simply don’t like that guy/girl. “ is not an answer
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HOW IMPORTANT ARE THEY/ WHERE IN YOUR LIFE?
How Important were they before the incident happened?
Try and imagine your life if that one particular incident did not happen, what would have life been, how would be your relationship?
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IS THERE ANYTHING THEY CAN DO TO MAKE THINGS BETTER?
what can they do now if at all they want to, to make things better and back to normal?
Do you think you have an option for that?
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DOES IT MAKE SENSE TO TELL THEM?
Does it make sense to tell them why you feel bad?
There is a possibility that they never knew that they were crossing the line and making an enemy in you
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HOW IMPORTANT IS THAT PERSON TO YOU?
If you care enough to hate them, maybe they do have an impact on you.
You can either deal with it or ignore it but that would depend on what you want them to mean to you.
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WHY ARE YOU NOT ABLE TO FORGIVE THEM?
Which one of the two hurts more? – The feeling of hatred or that someone is still a part of your thoughts?
If the answer is former, then probably it is time that we think of an option for them to make things right
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OPEN UP A CONVERSATION
If they mean something to you – Talk to them, pour your emotions.
If you are talking to a sensitive person on the other end, they are sure to catch your drift and respond!
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I WILL BE MEAN COS HE IS MEAN!
It is fairly natural to try and be mean to someone but what if you took the high road, be a little noble?
It is an easier thing to handle
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OF LOVE AND AFFECTION!
How about devising a plan?Think of all the efforts you undergo to make it work? Upon that you should also worry on the ways they can get back to you.
Given that it is your enemy, do you think they deserve that much of your thought? Wouldn’t it be easier to simply ignore them?
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IF NOTHING WORKS
Well, if nothing works, having an enemy is something you cannot help.
But letting them affect you is completely your choice.
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