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No Man is an Island.

"All mankind is of one author, and is one volume; when one man dies, one

chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language; and

every chapter must be so translated...As therefore the bell that rings to a

sermon, calls not upon the preacher only, but upon the congregation to come: sothis bell calls us all: but how much more me, who am brought so near the door

by this sickness....No man is an island, entire of itself...any man's death

diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind; and therefore never send to

know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee."

This is a quotation from the meditations of John Donne (1572-1631). Donne's

Meditations concern man's spiritual and social functioning, especially with regard

to illness and death.

Though I do not subscribe to his views on religious interconnection, I find this

quote apt for this week's study on fellowship.

"No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a

part of the main."

The study is attached.

with love in Jesus

John Kodiyil

PS

Both Earnest Hemingway and Metallica quoted "for whom the bell tolls" from

Donne's meditation, the former for his book on the spanish civil war and the

latter for a song. The tolling refers to that of funeral bells.

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FellowshipA. THE PURPOSE OF FELLOWSHIPThe fellowship of Christians together is very important, for it is in our unity

together that...

1. The Believer Is Encouraged And Grows In Christ"I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you

strong - that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other's

faith" (Rom 1:11,12).

2. The World Comes to Know That Jesus Was Sent Of God"I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are

one: I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the

world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved

me" (John 17:22,23).

B. CONDITIONS OF FELLOWSHIP

1. A Basic Commitment To One Another"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above

yourselves"(Rom 12:10).

Without a basic trust there can be no fellowship. The depth of fellowship will varyaccording to the depth of commitment.

2. Our Commitment Must Be Based On 'Agape''Agape' is a one-way or unconditional love, which loves 'in spite of', not 'because

of'. Such a commitment therefore will not be affected by the other person's

inconsistent behavior.

"A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you

must love one another" (John 13:34).

3. True Fellowship Is Christ-Centered

Our fellowship with one another is founded in our common commitment to Christ.

" ...And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ" (1 Jn

1:3). See also Phillippians 2:1,2.

4. Walking In The LightOur fellowship embraces the need to be open, honest and truthful with one

another. This at times may mean:

I. Confessing Our Own Sins To Others. Or Lovingly Covering Another's Sin. "If we

claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not

live by the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have

fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us fromevery sin" (1 Jn 1:6,7). See also Matthew 18:15.




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II. Obedience - general and specific commandments God has given.

III. The Removal Of Any Masks Or False Coverings. So much of the world's

fellowship is hypocritical - acting out a role, and is not genuine.

"Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have

sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the hearts" (1

Pet 1:22).

5. A Genuine Interest In The Other's Well-BeingThere should be no hidden motives of self-gain. Our desire should be to give, not

to get.

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider

others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own

interests, but also to the interest of others" (Phil 2:3,4).

6. A Willingness to Lay Down One's LifeMy command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no

one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends" (John 15:12,13).

Life involves more than physical life. It also includes our material possessions,

our personal interests and preferences, etc. (Jas 2:15,16). This also means a

willingness to openly share of one's self. We can only know people to the extent

they are prepared to reveal themselves.

C. FELLOWSHIP IN THE CHURCH MEANS.

1. Sharing All ThingsThere were three stages of development in their

fellowship in Acts 4:32 - firstly, they were of one heart

(spirit), then they were of one soul (mind), and then

followed the physical expression of having all things in

common.

All the believers were together and had everything in

common. Selling their possessions and goods, they

gave to anyone as he had need" (Acts 2:44,45).

2. Laying Down their LivesGreet Priscilla and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their

lives for me. Not only I but all the churches of the Gentiles are grateful tothem" (Rom 16,3,4).

3. Devoted To Serving The Brethren"You know that the household of Stephanos were the first converts in Achaia, and

they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints.." (1 Cor 16:15).

4. Being A Channel Of Supply To Others In Need"At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their

plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality" (2 Cor 8:14). See

also 1 Corinthians 16:17.

5. Sharing In Suffering"Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles" (Phil 4:14).




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6. Sacrificial GivingOut of the most severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty

welled up in rich generosity. For I testify that they gave us much as they were

able, and even beyond their ability"(2 Cor 8:2.3).

7. Practicing Hospitality

"Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers, even thoughthey are strangers to you" (3 Jn ). See also Hebrews 13:2).

8. Building Up And Encouraging One Another"We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the

gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us" (1Ths

2:8). See 2 Timothy 3:10-14.

D. RESULTS OF FELLOWSHIP

The results of fellowship in the early Church were:

Fear of God (Acts 2:43);

Joy (Acts 2:46);

Favor with all people (Acts 2:47);

Addition of new believers (Acts 2:47);

All needs supplied (Phil 4:19);

Emergence of leadership (1 Cor 16:15, 16).

MY COMMITMENTThrough this study I now understand the importance of having fellowship

continually with other Christians. Today I commit myself to being a part of a

group of believers to whom I will give my loyalty, my love and my service.



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