5 habits of happily married couples

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5 Habits of Happily Married Couples INTIMATE CORPORATE (Head Office) Intimate Corporate TANA Irinjalakuda PIN- 680121 PHONE:04802821919,04802831818,048028 24999 MOBILE : 9400748888,9446445929 EMAIL : [email protected] WEBSITE : www.intimatematrimony.com

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5 Habits of Happily Married Couples

INTIMATE CORPORATE (Head Office) Intimate Corporate TANA Irinjalakuda

PIN- 680121

PHONE:04802821919,04802831818,04802824999 MOBILE : 9400748888,9446445929

EMAIL : [email protected]

WEBSITE : www.intimatematrimony.com

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INTRODUCTION

Kerala is the motherland of people belonging to varied religions, castes and communities. In fact, the

Hindu Religions belong to different cultures.Kerala weddings are celebrated with the same fervor

everywhere, though their way of conduct is different. Regional marriage ceremonies vary in

accordance with factors like religion, region and faith. Today Online Matrimony play major role

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Communicate with each other throughout the day (every day).

The thousands of short phone conversations my wife Ashley and I have shared through the course of

our marriage have been a lifeline keeping us connected. We feel connected to each other because

we’ve invited each other into every aspect of each other’s lives. We don’t wait until the end of the

day (when we’re exhausted) to start talking about the day. We connect throughout the day. We don’t

compartmentalize our life into “work” and “marriage,” but we see our marriage as something that

transcends the compartments and connects into everything we do in our work, our hobbies, our free

time and our home time. Communication is a vital ingredient to a happy, healthy marriage.

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Get on the same page with your financial plan.

A recent survey reported that “financial stress” is now the #1 cause of divorce. Whether or not this

particular survey was accurate, I can say with certainty that financial stress is a huge problem in many

marriages. Our own marriage was in a financial mess early on, and it took us years to get out of the debt.

One of the healthiest things we did for our marriage was to develop a simple plan and become unified in

it. We had the same goals. We wanted to stay out of debt, live within our means, give regularly to our

church and other causes we loved and never let financial stress come between us. We also communicate

about any purchase over $50 so we both know where the money is going. Agreeing on a basic financial

plan can make a huge difference in your marriage and bring more peace to your life.

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Even in disagreements, never speak with a disrespectful or hurtful tone.

The tone of your words will shape the tone of your marriage.

Even the happiest couples disagree. Marriage requires unity; not uniformity. We’re each going to

have our own opinions and sometimes we won’t see eye-to-eye, but even in disagreements, healthy

couples show mutual respect. They might get passionate or even heated in their discussions, but they

don’t insult each other or devalue each other. Make sure the tone in your voice remains respectful in

disagreements and encouraging and uplifting at all times. It will make a huge difference in your

marriage.

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Say what you’re thinking and feeling. Don’t say “I’m fine” when you’re not. Don’t expect your spouse to read your

mind.

The level of your honesty will determine the level of your intimacy. When you’re frustrated, talk

about it. When your spouse is frustrated, ask him/her what’s going on. Don’t settle for surface

answers. Get to the truth. Don’t punish your spouse or stay frustrated with them because they haven’t

figured out what’s going on. Your spouse is not a mindreader! Tell him/her what’s on your mind.

Open up to each other.

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The healthiest couples prioritize their marriage ahead of their careers,

hobbies, personal pursuits, extended families and even their own kids.

This kind of loyalty and high-priority on the marriage (even ahead of kids) seems “weird,” but it’s

the only way a marriage can really work. When you put your kids ahead of the marriage, it creates an

unhealthy and possibly even co-dependent relationship with the kids that can sabotage their

marriages someday. One of the best gifts you can give your kids is the security that comes from

seeing their mom and dad in a loving and committed marriage. Have the kind of marriage that makes

your kids want to get married someday. Don’t wind up with an empty nest and an empty marriage at

the same time. Prioritize the marriage even while your kids are young. You’ll be better spouses, and

ironically, you’ll actually be better parents too.

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Thank You!

INTIMATE CORPORATE (Head Office) Intimate Corporate TANA Irinjalakuda

PIN- 680121PHONE: 04802821919,04802831818,04802824999

MOBILE : 9400748888,9446445929EMAIL : [email protected]

www..intimatematrimony.com