香港六合彩
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一线曙光跟着从云层里喷薄而出,还……好意思问怎么?我……紧跟曙光来的还有一股晨露般的湿气,香港六合彩耳膜感觉到了,心确定不了,希望它是泪水的湿气。香港六合彩没出声,等香港六合彩继续说。香港六合彩只有等,即使不想等,也找不到可以说的话。子允平时再大大咧咧,这时也懂得小心谨慎。香港六合彩打小知道女孩的泪神经特别敏感,眼窝也比男孩浅得多。香港六合彩常把男孩搞得哭鼻子,却很少惹女孩流泪,不过这很少的概率让香港六合彩受尽了苦,不是挨对方家长斥责,就是挨对方家长告状,想解释清楚都不行,香港六合彩只得躲女孩,一直躲到今天的以前。子允奇怪今天的反常,又觉得有种反常中的正常,在这种反常和正常的心情交替中,香港六合彩不习惯这样的等待,但还这么等着,且等得很耐心。香港六合彩说不清这是怕女孩养成的习惯,还是觉得现在该这么做。香港六合彩很矛盾,是不是该先说一句什么话?但说什么呢?惴惴不安之下,又说了一遍对不起。谢天谢地,周晨晨那边开始说话了,尽说对不起有什么用?听你说出事了,知道人家会不放心吗?话的音质明显经过烘烤,但它的湿气依然骗不了处于极端敏感状态的子允。香港六合彩傻了,周晨晨已对自己如此情深,简直不知道怎么说了。香港六合彩的概念中,一直以为男生女生这码子事都由男生制造主动,也都男生控制主动,像跳交际舞,基本上由男士邀请女士,也基本上由男士带动女士。幸运天使竟这样飘到身边,子允都不知道扯谎是好事还是坏事,原以为天使只会在云雾中时隐时现一阵,然后飘得无影无踪。此时,天使虽不在身边,在子允看来,香港六合彩已飘出浓浓的迷雾,已飘过那座小木桥,正向着自己飘来。香港六合彩甚至觉得连接彼此的已不是电话线,而是……子允最招架不住女人的哭,何况香港六合彩的这种欲哭不哭,香港六合彩这样美丽的女孩在为自己难以自抑,香港六合彩也要难以自抑了。喂……别难过好吗?是我不对,不该骗你。你已经骗了,我最恨骗人的人了。可我不是有意的,我……你是有意的。但我肯定不是恶意。狡辩,不想理你了。说着要哭的感觉更明显,但这种明显中更加明显了香港六合彩对香港六合彩的原谅。TRANSCRIPT
Build a Balanced SpeechBuild a Balanced Speech
Introduction-10% of the speechIntroduction-10% of the speech Gain audience attention via an example, Gain audience attention via an example,
quote, statistics or a visual aidquote, statistics or a visual aid State the Central Thesis (the main idea)State the Central Thesis (the main idea) Establish your credibility Establish your credibility Identify with the audience and recognize the Identify with the audience and recognize the
occasionoccasion Preview the main points, in the same order Preview the main points, in the same order
they will appear in the speechthey will appear in the speech
Build a Balanced Speech Build a Balanced Speech (continued)(continued)
Body-80% of the speechBody-80% of the speech Use 3-5 main pointsUse 3-5 main points Give balanced attention to each sectionGive balanced attention to each section
Conclusion-10% of the speechConclusion-10% of the speech This is a mirror image of introduction, with a reviewThis is a mirror image of introduction, with a review Refer back to the attention-getter in the introduction Refer back to the attention-getter in the introduction
(e.g., a vivid example)(e.g., a vivid example) Don’t introduce new informationDon’t introduce new information End with authority, and always on timeEnd with authority, and always on time
Employ Frequent Employ Frequent TransitionsTransitions Transitions help adult learners knowTransitions help adult learners know
what to expectwhat to expect Transitions link the main parts of the Transitions link the main parts of the
speech, and create a smooth flowspeech, and create a smooth flow Transitions can review, and then preview Transitions can review, and then preview
main pointsmain points Transitions can be long or shortTransitions can be long or short
Single words, phrases or sentencesSingle words, phrases or sentences NumbersNumbers
Examples of TransitionsExamples of Transitions
““Now that we have reviewed the problem Now that we have reviewed the problem of homelessness, let’s examine three of homelessness, let’s examine three main causes…”main causes…”
““The second major problem is…”The second major problem is…” ““Next, we will consider..”Next, we will consider..” ““That brings us to…”That brings us to…” ““The final point…”The final point…”
Employ Humor With CareEmploy Humor With Care
Where humor is concerned, there are no Where humor is concerned, there are no standards - no one can say what is good or standards - no one can say what is good or bad, although you can be sure that everyone bad, although you can be sure that everyone will!will!
John Kenneth GalbraithJohn Kenneth Galbraith
Use Varied and MultipleUse Varied and MultipleTypes of Evidence and Types of Evidence and SupportSupport Examples Examples
Vivid success stories or brief scenariosVivid success stories or brief scenarios
Visual aids or modelsVisual aids or models Expert testimonyExpert testimony
Quotes attributed to an expert enhance the Quotes attributed to an expert enhance the speaker’s credibilityspeaker’s credibility
Statistics Statistics Be sure to round off and interpretBe sure to round off and interpret
There are three kinds of lies: There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies and lies, damned lies and
statisticsstatistics..
Benjamin DisraeliBenjamin Disraeli
StatisticsStatistics always remind me always remind me of the fellow who drowned in a of the fellow who drowned in a
river whose average depth river whose average depth was three feet.was three feet.
Woody HayesWoody HayesCoach, Ohio State FootballCoach, Ohio State Football
Always provide peopleAlways provide peoplewith a context to helpwith a context to help
them understand.them understand.
Richard E. MoranRichard E. Moran
A talk is a voyage with a A talk is a voyage with a purpose, and it must be purpose, and it must be
charted. The man who starts charted. The man who starts out going nowhere,out going nowhere,
generally gets there.generally gets there.
Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie
Strategically Choose Strategically Choose Your Organizational Your Organizational Pattern(s)Pattern(s)
Chronological (in order of occurrence, as in a Chronological (in order of occurrence, as in a historical perspective)historical perspective)
Topical (by subject)Topical (by subject) Spatial (by physical position, as in geographic)Spatial (by physical position, as in geographic) Problem-Cause-SolutionProblem-Cause-Solution Problem-Solution Problem-Solution Monroe’s Motivated SequenceMonroe’s Motivated Sequence
Monroe’s Motivated Monroe’s Motivated SequenceSequence AttentionAttention
Create interest in the problemCreate interest in the problem
NeedNeed Analyze problem characteristics andAnalyze problem characteristics and
relate these to the audience needsrelate these to the audience needs
Satisfaction Satisfaction Propose a course of action that eliminates the Propose a course of action that eliminates the
problem and satisfies audience needs, desires problem and satisfies audience needs, desires and wantsand wants
Monroe’s Motivated Monroe’s Motivated Sequence Sequence (continued)(continued)
VisualizationVisualization Verbally depict the world as it will exist ifVerbally depict the world as it will exist if
the plan is or is not instituted, and contrast the plan is or is not instituted, and contrast these possibilitiesthese possibilities
ActionAction Call for audience commitment and actionCall for audience commitment and action Be specificBe specific Monroe’s Motivated Sequence is commonly Monroe’s Motivated Sequence is commonly
used in advertising to persuade…used in advertising to persuade…
Delivery TipsDelivery Tips A speaker is always “on stage” A speaker is always “on stage”
They are “on” from moment they are announced, to the They are “on” from moment they are announced, to the time they return to their place in the audiencetime they return to their place in the audience
Pause before beginningPause before beginning Vary intonationVary intonation A slightly faster pace increases audience A slightly faster pace increases audience
comprehensioncomprehension Maintain good eye contactMaintain good eye contact Assume a relaxed, open posture,Assume a relaxed, open posture,
with few self-adaptors/touchwith few self-adaptors/touch
(Sometimes, “less” is “more”)(Sometimes, “less” is “more”)
Talk low, talk slow andTalk low, talk slow anddon’t say too much.don’t say too much.
John WayneJohn Wayne
The right word may be The right word may be effective, but no word was effective, but no word was
ever as effective as aever as effective as arightly timed pause.rightly timed pause.
Mark TwainMark Twain
To Minimize AnxietyTo Minimize Anxiety
Convert anxiety to presentational energyConvert anxiety to presentational energy Recognize that mild arousal is normalRecognize that mild arousal is normal
Seek public speaking opportunitiesSeek public speaking opportunities More speaking experience=less anxietyMore speaking experience=less anxiety
Avoid stimulantsAvoid stimulants Eat and sleep enoughEat and sleep enough Deep breathing, activity andDeep breathing, activity and
relaxation may helprelaxation may help
Practice the PresentationPractice the Presentation
Rehearse Rehearse Your emotional state Your emotional state Transitions (this is where many speakers Transitions (this is where many speakers
experience the most difficulty)experience the most difficulty) Introduction and ConclusionIntroduction and Conclusion
Become Familiar With Become Familiar With the Roomthe Room Messages are perceived betterMessages are perceived better
in an attractive roomin an attractive room Check-out the sound systemCheck-out the sound system
and lightingand lighting Become familiar with audiovisual (AV) Become familiar with audiovisual (AV)
technologiestechnologies Plan for water, pointer, etc.Plan for water, pointer, etc.
Always Have A Back-Up Always Have A Back-Up PlanPlan What if the AV fails?What if the AV fails?
Have a lo-tech back-upHave a lo-tech back-up
What if your available timeWhat if your available timeis diminished?is diminished?
Eliminate sub-pointsEliminate sub-points Don’t speed rateDon’t speed rate
What if you misplace your speech?What if you misplace your speech? Keep an extra copy, or quickly construct an Keep an extra copy, or quickly construct an
outlineoutline
FAQ’sFAQ’s
What if I make a mistake?What if I make a mistake? Remember that most speakers make themRemember that most speakers make them Correct it; humor is ok Correct it; humor is ok Move aheadMove ahead Don’t apologize profusely or start overDon’t apologize profusely or start over
How can I avoid saying “Um?”How can I avoid saying “Um?” Employ speaking transitionsEmploy speaking transitions Tolerate silenceTolerate silence
FAQ’sFAQ’s
How can I slow down?How can I slow down? Pause between sections. Stop at the end Pause between sections. Stop at the end
of sentences. Underline key words. of sentences. Underline key words. Tape record your practice sessions and Tape record your practice sessions and
count the words per minute. Then, count the words per minute. Then, practice speaking at a deliberately slower practice speaking at a deliberately slower rate to gain conscious control over rate.rate to gain conscious control over rate.
FAQ’sFAQ’s What about eye contact?What about eye contact?
Don’t bob your head up and down Don’t bob your head up and down Don’t fix your gaze at one personDon’t fix your gaze at one person Look up at the end of a section, rather than Look up at the end of a section, rather than
lose your place, or train of thoughtlose your place, or train of thought Face the audience, not your slidesFace the audience, not your slides Look more at friendly, supportive peopleLook more at friendly, supportive people Don’t favor one side of the roomDon’t favor one side of the room Increased eye contact increases audience Increased eye contact increases audience
learninglearning
FAQ’sFAQ’s
What do I do with my hands?What do I do with my hands? Don’t play with your hair, clothes, objects Don’t play with your hair, clothes, objects
or jingle money in your pocketsor jingle money in your pockets Don’t worry about your gestures--they Don’t worry about your gestures--they
will emerge naturallywill emerge naturally Keep your hands on or near the podium, Keep your hands on or near the podium,
or at your sides. Don’t cross your arms, or at your sides. Don’t cross your arms, or clasp your hands in front of your body.or clasp your hands in front of your body.
Audience Q&AsAudience Q&As Anticipate potential questions Anticipate potential questions
Draft answersDraft answers
Listen to the questionListen to the question Read the emotionRead the emotion
Don’t get defensive and never embarrass an Don’t get defensive and never embarrass an audience memberaudience member
Maintain an open and relaxed postureMaintain an open and relaxed posture Admit to not having an answerAdmit to not having an answer
““I really can’t speak to that;I really can’t speak to that; I will refer that concern to….” I will refer that concern to….”
I’m glad this question came up,I’m glad this question came up,in a way, because there are so many in a way, because there are so many ways to answer it that one if them is ways to answer it that one if them is
bound to be right.bound to be right.Robert BenchleyRobert Benchley
I was gratified to be able to answer I was gratified to be able to answer promptly. I said, “I don’t know.”promptly. I said, “I don’t know.”
Mark TwainMark Twain
In ClosingIn Closing Speaking in public represents an opportunity Speaking in public represents an opportunity
to enhance knowledge, change attitudes, and to enhance knowledge, change attitudes, and promote actionpromote action
Most importantly, strive to communicate with Most importantly, strive to communicate with your audience and to meet their unique needsyour audience and to meet their unique needs
The speaker has a responsibility to The speaker has a responsibility to communicate publicly in an informed and communicate publicly in an informed and ethical mannerethical manner
Source:Source:
Cohn, E. Public Speaking,Cohn, E. Public Speaking,University of PittsburghUniversity of PittsburghCenter for Instructional Development Center for Instructional Development & Distance Education,& Distance Education,Fifth Edition, January 2001.Fifth Edition, January 2001.