60 islamic ways to keep your husbands love forever

8/6/2019 60 Islamic Ways to Keep Your Husbands Love Forever

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60 Islamic Ways To Keep Ur Husband's Love Forever

1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a femalea man doesnt want a man for his wife.

2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, dont stay in your sleeping suit all day.

3. Smell good!

4. Dont lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.

5. Dont keep asking him, what are you thinking?

6. Stop nagging non-stop before Allah taala gives you something really to complain about.

7. Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet, not even under the pretense

of seeking help! If you think you want to solve legitimate marital issues, then go seek counseling with

the right person who can give advice in either:

1. Mediate any injustice done so any wrong can be corrected and the couple can reunite in harmony, or

2. Amicable divorce

8. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own

mother.

9. Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam. Focus on fulfilling your obligations, not

demanding your rights

10. Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug him.

11. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.

12. Compliment him on the things you know hes not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This

will build his self-esteem.

13. Tell him hes the best husband ever.

14. Call his family often.

15. Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him

to do more.

16. When hes talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it


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seem like youre interested.

17. Encourage him to do good deeds.

18. If hes in a bad mood, give him some space. Hell get over it, inshaAllah.

19. Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. Its a big deal.

20. If hes angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while youre quiet. You will see your fight

will end a lot faster. Then when hes calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him

to change something.

21. When youre mad at him, dont say YOU make me furious, rather, This action makes me upset.

Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.

22. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.

23. Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if theyre good guys. Encourage him to go out,

so he doesnt feel cooped up at home.

24. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it.

Really.

25. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to

communicate your feelings.

26. Dont get mad over small things. Its not worth it.

27. Make jokes. If youre not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them

to him.

28. Tell him youre the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know youre good

at.

29. Learn to make his favorite dish.

30. Dont ever, EVER talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily. If they end up agreeing

with you, you will see that it hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have a

bad husbandand other people also think you have a bad husband.

31. Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If youre a home-maker, take online classes and

get active in your community. This will make you happy and a secondary bonus is that it impresses your


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husband.

32. Do all of the above fee sabeelillah and you will see Allah put barakah in everything you do.

33. Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what

they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do. Do NOT give commands or instructions like hes

your servant. They are garment to each other [Surah Baqarah, 2:187]

34. Tell your husband you love him, many, many times. Aisha ( ) narrated that the Prophet used

to ask her how strong her love for him, she said like a knot. And the next time he would ask her, How

is that knot? He also used to reply to her saying, Jazzakillah, O Aishah, wallahi, you have not rejoiced in

me as I have rejoiced in you.

35. Have a race with your husband and let him win, even if you are much fitter and stronger than him.

36. Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain a strong mother, wife, cook and

housekeeper, inshaAllah you will not get FAT and frumpy.

37. Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whine, dont laugh or talk too loud or walk like an

elephant.

38. Do not leave the house without his permission and certainly not without his knowledge.

39. Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always looking fresh and crisp.

40. Dont discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find right time

for right discussion.

41. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach.

42. Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing home the dough. It makes it

easier for him to go to work.

43. Make sure you ALWAYS have something for dinner.

44. Brush your hair, everyday.

45. Dont forget to do laundry.

46. Surprise him with gifts. Even necessities, such as new shoes, can be gifts.

47. Listen to him. (Even when he talks about extremely boring things like basketball or computers.)


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48. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.

49. Try not to go shopping too much and spend all his money.

50. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.

51. Learn tricks and techniques to please your husband in intimacy. (Of course goes both ways.)

52. Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time (no children permitted).

53. Take care of your skin, especially your face. The face is center of attraction.

54. If you not satisfied intimately, talk to him and tell him. Help him or provide resources, dont wait

until matters become worse.

55. Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you,

every day, every prayer. Ask him to protect that bond from Shaytaan. When a lesser devil destroys the

love between spouses, he is the most beloved of Shaytaan. Nothing works like duah, and love only

exists between spouses where Allah instills it.

56. Dont EVER compare your husbands to other husbands! For example dont say, well her husband

doesnt do that, why do you (thats a killer!)

57. Be happy with what you have because no one is perfect. If you want perfection, wait until you enter

Jannah together inshaAllahand of course, vice versa!

58. Strive for Allahs love first and foremost! if all wives try to seek Allahs love and pleasure, surely, they

can keep their husbands love too. And rememberif Allah loves you, the angels will love you, and the

entire creation will love you.

59. If you pack a lunch for your husband to take to work, from time to time sneak in a little love note or

sweet poem. If he doesnt take a lunch, leave the note somewhere else for him to find, like in his

briefcase, or wallet or on the car steering-wheel

60. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask him to pray with you.

60 islamic ways to keep your husbands love forever

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