7 costly mistakes most people make when dealing with long distance relationship

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Are You Making These 7 Biggest Mistakes In Your Long Distance

Relationship?

Have you been in a long distance relationship that could have

worked out really well but ended up screwed because both

of you seemed unable to get and express what the other

wanted? Or are you currently in a long distance relationship

that really feels like this might be the ‘one’ but are afraid you

will end up screwing it like all your previous relationships?

Then this is an article that is right up your alley.

We all have had ghastly relationships in the past that have, in

a way, made us believe we are not meant for a healthy loving

relationship. However, everyone deserves love and the odds

are always in your favor. So, it is time to take back control of


your love life and learn to identify the mistakes that are

causing you so much pain. Then, you know what comes next,

yup damage control. So, take out your notebook, grab a pen

and start taking notes because we are going down the road

from which you will never return alone.

If you are in a long distance relationship, or thinking of

getting into one, you would/should know this stuff is not

easy. Love and relationships are hard work so only enter if

you are willing to work for it. If you are determined to make

it work, then there is only one rule. Enter without fear and

leave without regrets. This doesn’t mean that you have to

worry about it not working out. On the contrary, it means

you are going to try your best and if it still doesn’t work out,

it wasn’t meant to.


When you are in love, you feel vulnerable and start feeling

defensive. You probably go all psycho-crazy by giving out too

much information at one time and then holding it all back, to

remedy the slips. Well, no one is blaming you.

Long distance relationships can feel like a never-ending

rollercoaster, with few smooth and straight tracks and loads

of topsy-turvy turns. In order to make it work, you need to be

prepared for what is coming up. After all, no one ever went

on a rollercoaster with a cup of coffee and a book to read. If

you expect the ride to be bumpy, you will be better prepared

for what you are going to face ahead.


Here are the quick 7 biggest mistakes that can turn your

relationship into a mess. You can find a detailed strategically

prepared action plan on how to rectify the mistakes and turn

your relationship around in my book, ‘Long Distance

Relationship Miracle: How to Make a Long-Distance

Relationship Work', visit our website







Mistake Number 1 - Being Too Clingy

We all have been guilty of this mistake. There are two kinds

of people as a rule, the clingers and the detachers. If there is

one of each kind in a relationship, it requires a good amount

of hard work to reach a balance where both of you are happy

with the relationship. You need to identify the traits of your

partner in order to label them as a detacher or clinger.

The worst mistake you can make is being too clingy with a

detacher. They are going to run so fast, you would not know

what just happened. Make sure you have a life of your own

and take out the time to connect with them as well. Follow

their pattern and reciprocate.


Mistake Number 2 - Being Too Detached

So, you are the detacher in the relationship. Your partner is

probably whining all the time how you never have enough

time for them? Do not give them what they want. There is a

certain power over making the other person chase you. That

is what keeps the attraction going. However, you should give

them just enough to keep them satisfied, yet want more.


Mistake Number 3 - Letting Jealousies Take Over

So, you have been cheated on before and now you have

serious trust issues. This doesn’t mean you color every

partner as a cheater.

Not all men are cheaters and there are probably a thousand

other problems in a relationship without letting your

jealousies create a thousand new ones.

Talk to your partner about your feelings and let them know

what ignites them in the first place. This will definitely open

the door for your relationship to grow fonder.


Mistake Number 4 - Not Creating Enough Attraction

for Your Partner

We get it, you are busy and they are busy and yet you want

this relationship to work. However, it is not as easy as that.

You need to create ways to keep the spark alive in the

relationship to make sure it feels new and exciting even after

years.

Killing excitement and uncertainty from your relationship is a

surefire way to kill any attraction they feel for you. In my

book, ‘Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to Make a

Long-Distance Relationship Work’ I have a step-by-step plan

on how to keep the attraction alive in a relationship.




Mistake Number 5 - Giving Them Everything They

Ask For

If you have a million-dollar estate, would a hundred dollars

hold any value for you? In fact, owing to human nature, as

long as it is not taken away from you, your estate will stop

making you happy for long.

We take things for granted unless we are uncertain about

owning them. So, if you give your partners everything they

ask for, you are kind of forcing them to take you for granted.


Mistake Number 6 -Not Trusting Them

The thousands of miles that separate you can be unbearable

on both of you. However, they can become harder on you if

you do not trust them. This attitude will change your

perspective of them and create a lot of unwanted issues. If

you are in a relationship, why let trust issues cause problems.

Take a leap of faith.

“Have enough courage to trust love one more

time and always one more time.”

― Maya Angelou


Mistake Number 7 - Not Communicating Enough

The only thing that keeps the two of you connected is your

communication. Calls and texts are the only link between the

two of you. Keep it strong but keep it spontaneous. Routines

are boring, so add a spark to your relationship by calling

them randomly. Make sure to plan exciting activities

together. Distance doesn’t have to make your relationship

any less exciting.

Your attitude, at the end of the day, will decide if your

relationship will work out or not. Be strong and confident

and be sure to believe in your worth. Making your partner

the centre of your world is placing too much pressure on


them, so take responsibility for your own happiness and keep

yourself busy.

If you feel you need serious help in saving your relationship,

then my book ‘Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to

Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work’ has all the

information, plans and strategies that will help you take

immediate action and start seeing results in your

relationship, today. You can have a great romance and the

relationship of your dreams, if you learn how to play your

cards right.

Visit our website http://longdistancerelationshipmiracle.com/

for more information about how to make a long distance

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