7 Habits of a Highly Effective and Defective Teen

by: Cassia Moran

BE PROACTIVE This means DO NOT blame others for what you do

or have done. Take the responsibly of your actions and words. If you make a mistake let

yourself and others know it was you who did it and not some else.

React React This means to blame everyone around you for

your actions and problems. Also to do whatever you want. For example if someone screams at you, you should scream back at

them.

Begin with the end in mindThink about your future and your goals before jumping in

to anything serious. Know about what you want your future to hold before you hake a decision. Because your

decision could effect your future

Begin with no end in mindBegin with no end in mindNever plan and don’t set any goals. Make sure never to give thought about what tomorrow might hold in store for you. Party, drink, sleep, because tomorrow might be your last day.

Put first things firstPut first things firstThe important things in your life FIRST. Never think

that you can do important things after you do something unimportant. You have to prioritize.

Put first things lastThink why do today what I can do tomorrow. Put all of

the important things like homework and family after games and the internet.

Think win-win

If you can do it then everyone can!! Think that and you will persevere. Never think you or anyone else is better. Think that you are all equal.

Think win-loseAnything you do I do better. Think that you are the only

one that can win anything and when you do win think everyone else is inferior

Seek first to understand, then to be understood

Listen to other people thoroughly. Then tell your ideas. Never tune people out. Never talk the whole time. Help other people voice there opinions only if you understand them well.

Seek first to talk, then pretend to listenUse your mouth. Talk, talk and talk at any chance.

Then when you have to listen just nod your head and occasionally say hmm as if you were thinking. Always give your points FIRST.

Synergize Work well with other do to get more done. Let

everyone do there part to help. Work well do not yell or scream at others in the group. Let more people help because the more people the more work gets

done.

Don’t CooperateOther people are not like you so ignore them. Don’t

work with people they hold you back. Never use team work. Your better off by yourself. Do everything by yourself.

Sharpen the sawStay healthy. Get the right amount of sleep. Don’t over

exert yourself. Don’t be to busy and try to learn new things.

Wear yourself outBe very busy and never take time for yourself. Get

seldom sleep. Don’t ever learn. Avoid physical activity. Don’t do anything that inspires you.