7 ways to make your colleagues love you

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Yahoo!. Now with Friends. Discover news, videos, and much more based on what your friends are reading and watching. Publish your own activity and retain full control. To get started, first Login with Facebook Top 7 ways to make your co-workers love you RealBuzz – Tue, Apr 17, 2012 Even if you haven’t just started your job and just want to feel included in the office, it’s a tricky business making the correct impression. So how do you make your co-workers love you? Follow these simple steps – oh and try not to cause any arguments! How to be liked in the workplace Even if you haven’t just started your job and just want to feel included in the office, it’s a tricky business making the correct impression. So how do you make your co-workers love you? Follow these simple steps – oh and try not to cause any arguments! Learn the tea orders of your workmates Although this might seem simple and of no importance whatsoever, learning how your co-workers take their tea is a great way to get involved in the office environment. Ok, so let’s be reasonable, if your office is the size of a football pitch you could possibly side step the tea round, however in smaller offices it is the polite and socially correct thing to do. Not only does this look like you actually take notice of people but it is an easy ice breaker, it’s as simple as that. Smile in the workplace No one wants to acquire the nickname thunder face, and smiling is the most obvious signal that you are enjoying your work and the people around you. Smiling can convey a happy emotion; emotions are free and are easy to use. If you never smile the chances are your colleagues probably think that you don’t have a sense of humour, so smile away. Listen to your work colleagues If you don’t listen to anyone not only will you feel cut off from the work environment but eventually everyone will stop talking to you. If it’s someone’s birthday soon or they are going shopping at the weekend, just make a note of it. However small the task, go out of your way to ask how it went or simply ask did they have a nice time; people value the smaller things in life and this is one of them. Don’t be a workplace hermit If you are invited out by your co-workers always make an effort and go out with them. No one wants to be labelled the boring one, even if you only stay out for a short time you will always be appreciated for making the effort in the first place. If you are having a party and you don’t invite anyone from work but then upload pictures onto a social networking site, it may come across as though you dislike everyone, so put yourself out there and ask them. If everyone says no you know who not to invite next time! YAHOO! NEWS Page 1 of 2 Top 7 ways to make your co-workers love you - Yahoo! News Singapore 4/20/2012 http://sg.news.yahoo.com/top-7-ways-to-make-your-co-workers-love-you.html?page=all

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  • Yahoo!. Now with Friends.Discover news, videos, and much more based on what your friends

    are reading and watching. Publish your own activity and retain full

    control.

    To get started, first Login with Facebook

    Top 7 ways to make your co-workers love youRealBuzz Tue, Apr 17, 2012

    Even if you havent just started your job and just want to feel included in the office, its a tricky business

    making the correct impression. So how do you make your co-workers love you? Follow these simple steps

    oh and try not to cause any arguments!

    How to be liked in the workplace

    Even if you havent just started your job and just want to feel included in the office, its a tricky business making the correct

    impression. So how do you make your co-workers love you? Follow these simple steps oh and try not to cause any

    arguments!

    Learn the tea orders of your workmates

    Although this might seem simple and of no importance whatsoever, learning how your co-workers take their tea is a great

    way to get involved in the office environment. Ok, so lets be reasonable, if your office is the size of a football pitch you

    could possibly side step the tea round, however in smaller offices it is the polite and socially correct thing to do. Not only

    does this look like you actually take notice of people but it is an easy ice breaker, its as simple as that.

    Smile in the workplace

    No one wants to acquire the nickname thunder face, and smiling is the most obvious signal that you are enjoying your work

    and the people around you. Smiling can convey a happy emotion; emotions are free and are easy to use. If you never smile

    the chances are your colleagues probably think that you dont have a sense of humour, so smile away.

    Listen to your work colleagues

    If you dont listen to anyone not only will you feel cut off from the work environment but eventually everyone will stop

    talking to you. If its someones birthday soon or they are going shopping at the weekend, just make a note of it. However

    small the task, go out of your way to ask how it went or simply ask did they have a nice time; people value the smaller things

    in life and this is one of them.

    Dont be a workplace hermit

    If you are invited out by your co-workers always make an effort and go out with them. No one wants to be labelled the

    boring one, even if you only stay out for a short time you will always be appreciated for making the effort in the first place.

    If you are having a party and you dont invite anyone from work but then upload pictures onto a social networking site, it

    may come across as though you dislike everyone, so put yourself out there and ask them. If everyone says no you know who

    not to invite next time!

    YAHOO! NEWS

    Page 1 of 2Top 7 ways to make your co-workers love you - Yahoo! News Singapore

    4/20/2012http://sg.news.yahoo.com/top-7-ways-to-make-your-co-workers-love-you.html?page=all

  • Stick to your personality

    Dont try and be someone else; the chances are your alter ego will be eventually overridden by your true one anyway and

    youre more likely to be labelled with split personality disorder if anything. Being fake is not a good look and most people

    can see right through this, however if you are loud and obnoxious this is hard to cover up, but worth a try.

    Dont be the office flirt

    You dont want to be known as the one who chats to all the boys/girls; save this at least for the Christmas night out. You

    cant make another first impression so tone it down and adopt the mantra work is for working. If youre so desperate to talk

    to the opposite sex, meet up after work, but inside those walls is for office talk and office talk alone!

    Keep strong opinions to yourself

    You dont qualify for gossiping or heated arguments just yet so keep quiet. It is important to voice your opinion if the

    situation directly applies to you but being the gobby one already is not what were aiming for. It is crucial you stand up for

    yourself but dont get involved in unnecessary cat fights over trivial things. Just breathe and let it go; being cool and

    collected under the office stress and pressures is the strategy you need be able to adhere to.

    Read more on Realbuzz:

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    Boost your happiness at work

    Makeover your day with realbuzz

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    Page 2 of 2Top 7 ways to make your co-workers love you - Yahoo! News Singapore

    4/20/2012http://sg.news.yahoo.com/top-7-ways-to-make-your-co-workers-love-you.html?page=all