LOVE vs.

INFATUATION

The 8 Essential Truths

Love and Infatuation are two different,

far from each other, totally

opposite words.

As a result, they end up having the heaviest burdens of all, pre-marital

sex and pregnancy.

Young ones in the age of puberty

develop their own ideologies.

For dirt to be removed in your body you must

be scrubbed with rough stones and this is one way in molding you to become who

you should be.

The 8 Essential Truths

About Love and Infatuation

TRUTH 1:

Love rarely comes on suddenly. It is a slow,

gradual process that can only happen after the

rush of infatuation starts to ebb or be gone.

Signs and Symptoms

• Sweaty palms• Rapidly beating heart• Butterflies in the stomach• Your world becomes better and more beautiful in the presence of the object of affection.• Every touch is thrilling

• You remember every conversation (text,pm, fb posts, tweets and chats)• Your thoughts always revolve around Him• And more…

TRUTH 2:

Crushes are very real and NORMAL part of

life. In fact many of us have at least one or

more crushes at point of our lives.

TRUTH 3: • high in the chemical called DOPAMINE.• Warning: it will give you an illusion that it’s already true love.• chemical reaction is only an evolutionary response in meeting a potential mate.

TRUTH 4: • It is a calmer more mature feeling. • Love is still exciting, at times. • It can change day-to-day.• Love takes work.

• The feelings are not supported by the highs of hormones, but by a shared love and respect for each other.

• Love is what exists after infatuation fades.

• “True love begins when you fall out of love.”

TRUTH 5:

Relationships that start as infatuation can mature into love.

TRUTH 6:

True love can’t be measured by months because you can’t prove anything in just a small number

of days.

TRUTH 7:

You do things that you don’t want to do, things that you will get no pleasure from, because it is the fair thing to do. Love is about

compromise.

TRUTH 8: • Love allows two people to be

who they really are. • Arguments aren’t encouraged

but they happen and they will happen especially in times of stress.

• LOVE is accepting.

SUMMARY

As infatuation fades persons move into a situation where they are comfortable, even though they

problems they know exactly that they can depend on each other to provide the love and support

that they need.