a new paradigm is needed marriage is an ancient institution rich with traditions and customs
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
Marriage rate is decreasing
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
Marriage rate is decreasing
40% of adults believe marriage is obsolete
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
Marriage rate is decreasing
40% of adults believe marriage is obsolete
High divorce rate 40-50%
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
Marriage rate is decreasing
40% of adults believe marriage is obsolete
High divorce rate 40-50%
People equate marriage with loss of freedom, sacrificing excitement for security, high risk of divorce
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A New Paradigm is Needed Marriage is an ancient institution
rich with traditions and customs
Marriage rate is decreasing
40% of adults believe marriage is obsolete
High divorce rate 40-50%
People equate marriage with loss of freedom, sacrificing excitement for security, high risk of divorce
Paradox of marriage - desirable & old fashioned
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Beyond Happily Ever After “What you conceive and believe,
you can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
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Beyond Happily Ever After “What you conceive and believe,
you can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
Your dream is what you can currently conceive, but you can go far beyond that
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Beyond Happily Ever After “What you conceive and believe,
you can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
Your dream is what you can currently conceive, but you can go far beyond that
When you achieve your current dream of “happily ever after,” higher possibilities are revealed
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Beyond Happily Ever After “What you conceive and believe,
you can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
Your dream is what you can currently conceive, but you can go far beyond that
When you achieve your current dream of “happily ever after,” higher possibilities are revealed
Requires going outside your comfort zone. If it’s scary, you’re doing it right!
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Beyond Happily Ever After “What you conceive and believe, you
can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
Your dream is what you can currently conceive, but you can go far beyond that
When you achieve your current dream of “happily ever after,” higher possibilities are revealed
Requires going outside your comfort zone. If it’s scary, you’re doing it right!
What you see depends upon where you’re standing and where you’re looking
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the
usual or traditional
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the
usual or traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams:
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams:
Dreams that you are aware of
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams:
Dreams that you are aware of
Dreams that you are unaware of
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams:
Dreams that you are aware of
Dreams that you are unaware of
Dreams that evolve
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams:
Dreams that you are aware of
Dreams that you are unaware of
Dreams that evolve
The key to living beyond happily ever after is to recognize and accept that life is a journey, not a destination.
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What is a Radical Marriage? rad.i.cal (adjective): very different from the usual or
traditional
What would make you ecstatically, radically happy beyond your wildest dreams?
Three Kinds of Dreams: Dreams that you are aware of Dreams that you are unaware of Dreams that evolve
The key to living beyond happily ever after is to recognize and accept that life is a journey, not a destination.
A Radical Marriage requires continual effort, by both partners
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
Are you willing to take emotional risks?
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
Are you willing to take emotional risks?
Are you willing to overcome resistance?
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
Are you willing to take emotional risks?
Are you willing to overcome resistance?
Are you willing to experience a bit of fear?
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
Are you willing to take emotional risks?
Are you willing to overcome resistance?
Are you willing to experience a bit of fear?
Is your partner on board?
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Are You Ready forRadical Marriage?
Are you willing to embrace a “team” mindset?
Are you willing to take emotional risks?
Are you willing to overcome resistance?
Are you willing to experience a bit of fear?
Is your partner on board?Radical Marriage is for couples
with a good relationship who strongly believe that they are together for a reason, which is to
experience life to the fullest through their relationship
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
2. Radical Communication
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
2. Radical Communication
3. Radical Intimacy
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
2. Radical Communication
3. Radical Intimacy
4. Radical Romance
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
2. Radical Communication
3. Radical Intimacy
4. Radical Romance
5. Radical Sex
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What Does a Radical
Marriage Look Like?
Six Key Elements of a Radical Marriage:
1. Radical Commitment
2. Radical Communication
3. Radical Intimacy
4. Radical Romance
5. Radical Sex
6. Radical Living
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Radical Commitment Commitment is the glue
that makes marriage work
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Radical Commitment Commitment is the glue
that makes marriage work
Requires 100% investment, physically and emotionally, in attitude and behavior, with no exits
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Radical Commitment Commitment is the glue
that makes marriage work
Requires 100% investment, physically and emotionally, in attitude and behavior, with no exits
You prioritize and are committed to your partner’s happiness
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Radical Commitment Commitment is the glue
that makes marriage work
Requires 100% investment, physically and emotionally, in attitude and behavior, with no exits
You prioritize and are committed to your partner’s happiness
You take 100% responsibility for the relationship and your outcomes
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Five Promises of Radical Commitment
1. I promise to love you every day
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Five Promises of Radical Commitment
1. I promise to love you every day
2. I promise to choose you first
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Five Promises of Radical Commitment
1. I promise to love you every day
2. I promise to choose you first
3. I promise to take responsibility
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Five Promises of Radical Commitment
1. I promise to love you every day
2. I promise to choose you first
3. I promise to take responsibility
4. I promise to say “Yes”
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Five Promises of Radical Commitment
1. I promise to love you every day
2. I promise to choose you first
3. I promise to take responsibility
4. I promise to say “Yes”
5. I promise to be your hero
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Radical Communication Identify issues and
assert needs cleanly & positively
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Radical Communication Identify issues and
assert needs cleanly & positively
Tell your whole truth
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Radical Communication Identify issues and
assert needs cleanly & positively
Tell your whole truth
Accept differences
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Radical Communication Identify issues and
assert needs cleanly & positively
Tell your whole truth
Accept differences
Own judgments
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Radical Communication Identify issues and
assert needs cleanly & positively
Tell your whole truth
Accept differences
Own judgments
Focus on connection more than attachment
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Radical Communication Identify issues and assert
needs cleanly & positively
Tell your whole truth
Accept differences
Own judgments
Focus on connection more than attachment
Be willing to listen and be positively responsive
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want to go?
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want
to go?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, wants and needs, fears and secrets and fantasies and desires in a close emotional, physical and spiritual relationship
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want
to go?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, wants and needs, fears and secrets and fantasies and desires in a close emotional, physical and spiritual relationship
Requires trust, risk-taking, emotional maturity, self-confidence, self-knowledge, emotional safety
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want
to go?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, wants and needs, fears and secrets and fantasies and desires in a close emotional, physical and spiritual relationship
Requires trust, risk-taking, emotional maturity, self-confidence, self-knowledge, emotional safety
Ten Strategies for Creating Radical Intimacy
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want
to go?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, wants and needs, fears and secrets and fantasies and desires in a close emotional, physical and spiritual relationship
Requires trust, risk-taking, emotional maturity, self-confidence, self-knowledge, emotional safety
Ten Strategies for Creating Radical Intimacy
Strategy #4: Connection Rituals
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Radical IntimacyHow high, far, and deep do you want to
go?
Sharing your private thoughts, feelings, wants and needs, fears and secrets and fantasies and desires in a close emotional, physical and spiritual relationship
Requires trust, risk-taking, emotional maturity, self-confidence, self-knowledge, emotional safety
Ten Strategies for Creating Radical Intimacy Strategy #4: Connection Rituals
Strategy #8: Positive Response
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Radical RomanceEnergetically, creatively, and continuously express your love and woo your partner
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Radical Romance
Love is a feeling, an involuntary emotion, romance is an action, a conscious choice
Energetically, creatively, and continuously express your love and woo your partner
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Radical Romance
Love is a feeling, an involuntary emotion, romance is an action, a conscious choice
Relationships can fall into routines and need to be nurtured to keep passion alive
Energetically, creatively, and continuously express your love and woo your partner
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Radical Romance
Love is a feeling, an involuntary emotion, romance is an action, a conscious choice
Relationships can fall into routines and need to be nurtured to keep passion alive
Radical Marriage Retreat
Energetically, creatively, and continuously express your love and woo your partner
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Radical Romance
Love is a feeling, an involuntary emotion, romance is an action, a conscious choice
Relationships can fall into routines and need to be nurtured to keep passion alive
Strategy #1: Radical Marriage Retreat
Strategy #2: Radical Romance “One-Way” Dates
Energetically, creatively, and continuously express your love and woo your partner
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Radical Romance “One-Way” Dates
Type One: Create a romantic experience for your partner
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Radical Romance “One-Way” Dates
Type One: Create a romantic experience for your partner
Type Two: Your partner creates a romantic experience for you
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Radical Romance “One-Way” Dates
Type One: Create a romantic experience for your partner
Type Three: Create a romantic experience for yourself
Type Two: Your partner creates a romantic experience for you
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Radical Romance “One-Way” Dates
Type One: Create a romantic experience for your partner
Type Three: Create a romantic experience for yourself
Type Two: Your partner creates a romantic experience for you
Type Four: Your partner creates a romantic experience for their self
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Radical Sex
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Radical Sex Facts Married couples have
more and better sex
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Radical Sex Facts Married couples have
more and better sex
Sex gets better with age
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Radical Sex Facts Married couples have
more and better sex
Sex gets better with age
Desire and arousal are not correlated
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Radical Sex Facts Married couples have
more and better sex
Sex gets better with age
Desire and arousal are not correlated
Having sex increases interest in sex
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Radical Sex Facts Married couples have
more and better sex
Sex gets better with age
Desire and arousal are not correlated
Having sex increases interest in sex
Desired frequency higher satisfaction
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Radical Sex Benefits Lowers stress and blood
pressure
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Radical Sex Benefits Lowers stress and blood
pressure
Boosts immune system and burns calories
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Radical Sex Benefits Lowers stress and blood
pressure
Boosts immune system and burns calories
Promotes emotional closeness
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Radical Sex Benefits Lowers stress and blood
pressure
Boosts immune system and burns calories
Promotes emotional closeness
Promotes better sleep
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Radical Sex Benefits Lowers stress and blood
pressure
Boosts immune system and burns calories
Promotes emotional closeness
Promotes better sleep
Feels good!
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Radical Sex Strategies
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
Strategy #5: Structure Sex into Your Routine
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
Strategy #5: Structure Sex into Your Routine
Seven Strategies for “Radical” Sex
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
Strategy #5: Structure Sex into Your Routine
Seven Strategies for “Radical” Sex
Strategy #3: Share and explore all your fantasies and desires
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
Strategy #5: Structure Sex into Your Routine
Seven Strategies for “Radical” Sex
Strategy #3: Share and explore all your fantasies and desires
Strategy #4: Daily sex
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Radical Sex StrategiesSeven Strategies for
“Good” Sex
Strategy #3: Prioritize your Partner’s Fulfillment
Strategy #4: Take Responsibility for your Fulfillment
Strategy #5: Structure Sex into Your Routine
Seven Strategies for “Radical” Sex
Strategy #3: Share and explore all your fantasies and desires
Strategy #4: Daily sex
Strategy #5: Expand beyond traditional intercourse
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Radical Living You cannot be happy and
successful and fulfilled living within your comfort level
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Radical Living You cannot be happy and
successful and fulfilled living within your comfort level
Vision: You must first be able to see it to get it
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Radical Living You cannot be happy and
successful and fulfilled living within your comfort level
Vision: You must first be able to see it to get it
Handling fear - “Yes, Yes, Hell No!”
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Radical Living You cannot be happy and
successful and fulfilled living within your comfort level
Vision: You must first be able to see it to get it
Handling fear - “Yes, Yes, Hell No!”
The Platinum Rule
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Radical Living You cannot be happy and
successful and fulfilled living within your comfort level
Vision: You must first be able to see it to get it
Handling fear - “Yes, Yes, Hell No!”
The Platinum Rule
It doesn’t matter where you’ve been, what matters is where you’re going, and how you’ll get there
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Radical LivingFive Strategies for Radical Living
Strategy #1: Dream
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Radical LivingFive Strategies for Radical Living
Strategy #1: Dream
Strategy #2: Stay in the question
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Radical LivingFive Strategies for Radical Living
Strategy #1: Dream
Strategy #2: Stay in the question
Strategy #3: Get support
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Radical LivingFive Strategies for Radical Living
Strategy #1: Dream
Strategy #2: Stay in the question
Strategy #3: Get support
Strategy #4: Keep moving forward
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Radical LivingFive Strategies for Radical Living
Strategy #1: Dream
Strategy #2: Stay in the question
Strategy #3: Get support
Strategy #4: Keep moving forward
Strategy #5: Believe
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