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A Spiritually Fit Muslim &
Materialism Senior Program
Spiritual Fitness Camp 2015
What makes someone “rich”?
Understanding
Materialism
Wealth does not only refer to physical goods. Rather, it refers to everything one has been bestowed with:
knowledge, wisdom, medicine, etc. All of these
things are included in wealth. These should also be spent in way of Allah.
-Promised Messiah (as), Malfoozat, Vol. 1, pg. 20
What is the longest you have waited in line at a
Black Friday sale?
When was the last time you spared just a few
minutes to wake up early for Tahajjud or to read
nawafil?
How can time be wealth?
What does this expression mean?
“Keeping up with
the Joneses’”?
In a society where ‘keeping up with the Joneses’ (neighbors and friends) becomes an obsession, the obsession is largely abetted by advertisements of the latest models of this and
that. An introduction is provided to the general public of the luxurious lifestyle of the rich by displaying the latest design of sofas, luxurious chalets fitted with the most modern kitchen and bathroom appliances and gadgets, etc. People with less means available to buy all that they want are willy-nilly
turned to false plastic money to fulfill their desires. Obviously, this means that they buy far more than their earnings.
-Hazrat Mirza Tahir Ahmad (rh)
Staying Within Your Means
Can someone who only has lots of money be truly happy?
Can money buy happiness?
Let’s see what humans need
to be happy and healthy…
In 1943, Abraham Maslow came up with a
“hierarchy of needs”
The Bigger Picture
If we chase material happiness, we might lose
what really makes us happy: those who love us
(God, family, friends)
The basics in life (food, water, air, love, shelter, clothing) are what will
give us happiness, health, and belonging
Should someone who is from a wealthy family that has employees working under them have to do hands-on
tasks such as cleaning bathrooms and
sweeping/mopping when they come to the Masjid?
Does money make certain
people better or more
entitled than others?
Allah does not love people because they are rich/poor, black/white, male/female.
He loves those who are humble and righteous, and who surround themselves with the
company of righteous people.
Are those who are less wealthy than
your family worthy of your company?
On one occasion, the Holy Prophet (sa) was told that one of his companions, Sa’ad, who was wealthy, was boasting of his enterprise to others. When the
Prophet (sa) heard this, he said, “Let no man imagine that his wealth
or standing or power is the result merely of his own efforts or enterprise. That is not so, your power and your
position and your wealth are all earned through the poor.”
Tirmidhi
How do some people get rich and some people get poor?
What does this mean?
And spend out of that with which We have
provided you before death comes upon one of you and he says, ‘My Lord! if only Thou wouldst grant me respite for a little while,
then I would give alms and be among the
righteous.’
[63:11]
What does this all mean? Is having or spending money wrong?
Having wealth is not bad, but
humility and righteousness are more
important to God than material wealth
Once, the Promised Messiah (as) was sitting on the roof of Masjid Mubarik in Qadian, awaiting the arrival of some guests with whom he was to have a meal. One very poor Ahmadi friend, Mian Nizam
Din Sahib of Ludhiana, wearing ragged clothes, was also sitting there at a short distance. In the meantime, some wealthy, respected
guests arrived and sat near the Promised Messiah (as). To make room for each of them, Mian Nizam Din Sahib had to move further
back and he did so until he reached the place where shoes were kept. When the meal was brought, the Promised Messiah (as) who had observed the whole scene, took a plate of food and addressing
him, said, 'Come, Mian Nizam Din. You and I will eat together inside,' meaning his chamber next to the mosque. At that Mian
Nizam Din Sahib's joy knew no bounds, and those who had sat near the Promised Messiah (as), pushing Mian Nizam Din Sahib farther
away, were duly mortified.
Islam promotes
moderation, simplicity, balance
Know the difference
between what you NEED
and what you WANT
How We Spend Our Wealth
Can Bring us Closer to
or Further Away from Allah
What is the difference between
NEEDS and WANTS?
WANTS
Things we would like to have, but
can survive without
Examples?
Needs vs. Wants
NEEDS
Things we need to live and survive
Examples?
Think of the last 3 purchases you made. Write them down.
Activity
Beside each item, write
down if it was a WANT or a
NEED
Can You Survive Without It?
How many people have had McDonald’s or any other fast-food in the last
week?
How many people prefer brand name clothes and items over non-brand
name ones?
Can eating too much fast food or only buying brand names
make us materialistic?
Fast food is more expensive and
less healthy than homemade meals
Brand name items are the
same quality but higher priced
than most non-brand name items
Wasteful spending that harms our health and well-being, but also
spins the world out of balance
…HOW?
Let’s Do the Math:
The average American
spends $1,200 a year on fast
food (dailymail.co.uk)
How can YOU help
fix this imbalance?
1 billion people in the world
are overweight
1 billion people in the world
are chronically
hungry
The Answer: Moderation
How can we become
less materialistic?
5 Steps to Becoming Less Materialistic
How can we
become less
materialistic?
1. Be grateful for what you have
It was a long, hard winter. Saadi was very cold because his shoes were worn out and soaked with water. For the first time, he was sorry that his family was so poor. He thought how nice it would be if they had enough
money to buy a thick coat and some good shoes. One day, Saadi was returning from school with his bag in hand. He stopped before the
central mosque just as the Adhan for afternoon prayer was being called. Saadi liked to pray in the mosque, so he went into the courtyard and walked up to the fountain to perform his ablution. He sat at a fountain and took off his shoes. His socks were dirty and wet. Angrily, he threw one of his torn shoes to the ground. Then, he saw a man performing
ablution next to him. This man washed one leg and then stood up. Saadi noticed that the man had only one leg. Now he was embarrassed. He
had been worried about his shoes, but that man had only one leg. Maybe that man had enough money to buy shoes; but money couldn’t
buy him his health. Saadi began to pray to Allah and thanked Allah for his strong legs.
Story of Sheikh Saadi (ra)
2. Focus on having a comfortable afterlife with
Allah, rather than trying to find comfort here on earth
Once, the Holy Prophet (sa) was lying down on a hard mattress. When he got up, there were such deep marks on
his back that his companions asked him if they should provide him with a bed made of softer materials instead?
The Holy Prophet (sa) replied:
“I have no connection with this world; my relation with this world is only of a transitory kind like that of a rider who stops by a shady tree while traveling. He
rests for a short while in the shade and then takes off.” (Jami Tirmidhi)
How can we
become less
materialistic?
Think of 3 things of yours that you
don’t NEED and can live without
(clothes, money, books, gadgets, etc)
Donate them to charity so someone who
needs them more than you can benefit
from them
How can we
become less
materialistic?
3. Try to spend on NEEDS, rather than on WANTS
4. The basic key is to live a SIMPLE and MODERATE life
How can we
become less
materialistic?
“And those who, when they spend, are
neither extravagant nor niggardly
but moderate between the two…” [25:68]
How can we
become less
materialistic?
5. Remember, we have to impress Allah - not other people.
Chaudhry Zafarullah Khan sahib (ra) was a rich and famous Ahmadi Muslim. He was the first foreign minister of Pakistan, and was the President of the UN General Assembly and International Court of
Justice.
Out of his monthly income of thousands of Rupees (dollars), he would only keep a few hundred for himself. He would donate
everything else to the Jama’at, or to those less fortunate than him.
He was happy to live a simple life to help heal others’ suffering and make Allah happy.
On his deathbed, Alexander the Great told his generals: "After my death, when you put my body in the casket, let my arms hang over the edges with my palms wide open, so the public can see my empty hands while I am leaving the world." After he died, many dignitaries came to view the royal funeral and were very surprised to see his arms hanging over the edge of the casket with his
palms wide open. They asked questions about this unique scene. A wise man told them:
"O People, Alexander the Great is telling us that when he ruled the world, great treasures of gold, silver and wealth
came to be under his possession. Yet, indeed, he is leaving the world empty handed, as he entered it”.
Life is Too Short to Get Attached to the Material World; Let’s Become Attached to Allah
The End