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Reading Monthly Mee�ng, 108 North Sixth Street, Reading, PA - www.readingfriendsmee�ng.org
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that
you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we are not contending against flesh and
blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world rulers of this present dark-
ness, against the spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
- Ephesians 6:10-12. Text chosen by Rev. Al Sharpton for his eulogy for George Floyd, Houston, TX , 6/9/2020
If you plan to use the mee�nghouse in the coming
months, be sure to schedule it on the calendar in the
Jim Lamborn, clerk, House Commi�ee
Adap�ng Our Mee�ng to the Pandemic
Ten friends met via Zoom for Mee�ng for Worship
with A�en�on to Business on June 14 (Flag Day).
Janet Lamborn, clerk of mee�ng, asked us to consider a
query for worship sharing that addresses the divisions in
our mee�ng. Can we move forward with outreach plans
to invite or welcome new people to our mee�ng or
should our energies be focused on healing our commu-
nity?
Jim Morrissey recalled serving on a commi�ee many
years ago to consider whether or not the mee�ng
should accept same sex marriage. It was a slow, difficult
process. Jim said, “It takes �me to work through difficult
issues un�l we find an answer that everyone can live
with, maybe not embrace, but live with.”
Next Friends labored to set up a summer schedule for
the mee�ng, one that would keep everyone safe in a
pandemic but also honor our tradi�on of summer
mee�ng at Maiden Creek Mee�ng House. The following
summer schedule was adopted:
6th Street Mee�ng House will remain closed. A sign
will be posted so visitors will know why it is closed.
Zoom mee�ngs will con�nue at 10am, but with no
opening exercises. Janet will send out the link each Sat-
urday as we have been doing. She will open the mee�ng
but only stay for a few minutes. Zoom worshipers can
manage the closing and there will be �me allowed for
visi�ng.
Worship outdoors at Maiden Creek will begin on
June 21 (Father’s Day). Friends should bring their own
chair, wear a mask and prac�ce social distancing. A
sound system may be needed to help Friends hear mes-
sages. Jim Lamborn will research equipment choices.
Janet and Jim will consult with Friends to decide if a
sound system purchase is necessary.
The Maiden Creek Mee�ng House is being renovated
inside and out. No mee�ng can be held inside un�l it is
finished. Therefore, Janet will publish the weather fore-
cast with the Saturday zoom link.
Our Summer Mee�ng for Business will be a zoom
mee�ng on Friday, August 7 at 6:30pm. At that �me we
will decide if we will have a mee�ng picnic this year.
Nomina�ng commi�ee: Marie Ryan, clerk, reported
that three commi�ees are without clerks: Trustees,
Outreach and Peace and Social Order. The nomina�ng
commi�ee is short one person. Usual prac�ce is for the
commi�ees to choose their clerks. Marie will send out
emails to these commi�ees to encourage the process.
If no clerks are chosen, the nomina�ng commi�ee is
expected to name someone to be clerk and bring that
person’s name to the mee�ng for approval.
Roger Lawn observed that at the heart of this search
for clerks is dissension in the mee�ng. It is difficult to
heal a riC in the mee�ng when there is no face-to-face
discussion. He said ”The pillar of a mee�ng is communi-
ty. Dealing in love with each other is the most important
thing, Zoom makes that very difficult.”
Taylor Lamborn added that we can proceed with cau-
�on as there is no cri�cal need for the clerks at this �me.
However, the nomina�ng commi�ee needs the third
member. This will be on our agenda every month un�l
we have one.
Air quality at 6th Street: When asked, Marie Ryan said
that she did find that the air quality at 6th Street has
improved. Friends agreed that it is important to spend
whatever is necessary to keep the mee�nghouse free of
mold.
(con�nued on page two)
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Adap�ng to Pandemic (con�nued from page 1)
GiCs and Loans: Heather Ehrlich, clerk, reported that the
commi�ee has chosen to distribute funds early, already
budgeted for 2020 to chari�es working to help people
through the pandemic. They are Helping Harvest, $400, Vet-
erans Making a Difference, $250.00 and Opportunity House,
$175.00. Friends thought this was a good idea.
Outreach Commi�ee: Janet Lamborn reported that all are
welcome to a�end the zoom mee�ng on Tuesday, June 16
at 7pm. Let Janet know of your interest and she will send
you the zoom link.
The Friends General Conference Virtual Gathering “Sink
Down to the Seed Sown in the Heart” will be held June 28-
July 4, 2020. You can register to par�cipate in the en�re
week’s programming or just one or more aspects. This is a
good opportunity to experience this yearly event if you have
never a�ended a gathering in person. Register here.
- Bonnie Knutsen
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Correc�on: The mee�ng notes for April 2020 state
incorrectly that the Trustees have a project pending to paint
the metal fence in the front of the 6th Street Mee�ng
House. As the April minutes state, Trustees have a quote for
$4,000. “It is high due to the likelihood of it (the fence)
having lead paint. A tent would be needed to contain dust .
This will be revisited in the future.” bck
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Curious about Po'sville Cemetery? A website called
Find a Grave describes it as “ small and well maintained”
and “about the same as it was in 1905.” To see a picture or
read the names of the thirty or so Friends buried there, click
on h�ps://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/2440760/
friends-burying-ground.
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A Key Exchange: Trustees have decided to have new keys
made for the Reading Mee�ng House since compiling a list
has been very difficult.
Taylor and I have keys so PLEASE SEE one of us for your
new key. The locks will be changed in the future and we will
announce the date of this change at least a month ahead.
- Cys Sica
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RMM has been asked to provide lunch for a gathering of
the U-Turn youth, date not yet set. They are planning a
"gardening party" to clean up and plant behind the 5th
Street office. It will be their first �me together in person
since February. If you can help with lunch, please let me
know.
- Judy Ballinger
Congratula�ons to Henry Hughes who graduated
from Lewisburg Area High School in Lewisburg, PA on
May 20. Here he is pictured with his Dad, Tom
Hughes, his stepmom Rachael and his brother, Devin.
Tom reports “Only immediate family were allowed
to a�end. He walked across an empty stage save
some dignitaries in front of an empty auditorium save
the videographer and me, his brother, Rachael, his
mom, and stepdad. Then in another room he got his
picture taken and then we took more photos outside
the school. It only took like 10 minutes. Each family
went in one at a �me. The school will launch a video
with music and speeches and such at a later date.
Henry has plans to join the PA Na�onal Guard, but
that may not happen because of his anemia. If he
can't get in, he is going with Plan B which is taking
classes at HACC (Harrisburg Area Community College)
for Computer and Informa�on Sciences as he wants to
be a network engineer or work in networking at some
capacity. The Na�onal Guard would have given him
training in this capacity, which was the major impetus
behind him wan�ng to join. Right now he just had
more bloodwork done and he is awai�ng the results.
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Best wishes to Claudia Mahon as she makes plans for
the future. She writes, “I lived at my parents’ home
un�l my father passed. I bought this home in Penn
Township nine years ago with a ten year plan.
I’m downsizing or smart sizing because I don’t need
a 5BR house on 3 acres! It’s too much now that I’m in
my 70s. I am going to rent in Berks for the next year
or two and decide if I’ll move to one of those re�re-
ment states friends have relocated to.
I no longer have any family in the area, and my
daughter lives in Brooklyn. As she grew up in Bucks
County, she doesn’t have �es to Berks with her grand-
parents and the farm gone. I’ll s�ll be here, at least
for awhile. I’m so involved with things here, I can’t
see me leaving.”
Restoring Maiden Creek Mee�nghouse
For major nonemergency work, trustees endeav-
or to get three quotes, and speak with the bidders
on-site. Such was the case for the refurbishment
work needed at the Maiden Creek Mee�ng House.
Junge Construc�on was not the lowest bidder,
but he (Brandon Junge) clearly spent more �me
assessing the work, displayed an affec�on and
knowledge for the historical nature of the building,
and brought other sub-contractors in to assess
from their skill perspec�ve. A�ending trustees
were in agreement.
The work at the mee�nghouse started first with
a crew of volunteers who carefully moved all the
benches (some fragile) to the shed and the bench
cushions to the 6th Street Mee�ng House. Bran-
don’s crew started work Monday June 1st and will
remain un�l the project is finished.
The work is going well. Shu�ers and hinging
hardware have been removed, sanded, repaired
and repainted. The shu�ers look like new. Miss-
ing/non-conforming hardware has been replaced
with authen�c. Prior “patch” repairs are being
properly remediated. Several missing/broken roof
slates will be replaced. A mason has addressed
needed exterior stone areas.
Shortly, the interior walls and ceiling will be
cleaned and repaired. They will be painted in
Sherwin Williams “Alabaster white” (SW7008), a
color with a slight brown �nt which goes well with
the brown wainscot. The wainscot and fixed
benches will be leC as is.
In addi�on, the deteriora�ng sign in front of the
mee�nghouse is being replaced and enhanced by
a sign contractor.
We look forward to the Maiden Creek Mee�ng
House’s fresh look the end of June or early July!
Expenses will be covered by the generous Norton
Maiden Creek Mee�ng House Fund and several
mee�ng donors. Your contribu�ons to this project
are welcome.
-Ann Bodnyk
A volunteer work crew moved the benches to the shed.
Crew members Taylor Lamborn, Jim Lamborn, Tom Hughes,
Rich Whiffen and Peter Frank assured Ann, who drove the
truck and took these pictures, that they were smiling.
The contractors are being very careful that no sawdust or
paint hits the flooring.
Moving the benches allowed work to progress
during inclement weather and for tool /supply storage.
Maiden Creek Mee�ng House gets a makeover.
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Please join us for worship this summer at 10am via Zoom or at Maiden Creek Mee�ng House. We are an
unprogrammed mee�ng and a member of Caln Quarter and Philadelphia Yearly Mee�ng. Contact the mee�ng
at 610-372-5345. Learn about us at our web site, www.readingfriendsmee�ng.org.
The Reading Monthly Mee�ng Newsle�er is published at our website and in print 10 �mes a year by the
Communica�ons Commi�ee. Send news for the newsle�er to Bonnie Knutsen at [email protected]. Submit address,
telephone or Email changes to Carl Knutsen at webagent@readingfriendsmee�ng.org.
Clerk of Mee�ng: Janet Lamborn Mailing Address: PO Box 148
Treasurer: Ann Bodnyk Kutztown, PA 19530-0148
Clerk of Trustees: Pat Jackson
A Commi'ee Ponders Our Situa�on
Note: The following excerpts are taken from the Minutes of the
Worship and Ministry Commi$ee Mee�ng on May 28, 2020.
Janet Lamborn ini�ated the Zoom mee�ng for us before
she returned to work. Remaining in a�endance were Roger
Lawn, Judy Ballinger, Jim and Nan Morrissey, Bonnie
Knutsen and Chris Field, clerk. . . . . .
We then turned to a discussion of “spiritual troubles in
Reading Mee�ng”. Roger noted that there are a number of
divisions among us. The clerk of trustees has stepped
down because that role has interfered with her spiritual
life. There have been disagreements about the caretaker’s
co�age at Maiden Creek, concern about the unfinished
work of finding a collec�ve vision, and some conten�on
over the topic chosen for a banner that the Peace and So-
cial Order Commi�ee planned to hang in front of the
mee�nghouse. Blair Seitz shared an email message with
some Friends about his frustra�on over a lack of support
among mee�ng members for the many worthwhile ac�vi-
�es he has planned and facilitated.
ACer taking �me for silence, the following thoughts were
shared: We need to look at be�er ways of communica�ng
among various mee�ng groups so that surprises during
Mee�ng for Business might be avoided. Perhaps we need
to simplify mee�ng ac�vi�es since our numbers have dwin-
dled, to lighten the burden.
We need to be guided by Love and base our answers in
Love. We need to show more apprecia�on for what each
of us is doing, and avoid geVng caught up in the current
poli�cal climate of blaming and finger poin�ng.
We miss some of the Friends whom we looked to for
guidance and leadership in the past. All we have now is us,
and it is up to us now to carry on, but we also have “the
Teacher,” in the words of early Friends. We need to rely on
that to lead us through. Each of us needs to bring our
measure of the Light to improve the situa�on in our
mee�ng. We are not perfect, but we are a beloved com-
munity. What we have is us. Not just us, but us. Let us try
what Love can do!
RespecWully submi�ed,
Chris Field
Happy, Happy Birthday to Nan Morrissey who
celebrated her 90th birthday on June 3 at the High-
lands. She and husband Jim came to Reading Mee�ng
with their four children in 1964, moving here from
Boston, MA where they a�ended Wellesley Mee�ng.
Above, Nan and Jim enjoy the 2019 summer picnic.
Also celebra�ng summer birthdays are
Kerry Lee, 6/26, John Loomis, 6/27,
Carol Anne Donohoe, 6/28, George Fox, 7/1624,
Joe Morrissey, 7/16, Youyi Ma, 7/25 and
John Rivera, 8/6.
The Last Word
We never lose Hope. Remember it’s right there
between Faith and Charity.
Nancy Pelosi, 6.3.2020