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Page 1: Advising Introverts: Tips and Tricks for Advising the Quiet Onesapps.nacada.ksu.edu/conferences/ProposalsPHP/uploads/... · 2015-10-21 · Tips and Tricks: Effective Communication

Jody Cajigas

Courtney Cross

Annette Levario

ADVISING INTROVERTS: TIPS

AND TRICKS FOR ADVISING

THE QUIET ONES

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Objectives

Carl Jung’s Theory on Psychological Types

Extroverts vs. Introverts

Myths of Introverts

Advising Tips and Tricks

Free Trait Theory

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Introversion Extroversion

Perceiving Judging

Attitudes

Functions

Psychological Type Theory

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Inner World

Thoughts

Ideas

Outer World

People

Places

Things

Introversion Extroversion

Psyological Type Theory

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Talking to students can be hard…

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Talking to students can be hard….

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You Might Be an Introvert If….

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What is an Introvert?

Perceived to be:

Quiet

Introspective

Less sociable

Shy

Withdrawn

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What is an Extrovert?

Perceived to be:

Assertive

Outgoing

Sociable

People person

Concerned with external stimuli

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Introvert vs. Extrovert

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Myths of Introverts

Anti-social

Nervous

Depressed

Rude

Shy

Reclusive

Reserved

Reflective

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Famous Introverts

Gandhi

Michael Jordan

J. K. Rowling

Bill Gates

Abraham Lincoln

Albert Einstein

Rosa Parks

Audrey Hepburn

Eleanor Roosevelt

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Tips and Tricks: Stressors

Loud over-stimulating environments

Verbal communication

Large crowds

Pressured to make quick decisions

Privacy is disrupted

Negativity from others

Feel unprepared or rushed

Small talk

Long conversations

Public failure

Verbal arguments

Space is invaded

Lack of down time

Ideas met with criticism

Disorder

Lack of closure

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Tips and Tricks: Environment

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Tips and Tricks: Effective Communication

Writing

Reflect

Examples:

E-mail student prior to their

appointment

Send follow-up e-mail

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Tips and Tricks: Effective Communication

Student Info Sheet

Find common ground

Hometown, children, married

Review intake form

Provide outline of appointment

Use open-ended questions

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Tips and Tricks: Appointments

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Tips and Tricks: Appointments

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DISCUSSION

What other tips and tricks have

worked for you?

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Tips and Tricks: Effective Communication

“We are born and culturally endowed with

certain personality traits — introversion, for

example — but we can and do act out of

character in the service of “core personal

projects.” In other words, introverts are capable

of acting like extroverts for the sake of work

they consider important, people they love, or

anything they value highly.”

- Dr. Brian Little

Free Trait Theory

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Free Trait Theory

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DISCUSSION

What restorative niches do

you have?

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Contact Information

Jody [email protected]

Courtney Cross [email protected]

Anette Levario [email protected]