MEET ALANAMy expertise is in divorce, child custody legal battles and parallel parenting with

High Conflict Personalities (HCPs). I provide strategic direction, tools and techniques for interacting with HCPs

during the legal process.

SurThrive Tribe was started by a smart woman with a big heart. ME!

My name is Alana and I am a SurThriver. But this doesn’t define me, it empowers me and it can empower you too! My goal is to give you the

courage and confidence to successfully take on every stage of your divorce and rebuild your life.

Alana Krotzer

MY STORY

Alana Sharps

In 2019, I entered into a high-conflict child custody battle - an experience I was not properly prepared for. During this time, I felt that no-one understood what I was going through and I didn’t know who to turn to. Due to my lack of

lack of knowledge regarding the dynamics of the family court system, I made a lot of costly mistakes and then I unknowingly stepped into post-separation

abuse: legal, alienation allegations, isolation, counter-parenting, and harassment. It was awful! However, I have since come to learn that this is one of the most common tactics used by narcissists to regain control. They love to

manipulate the narrative, protect their self-image, and bully their way to winning.

The emotional rollercoaster of balancing a busy work schedule, raising happy, healthy children, and trying to

get through my child custody case was almost too much for me. Looking back, I realize I was not properly

prepared for a high-conflict child custody battle, and I wish I had someone dedicated to me – only me and my

goals. Someone to guide me through the process, be my strategic thought partner, and provide me with the very

necessary mental support and motivation.

I have since dedicated my life to educating others on:The dynamics and effects of narcissistic abuse.

Developing a strategic mindset and plan for battling high conflict divorce and child custody legal battles.

Parallel parenting in the mist of counter parenting and parental alienation claims.

Alana Sharps Krotzer

MY QUALIFICATIONSHigh-Conflict Divorce Coach

Bachelor of Science, Mechanical EngineeringLean Practitioner

AREAS OF EXPERTISEHigh-Conflict Divorces

High Conflict Child Custody BattlesAwareness of Narcissistic Personality Disorders

Co-Parenting StrategiesPost-Separation Abuse

MY ASSOCIATIONSAssociate Member, American Bar

Association of Family LawBoard Member, Time4Change of NC

Moderator, HER Foundation