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Having an Impact

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In the book

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A magical book

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the first of its kind

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was made

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was made

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to educate a duke’s daughter.

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But through a series of events

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was lost

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and found

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by Nell(a peasant girl)

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This book

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explains the world in stories

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and when Nell’s life becomes too bad

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it urges her to leave on her own

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And as Nell grows up...

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...the book...

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keeps teaching her...

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about the human body, ...

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... turing machines ...

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and other wondrous things.

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And so she became pretty badass.

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And even changed the course of history.

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What made Nell special?

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Was it the book?

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Many rich girls got the same book.

It turns out

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But they didn’t change the world

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But they didn’t change the world

(not even a little bit)

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So was Nell a genius to begin with?

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So was Nell a genius to begin with?

Maybe. But statistically, she likely wouldn’t have had an impact without the book.

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

The difference between Nell and the entitled rich girls

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

The difference between Nell and the entitled rich girls

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

The difference between Nell and the entitled rich girls

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Bad News

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You’re entitled and everyone tells you

you are smartSaturday, July 14, 12

You have more resources

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and a better network

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than most people who’ve had an impact in the past

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Tell someone they are smart &they perform worse.

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Praise and Approval are addictive

(like candy)

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You already know

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Grades Impactdon’t measure

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And Approval...

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...even from those that you respect

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Approval Impactdoesn’t measure

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In fact

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counterintuitively

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being persistent

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is often easier

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when faced with adversity

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and solitude.

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In fact, many successful writers

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chose not to talk about their work in progress

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Praise for unfinished

work =candy

Because

Which makes them less likely to do a good job

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But

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ImpactPersistence doesn’t measureeither

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You still need opportunity

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Nell had an impact, because she could and needed to.

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

Many don’t have an impact because they can’t

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

You ? ? ?

What about you?

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You

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Being here

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Have the Network

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And Resources

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To Have An Impact

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

You ? ? ?

What about you?

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

You ? ?

You have the opportunity

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

You ? ?

Your choice

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Your biggest risk

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is measuring candy

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instead of impact

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Turns you into...

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A dancing monkey

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The problem with being a dancing monkey is...

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Even when the audience claps, you’re still a dancing monkey.

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Opportunity Need for Approval Need for Impact

Nell

Rich Kids

Many ? ?

You ? ? {I realize that

knowing...Saturday, July 14, 12

...that you have opportunity

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creates a lot of pressure

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and expectations

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=

Measuring yourself by other people’s expectations is

measuring candySaturday, July 14, 12

Your only chance:

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Measure Impact

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What do I mean with that?

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Let me try to explainwith a story

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This is my Go board

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I’ve taught a lot of people to play Go

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And as I saw a lot of people learn Go...

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I started to notice patterns

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Some learned faster...

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than others.

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And after a while...

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A pattern emerged

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Those who learned faster...

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Focused more on playing...many many games

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And less on thinking...

(what are you thinking about?you just started learning! play more games!)

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They didn’t care about being original and were willing to

imitate better players(imitation is a very effective way to learn!)

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And they played many more games, because losing was ok

for them

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That’s a huge deal!

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OTOH I’ve played with people

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who no doubt were smart

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That thought about their FIRST MOVE in their FIRST

GAME for TWO MINUTES

That’s like a lot of the people I talk to, who want to figure out what to do with

their life, without doing anything. Iteration is key!

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Their hands were wet

and shaking

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That’s what happens when expectations...

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trick you into measuring candy

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True: Without opportunity no success

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And part of the reason you have opportunity is because people THINK you are smart

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Sure, play their game.

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Have them call you names like “prodigy” “genius” or “visionary”

if it helps you succeed.

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Use socially constructed reality as a tool

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But don’t start believing it yourself

even for a second

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The moment you stop learning or doing things because they

don’t LOOK smart...

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You’re just a dancing monkey

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In fact, I can tell you for sure:

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Somewhere out there...

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is Nell

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And she wasn’t invited here

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And no one thinks she’s smart

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And she doesn’t care if she LOOKS

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like a rhinoceros to you

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...or that you’re best pals with Peter Thiel

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She’ll work her ass off

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And she WILL have an impact

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Will you?

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How you know?do

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How you know?can

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Measure your impact

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Look at progress

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Not as a Dot

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But

. . . .

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As A Line

. . . .

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Never trust other people’s opinions

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Stop assuming that anyone else knows what they are

doing!

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That’s why measuring the candy doesn’t work!

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Learn about your own biases and

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study rationality in forms like

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Probability Theory

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Game TheorySaturday, July 14, 12

And why people cooperate at all

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Then realize that alldecisions that matter are

undecidableSaturday, July 14, 12

And train your intuition for solving such unsolvable

problems

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Maybe With Go

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Or Texas Hold’em

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And then

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Pick an ambitious goal

(you can always change it later)

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When your goal is to colonize mars...

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Or building the nervous system to awaken the slumbering giant and turn

humanity into the first superintelligence.

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Learning to build rocket engines

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studying graph theory

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Or building a company

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seem merely like minor distractions required to

accomplish a larger plan.

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That plan is for you - not for sharing with others.

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If you told others, and they didn’t think you are crazy, it’s

probably not ambitious enough!

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What it is important for, is that you move towards something, and don’t

just frantically jump between all interesting fields.

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Having and impact might even require years of studying or working

on someone else's project to learn.

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But that’s just what I think

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You can take an entirely different approach too

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I don’t know what I’m doing myself.

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We all look towards others to reassure us that what we’re

doing is right.

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But since everyone else does the same, there are no real

answers.

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I’m not trying to put you down or build you up - I just want to share my belief that I think impact matters more than

impressions.

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Unlike most of you I probably would have never made it into the 20-under-20 or even here

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When I was fourteen, my parents talked me out of going to a technical

school because they didn’t think I had what it takes

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I didn’t win any awards, nor scholarships. I dropped out of school

before it was cool. And I haven’t had a huge impact yet.

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I have had days where people thought I’m brilliant, and days where people thought I’m an idiot. And it’s all the

same. That’s just the candy.

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What matters to me is: Just like Nell, I work my ass off every day, I try to measure my progress, I try not to worry what people think about me too much, and one day I WILL have an impact.

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In Summary

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Measure yourself against your own standards

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Ignore Candy

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And you’ll have an impact!

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