john 4:31-38 31 meanwhile his disciples urged him, “rabbi, eat something.” 32 but he said to...

John 4:31-38John 4:31-38

31Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.”

32But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.”

31Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.”

32But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.”

John 4:31-38John 4:31-38

33Then his disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought him food?”

33Then his disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought him food?”

John 4:31-38John 4:31-38

34“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. 35Do you not say, ‘Four months more and then the harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.

34“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. 35Do you not say, ‘Four months more and then the harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.

John 4:31-38John 4:31-38

36Even now the reaper draws his wages, even now he harvests the crop for eternal life, so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together.

37Thus the saying ‘One sows and another reaps’ is true.

36Even now the reaper draws his wages, even now he harvests the crop for eternal life, so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together.

37Thus the saying ‘One sows and another reaps’ is true.

38I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor.”

38I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor.”

John 4:31-38John 4:31-38

““DefiningDefining““DefiningDefiningManhoodManhood

””ManhoodManhood

””

“The central problem for

every society is to define

appropriate roles for men.”

Anthropologist, Margaret Meade

“The central problem for

every society is to define

appropriate roles for men.”

Anthropologist, Margaret Meade

Proverbs 29:18Proverbs 29:18

Where there is no vision, the people

perish: but he that keeps the law, happy

is he. American King James Version

Where there is no vision, the people

perish: but he that keeps the law, happy

is he. American King James Version

I Corinthians 15:45-47I Corinthians 15:45-47

45So it is written: "The first man Adam became a living being"; the last Adam, a life-giving spirit. 46The spiritual did not come first, but the natural, and after that the spiritual. 47The first man was of the dust of the earth, the second man from heaven. (NIV)

45So it is written: "The first man Adam became a living being"; the last Adam, a life-giving spirit. 46The spiritual did not come first, but the natural, and after that the spiritual. 47The first man was of the dust of the earth, the second man from heaven. (NIV)

Two different ways of life.

Two different destinies.

Two different

masculinities.

Two different ways of life.

Two different destinies.

Two different

masculinities.

How does the Bible

define being male?

How does the Bible

define being male?

1. A real man rejects passivity.

1. A real man rejects passivity.

Testosterone90% of major crimes100% of rapes95% of burglaries91% of domestic violence

94% of drunk drivers

Testosterone90% of major crimes100% of rapes95% of burglaries91% of domestic violence

94% of drunk drivers

Genesis Serpent approaches

Eve

Genesis Serpent approaches

EveThe proposition (3:5)

“For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

The proposition (3:5)

“For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Genesis Serpent approaches

Eve

Genesis Serpent approaches

EveThe responsibility (2:16-17)

16The LORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely;

17but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.”

The responsibility (2:16-17) 16The LORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely;

17but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.”

God had given man three primary

responsibilities:

God had given man three primary

responsibilities:A will to obey

(don’t eat the fruit)A work to do

(cultivate the garden)A woman to love

(Eve)

A will to obey (don’t eat the fruit)

A work to do(cultivate the garden)

A woman to love(Eve)

What was Adam doing while Eve was being

propositioned?

What was Adam doing while Eve was being

propositioned?

Genesis 3:6When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.

Genesis 3:6When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.

Jesus was not

passive,

He was spiritually

and

socially engaged.

Jesus was not

passive,

He was spiritually

and

socially engaged.

2. A Real Man Accepts Responsibility.

2. A Real Man Accepts Responsibility.

Like Adam Jesus was also given three specific responsibilities:A will to obey

(His Father’s)A work to do

(Redeem the Lost)A woman to love

(The Church)

Like Adam Jesus was also given three specific responsibilities:A will to obey

(His Father’s)A work to do

(Redeem the Lost)A woman to love

(The Church)

Jesus accepted these enthusiastically!

Psalm 40:7-8

7Then I said, behold, I come; In the scroll of the book it is written of me. 8I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your Law is within my heart.

Jesus accepted these enthusiastically!

Psalm 40:7-8

7Then I said, behold, I come; In the scroll of the book it is written of me. 8I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your Law is within my heart.

John 4:34Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to accomplish His work.

John 4:34Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to accomplish His work.

His responsibilities

defined Him as a man,

they gave

Him vision & direction.

His responsibilities

defined Him as a man,

they gave

Him vision & direction.

3. A Real Man Leads Courageously.

3. A Real Man Leads Courageously.

I Corinthians 11:3But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.

Men were created to lead.

I Corinthians 11:3But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.

Men were created to lead.

Temptation: 40 daysTemptation: 40 days

Taken to a high mountain

Shown all the Kingdoms

“Do this, and you can

have

it all!”

Taken to a high mountain

Shown all the Kingdoms

“Do this, and you can

have

it all!”

Matthew 4:10

Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’”

Matthew 4:10

Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’”

He makes decisions not by feelings but truth.

He makes decisions not by feelings but truth.

He makes decisions not by feelings but truth.

He makes decisions not by feelings but truth.

He calls it stewardship which means He owns it all.He calls it stewardship which means He owns it all.

4. A Real Man Expects the Greater Reward.

4. A Real Man Expects the Greater Reward.

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy

before Him.

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy

before Him.Hebrews 12:1-2

1Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

Hebrews 12:1-2 1Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy

before Him.

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy

before Him.Hebrews 12:1-2

2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

Hebrews 12:1-2 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

John 10:10“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.

I Corinthians 2:9but just as it is written, “THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD, AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN, ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.”

John 10:10“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.

I Corinthians 2:9but just as it is written, “THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD, AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN, ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.”

I Timothy 4:8for bodily discipline is only of little profit, but godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.

I Timothy 6:6But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.

I Timothy 4:8for bodily discipline is only of little profit, but godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.

I Timothy 6:6But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.

What to expect:What to expect:

Honorable name.

Respect & admiration of wife.

Well adjusted respectful children.

Respect of community.

Blessings.

Growing satisfaction with life.

Honorable name.

Respect & admiration of wife.

Well adjusted respectful children.

Respect of community.

Blessings.

Growing satisfaction with life.