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18 Rules For A18 Rules For A
Successful LifeSuccessful Life
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TIPS TOTIPS TODEVELOP GOODDEVELOP GOOD
INTERPERSONAINTERPERSONAL SKILLSL SKILLS
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We deal with people and notWe deal with people and notmachines!!!machines!!!
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Why InterpersonalWhy Interpersonalskills?skills?
To improve
elationships
ood Work environment
"eadership skills #rod$ctivity
%$ccess
&o$ are liked 'y others
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%(I")%(I")
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BE APPRECIATIVEBE APPRECIATIVE
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PAY ATTENTION TOPAY ATTENTION TOOTHERSOTHERS
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PRACTICE ACTIVEPRACTICE ACTIVELISTENINGLISTENING
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BRING PEOPLEBRING PEOPLETOGETHERTOGETHER
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RESOLVE CONFLICTSRESOLVE CONFLICTSAMICABLYAMICABLY
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COMMUNICATE CLEARLYCOMMUNICATE CLEARLY
S S O
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HAVE A SENSE OFHAVE A SENSE OFHUMOURHUMOUR
SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE
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SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDESEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE-EMPATHY-EMPATHY
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DONT COMPLAINDONT COMPLAIN
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Winners vsWinners vsLsersLsersT !n"ers#$n" #%$#T !n"ers#$n" #%$#
in"ivi"!$&s '$n 'n#r&in"ivi"!$&s '$n 'n#r%eir $##i#!"es $n"#%eir $##i#!"es $n"
$'#ins () '%sin* #%eir$'#ins () '%sin* #%eir
se&+-#$&, #%!*%#s.se&+-#$&, #%!*%#s.
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O(/e'#ive0O(/e'#ive0
T i"en#i+) %1 ne*$#ive#%!*%#s &e$" # #%e &sers2si#in3
T i"en#i+) %1 2si#ive #%!*%#&e$" # #%e 1inners 2si#in3
T "i++eren#i$#e (e#1een1inners $n" &sers '%i'es3
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)vent * esponse +)vent * esponse +What yo$ ,etWhat yo$ ,et
1- What yo$ ,et. what happens to yo$ is a res$lto actions yo$ take-
2- &o$r actions are a res$lt o yo$r eelin,s orattit$des-
- &o$r eelin,s or attit$des are a res$lt o yo$rvoca'$lary. the words yo$ $se orally landsilently seltalk3-
4- What voca'$lary yo$ $se is a choice yo$make
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Winners vs LsersWinners vs Lsers
44S$)in* #%$# 1inners '%seS$)in* #%$# 1inners '%se2si#ive #%!*%#s $n" se&+-#$&,52si#ive #%!*%#s $n" se&+-#$&,5
"es n# &e# !s ,n1"es n# &e# !s ,n1 HOWHOW#%e) "#%e) "
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Winners "Winners " 77#%in*s0#%in*s0
Firs#5 #%e) re'*ni8e #%$# ever) si#!$#in%$s $ 2si#ive $n" ne*$#ive $s2e'#3
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Winners vs LsersWinners vs Lsers
Kn1in* #%se #%ree s#e2s5 %1 ")! #%in, &sers en" !2 in $ ne*$#ive
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)vent * &o$r esponse +)vent * &o$r esponse +What yo$ ,et eample 3What yo$ ,et eample 3
L You and a friend Negative thoughts
O plan to go to the -nothing ever turnsS movie on Fri. out right for me.
E -he must not like
R Fri afternoon the me very much.
friend calls and -he proaly found
says they aren!t someone else he
going. "anted to e "ith
to do something.
-if # can!t go to the movie tonight #
don!t "ant to do
anything.
Feelings
-ummed out
-negative aout self -othered$ irritated
Actions
-sit around the house -have a ad time
and complain -are in a ad mood
-not find something -have a oring eve
else fun to do -turned control of
your life over to
someone else
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)vent * &o$r esonse +)vent * &o$r esonse +What yo$ ,et eample 3What yo$ ,et eample 3
%ositive &houghts Results'
( -sometimes plans -have a good time
# change -are in a good mood
N -there are lots of -have a nice eve
N other things # can -took control of
E do this eve your life
R -there are other people
# can e "ith todo fun stuff
Feelings
-accepting
-positive aout self
-content
-eager aout finding a ne" activity
Actions
-find something else to do
-find someone else to do something
-en)oy your o"n company
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)vent * &o$r esonse +)vent * &o$r esonse +What yo$ ,et eample 63What yo$ ,et eample 63
Negative &houghts FeelingsL Your divorced - # "ant my real mom -angry
O %arent gets * dad to e together -frustrated
S remarried - this "ill never -hurt
E "ork out -resentful
R You no" live in - #!ll e left out -left out
a ne" family - # am not going -neglected
"+ a stepparent to like this ne" -unhappy
* steprothers family
*stepsisters
Actions
-"ithdra" from ne" family
-not cooperative "+ ne" family
-not friendly to"ard ne" family memers-get in a lot of troule at home
-live in a family "ith a lot of strife and stress
-are preoccupied "+ negative thoughts aout your family situation * that
drains your energy
-don!t feel goodaout yourself * that keeps you from getting on "ith
your life
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)vent * &o$r esonse +)vent * &o$r esonse +What yo$ ,et eample 63What yo$ ,et eample 63
%ositive &houghts Results'( -# understand my - are not al"ays in troule
# real parents made - have an easier life at home
N a choice not to live - live in a family that
N together anymore gets along etter *
E -# "onder ho" "e can there is less fighting
R all "ork together - have positive thoughts
-# don!t kno" this ne" aout your family situation
family very "ell so you have more energy* can focus that energy
in "ays that "ill help you
Feelings - feel good aout yourself
-acceptance * that allo"s you to get on
-calm "ith your life
-open-minded
-content
-cheerful
-positive
Actions
-participate in ne" family
-cooperative "ith ne" family
-friendly to"ard ne" family memers
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#roessor- 7-8I9:ept o );)- $r$ 8anakInstit$tions Technical ;amp$sI'rahimpatnam. 9ydera'ad-:ynamic "eader.%ot %kills Trainer and
(aster (otivator-
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WELCOME to SAMETIWELCOME to SAMETI
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WELCOME to SAMETIWELCOME to SAMETI
EMPLOYEESEMPLOYEES
Professor. K.NAGAIAH:ept-o );)- $r$ 8anak Instit$tions Technical ;amp$s9ydera'ad-
:ynamic "eader. %ot %kills Trainer and (aster (otivator-
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