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TPEIEMOCIONÁLNA INTELIGENCIA PRE RODIČOV
Porovnávacia štúdia o rodičovských zručnostiach potrebných na rozvoj
emocionálnej inteligencie
Prezentuje Marcela Maslová
First Transnational Working Group, Bratislava, September 19 – 20, 2013
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Ciele výskumu
Identifikovať a zhodnotiť rodičovské zručnosti potrebné na rozvoj emocionálnej inteligencie ich detí
Analyzovať tréningové potreby rodičov, ktorí chcú u svojich detí rozvíjať emocionálnu inteligenciu
Pochopiť špecifickú charakteristiku rodičov na základe miestnych tradícií a rozličných kultúr
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Metodológia výskumu
Kvantitatívny výskum Založený na dotazníkovej metóde based on a
questionnaire method - the respondents filled in the questionnaire with the-paper-and-pencil method
The qualitative research consisted of 3 focus group interviews, each focus
group including 10 parents (in total 150 people surveyed in 15 groups).
one of the experts played the role of a mediator, while the other analysed the data received from the focus group
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Quantitative analysis - the sample
Partner Male Female Total
Ro 8 14 22
PL 3 15 18
DK 6 12 18
SK 3 17 20
ES 9 11 20
Total 29 69 98
21
69
6
Age
20-3030-4040-50
2
20
76
Education
Primary school
Secondary school
20
40
17
30
22
No of children
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
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Quantitative analysis - the sample
Have you ever participate in parental skills training? Romania and Poland – all negative answers Spain and Slovakia groups - 2 person
1 in Spain –Parents Group at School, kindergarten psychologist, at school and "Centros de Aoyo a la Familia" (Family Support Centres),
1 in Slovakia – Montessori Pedagogy (To respect and be respected), Parents Skills (Monika Stelíková).
Denmark - all positive answers (training/guidance according to the Danish system described in the Danish National State of the Art report - both the visits of “sundhedsplejerske” and participation in Mothers and Fathers groups).
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 7. Which kind of competences or skills are the most important to be a good parent?
responsibility
patience
empathy
caregiving
ability to respect the autonomy and dignity of the child
active listening
good communication
openness
forbearance
decisiveness
tenderness
ability to motivation of the child
0
0
0
0
3
7
0
2
5
1
2
1
0
1
3
2
8
6
0
7
8
6
6
14
12
16
12
14
15
10
9
17
21
19
12
12
18
28
20
28
21
33
28
28
22
36
19
21
58
50
52
51
45
39
57
37
35
26
56
48
1
1
1
1
2
1
1
1
2
2
1
1
ALL1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Results - Question 7. Which kind of competences or skills are the most important to be good a parent?
Intergroup big differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
0
0
0
0
3
3
0
1
0
0
7
8
1
4
0
1
9
15
7
6
0
6
2
21
11
8
18
8
0
45
0
1
0
0
1
2
ability to respect the autonomy and dignity of the child 1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 7. Which kind of competences or skills are the most important to be a good parent?
Intergroup small differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
3
3
2
0
1
9
5
4
4
7
8
28
12
13
12
8
57
0
0
0
0
1
1
good communication1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 7. Which kind of competences or skills are the most important to be a good parent?
Intergroup differences – „empathy” example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
3
3
3
3
0
0
6
12
4
6
0
3
7
20
12
10
18
7
5
52
0
0
0
0
1
1
empathy 1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 8. Do you think that this kind of competences and skills are
teachable?
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
17
18
12
16
16
79
1
2
6
2
5
16
yes no
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 9. Do you agree that in the package of good parental skills
should appear ability to deal with emotions?
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
20
18
17
18
21
94
0
2
1
0
0
3
yes no
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 10. What kind of competences (skills) you should improve as a parent to teach
your children how to deal with emotions?
Awareness and acceptation of own emotions
Ability to communicate feelings in a safe way for you and for your child
Ability of confrontation with others
Openness
Empathy
Ability of problem solving
Ability to resolve conflict and prevent it
Ability to set boundaries
Ability to express opinions and emotions
Ability to be assertive
Ability to deal with stress
Ability to communicate with child
Ability to recognize child’s emotions
Peer learning
6
1
7
10
12
1
6
5
6
5
2
6
3
11
11
10
12
10
13
17
9
13
11
12
9
10
10
13
13
21
18
21
17
17
18
17
18
17
18
12
10
11
18
19
24
25
13
23
19
22
25
22
21
19
27
19
43
34
30
23
32
30
41
37
29
33
42
44
43
38
1
1
2
2
2
0
1
0
3
1
1
1
1
0
ALL1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 10. What kind of competences (skills) you should improve as a parent to teach
your children how to deal with emotions?
Intergroup big differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
1
0
0
0
10
11
4
2
0
3
4
13
1
6
0
1
3
11
8
2
1
6
2
19
6
8
17
4
3
38
0
0
0
0
0
0
Peer learning1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 10. What kind of competences (skills) you should improve as a parent to teach
your children how to deal with emotions?
Intergroup small differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
2
1
0
0
3
6
5
2
0
1
3
11
3
4
3
4
4
18
3
6
4
5
7
25
6
4
11
3
5
29
0
3
0
0
0
3
Ability to express opinions and emotions 1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 10. What kind of competences (skills) you should improve as a parent to teach your
children how to deal with emotions?
Intergroup differences – „empathy” example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
4
3
0
1
4
12
2
5
0
1
5
13
6
4
0
1
6
17
2
2
0
5
4
13
4
4
18
3
3
32
0
2
0
0
0
2
Empathy1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 11. In what way you are learn in the most effective way? What kind of sources are
you using to improve your knowledge and skills?
Workshops with psychologist
Group works with trainer and parents with children
Sources: books, websites, paper articles, brochures ect
E-learning courses or courses with on-line elements
6
14
2
13
22
11
12
17
27
13
17
20
16
25
20
18
22
30
47
24
1
1
0
1
ALL1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 11. In what way you are learn in the most effective way? What kind of sources are
you using to improve your knowledge and skills?
Intergroup big differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
2
4
0
0
8
14
1
5
0
0
5
11
5
3
0
0
5
13
2
5
3
12
3
25
9
2
15
3
1
30
0
1
0
0
0
1
Group works with trainer and parents with children1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 11. In what way you are learn in the most effective way? What kind of sources are
you using to improve your knowledge and skills?
Intergroup small differences–example
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
1
0
0
0
1
2
7
2
0
2
1
12
4
3
0
6
4
17
3
7
3
4
3
20
5
8
15
6
13
47
0
0
0
0
0
0
Sources: books, websites, paper articles, brochures ect1 2 3 4 5 No resp.
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Quantitative analysis results - Question 12. Will you be interested in participation in training how to teach
emotional intelligence to your child?
ES
SK
DK
PL
RO
All
6
11
9
10
22
58
14
9
9
8
0
40
yes no
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A summary of quantitative analyses
The preferences and opinions of respondents from partner countries are highly diverse, but:
Over 60% of the respondents assess all parental skills highly, rating them as 4 and 5 The highest ratings were given to such competences as good communication with
the child and responsibility A small percentage of the respondents believe that such skills as active listening or
forbearance are not important in the upbringing process Skills which, according to the respondents, are most worthy of development include
the ability to recognise the child’s emotions (75% of 4 and 5 ratings) About 12% of the respondents think that they do not need to develop such
competences as empathy and peer learning in order to cope with parental tasks 70% of the respondents prefer traditional forms of learning, including the access to
such sources as books, and slightly less than 50% of the respondents is willing to take part in e-learning
Most respondents think that parental skills can be taught during training and about 50% of them declared that they could take part in it
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Qualitative analysis - the sample
15 group meetings Each meeting included 10 people 150 mothers and fathers took part in the interviews. Romania: Most of the parents of children aged 0-3 and 3-6 belong to the group age 25-35 (5 of the parents of children aged 3-6 belong to the group age 35-45). All
parents of children aged 7-9 belong to the group age 35-45. 68% of parents are university graduates, while the rest (32%) are high school graduates. 84% of the parents participating in the focus groups were -mothers. 81% of the parents are currently employed, while the rest (19%) are unemployed. The professional areas include: banking, teaching, sales, management, health (nursing), and engineering, support staff; 13% of the parents experienced divorce and are raising their children in shared custody with their ex spouses. 35% of the parents come from vulnerable communities (low income and/or unemployment in the family resulting in poverty; Roma parents; health difficulties). 12 parents have children aged 3-6. 10 parents have children aged 0-3. 9 parents have children aged 7-9. 45% of the parents have only 1 child; 45% of the parents have 2 children; 10% of the parents have 3 children;
Poland: Most -participants have employment; they are well educated (higher education); the number of children: from 1 to 3. The majority of parents work in
kindergartens and nurseries. Denmark: There were 18 females and 10 males. There were 16 persons between 20 and 30, 10 persons were between 30 and 40, and 2 persons were over 40. There
were 6 persons with only secondary education; the others were with education higher than secondary school. 3 were studying, 4 were unemployed and 21 were working (in different sectors). 16 persons (of these 6 couples) had one child, 12 persons (of these 4 couples) had 2 children. In total, the parents had 26 children: 16 of them between 3 and 6 years old and 10 of them between 0 and 3 years old.
Slovakia: The 3 focus groups were attended by 26 mothers and 4 fathers. The majority of mothers are on maternity leave (some are working), and fathers are
working (2 are employed, two have their own business), of the age 25-40, from the capital Bratislava, Dolny Kubin (a town with the population of 20,000), and Chlebnice (a village with a population of 2,000). The education of parents is both university and secondary. The parents have two or three children, at the age from 6 months to 18. Two focus group interviews were held in kindergartens (Bratislava and Dolny Kubin), and one in a private house (Chlebnice).
Spain: Almost all parents had higher education degrees, the majority had a job and a minority were unemployed. 7 parents had children at the age between 0-3
years, 8 parents had children aged 4-6 years and the 7 remaining parents had children aged 7-9 years. The type of occupation varied from administrative to managerial level. All parents were 30-45 years old.
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Selected conclusions and quotations
Romania “I was sure that after I give birth I will know what to do with my child, but I was so
wrong. The older she gets, the harder it is. I often don’t know what to do or what to say around her.”
Poland “The key to good parenthood is self-awareness.”Denmark “Emotions are the basic in our interaction with the child. It is essential that the
mother/father can feel WITH the child – but NOT LIKE the child”Slovakia “No, nobody teaches emotional intelligence, we can deal with it only intuitively.”SpainThe results of the focus groups showed that parents do not feel ready to teach their
children emotional intelligence: discussions showed that the majority fear that they are not able to deal with frustration and stress, they overreact, they do not listen or understand their children enough, and the pressure and a sense of guilt towards their children cannot be hidden.
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Final conclusions
The majority of parents have no direct experience in parental skills training Parents expressed interest in participation in a training aimed at teaching
children emotional intelligence Some of parents spoke of the negative impact of intense emotions and not being
able to deal with them in their personal and professional life Most parents talked about dealing with the child’s anger, frustration and fear as
one of the most difficult parenting tasks Parents listed the following skills as most important for dealing with emotions:
anger and fear management loss management recognising and understanding the child’s emotions empathy and communication
Talking to a professional would be the ideal way of improving parenting patterns
Lack of time and financial resources might encourage parents to use online resources for parental skills improvement
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