an hour with the mahatma
TRANSCRIPT
Psychiatry……..
……. cannot be free of Values
•Self-determination, dignity, happiness and well-being will remain the ultimate goal
The extra humanHealth
-growth
Expansion
Fittedness
flow
Illness
Contraction
Stagnation
Misfittedness (temp. or longlasting)
What can be…….• An unconscious tool subject to Paradigms set by others (traditionalist)
Or
A self conscious , self directed entity(a bit of rebel!!)
What cannot be….
A reluctant psychiatrist
A preacher and not a healer
The neo Hindustan
‘Adaptational crisis’
‘External locus of control’
Contemporary IndiaRisk of forced homogenization
Is being Good and successful exclusive?
Need vs. greed //// the last man………..
Attention deficit….
Honesty , truth ,sharing , sacrifice, social concern --Are they mythical words?
We inhabit a common space and time
Which way are we headed?
KindnessGenerosityFor all or for our ownCompassion Empathy giving a little bit—space ,time, edge , Lose a bit
Few essentials…..Empathy
Tolerating ambiguity
Genuine concern
Innovative
Knowledge and skill
Beyond diagnosis
You are caught in interpersonal problem in your life and are upset. And to top it the first session is a couple who fight and blame each other in front of you. ----your response
essentialstherapeutic
• Alliance
• Engagement
• Transference
• Authenticity
• Resolution
• Directive
• facilitative
Extra therapeutic
• Compassion
• Empathy
• Love
• Breaking the limit
• Genuine
• Mirror or vessel
Is the anxiety cultural?
POSTCOLONIAL---AND POST LIBERAL
• Western--• Logical, rational, • Cause- effect• Linear history
• Eastern--
• Experiential • cyclical• Intuitive
• Whether man can respond to an example or lesson from another time frame?
• If so ,than moral issues can be discussed separated from context.
toolsCorporate style Vs Indian style
Narrative ,, the story and its wisdom Biography and inherent process
WHY GANDHI?• HISTORY vs. MYTH
• TEMPORAL PROXIMITY
• COULD HARMONIZE LIFE AS a WHOLE
• OPEN BOOK in the heat and dust of life.
HIS PREMISE…
• Above all HUMAN CONCERN…..till the last man ---Truth is GOD
Honesty
Truth and accountability
Persistence Turning loss to opportunity
AHIMSA
Dispossession
FEARLESSNESS
• Till the last man
• BEYOND ONESELF
• GIVING RATHER THAN TAKING……….
• Karma - action - God in details.
• Delayed gratification• Dignity of labor• Self respect• Waiting for the turn• Fear of death – false security— material good• Fearlessness• Faith and focus
• A father and son come to the Psychiatrist and want him to resolve their conflict.
• The son wants to pursue academics and father wants him to join family business..
• How would you handle?•
cognitive emotion-- Empathy
• Emotional contagion• Emotional accuracy• Perspective• Emotional regulation• Concern for the other
Risky skill…• Fine balance between • inner focus and self reflection(risk of self absorption) & Focussing too much on the other (risk of
losing your own thought)Avoiding self interest……Gandhi balanced the two….
Master of Empathy• Man is more important than principle
• Truth is experience and not a creed
• True empathy is the source of Ahimsa
• Minimizing ego and desires
• Harmonizing within prevents external conflict
LOVE
• Simplicity of language and life
• Making Gods out of clay
• Reconciliation
• ‘Inner voice’ or Conscience