believe in yourself
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BELIEVE IN YOURSELFSetting the stage for your great comeback
Presented by Tim Salaver, MBA, PMP, CSSMBB
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF – THE WIZ
If you believeWithin your heart you'll knowThat no one can changeThe path that you must go
Believe there's a reason to beBelieve you can make time stand stillYou know from the moment you tryIf you believeI know you will
Believe what you feelAnd know you're right, becauseThe time will come aroundWhen you say it's yours
Believe in yourself, right from the startYou'll have brainsYou'll have a heartYou'll have courageTo last your whole life through
MAKE THE MOST OF YOURSELF, FOR THAT IS ALL THERE IS OF YOU. ~RALPH WALDO EMERSON
You have one chance to make an impression.
There is no dress rehearsal, so prepare for your performance
Learn to market YOU The difference between you and a
celebrity is you are the agent, manager, public relations, and limo driver
OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINION OF YOU DOES NOT HAVE TO BECOME YOUR REALITY. ~LES BROWN
Don’t let others judge you
Don’t believe the hype coming from friends
You are greater than you think you are
Children will be humbling, so don’t listen to your three-year-old
WHAT A MAN THINKS OF HIMSELF, THAT IT IS WHICH DETERMINES, OR RATHER INDICATES HIS FATE. ~HENRY DAVID THOREAU
The messages you tell yourself need to be affirming and positive
If you believe you’re a failure, you will fail
If you believe you’re a quitter, you will quit
If you believe you’re a winner, you will win
A PERSON CAN GROW ONLY AS MUCH AS HIS HORIZON ALLOWS. ~JOHN POWELL
How many people have you met who have never left the state…
…the country…their neighborhood…their own circumstancesDo you have a bucket list?Develop an outlet…find a sport,
commit to helping others, lighten up, and laugh more often
IF YOU MUST LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF, IT IS AT LEAST AS FAIR TO LOVE YOURSELF AS YOUR NEIGHBOR. ~NICHOLAS DE CHAMFORT
Sometimes we treat others better than we treat ourselves
It is the darndest thing when we compliment others, but do you compliment yourself
You need to experience the feelings that you have for your spouse, loved one, family, from your own perspective.
How well do you accept a compliment
PAY NO ATTENTION TO WHAT THE CRITICS SAY. A STATUE HAS NEVER BEEN ERECTED IN HONOR OF A CRITIC. ~JEAN SIBELIUS
People can be critical and disbelieving of you
We learn to say NO when we haven’t even tried
Greatness knows no boundsIf you must be critical, do so about the act not the person
NOTHING SPLENDID HAS EVER BEEN ACHIEVED EXCEPT BY THOSE WHO DARED BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING INSIDE OF THEM WAS SUPERIOR TO CIRCUMSTANCE. ~BRUCE BARTON
What is your circumstance?
What Splendid and Superior activity have you created from that circumstance?
Do you have an earnest acceptance of life’s pains and promises
LESSON IN KIND
One can never give enough hugs, say enough "I love you's,"
and send enough "I miss you's."
Be sure to acknowledge the positive in people…
Praise it forward!!
BUILDING CHARACTERComes from within
INSPIRATION
The job market is filled with millions of people; what will inspire you to rise above the din and be noticed?
Join a business-related social network; use LinkedIn
Recommend first; Invite praise
Get a recommendation from 10% of your contacts
Happiness only real when shared
MOTIVATION
Find the drivers that make you kick it up a gear or two
Develop a keen sense of what you want to accomplish and go for it
Find the carrot Listen to the music
in your life Tell the story of your
life
DESIRE
What do you want most out of life
What seems to be missing
Make it so, number one
Don’t we all want to be the very best
Be better than your best
PASSION
Do that which you care about most
What is your reason for living
If you channel all your energy into the things you love the most can you imagine what you can accomplish
It is what makes you human, animals have instinct
CONFIDENCE
Why are people afraid?
Inspiration +Motivation +Desire +Passion =Confidence
It’s contagious You will feel so very
different about yourself
LESSON IN OPENING UP
Stand up, greet, and introduce yourself to
THREE people
SUMMARY
You have a choiceBelieve in YouPractice what you heard todayGo out and be heardHave a Healthy OutletDon’t Take Yourself Too Seriously
Share Your Happiness
TIM SALAVER, MBA, PMP, CSSMBBPRESIDENTCORNERSTONE SYSTEMS [email protected]
702-286-7464 (CTO-SING)
www.GO-CSS.com
http://www.linkedin.com/in/timsalaver