Hanan:

(First round)

Thank you miss moderator. I agree about what panel 2 said just now. But there is another reason might be factors that contribute to the collapse of marriage at a young age. First of all, we touched on the lack of understanding between couples. According to statistics, most of the young couple said that the absence of understanding is the causes of the destruction of their marriage. But most couples who divorce actually hold grudges and secrets about their marriage and the real reasons why they divorced. Perhaps, the reason for this absence of understanding is quite easy, practical and fun written against the real causes that are considered shameful. The reason there was no understanding it is impossible to be the main reason for divorce. This is because before marriage, everyone is different and has no understanding between couples.

Then, among other reasons that might be the cause of divorce among young couples is the intervention of family. Family intervention is no longer strange in any life and marriage. Parents and siblings can also be a source of conflict between the couple. It is common for a wife also complain of problems in marriage to his parents. Weak emotional self-control and often invites unwanted intervention that eventually lead to family conflicts that ended in divorce. Either wife or husband can not simply tell marital problems to anyone, even his parents. This is because they are outsiders who do not know the base end of the matter. This intervention only cause misunderstandings and communication problems at once open space lies and fights.

(Second round)

Each of married couples of course want to remain home built to the end of life because logically there is no intention to marry for the divorced. Many newly married young couple filed for divorce on various reasons. Perhaps a young age also affect their raw in thinking and decision making. The fact that marriage is too early yet to know the cause of their spouses in particular, the situation is also causing them easy to decide to divorce. The results of a survey also found that marriage within the first 10 years has the potential to collapse if the couple is not patient. This occurs because both partners had failed to carry out responsibilities in addition to moral, financial, sexual and apply cheating in relationships. So my advice, to marry at a young age actually requires proper preparation and knowledge sufficient. Patience and cooperation between the two parties is important in continuing the journey of marriage. Every couple that wants to get married, especially the young should be made aware of what he was entitled to married or not.

That’s all from me, thank you.