Liar Liar

Character EducationCharacter Trait:Trustworthiness

Trustworthiness Definition:

Being honest and reliable in carrying out commitments, duties, and obligations.

Trustworthiness Example• Always return items I have

borrowed.• When others count on me to

do what I say I will do.• Can you think of any other

examples?

Trustworthiness Words• honesty• integrity• loyalty• reliability• promise• trust

• reputation• commitment• obligation• truth• candor• confidence

How is he being trustworthy?

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Integrity•  One of the key elements of

trustworthiness is living a life of integrity — being true to yourself so people know they can trust you. What could be simpler, right?

Integrity Examples• A person of integrity stands up for

his/her beliefs about what is right and what is wrong.

• A person of integrity shows commitment, courage, and self-discipline.

• A person of integrity doesn’t get involved in things that he/she thinks are wrong, even under social pressure.

How does he show integrity?

But, of course, it isn’t that easy…• Integrity requires courage to

do the right thing and to be true to your best self. It's one of the toughest requirements of an ethical life because courage requires us to face down what we fear most.

FEAR• Fear is powerful. When faced with

conflict and paying a price we might not want to pay, it’s easier to compromise our values, go with the flow, and not stand up for someone or something that’s right.

Loyalty:

Making it a responsibility to promote and protect the interests of people and associations.

Loyalty Example• A loyal person supports and protects

family, friends, community, and country.• A person whom is loyal doesn’t gossip

or talk behind the backs of others.• A person who is loyal doesn’t violate

ethical principles and doesn’t ask a friend to engage in wrongful activities.

• Who do you know that is loyal?

“The Blind Woman and the Physician.”

-Aesop

Discussion Questions for “The Blind Woman and the Physician”

1. Do you think that the woman owes the physician anything?

2. Have you ever felt taken advantage of?3. Why is it wrong to take advantage of

others?4. Would you consider someone who

takes advantage of others trustworthy?5. How can you avoid taking advantage of

other people?

Circle of Trust

Activity: Circle of Trust• Everyone stands in a circle and tightly

holds hands. Every second person “falls” backwards while the other players “fall” forwards. Then, players switch directions. The feet remain in a standing position and don’t move.

• Goal: Mutual trust and support.