bridal 2010

Wedd ings 2010

BROUGHT TO YOU BY:

This may be the biggest moment of your life. Make sure you do it right and have Paparazzi Photography at your wedding celebration to capture all the details of your special day! Each wedding package is customizable to your needs. Prices start as low as $800. No additional costs after the big day is over. Call Amy today to make your wedding day picture perfect!

Store Location: 5-45789 Spadina Avenue, ChilliwackPhone: 604-392-1105Website: www.cheekicherry.com

Consultants wanted

Amy Lanteigne - Owner and PhotographerPaparazzi Photography | 604-392-9598www.paparazziphotography.cainfo@paparazziphotography.ca

Bring in this adto receive a

30% discounton your lingerieorder of $100

or more!

Stagette Parties, Bridal Showers & Intimate Adult PartiesCustomize your party! Ask us how!

Lingerie sizes XS-6X | Footwear sizes 5-16Intimate adult products

Bring into rec

Agassiz-Harrison Observer | Weddings - 2010 3

index04 introduction

09 unique touches

11 picking your fl owers

15 romantic adventure

17 communication is key

20 calming pre-wedding jitters

22 budget planner

23 directory

index

ggweddingswelcome

ContributorsPublished by The Agassiz Harrison Observer1-7026 Pioneer Ave. Box 129Agassiz, B.C. V0M 1A0Telephone: 604-796-4300Fax: 604-796-2081 www.ahobserver.com

Publisher: Andrew Franklin

Editor: Jessica Murdy

Sales and Marketing: Mary Aitchison

Graphic Design: Brittany Best

Photo Contributors: Photography by

Davina, Level 6 Images and Imagewerx

Front Page Photo Credit: Photography by Davina

Welcome to the 2010 Wedding Guide. This magazine is full of helpful advice and the latest trends to help you plan the perfect day. The advertisers in this guide are experts in their fi elds and will help you make your day unforgettable!

Agassiz � Harr ison

4 Weddings - 2010 | Agassiz-Harrison Observer

step � by step gweddingsstep by stepbeauty in our own backyard

Forget those far flung destinations for your wedding. When it comes to alluring locations for a day of romance, it’s all in our own backyard.

The rugged beauty of our lakes, rivers, waterfalls and mountains can inspire beautiful photography, as well as stunning backdrops to your ceremony and reception. And for couples looking to infuse a little excitement into their big day, those great, wide open spaces provide a host of recreational opportunities. It all adds up to a day to remember.

But like all good events, a memorable wedding takes meticulous planning. And we want to help you. Throughout the following pages, you’ll find businesses that are ready to cater to your every wish, from the initial planning to your honeymoon.

One of those experts is photographer Davina Graham. She prefers to capture the entire day for her clients, capturing every moment through her lens. She’s well versed in Fraser Valley photography locations, from the peaceful, lush surroundings at Minter Gardens, to the more extreme.

One couple called her to ask her ‘are you okay with heights?’ Saying yes led to a helicopter ride and a photo shoot at the top of Mt. Cheam.

“In some photos there’s a little bit of cloud below them,” she says. “And some people have commented that it looks like they’re in heaven.”

That couple followed some very good advice, incorporating something they love into their wedding. For them, it was hiking. For others, staying close to the ground is the best option. Lakeside weddings, ceremonies in open fields, or at a historical location, or a family farm all can suit a couples’ wants and needs for their special day.

Either way, many photographers now are offering to journal your entire day. “That way you get the whole story, of the whole day,” Graham says. Every moment and every feeling — from jitters and anticipation, to love and pure joy

— preserved for years to come. — Agassiz-Harrison Observer

The Gallery Spa is your choice for large and small wedding parties, for the

bride and groom and their parties and of course family and friends. We have

5000 sq. ft. of luxurious space dedicated to your needs. Hair,

pedicures, manicures, makeup, waxing, massages, eucalyptus steam rooms, and

more. Please see our website @ www.thegalleryspa.com

The Gallery Spa HoursSunday 11 am to 4 amMonday 9 am to 5 pm

Tuesday to Friday 9am to 9pmSaturday 9am to 5pm

45844 Yale Road Chilliwack B.C.(near Safeway downtown)

Make an appointment by phone 604-392-2588


so you are readyto get married!

Making the commitment to live life with another person is a large step. It marks the beginning of your future together.

Planning a wedding can be a big undertaking. Many times the course of planning from the moment of engagement to the wedding day can stretch over several years. It requires patience, budgeting and organization. A wedding binder or filing system can help keep receipts and information all in one place. Additionally, use these steps as guidelines for your own event.

1. Engagement party: Many couples enjoy having an engagement party to announce that they’re planning

a life together. Engagement parties are receptions on a smaller scale. It’s not necessary to invite all of the guests you’d be inviting to the wedding unless you have the budget to do so.

Keep it to immediate family, including grandparents, aunts and uncles and first cousins. You may also want to invite close friends. If finances are an issue, consider a brunch or a cocktail party with passed appetizers instead of a full sit-down dinner.

2. Set the date: Once you decide you’re getting married, you should consider when you want the

big day to occur. This can depend on what month of the year you enjoy or when you think you may have saved enough to cover the cost of the wedding itself. Prime months include the spring and summer.

If you want to have your wedding relatively soon, you may find that certain dates are

step � by step ggweddings

7056 Pioneer Ave., Agassiz604-491-4409

Ask us about Bridal Party Packages!

Look BeautifulFeel Fabulous

Couples Tattoo SpecialBrides & Groomsbuy one tattoo & get second tattoo free(equal or lesser value)

Brides & Bridal PartyFirst tan free with package purchase, plus the Bride gets free Oxygen with every tan

OxygenTANTanning • Tattoos • Oxygen

step by step

Traditional or outside the box!We would love to help with your favours and chocolate buffet.

Bride + Groom caramel apples, chocolate strawberries, truffl es, creams, clusters and more.

Select a chocolate fountain, pick your chocolate colour! If you can think it... you can dip it!

Chocolate always fi nds a smile!A wonderful beginning...

Wedding Favours by

Located at the Beach across from the Lagoon in Harrison Hot Springs #1 328 Esplanade Ave, BC

Phone: 604-491-2010

continued on next page


step � by step

fine Lingerie & Swimwear

Strapless Bras32A - 36G

Bras 32A - 46H

Swimwear 2 - 24

SPANX®

B Y S A R A B L A K E L Y ®

SSPAB Y S A R A B L A

604.855.4648 • 4-2630 Bourquin Crescent ABBOTSFORD • Little Oak Mall (across from Earls)

IMAG

E W

ERX

step � by step weddingsstep by step

already booked for houses of worship and reception halls. Choose an off-peak time of the year, such as January, March, November or December.

3. Establish a budget: The scope of your wedding will depend largely upon

what you can afford. Many of today’s average weddings range from $25,000 to $35,000. Make a list of all the costs you will have: wardrobe, clergy fees, reception hall, flowers, photography, gifts for wedding party, transportation, honeymoon, etc.

Figure that the majority of the costs will be around

$2,000 each (excluding the reception site, honeymoon and ceremony). Seeing the end cost will help you develop a plan for saving. Keep in mind that many of the payments and deposits are made over time, so you won’t have to come up with the lump sum all at one time.

4. Wedding sites: Once you have a date and budget, your next step

is to make arrangements with the church, synagogue or other place where the ceremony will take place. Most houses of worship prefer you secure the day with them before booking your reception site. Many places book a year or more in advance, so it is important to book early.

When looking at reception locations, it helps to have a preliminary idea of how many people you’ll be inviting to the wedding so you can compare costs and decide on room sizes.

continued from previous page


Certain places offer lower rates for Friday and Sunday than Saturday night. This can help to keep your reception more budget-friendly.

5. Photography, Music, Flowers, Limos, Hairstylist: Some wedding vendors book up as fast as reception sites, particularly if they come

well recommended. Secure your date for services with these people shortly after you reserve your ceremony and reception site. Vendors will likely require a deposit and balance paid before the wedding.

6. Wardrobe: The ladies in the wedding will need to browse for and decide on gowns roughly six

to eight months before the wedding. This allows time for the dresses to be ordered and alterations to be made. Gentlemen can typically shop for tuxedo rentals a month before the wedding.

7. Registry: If you want to select gifts from a specific store, register for them as far in advance

as possible. This way if people want to give you gifts from the registry in advance of the wedding, they’ll know what to choose. Definitely register by two to three months before the wedding, because this is when the bridal shower is typically held.

8. Stationery: Order your invitations, save-the-date cards, etc. five to six months before the

wedding so you have time to check the proofs and ensure they’re printed correctly. Wedding invitations are usually mailed out one to two months prior to the event. It is customary to stamp the RSVP card so that guests simply put it in the mail.

9. Religious requirements: Some houses of worship require classes or retreats before a wedding ceremony to

prepare the couple for marriage in a religious sense.

step � by step ggweddings

FREE 8x10

Engagement Photo

When you book your wedding package

K&K Photographyweddings • pregnancy • infancy

Ken or Kerry 604.744.5526 • [email protected]

planning

so you’re gonna tiethe knot...we’re pleased to off er you this exclusive newlywed package.

banking

travel

potential savings $1228*

contact us1.88.440.4480prospera.ca

congratulations to the happy couple

home

some conditions apply

step by step

continued on next page


choosing � your dress

LEVEL 6 IMAGES

step � by step gweddings

VWS has over 100 wedding businesses in Harrison, Agassiz, Chilliwack, Abbotsford, Mission & Langley.

Your one-stop shop for all your wedding needs!

Our businesses are invited into VWS on the basis of quality of product and service.

The Church

The Reception

The Caterer

The Photographer

The Florist

Valley Wedding Solutions

r

www.valleyweddingsolutions.com

Valley Wedding SolutionsBridal Fair at the Ramada Plaza

and Conference Centre, Abbotsford, Feb 20, 2011

Make inquiries well in advance.10. Honeymoon:It used to be the groom’s task to book the

honeymoon, but most couples do it together these days. Book the honeymoon and apply for passports if necessary, several months in advance.

11. Seating arrangements:This can be one of the most challenging parts of

wedding planning. Once the majority of your RSVPs are in hand, you’ll want to think about seating. Most reception halls will give you a seating map that you can use to determine seating. If you are a visual person, you may want to enlarge the map and actually cut out the names of guests to stick and re-stick in different areas of the room until the seating is just right.

12. Balances due: In the last month before the wedding, most balances

will be due for the services. The reception hall will want a final seating count and you will be picking up your gown.

13. Rehearsal: Set the rehearsal a week prior to the wedding or within a few days before. This gives everyone a trial run.

14. The big day: Rest up the night before and organize all of your wardrobe, honeymoon packing and then get set for one of the most momentous days of your life. �

step by stepcontinued from previous page


choosing � your dress gweddingssunique touches

Holly Tree Florist & Gifts

7220 Pioneer Ave., Agassiz, BC

604-796-2596

A wedding without fl owers, is like a day without sunshine. Have our professional fl oral team create beautiful fl oral bouquets and accessories to guarantee a picture perfect day.

Every wedding is important to us, big or small. Book an appointment for your free consultation.

WHEELER CHEAM REALTY

Offi ce: 604-792-0077Cell: 604-819-1067

[email protected]

Complete the dream with a new place to call home! I am a local realtor & have been in the business of helping people find their ideal home for several years. With local market knowledge and personal attention to your requirements, I will help you find that special home that is just right for you! I look forward to hearing from you soon! Call today!

DIANE JACOBI

COMPLETE YOURDream

More so than ever before, soon-to-be-wed couples are establishing their own traditions by looking for ways to impart a custom feel to their weddings – without breaking the bank.

Weddings have a tendency to be contagious, and chances are you’ve already been invited to a number of them this year. After a while the same traditions can become tedious and routine. If you are planning your own wedding, you may be competing with others you know for unique ideas.

Did you know that according to the latest findings, 2.4 million weddings occur annually? It’s no wonder most brides want their ceremony and reception to be different. From personalized stationery to memorable keepsakes, there are many ways to put your special touch on the affair.

1. On Location: Change the setting of the wedding. Think beyond the local reception hall. Investigate

a park, theater, museum or even a building rooftop. You may be able to get these venues for a steal. Also, destination weddings are growing in popularity. Your destination can be a Caribbean island, the San Francisco Bay or a European castle.

2. Break the rules: Okay, so there really aren’t hard-set rules in weddings, except for those that your

house of worship may require. Still, people become accustomed to certain traditions.

make your daya day they’ll remember

continued next page


Certain classic pieces will always be in style for weddings, but each year brides are met with ideas that borrow concepts from mainstream fashion and can provide a welcome twist on a wedding wardrobe. There are many exciting options in store for brides this year in terms of jewelry and accessories. Here are some hot trends for 2008:

1. Vintage-inspired jewelry: Create a romantic look with delicate but ornate swags of pearls and crystal in choker-length necklaces. Button or drop earrings with crystal and filigree also offer a vintage feel.

2. Pearls, pearls, pearls: These are classic, and now more fashionable than ever. They’re chic not only in white, but in pinks and metallics, both for the bride and bridal party. For a change, look for

maid of � honour step � by step gweddings

Ceremonies • Photos • ReceptionsExit #135 off Hwy 1, Chilliwack Ph. 604.792.3799 mintergardens.com

unique touches

Go against the norm. If the groom wants a female “best man” that’s his prerogative. If the bride wants to ditch the white gown and wear a drop-dead-gorgeous red dress, she has the right. The first dance at the reception doesn’t have to be a sappy love song. Choose an up-tempo number or your favourite rock hit. It’s a celebration, after all.

3. Personalize stationery: Couples can show their personalities through the

stationery they choose – from quirky save-the-date fridge magnets to thank you notes that all form a cohesive

theme. A well-designed invitation set not only establishes the mood of the event, it also informs guests of what to do and when.

4. Take the cake: Instead of a tiered wedding cake go for a custom

creation. If you’ve ever tuned into the Food Network you know that cakes can be designed in all shapes and sizes. Or maybe you prefer something even more unique? Whether a series of cupcakes, brownies or your favorite pie, allow your preferences to set the scene.

5. Free favours: Guests look forward to taking home a memento from

the wedding. But usually it’s just something that ends up collecting dust on a shelf. For intimate weddings, such as destination wedding affairs where the guest list may be considerably smaller, you can personalize favours for each couple that attends the event.

Think unique and whimsical for your wedding and definitely stand out from the crowd. It’s your special day so make the most of it and enjoy and remember the day forever. �



best � man gweddingspicking your fl owers

When it comes to weddings, the bridal gown is number one. Everybody remembers what the bride was wearing on the big day.

Then come the rings, both wedding and engagement.But what else lasts in guests memories long after the ceremony?The flowers!The right choice of flowers can add much more to an already special day, while the

wrong choice can become an irritating distraction from the bride and groom.To make sure your arrangements are a perfect addition, instead of an eyesore,

consider the following tips.Ask your friends: Recently married friends who live nearby should be able to

recommend a good florist or at least keep you from making the same mistakes they made.

Ask about particular arrangements and what styles they chose. If you attended their wedding try and remember the type of event it was, be it a formal party or a more casual gathering. Often times, the nature of the wedding can dictate what arrangement might be most appropriate.

If none of your friends in the area have recently walked down the aisle, ask the staff at the reception hall or where the ceremony itself will be taking place. Chances are, they’ve been exposed to numerous arrangements, so they could prove to be a valuable resource.

everyone remembersthe fl owers

Book your Free Bridal Cosmetic Consultation and receive a Free Bridal Party Pampering Session!

Want to play with color? Go to marykay.ca and click on the virtual makeover. This feature is free of charge and comes with some bridal applications to customize the look you want.

Our color 101 compact look starts @ $147.50 which is full retail size product ready for you to take on that romantic honeymoon!

I am committed to making you feel and look great on your special day! Anne Williamson Team Leader, Independent Senior Sales [email protected] Cosmetics

Your Wedding Day the MaryKay Way!

continued page 14


LEVEL 6 IMAGES

step � by step gweddings

Master Goldsmith on site. Sevenoaks Shopping Centre 604.556.7740

As timeless as you...

TimeMaster J E W E L L E R S

Custom Made Jewellery

Goldsmith / Designer on Site

Fine Watches & Clocks

Sales and Repairs

Repairs on Premises

Take a look at a portfolio: When choosing a florist, find one who has a portfolio

of past weddings he or she has worked on. This can be your best way to gauge how the image in your head might match up with what the florist will provide come the big day. Some florists can also put together a sample bouquet. If a florist has no portfolio, consider going elsewhere.

Be prepared: When going to visit or interview a florist, bring as

much information as possible. If you can bring along a

picture of both the bride’s dress and at least the colour of the bridesmaids’ gowns, this can be a big help in making sure you select flowers that coordinate.

Also, know exactly how many arrangements, bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages you’ll be needing and ask for an itemized estimate. This will ensure that you won’t be surprised when it comes time to pay the bill. Stay in-season: Using out-of-season flowers will cost more, while in-season flowers and those specific to your region can considerably lessen the blow on your budget. Filler material, such as leaves and berries, can also save money but be pleasing to the eye.

Don’t sign until you are sure: Make sure you know whether your florist’s quote

includes moving all the floral arrangements after your ceremony and rearranging them at the reception (or wherever you go once the ceremony is over). No couple wants to worry about moving the flowers themselves, so make sure these arrangements are listed in the final agreement. �

picking your fl owers

continued from page 11


restaurant

7205 Pioneer Ave. Agassiz | 604-796-1144

The perfect setting for your Bridal Showers, Stagette's

or rehearsal dinners.

Jack's wants to cater to your needs!

Come on in as friendly courteous staff is waiting to serve you.

Our menu has a fantastic varied selection to choose from.

Ask about our catering services.

best face � forwardthe � veilgweddingsromantic adventure

www.photog raphybydav i na . ca

Photography By Davinaa

wwwww

DAVINA GRAHAM604.854.1116604.309.4328

a Weddingsa Engagements

a Familya Eventsa Sports

REASONABLE RATES

Sitting by the pool and soaking in the sun can be a great way to spend your honeymoon. But what about something more? What about having an amazing adventure or making a difference?

New adventures are taking honeymooners off the beaten path and allowing them to experience the diverse and exciting cultures of the world. Honeymoon travelers are now climbing Mount Kilimanjaro in Africa with a local guide; kayaking and snorkeling the stunning coral reefs off the coast of Belize, or even backpacking through Thailand.

Destinations into the heart of diverse cultures and meeting the locals who call the destination home are happening. Some are taking up volunteer projects like assisting conservation officers to save sea turtles in Costa Rica, or working together to build homes and hospitals in Africa.

Your honeymoon trip offers you a unique opportunity both to get to know each other better and to have some new, exciting adventures. However, without the proper planning, your dream trip could be derailed quickly!

memories fora lifetime

continued next page


Here are a few keys to ensuring you have the trip of a lifetime:

1. Establish a relationship with a good travel agent who knows the area you wish to travel. Their advice can turn an average trip into an incredible trip. Don’t forget the travel insurance!

2. Buy good gear and clothing appropriate for your specific trip. It isn’t much fun to try to trek around with a pair of discount shoes that bring nothing but blisters. Invest in proper footwear, key clothing pieces that wash and dry easily, and a backpack that can be carried comfortably.

3. Plan to be out of your comfort zone. Together you

can experience new cultures and meet new people, try new foods, and experience different customs.

4. Make a difference. Invest something back in the country and the people you have the privilege to meet. Find a way to do something in return for the memories and amazing experience you will have.

You no longer have to have the traditional honeymoon trip to the beach. Go have the adventure of a lifetime. Start your lives together with not just a trip, but an experience you will never forget. �

Vancouver Valley

Kerry Wang Phone: 778-866-8367

[email protected]

ouuvvvveeeeeeer VaallllllllleeeeeeeeyBar ProsAsk us about our Free Bartending Package!

hairdos � that suit you step � by step weddingsromantic adventure

He proposed... He proposed... you said yes! you said yes!

Happily Wedded AfterHappily Wedded AfterIt takes about 250 hours to plan the average wedding... Happily Wedded After can save you money, stress, time and energy all the while keeping costs completely AFFORDABLE!

Kyla CharneyCERTIFIED WEDDING CONSULTANT

604.556.9343www.happilyweddedafter.comkyla@happilyweddedafter.com



laserhair removal

FOR MEN & WOMEN

All procedures doneby doctors & RNs

Experience & Dedication2309 McCallum Road 604.557.1208

www.abbymedicallaser.com

The Award-Winning CYNOSURE® Laser Hair Removal System for all skin types.

CYNOSURE®

• Permanent Hair Removalfor all Skin Types

• Botox & Restylane

• Photolight Facial

• Rosacea & Skin Tags

• Spider & Varicose Vein Removal

• Treatment for Acne

• Skin Tightening

• Wrinkle RemovalGIFT

CERTIFICATESAVAILABLE

EN & & WOMEN

r Remoovales

nne

al

Tags

e

nnnee e

GIFTCERTIFICATES

AVAILABLE

hairdos � that suit you the � veilgweddingsscommunication is key

Speak to anyone who has been married for years, and you will often find that communication is the key to a successful relationship. However, many couples enter a marriage without really knowing about their spouses, or how they feel about certain beliefs, hopes, aspirations, or even financial concerns.

After the glow of the wedding is over, couples who haven’t discussed these important topics may find that stress or arguments arise from miscommunication or misunderstanding.

Taking time to sit down with your fianc�e or fianc� prior to the wedding planning can help you learn even more about your compatibility and potential for a long-lasting marriage. Here are some of the questions you can ask each other, which may spark meaningful conversation.

Finances/Home:Will we keep our money in joint or individual accounts?What kinds of things will we talk about first before buying?Who is going to be in charge of paying bills and other expenses?How much time do we expect to spend with each other and when?Where will we live?How much will we be able to afford?What if one of us had a career opportunity that required a move to a new city (or

country)?

asking questions now saves future surprises

Remember Oasis for all your event planning and catering needs.

From an intimate party to a large event let Oasis take

care of the details so you don’t have to!

Custom menus built around your budget to ensure you get exactly what you want!

Over 35 years experience.

Kerry & Claudette Krahn#1-7010 Pioneer Ave

Agassiz, BC604-796-8800

[email protected]

continued next page


gcalm � your pre-wedding jitters step � by step ggweddingsWhat if one of us, or both of us, got fired or laid-off?How important is money to our relationship and

marriage?What type of material possessions are important to you

(each other)?What is your definition of financial security?How much is enough for a “safety net” or “rainy day”

fund?How much of our income will we save or invest?

Entertainment/Friends:Will we have a special “night” together that we always

plan? Once a week, once a month?Who is responsible for cooking or will we share that

and how?Do we have conflicting ideas of style?When do we want to retire, and how will we spend our

time after retirement?How often do we like to go out with friends alone?How often will we go out with friends together?

Family:What do you like, or dislike about my family?Is our individual relationship with our family going to

stay the same, or might it change?How will we share time with our families during the

holidays?Intimacy and Children:

How do we deal with each other’s sexual expectations

and needs?

Describe your idea of the ultimate sexual experience –

is it romantic, is it spontaneous?

Will we have children? When and how many?

What will we do if we can’t have children together

(adoption, other options)?

How might having children change our relationship and

the time we spend alone with each other?

How might things around the house/home change once

a child is born?

Will one of us give up our career to stay home with our

child/children?

Our Relationship:

What do you love about me?

Why are you marrying me?

How might previous relationships we’ve had affect our

marriage, if at all?

What if an old boyfriend/girlfriend calls? What if we

bumped into one on the street? How would you

feel?

What about me drives you crazy or makes you

frustrated?

What about our personalities is different and might be a

source of conflict?

How would we know we’re having problems ahead of

time and what would we do? �

communication is keycontinued from previous page


It's your special day...

The pictures will capture the fi nest moments of your life forever & Allure Tanning Lounge wants you to look your best...

The bride, groom & the entire wedding party will be invited to experience ONE FREE SESSION* as our gift, when you mention this ad.

The Valley's most luxurious indoor tanning experience awaits you...*some restrictions apply

Call to book an appointment: 604-858-4494or drop in: #5-45540 Market Way, Garrison Village

“WE’RE PROUDTO OFFER

THE LATEST TECHNOLOGY FOR

YOUR INDOOR TANNING

EXPERIENCE!”


gweddingscalming pre-wedding jitters

The work involved with planning a wedding can stress out even the most stable of individuals. Even those brides-to-be who knew all the reasons why they were getting married a few months ago may be facing the prospect of walking down the aisle with anxiety.

Call it cold feet or wedding jitters, the feeling is common among newlyweds-to-be. Stress has a funny way of making mountains out of molehills – little idiosyncrasies in a partner can quickly grow into horrible character traits. The key is recognizing when fears are just the result of too much planning and not deep-rooted relationship issues. Likely you are overwhelmed about the wedding details, not making a commitment.

Here are some helpful hints to deal with pre-wedding jitters:1. Put your thoughts onto paper: Make a list of what is causing the most anxiety. Sometimes having all of your racing

thoughts organized and on paper can help you rationally address the issues and see that there is no serious cause of the jitters.

It can also help you pinpoint a common stress trigger, such as a financial concern or a conflict with a family member. Compare these fears to a list of reasons why you love your partner and want to enter a commitment with this person.

This simple task can bring order to jumbled feelings and offer clarity on any nervousness you may have.

2. Learn to relax: Make time for yourself and enjoy activities that are not directly related to wedding planning. Perhaps go for a massage or facial treatment. A relaxing drive or walk along the beach or through another quiet area can help promote calmness.

3. Talk to your partner: Open up to your partner about how you are feeling. You just may find that he is experiencing some of the same things, and that jitters are completely normal.

By expressing your fears and doubts, and working through them as a team, this can be the first step you take as a married couple to support each other in good times and bad.

4. Recognize that change, understandably, makes people uncomfortable: One of the most life-altering changes a person can make is getting married,

particularly if you’ve both been used to living on your own and making your own decisions.

Instead of focusing on what you could be losing by getting married, reaffirm all of the things you will be gaining. It may help to talk to married couples who have been

let him warmyour cold feet

successful in keeping their relationships strong. Remember though, your relationship is unique to you as a couple. So don’t be sidetracked over what could or may happen.

5. Remember that love is most important: While you want the weather to cooperate and the day to be flawless, you cannot

control the outcome of everything when getting married.There may be some minor (or major) bumps along the way. Being able to recover

gracefully and enjoy yourself can help start your relationship off on the right foot. Remember, you’ll have many other chances to create winning memories as you grow old together with your partner, so don’t put so much emphasis on the wedding details or the most important moments may pass you by. �


Choose a Bridal Package that’s right

for you ... THEN get an additional 10% OFF

your total package!

Call us to book yourconsultation & trial

604.850.2113

#105, 34595 - 3rd Ave AbbotsfordTransformationshairdesign.ca 604.850.2113Salon Hours: Tues to Sat 9am-5pm(After 5pm appointment only)

Consultations • Trials • Special Groom & Groomsmen packages

Where stylestyleis created AtAt

TransformationsHair Design ...We know how important

your special day is.

So when it comes to that

perfect hair design, we

want to be with you

every step of the way.

rigN get a

al 10% OFFotal package!

Call us to bbooookk yoyoururconsultatitionon & & trial

660044.885500..221113

#105, 34595 - 3rTransformationsha604.850.2113Salon Hours: Tues to Sat 9(After 5pm

CCCooonnnsssuuultatttiiions • Trials

H A I R D E S I G N


step � by step gweddingsbudget planner

Ceremony: Cost:Location fee _______Offi ciant fee _______Marriage License _______Rings _______Pillow _______Total: _______

Reception: Cost:Location fee _______Food _______Drinks _______Rentals _______Cake _______Favours _______Total: _______

Transportation: Cost:Limousine/Cars _______Car Decorations _______Total: _______

Music: Cost:Ceremony Musicians _______Reception Band/DJ _______Total: _______

Bride’s Attire: Cost:Gown _______Headpiece/Veil _______Undergarments/Lingerie _______Shoes _______Accessories _______Jewelry _______Makeup _______Hair _______Total: _______

Groom’s Attire: Cost:Tuxedo _______Shoes _______Cuff links _______Men’s Grooming _______Total: _______

Flowers: Cost:Ceremony _______Bride’s Bouquet _______Bridesmaid’s Bouquet _______Corsages & Boutonnieres _______Reception Centerpieces _______Flower Girl Basket/Flowers _______Total: _______

Photography: Cost:Photographer’s fee _______Videographer’s fee _______Guests’ Disposable Cameras _______Total: _______

Stationery: Cost:Invitations _______Postage _______Thank You Cards _______Total: _______

Gifts: Cost:Wedding Party _______Parents _______Other _______Total: _______

Honeymoon: Cost:Accommodations _______Flights _______Food _______Spending Money _______Total: _______

Total Wedding Budget:


picking � your fl owersthe � veilgweddingssdirectory

Harrison Hairstyling160-B Lillooet AvenueHarrison Hot Springs604.796.3636www.harrisonhairstyling.comdonalda@harrisonhairstyling.comGallery Spa45844 Yale Road, Chilliwack604.392.2588 email [email protected]

Mary Kay - Anne [email protected]

Hair, Makeup & Spa ServicesHair, Makeup & Spa Services

Holly Tree Florist & Gifts7220 Pioneer AvenueAgassiz604.796.2596

Valley Wedding Solutionswww.valleyweddingsolutions.com

Prospera Credit Union1810 No. 9 HighwayAgassiz 604.796.2202Toll Free: 1.888.440.4480

FlowersFlowers

Wedding ServicesWedding Services

Credit UnionCredit Union

Allure TanningSuite 5-45540 Market Way,Chilliwack604.858.4494Oxygen Tan7056 Pioneer AvenueAgassiz 604.491.4409

TanningTanning

K&K [email protected] by [email protected]

Diane JacobiRoyal LePage Wheeler Cheam8 - 8337 Young Rd.Chilliwack604.792.0077Ocean Breeze Cruise and Travel CentreMt. Lehman Centre116 - 3250 Mt. Lehman RoadAbbotsford 604.857.0880

PhotographyPhotography

Home & AfarHome & Afar

Vancouver Valley Bar Pros1.778.866.8367vancouverbarpros@yahoo.cawww.vancouvervalleybarpros.caJack’s Restaurant7205 Pioneer AvenueAgassiz604.796.1144Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory1-328 Esplanade AvenueHarrison Hot [email protected] www.rockychoc.com(at the beach across from the lagoon)Oasis Coffee and Bistro7010 Pioneer Avenue, Agassiz604.796.8800

Bartending/CateringBartending/Catering

Sandpiper Golf Resort (Rowena’s Inn on the River)14282 Morris Valley RoadHarrison Mills1.877.796.1001 www.sandpipergolfclub.comMinter Gardens52892 Bunker RoadRosedale604.794.7191www.mintergardens.com

Accommodations/LocationsAccommodations/LocationsCheeki Cherry5-45789 Spadina Avenue, Chilliwack 604.392.1105brigida@cheekicherry.comwww.cheekicherry.comChampagne and Lace33811 South Fraser WayAbbotsford604.852.8686www.champagneandlace.comZammy’s Lingerie4-2630 Bourquin Crescent West, Abbotsford604.855.4648TimeMaster Jewellers208-32900 South Fraser WayAbbotsford604.556.7740

Bridal FashionBridal Fashion

24 Weddings - 2010 | Agassiz-Harrison Observer1-877-796-1001 www.sandpipergolfclub.com14282 Morris Valley Rd.

World Class...Close to Home

Fraser Valley’s Premier Dream Wedding Location

From intimate Gatherings to sophisticated Galas.

Full services offered: wedding planning, cake design, chef consultation, ceremony services, photography…..

Stay at our elegant Inn, colonial Gatehouse or darling Cottages.

Red Carpet arrivals welcome: private dock, heli landing and airstrip on site.

if you can dream it, we can make it come true

bridal 2010

Documents

big day

perfect day

day unforgettable

day of romance

entire day

special day

wedding day picture

wedding guide