bullying debrief
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Bullying Debrief. Mr. Nielson Author of ‘VCHS Life Lessons’. Victimproof. Love the person bullying you Set boundaries Be the change. Why people bully. Filling a need in their life They are bullied They hurt, so they hurt others Revenge because you hurt them - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
Bullying DebriefMr. Nielson
Author of ‘VCHS Life Lessons’
VictimproofLove the person bullying youSet boundariesBe the change
Why people bullyFilling a need in their lifeThey are bullied They hurt, so they hurt others Revenge because you hurt
them
People are inherently good – there is a reason when someone bullies.
Bullying Story
Fighting Evil with EvilRESULTS IN
MORE EVIL!!!
How to respond to bullying?
Do NOT retaliate physically or with hurtful words.
Tell the person that what they are doing hurts
Ask why they are hurting you
Love the Person Bullying You
Open dialogue about the hurtEmpathize with the personForgive the person
Forgiveness is not for the person bullying – the forgiveness is for YOU!!
Set BoundariesDecide what is acceptable for youExplain to others what is acceptableHold your standard
If you didn’t decide what is acceptable, peer pressure will likely win…
Be the ChangeHow do you want the world to
be?Stand up to make the world the
way it should be, stand up for yourself, stand up for others
It takes a strong man to stand up for himself; it takes a stronger man to stand up for others.
Army Strong
Talk to an AdultBeing bullied?You are hurt and being a bully to
others?See bullying occurring?Hurt in any way?Thinking about hurting yourself,
others, property?
Do you have an adult?A parentA relativeA teacherA councilorA spiritual leaderA principal
Questions/Discussion