caregiver peace: stop, look and listen
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DESCRIPTIONWhen I was a child I learned a simple way to keep myself safe Stop, Look, Listen. Now we can use this simple rule to help us learn to help others.
- 1.Caregiver Peace: Stop, Look and Listen
2. Caregivers who recognize their own need for peace and a place of respite and are willing and able to ask for and accept the help of others will greatly increase what they have to give to those they love. 3. It is ironic that there are things you must lose to find and give away to possess. I have found self-sufficiency to be one of those things. Just when I think I have it I realize I need the help of those around me and when I assist others I receive what I need. Finding peace and a place of respite is critical for a family caregiver. This is very true in caregiving. 4. We Americans are a self-sufficient people, sometimes to our own detriment. Some family caregivers take the attitude that they need to stand tall and do it on their own; do their duty; this is, after all, their family and therefore their problem and no one else should be bothered. 5. Caregivers and the rest of us can learn that, when it comes to peace and a place of respite, we must be willing to lose what we have in expectation that we will find again, in even greater quantity and, we must be willing to give away what we already have to possess again. 6. If we dont learn these valuable lessons we run the risk of pushing ourselves so hard that we end up with serious health issues. Stress can push us to the point of mental break, we can become ill or worse, pass away before the person for who we care. 7. Caregiver strength can come not from isolation and determination but from community. Real strength comes when we realize that we cant do it alone, when we reach out to help someone else in need, when we learn not to horde our strength but give it away to make others stronger. 8. When I was a child I learned a simple way to keep myself safe when crossing the street, Stop, Look, Listen. And now we can use this simple rule to help us learn to help others. 9. Stop: give yourself a chance to pay attention to others. 10. Look: take a real look at those around you and pay attention to them. We can discern many things about others just by the way they look, are they frazzled, stressed, worried? 11. Listen:ask others how they are doing and then be prepared to listen. 12. Try to find those in need, those who are trying to do it all themselves and look for opportunities to help. Is there someone at work who is caring for a disabled or special needs child or a parent? Is there someone at church or synagogue that always seems to struggle with child or parent? They may not come often because getting out of the house can be a real challenge. Do you have a neighbor or friend who seems out of sort lately? 13. Remember, there are things you must lose to find and give away to possess, these are the most valuable things like love, peace and a place of respite. Sometimes professional caregivers can play a role in helping family caregivers maintain health and balance in their lives. 14. Find Quality Care Now Locate a BrightStar Near You! Find a location in Canada Find a location in the US