child abuse
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What is Child Abuse?
Child abuse is any act of maltreatment of a child by a parent or guardian that results in injury or harm.
Or simply defined as…
the physical or emotional or sexual mistreatment of children.
Factors & causes
a lack of parenting skills immature parents parents with negative childhood experiences social isolation alcohol and/or drug use in the home manufacture of drugs, indoor marijuana grow
operations, drug trafficking, or other forms of illegal drug activity in the home
family violence in the home frequent family crisis unrealistic expectations of a child’s behaviour
and capacities
Types of Abuse
four main types of abuse as:
neglect emotional injury physical abuse sexual abuse
Neglect
Neglect is failing to provide age appropriate basic care such as food, clothing, shelter, love and affection, medical and dental care, education, and protection from harm.
If the parent or guardian cannot or will not provide these things to a child, it is neglect.
Physical signs
The child may: have medical or dental problems that will
not go away because the parent does not take the child for treatment, such as infected sores, decayed teeth or not having needed glasses
be underweight or dehydrated have poor hygiene be emaciated or have a distended
stomach have clothes that are torn, dirty, do not fit
or are not appropriate for the season
Behavourial Signs
The child may: demand constant attention have parents who are not interested and not
involved say that their parents are rarely home to look
after them, have inadequate supervision, be left alone or in the care of another child who is too young
have poor school attendance have an obvious lack of energy frequently say they are hungry, or steal or
beg for food
Emotional Injury/Abuse
Emotional abuse is an attack on the child’s self-concept and self-worth. It is a pattern of ongoing behaviour by the parent or guardian that seriously interferes with the healthy development or the mental or emotional functioning of the child.
Factors
exposure to family violence in the home; exposure to chronic alcohol or drug use in the
home; rejection; the child being ignored or isolated; threats, humiliation, unrealistic expectations,
or inappropriate accusations/criticism; corruption (permitting a child to use alcohol or
drugs, watch or participate in cruelty to animals, or participate in criminal activities); or
negative exposure to someone with a mental or emotional condition (including suicidal or homicidal ideas) in the home.
In fact, a child may appear to be clean, well groomed and well fed. But the child may be sad, depressed, timid, angry or withdrawn. Emotional abuse has serious, long term effects on children and can often outlast the impact of neglect or physical injury.
Parent’s behavioural signs
The parent may: blame or belittle the child in public refuse to comfort the child when the child is
upset or frightened treat other children in the home better
(more acceptance and less criticism) talk about the child in negative ways (stupid,
bad, troublemaker, useless) blame the child for their own problems
and disappointments identify the child with disliked family
members
Child’s behavioural signs
The child may: be overly compliant,
passive or shy have episodes of
aggressive, angry and demanding behaviour
be scared of failure show anxiety, fear or
depression have trouble
concentrating have trouble learning have speech delays
have trouble sleeping give up easily be either boastful or
negative about self constantly apologize cry for no apparent
reason demand adult attention have problems with
bed-wetting or fecal incontinence
Physical Abuse
Physical abuse is any act by the parent or guardian which results in trauma or injury to any part of a child’s body.
If physical abuse keep up, the injuries to the child become more severe and it becomes more difficult to eliminate the abusive behaviour.
Children often explain injuries by saying they had an accident while playing or they got it while fighting with a sibling.
Physical Signs
have unexplained or poorly explained bruises or welts
have a number of scars in a regular pattern
have bruises in various colours in the shape of an object (cord, rope, belt, buckle, clothes hanger)
have human bite marks, visible handprint or finger prints
have unexplained burns, such as: cigarette burns immersion burns that are sock-
shaped or glove-shaped
electric iron or stove burner shaped burns
have unexplained or poorly explained fractures, sprains, dislocations or head injuries
have unexplained or poorly explained cuts and scrapes
have any injury in a spot on their body that it is not likely to have occurred by accident (e.g. a bruised earlobe, cut behind the knee)
have consumed a poisonous, corrosive or non-medical mind altering substance
Behavioral Signs
be defensive about injuries
have low self esteem be frightened by
disapproval be wary of physical
contact with adults show fear of parents or
other adults be nervous when other
children cry wear clothing that covers
their body even when the weather is warm
not be able to tolerate
physical contact or touch has behavioural
extremes, such as aggression or withdrawal
run away not be able to make
friends be reluctant to undress
around others not show any reaction
to physical pain report injury by their
parent
Sexual Abuse
Sexual Abuse is the inappropriate exposure or subjection of a child to sexual contact, activity or behaviour by a parent or guardian.
A child who has been sexually abused may or may not show any behavioural or emotional reaction to sexual abuse.
Examples
“non-touching” activities e.g. obscene phone calls/conversations, indecent
exposure or exhibitionism, masturbation in front of a child, deliberate exposure to others engaged in sexual activities, exposure to any forms of pornographic material
“sexual touching” activities e.g. fondling a child, making a child touch an adult’s
genital area, or sexual intercourse
“sexual exploitation” e.g. engaging a child for prostitution, using a child in
pornography or luring a child via the Internet for sexual purposes)
Physical Signs
The child may: have a sexually transmitted disease be pregnant at a very young age have genital discharge, infection or
bleeding have physical trauma or irritations in the
anal and genital areas have pain when urinating or defecating have problems walking or sitting due to
genital or anal pain have stomach aches, headaches or other
psychosomatic complaints
Sexual Behavioral Signs express premature or
inappropriate curiosity or understanding of sexual behaviour
display inappropriate or aggressive seductive or sexual behaviour with peers, teachers or other adults
use sexually explicit language or make sexually explicit drawings
masturbate compulsively have poor hygiene or bathe
excessively abuse alcohol or drugs be unable to concentrate have school problems or have a
significant change in school
performance start to display regressive
behaviour (e.g. wet or soil their pants, wet the bed, thumb-sucking)
become withdrawn, anxious, fearful or depressed
resist diaper changes or going to the bathroom
have eating disturbances (e.g. overeating or under-eating)
have sleep disturbances (e.g. nightmares, afraid to go to sleep, sleeping long hours)
lack social skills and have trouble making friends
Indicators of child abuse
Unexplained bruises or injuries, especially in places of the body that children do not normally injure during regular play or movement
Burns which leave a pattern outlining the object which was used to make the burn, such as a cigarette, an iron, or an electric stove burner; burns on the hands, feet or buttocks caused by scalding water; and rope burns caused by being tied
A child who is continually hungry, unsuitably dressed for the weather and/or always dirty
A young child who is often left alone
A child who is usually aggressive, angry, and hostile to other people
A child who demonstrates withdrawn behaviour, who refuses to participate or dress appropriately for physical activities
A child who shows unusual knowledge of sexual matters beyond their age of development, who exhibits sexualized behaviour around adults or other children
A child who hints or talks out rightly about sexual abuse
A child or adolescent who repeatedly runs away from home
An adolescent who is extremely withdrawn or aggressive
Indicators of child abuse
What to do?
What do I do if a child tells me he or she is being abused?
Do... remain calm listen carefully to what the child says let the child tell you what happened in his or her own
words write down what you heard and saw:
as soon as possible, using the same words the child did, using words that describe things you can see or hear, and keeping your notes confidential and secure
acknowledge how the child is feeling (e.g. sad, scared, embarrassed, hurt, angry)
reassure the child that it is right to tell
let the child know that you believe what he or she said
say “I will try to help”
call your local office or the Child Abuse Hotline as soon as possible
What else can I do? You can also help by becoming a
foster parent, an adoptive parent, or the private guardian of a child.