1301 Farmers Lane, Suite C103 Santa Rosa, CA 95405

(707) 528-4222www.jccsoco.org

Jalena Mays, Program Director(707) 528-1476, jalenam@jccsoco.org

Carol King, Program Assistant(707) 528-1182, carolk@jccsoco.orgCircleFriendship

A program for adults 55+

Friendship Circle is a Program of the Jewish Community Center, Sonoma County

Monday Luncheons11:30 AM Schmoozing ~ Lunch at Noon

IMPORTANT: please see description of each program for luncheon location

LUNCHEON DETAILSReservations are essential at least one week prior to the program so the caterer can prepare adequately. Payments for luncheons are preferred in advance, but not required. Cash, check, Visa® & MasterCard® are accepted.

RSVP By the Wednesday prior to the luncheon (707) 528-1182 or carolk@jccsoco.orgTime 11:30 AM –1:30 PM

Price $15 Friendship Circle members; $18 guests Includes lunch, dessert and featured entertainment

Rides to Friendship Circle events may be available in select areas upon request at least one week prior to date of event.

Monday, May 20: The Mello-Tones Join us for lunch followed by an uplifting musical performance by The Mello-Tones. This talented trio of accomplished musicians,

features John Derby on U-bass, Mary Ellen Brown on accordion, and Bob Chapman on guitar, all of whom have been actively involved in music most of their lives. The group will perform musical genres including jazz standards, the Great American Songbook, samba rhythms, hits from the ‘40s to the present, and the occasional pop tune or country ballad. You may recognize the musicians—they all are Oakmont residents! RSVP by Wednesday, May 15Location: Congregation Shomrei Torah, 2600 Bennett Valley Road, Santa Rosa

Monday, June 17: An Italian Affair with Due Zighi Baci Back by popular demand! No music has the power to whisk us away to magical, far-away places like the songs heard on the streets of old Europe. Due Zighi Baci (Two Gypsy Kisses) promises

to transport any audience to a nostalgic state with their authentic, heartfelt performances of popular European café music. Time stands still as tenore lirico Michael Van Why croons the timeless, sentimental tunes of Italy, France and America. Whether it’s the songs of Edith Piaf, Yves Montand, Jacques Brel, Claudio Villa, or Renato Carosone, Michael reinvents these classics for today’s audiences. Accordionist Sheri Mignano accompanies and excels at delivering the ambience of this dynamic duo. RSVP by Wednesday, June 12 Location: Congregation Shomrei Torah, 2600 Bennett Valley Road, Santa Rosa

May & June 2019Happy Mother's Day

Announcements Appreciation Save These Dates

Call Carol, (707) 528-1182 to reserve

Welcome to ourNew Friendship Circle

Members! Zahna Arnold

Carmen CucinottaCarlo and Lucie Di Fede

Marcy & Ed FormanBradley GordonJudith HelmanDafna Jo SimonLinnea Tennison

Eli Zaffaroni

Wednesday, May 1 ....................................... Day Trip: Docent Tour of Monet: The Late Years, de Young Museum, SF Wednesday, May 8 ...................................... Coffee Klatch, New Location: Emily’s Kitchen in Montgomery Village Monday, May 20 ............................................ Luncheon: The Mello-Tones, CST Monday, May 27 ............................................ JCC Closed for Memorial Day Wednesday, June 5 ....................................... Day Trip: Hamilton, SHN Orpheum Theater* *SOLD OUT—accepting names for the waitlist Monday, June 17 ............................................ Luncheon: An Italian Affair with Due Zighi Baci, CST Thursday, June 20 ......................................... Day Trip: Lunch at Left Bank & Bay Model Tour, Larkspur & Sausalito June 24 – July 15 ............................................. Jalena Away Thursday, July 4 ............................................. JCC Closed for Independence Day Monday, July 22 ............................................. Luncheon: Music by Ken Vermes & Si Perkoff, CST Sunday, July 28 .............................................. Hawaiian FC Membership Tea with “Friends of the Islands,” CST Wednesday, Aug 7 ......................................... Day Trip: Lunch at Assemble & Rosie the Riveter, Richmond Thursday, Aug 18 ........................................... Happy Hour, Location TBD Monday, Aug 19 ............................................. Luncheon: Legendary Stories of the Legion of Honor with Virginia Ernster, CST

Friendship Circle Passover Outreach AppreciationThis spring, Friendship Circle coordinated and helped host eleven Passover Seders at residential care facilities and senior community centers throughout Sonoma County.

We thank the following senior community ACTIVITY DIRECTORS for hosting Passover Seders in your facility: Anna Grant, Healdsburg Senior Center; Robert Alvarado, Brookdale Paulin Creek; Carrie Borkhuis, Rohnert Park Cogir; Christina Cruz, Brookdale Fountaingrove; Livia Funkhouser, Solstice Senior Living; John Gilfillan, Oakmont Gardens; Vicki Navarro, Springfield Place; Jenna Patri, Brookdale Chanate; Natasha Pehrson & Sonia Tubridy, Russian River Jewish Community; and Rev. Jacquie Robb, Spring Lake Village.

Thank You Friendship Circle Lay Leaders & Volunteers: Lois Abramson, Shelley Bauer, Lynne Belmont, Terry Bloom, Rabbi Meredith Cahn, Norman Eisley, Liz Hagen, Judith Helman, Joe Indano,

Liisa Karjalainen, Elinor King, Gale Kissin, Leslie Kline, Ruth Levy, Joy Lovinger, Jerry Newman, Yael Raff Peskin, Robin Rosenblatt, Larry Scharf, Juli Scherer, Ede Smith, Edee Sternfield-Squires, Sandy Tate, Elisabeth Van Nuys,Dorothy Swartzberg, and Harry Wolff.

Friendship Circle Membership Tea “Hawaiian Luau”Sunday, July 28

2-4 PMCongregation Shomrei Torah, 2600 Bennett Valley Road, SR

Free for Members—Be Our Guest!

Hawaiian Music & Dancing with Friends of the IslandsHome Baked Treats,

Ice Cream Sandwiches, Gifts, Friends, and Fun

More information will be available in the July/August 2019 newsletter

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Friendship Circle Coffee Klatch Come join us and meet new friends!

When: Wednesday, May 8 from 10-11:30 AM

NEW Location: Emily's Kitchen in Montgomery Village709 Village Court, Santa Rosa (Between J. Jill and Monti’s)

Price: $3 at the door (cash only please); A platter of pastries will be provided; beverages and other menu items may be purchased separately.

RSVP: carolk@jccsoco.org; (707) 528-1182

We Appreciate Your Generous Donations

Elisabeth Van Nuys in honor of Jalena Mays & the Friendship Circle Advisory Committee

Florence Boxerman in memory of Harriet BaerEdee Sternfield-Squires towards the Friendship Circle End-of-Year Campaign

Binese & Earl Goldberg in appreciation of Carol JarvisBinese & Earl Goldberg in appreciation of

Ruth Levy and Liisa KarjalainenElisabeth & David Van Nuys in honor of the

75th Anniversary of Susanne & Al BatzdorffJune Liebling in honor of Binese Goldberg’s 80th Birthday

Cory & Jalena Mays in honor of Binese Goldberg’s 80th Birthday

Elizabeth Hagen in honor of her brother, Richard Simkover

Thank You Lynne Belmont, Maurice Jones, Jill & Rick Permutt, Corlene Van Sluizer & Julian Blair above and

beyond regular membership dues.

If you are remembering someone you hold dear, or would like to celebrate a friend or family member, please consider

making a donation to Friendship Circle in their honor.

Your support helps sustain our program, allowing our activities to be accessible for everyone!

Thank you Bella Rosa Coffee

for donating the COFFEE we serve at our luncheons

Traditional Medicinals for donating the TEA

Wishing our Members a Happy Birthday!

Please contact our office to let us know your birthday

so we can celebrate YOU too! friendshipcircle@jccsoco.org;

(707) 528-1182

Thank you to our community partners Congregation Beth Ami

Congregation Shomrei Torah andJewish Family & Children's Services

for helping to make our events possible.

4676 Mayette Ave. Santa Rosa, CA 95405 707-360-3000 · BethAmiSR.org

Join with us to pray, study, shmooze, sing, play music, cook, eat, kvell, laugh, learn, create, lead, discuss, celebrate, dance and make a difference.

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Home Care, Care Management, Transportation, and more

Call 707- 303-1530www.SeniorsAtHome.org

A D I V I S I O N O F J E W I S H F A M I LY A N D C H I L D R E N ’ S S E R V I C E S

MAY BIRTHDAYSHoward BalfourMilton DanoffMary Jane DoraziCyndi FinkJohn GallegosHedda GoldEvelyn GurevitchJudith HelmanGerry LiptonJosie Luna-GallegosIlene MoranEdith Newman

JUNE BIRTHDAYS June Adelman-ThomasNorman EisleyLinda EmblenEd FormanRosalind FrommerCecilia JohnsonAnn LehrJune LieblingLaurie LippinMargaret LivingstonJalena MaysDiane MillenMyrna MorseCarla QuinonesDavid ReddingJuli SchererDafna Jo SimonNatalie Timm

Memoir Writing with Dani BurlisonLocation: Congregation Beth Ami, 4676 Mayette Ave., Santa Rosa, Room 12-13When: *Mondays, 9:30 AM-12:30 PM

*no class 5/27Free, drop-ins welcome, open to allSponsored by Friendship Circle, Santa Rosa Junior College & Congregation Beth Ami

Mah Jongg with Carol JarvisLocation: Upstairs at the JCC (no elevator)When: 2nd, 3rd & 4th Tuesday of each month, 1:00-3:00 PM Donation: $2 per class at the doorRSVP required: (707) 528-1476 or jalenam@jccsoco.org All levels welcome.

Exercise Class with Barbara Goodridge Location: Congregation Beth Ami Social Hall4676 Mayette Ave., Santa RosaWhen: *Tuesday and Thursday, 11:00 AM –12:30 PM *no class 7/4Free, drop-ins welcome, open to all Sponsored by Friendship Circle & Santa Rosa Junior College

Matter of Balance with Dana JacobyLocation: Congregation Beth Ami Social Hall, 4676 Mayette Ave., Santa RosaWhen: Mondays & Wednesdays from 1:00-3:00 PM April 29–May 22Free & open to all; space is limitedThis class requires a commitment to attend at least five of the eight sessions and at least one of the first two sessions.RSVP required. Please call Dana Jacoby to enroll: (707) 565-5936Sponsored by JCC Friendship Circle & Sonoma County Area Agency on Aging

Clubs Classes

David (who celebrates his 100th birthday on June 20!) was born in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He was one of four children born to Ukrainian/Polish immigrants. His father designed and manufactured women’s clothing, among other things.

After graduating, David married and attended the University of Omaha; he then left to enlist in the army during WWII. After discharge from the armed services, he enrolled at UCLA where he received his BA in Economics. He subsequently earned a PhD in Economics from Columbia University, which he considered a great achievement.

After graduation, David worked in various positions as an economist for the U.S. Government (State Department) in Washington, D.C. He specialized in Soviet Affairs and traveled all over the world for his work. It was an exciting time. He also worked for Rand Corporation, which brought him to Santa Monica, CA.

David met his second wife, Esther, 35 years ago at a dance in West LA. They lived in Southern California for a while before moving to Northern California—first to Walnut Creek, then to Santa Rosa—to be near his sons who all now reside in the greater Bay Area—Napa, Berkeley, and Occidental. They lived in Oakmont Gardens for a short while, prior to moving to Brookdale Paulin Creek, where they have lived for over three years.

Both David and Esther particularly like the speakers at Friendship Circle luncheons. They are still traveling (mostly cruises), which they thoroughly enjoy. David most recently enjoyed a cruise to Mexico with his son, Jeffrey. He spends a lot of time walking around Santa Rosa with his son, Benjamin. Mazel Tov to our

JCC Volunteer–of–the–YearDeborah Greenfield

The award ceremony will be held at theJCC’s Public Annual Meeting

The evening of Wednesday, June 19th1301 Farmers Lane, Santa Rosa

Save the Date—We Hope You Join Us!

Friendship Circle wishes David a HAPPY 100th BIRTHDAY!

Mazel Tov from the whole mishpacha!

Happy 100th Birthday

A. David Redding

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Remember to bring a bottle of water!

Cancellations result in a $5 administrative fee. A full refund (less the $5) will be returned if the cancellation is made two weeks prior to trip date. No refund will be returned for cancellations made thereafter.

Medical Emergency Contact Form: We must have an updated medical form on file by the date of departure. When necessary, we will send you a new form to complete and return to the Friendship Circle office prior to the day of the trip. Please call Carol at (707) 528-1182 if you have any questions.

Rides to and from the bus on the JFCS van may be available upon request at least one week prior to the trip.

Please let us know if you are meeting the bus in PETALUMA or SANTA ROSA.

How to Reserve: Reservations for each excursion are limited. Priority is given to Friendship Circle Members and those who have not attended a recent excursion.

Contact Carol at the Friendship Circle office to reserve: (707) 528-1182 or carolk@jccsoco.org.

After your reservation has been confirmed, please call to pay with a credit card over the phone or mail a check made payable to the JCC, Friendship Circle, 1301 Farmers Lane, Suite C103, Santa Rosa, CA 95405. Include the name and date of the event on your check.

No one is ever turned away based on inability to pay. Speak to Jalena in confidence.

Make your reservation early so you don’t miss out! We strongly encourage those who have never attended one of our excursions to sign up!

DAY EXCURSIONRegistration Information

Senior Excursions are sponsored with the generous support of the Senior Excursion Fund of the Jewish Community Federation of San Francisco, the Peninsula, Marin and Sonoma Counties.

Day Trip RemindersHamiltonWednesday, June 5

This trip is SOLD OUT. Please contact Carol to be added to the waitlist (707) 528-1182; carolk@jccsoco.org

Boxed Lunches will be handed out when you meet the bus. Each boxed lunch includes a sandwich, chips, and a fresh-baked cookie. Please remember to bring your own bottle of water. Choose one of the following sandwich options and please let Carol know your selection:

Sliced Turkey Sandwich Almond Chicken Salad Sandwich Mediterranean Veggie Sandwich

Transportation: Meet the bus at least 15 minutes prior to departure Bus LEAVES at 10:45 AM from Congregation Beth Ami (4676 Mayette Ave., Santa Rosa) Bus LEAVES at 11:15 AM from Petaluma Community Center (320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma) LEAVING the SHN Orpheum Theater at APPROXIMATELY4:00 PM for return

The Jewish Community Center, Sonoma County's Friendship Circle in partnership with the JCCSF

present Ashland TripOregon Shakespeare Festival

Monday, October 21–Friday, October 25, 2019

5 Days/4 NightsPrice:*$1,695 Friendship Circle Member; $1,850 Guest; $450 Single Supplement *Price is per person, based on double-occupancy

Includes:• Four nights at The Plaza Inn & Suites at Ashland Creek• Dinner and Show at the Oregon Cabaret • Four Plays at the Oregon Shakespeare Festival • Four Pre-Show Lectures• Private Meet-the-Actor Discussion • Guided Backstage Tour of the theaters • Meals Included: Welcome Dinner, Cabaret Dinner, Two “On-the-Road”

Lunches, Four Breakfasts & light snacks on the way to/from Ashland • Round-trip trans. from Santa Rosa & transfers before & after each play • Two Trip Escorts: Jalena Mays and Shiva Schulz• Farewell Toast!

Adults of all backgrounds and faiths are welcome to join this enriching trip.

For more info or to request an application, contact Carol: (707) 528-1182 or friendshipcircle@jccsoco.org.

plays

As You Like It Mother Road

IndecentHairspray

Sweeny Todd

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Lunch at Left Bank Brasserie & Tour of The Bay ModelThursday, June 20 Larkspur & Sausalito Board our private coach for a day with Friendship Circle! After enjoying a delicious, French lunch at Left Bank Brasserie in Larkspur, we’ll make our way to The Bay Model for a private tour of the incredible hydraulic model of the entire San Francisco Bay and much of the Sacramento River Delta!

Lunch at Left Bank Brasserie: La Rive Gauche (The Left Bank) is the southern bank of the River Seine in Paris. "Rive Gauche" or "Left Bank" generally refers to the Paris of an earlier era: the Paris of artists, writers and philosophers. While it remains a haven for artists and bohemians, it is also the site of many wonderful and famous brasseries, including Les Deux Magots, Café Flore and Brasserie Lipp. Enjoy an all-inclusive lunch at this fun, French restaurant! Please choose one of the following entree options and include your choice when making your reservation:

NIÇOISE SALADEseared salmon, green beans, tomatoes, fingerling potatoes, avocado, tapenade,

anchovy, roasted red bell peppersLAMB SANDWICH

herb marinated leg of lamb, basil, roasted peppers, aïoli, black olive tapenade, arugula salad

JACQUES PÉPIN'S SANDWICHgrilled eggplant, sun dried tomatoes, roasted peppers, red onions,

mozzarella cheese, mixed greensFRENCH ONION SOUPE GRATINÉE & SALADE VERTE

baguette, Emmenthal cheesesalad includes butter lettuce, fines herbs, shallots, Dijon vinaigrette

About the Bay Model: Housed in an unassuming low-slung building on Sausalito’s waterfront, The Bay Model was built by the Army Corps of Engineers in 1956-57 to demonstrate what would happen if the South Bay were dammed and infilled (as had been proposed). Using simulated tidal action, the Corps was able to prove that the results would be disastrous for the bay environment, and the plan was shelved. The Bay Model is still owned and maintained by the Corps. Water flows through the delta, into the bay, and out through the miniature Golden Gate Bridge. At over 1.5 acres, it’s an enormous contraption! You can wander around, though no swimming is permitted! In addition to The Bay Model, there are exhibits on the history of Bay Area watercraft, the Marin Shipyard, World War II, and the modern working life of the bay. Please wear comfortable shoes, dress in layers, and be prepared to walk and stand as you observe the model.

Cost: $62 Friendship Circle Members; $78 Guests (includes round-trip private transportation, lunch at Left Bank, private tour of The Bay Model, tax, gratuity, and snacks along the way).

Transportation: Meet the bus at least 15 minutes prior to departure. Bus LEAVES at 10:15 AM sharp! from Congregation Beth Ami (4676 Mayette Ave, Santa Rosa) Please park in the overflow parking lot. Bus LEAVES at 10:45 AM from Petaluma Community Center (320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma) LEAVING The Bay Model 3:00 PM for return

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Rosie the Riveter & Lunch at AssembleWednesday, August 7 Richmond

We Can Do it! Join Friendship Circle on this inspiring excursion—lift your spirits and relish in the values that energized the World War II home front and transformed American government, industry, society, and culture. Before heading to Rosie the Riveter, we will enjoy a delicious lunch at Assemble. With its unique setting, great food and perhaps the

most beautiful and inclusive views in the entire Bay Area, Assemble Restaurant has been wowing its patrons since it opened in February of 2013. Lunch will include your choice of three entrees, beverages, dessert, tax and gratuity. Please choose one of the following entree options and include your selection when making your reservation:

GRILLED CREEKSTONE TRI-TIP peppercorn rub shallot butter

SPINACH LASAGNA mozzarella and pesto ricotta

ATLANTIC SALMON brushed in dill butter, wrapped in flakey dough

After lunch, we’ll walk across the street and spend a couple of hours visiting Rosie the Riveter. We will begin our visit with a short film, followed by a docent/Park Ranger-guided tour of the exhibit, and then enjoy free time to explore. Together we will honor the efforts and sacrifices of American civilians on the World War II home front. Find out how they lived, worked and got along. Rosie the Riveter features interactive and educational exhibits as well as a variety of park films, which show on a regular schedule in the onsite theater.

Cost: $65 Friendship Circle Members; $79 Guests (includes round-trip private transportation, lunch at Assemble, private tour of Rosie the Riveter, tax, gratuity, and snacks along the way).

Transportation: Meet the bus at least 15 minutes prior to departure. Bus LEAVES at 10:15 AM sharp! from Congregation Beth Ami (4676 Mayette Ave, Santa Rosa) Please park in the overflow parking lot. Bus LEAVES at 10:45 AM from Petaluma Community Center (320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma) LEAVING The Bay Model 3:00 PM for return

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From left to right: Shelley Egger, Deborah Greenfield, Leonard and Elly CohenApril 4 Happy HourThe Flamingo Terrace Grill

Dan & Flo Hoffenberg March 6Academy of Sciences, San Francisco

Join us for these Fun Outings!

Coffee KlatchEmily’s Kitchen, Montgomery Village

Wednesday, May 8Santa Rosa

Lunch at Left Bank Brasserie & Tour of The Bay Model

Thursday, June 20Larkspur & Sausalito

Rosie the Riveter & Lunch at AssembleWednesday, August 7

Richmond

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