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30 August 2006 Effective Communication - Techniques PRABAL MOUDGIL Manager HRD & Admn. Dept. of Admn. & Personnel Mgt. Reserve Bank of India, Kolkata

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Effective Communication -

Techniques

PRABAL MOUDGIL

Manager HRD & Admn.

Dept. of Admn. & Personnel Mgt.Reserve Bank of India, Kolkata

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Session Objectives

The objectives of this session are to: provide a basic overview of verbal and

non-verbal interpersonal communication

processes

identify personal obstacles to effective

interpersonal communication define some strategies for improving

individual and group communications

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Communication

Communication is defined as theinterchange of thoughts or opinionsthrough shared symbols; e.g.language, words, phrases

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Process of Communication

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Four facets of communication

Three are four facets in all types of communication:

Sender

Receiver

Information

Behavior

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Four facets of communication

In any communication: The Sender is the person trying to

communicate a message

The Receiver is the person at whom themessage is directed

 A message is sent to convey information  Information is meant to change behavior 

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Missed communication

As Purchasingordered it.

As the Art Dept.

designed it.

As the Supervisorimplemented it.

As the ManagerRequested it.

As Marketingwrote it up.

What the Employee

really wanted!

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Why we communicate

• We communicate to:• Share our ideas and opinions

• Provide feedback to others• Get information from others

• Gain power and influence

• Develop social relationships

• Maintain self-expression and our culture

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How we communicate

We communicate and buildinterpersonal relationships through:

Speech

Writing

Listening

Non-verbal language Music, art, and crafts

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Choosing your medium

Depending upon the situation, one methodof communication may be better thananother. In person: one-to-one

In person: meetings, small groups

In person: presentations, large groups

Letter

Memo

Note

Email

 Voice mail

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Choosing your medium

To determine the best medium for yourmessage determine:

What you as the sender need to achieve

What the receiver needs to know

How detailed, important, and or personal

the i nformation in the message is Which behavior you want to influence and

how

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Barriers to communication

What are barriers to communicationthat exist in any work setting?

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Barriers to communication

Some common barriers to interpersonalcommunication include: Unclear process: The receiver and sender may not share the

same language, slang, jargon, vocabulary, symbols

Chain of command: There may be too many layers that amessage passes through between sender and receiver

Large size of an organization, geographic

distance: Large numbers of receivers require good messagesending methods

Personal limitations: Physical and mental disabilities, anddifferences in intelligence and education may interfere with mutualunderstanding

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Barriers to communication

 Additional common barriers tointerpersonal communicationinclude: Human nature: Peoples’ egos, prejudices, and

traditions can get in the way

Conflicting feelings, goals, opinions: If people feel on opposite sides of an issue they may not share

Power: The idea that knowledge is power can lead toinformation hoarding

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Obstacles to sharing ideas

What can make sharing ideas difficult?

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Obstacles to sharing ideas…

 Your own shyness Fear of rejection

Peer pressure Unorganized thinking

Others possibly becoming defensive Physical disabilities (impaired sight, hearing, speech)

Having to deal with aggressive people

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Barriers to communication…

Perceptions Language

Semantics

Personal Interests Emotions

Inflections

Environment – noise

Preconceivednotions/expectations

Wordiness

 Attention span

Physical hearing problem

Speed of thought

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Getting good information

Why is it necessary to get goodinformation from others?

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Counting the “F”s

FEATURE FILMS ARE THE RESULT OF  YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDYCOMBINED WITH THE CONTINUOUS

EFFORTS AND THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.

How many? Are you sure? See nextslide…

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Counting the “F”s

FEATURE FILMS ARE THE RESULT OF  YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE CONTINUOUS

EFFORTS AND THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.

Got it correct?

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Get good information to…

Find out facts and details Get directions or instructions

Try to understand another’s point of view Help someone solve a problem

Resolve a team conflict Solve work problems

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Public Speaking

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The power of listening

The philosopher Epictetus stressed thepower of listening in this quote:

“Nature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much 

as we speak.” 

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Listen actively Prepare to listen by focusing on the speaker

Control and eliminate distractions so that youcan focus on the message. Don’t do anything else(writing, reading, email) but listen

Establish appropriate eye contact to showinterest

See listening as an opportunity to getinformation, share another’s views, and broadenyour own knowledge

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Listen actively Create a need to listen by thinking about what

you can learn from the speaker Set aside the time to listen so that you won’t feel

rushed or become distracted by other responsibilities

Don’t prejudge the message based on who isdelivering it. Focus instead on the content of themessage.

Monitor the way you l isten by asking yourself questions such as “Did I really pay attention or was Ithinking about what I was going to say next”? “Wasthere information I missed because I allowed myself 

to become distracted”?

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Body language

Nonverbal communication, known as “bodylanguage” sends strong positive and negativesignals. This is how much it influences any

message:

Words 8%

Tone of voice 34%

Non-verbal cues 58%

Message 100%

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Body language includes…

Face Figure

Focus

Territory

Tone

Time

Each of these is described in the following slides…

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Body language - face

Face includes: Your expressions

 Your smile or lack thereof 

Tilt of the head; e.g., if your head is tiltedto one side, it usually indicates you areinterested in what someone is saying

What message are you sending if someone is  presenting a new idea and you are frowning? 

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Body language - figure

Figure includes: Your posture

 Your demeanor and gestures

 Your clothes and accessories such as jewelry

What message are you sending if you are dressed casually at an important meeting? 

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Body language - focus

Focus is your eye contact with others The perception of eye contact differs by

culture. For most Americans…

Staring makes other people uncomfortable Lack of eye contact can make you appear weak or

not trustworthy

Glasses may interfere or enhance eye contact

What message are you sending if you are looking at other things and people in a room when someone is speaking to you? 

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Body language - territory

Territory focuses on how you usespace. It is also called proxemics. The perception of territory differs by culture.

Most Americans are comfortable with anindividual space that is about an arm’s lengthin diameter. Most Indians are comfortable

with shorter space.

What message are you sending if you keep moving 

closer to a person who is backing away from you? 

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Body language - tone

Tone is a factor of your voice Pitch is the highness or lowness of voice

 Volume is how loud your voice is

Emphasis is your inflection

What message are you sending if during a disagreement you start speaking very loudly? 

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Body language - time

Time focuses on how you use time.It is also called chronemics.

Pace is how quickly you speak 

Response is how quickly you move

Punctuality is your timeliness

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Questions Please

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Thank You