comm skills prabal 182
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Effective Communication -
Techniques
PRABAL MOUDGIL
Manager HRD & Admn.
Dept. of Admn. & Personnel Mgt.Reserve Bank of India, Kolkata
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Session Objectives
The objectives of this session are to: provide a basic overview of verbal and
non-verbal interpersonal communication
processes
identify personal obstacles to effective
interpersonal communication define some strategies for improving
individual and group communications
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Communication
Communication is defined as theinterchange of thoughts or opinionsthrough shared symbols; e.g.language, words, phrases
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Process of Communication
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Four facets of communication
Three are four facets in all types of communication:
Sender
Receiver
Information
Behavior
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Four facets of communication
In any communication: The Sender is the person trying to
communicate a message
The Receiver is the person at whom themessage is directed
A message is sent to convey information Information is meant to change behavior
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Missed communication
As Purchasingordered it.
As the Art Dept.
designed it.
As the Supervisorimplemented it.
As the ManagerRequested it.
As Marketingwrote it up.
What the Employee
really wanted!
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Why we communicate
• We communicate to:• Share our ideas and opinions
• Provide feedback to others• Get information from others
• Gain power and influence
• Develop social relationships
• Maintain self-expression and our culture
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How we communicate
We communicate and buildinterpersonal relationships through:
Speech
Writing
Listening
Non-verbal language Music, art, and crafts
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Choosing your medium
Depending upon the situation, one methodof communication may be better thananother. In person: one-to-one
In person: meetings, small groups
In person: presentations, large groups
Letter
Memo
Note
Voice mail
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Choosing your medium
To determine the best medium for yourmessage determine:
What you as the sender need to achieve
What the receiver needs to know
How detailed, important, and or personal
the i nformation in the message is Which behavior you want to influence and
how
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Barriers to communication
What are barriers to communicationthat exist in any work setting?
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Barriers to communication
Some common barriers to interpersonalcommunication include: Unclear process: The receiver and sender may not share the
same language, slang, jargon, vocabulary, symbols
Chain of command: There may be too many layers that amessage passes through between sender and receiver
Large size of an organization, geographic
distance: Large numbers of receivers require good messagesending methods
Personal limitations: Physical and mental disabilities, anddifferences in intelligence and education may interfere with mutualunderstanding
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Barriers to communication
Additional common barriers tointerpersonal communicationinclude: Human nature: Peoples’ egos, prejudices, and
traditions can get in the way
Conflicting feelings, goals, opinions: If people feel on opposite sides of an issue they may not share
Power: The idea that knowledge is power can lead toinformation hoarding
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Obstacles to sharing ideas
What can make sharing ideas difficult?
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Obstacles to sharing ideas…
Your own shyness Fear of rejection
Peer pressure Unorganized thinking
Others possibly becoming defensive Physical disabilities (impaired sight, hearing, speech)
Having to deal with aggressive people
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Barriers to communication…
Perceptions Language
Semantics
Personal Interests Emotions
Inflections
Environment – noise
Preconceivednotions/expectations
Wordiness
Attention span
Physical hearing problem
Speed of thought
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Getting good information
Why is it necessary to get goodinformation from others?
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Counting the “F”s
FEATURE FILMS ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDYCOMBINED WITH THE CONTINUOUS
EFFORTS AND THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.
How many? Are you sure? See nextslide…
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Counting the “F”s
FEATURE FILMS ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE CONTINUOUS
EFFORTS AND THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.
Got it correct?
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Get good information to…
Find out facts and details Get directions or instructions
Try to understand another’s point of view Help someone solve a problem
Resolve a team conflict Solve work problems
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Public Speaking
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The power of listening
The philosopher Epictetus stressed thepower of listening in this quote:
“Nature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much
as we speak.”
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Listen actively Prepare to listen by focusing on the speaker
Control and eliminate distractions so that youcan focus on the message. Don’t do anything else(writing, reading, email) but listen
Establish appropriate eye contact to showinterest
See listening as an opportunity to getinformation, share another’s views, and broadenyour own knowledge
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Listen actively Create a need to listen by thinking about what
you can learn from the speaker Set aside the time to listen so that you won’t feel
rushed or become distracted by other responsibilities
Don’t prejudge the message based on who isdelivering it. Focus instead on the content of themessage.
Monitor the way you l isten by asking yourself questions such as “Did I really pay attention or was Ithinking about what I was going to say next”? “Wasthere information I missed because I allowed myself
to become distracted”?
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Body language
Nonverbal communication, known as “bodylanguage” sends strong positive and negativesignals. This is how much it influences any
message:
Words 8%
Tone of voice 34%
Non-verbal cues 58%
Message 100%
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Body language includes…
Face Figure
Focus
Territory
Tone
Time
Each of these is described in the following slides…
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Body language - face
Face includes: Your expressions
Your smile or lack thereof
Tilt of the head; e.g., if your head is tiltedto one side, it usually indicates you areinterested in what someone is saying
What message are you sending if someone is presenting a new idea and you are frowning?
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Body language - figure
Figure includes: Your posture
Your demeanor and gestures
Your clothes and accessories such as jewelry
What message are you sending if you are dressed casually at an important meeting?
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Body language - focus
Focus is your eye contact with others The perception of eye contact differs by
culture. For most Americans…
Staring makes other people uncomfortable Lack of eye contact can make you appear weak or
not trustworthy
Glasses may interfere or enhance eye contact
What message are you sending if you are looking at other things and people in a room when someone is speaking to you?
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Body language - territory
Territory focuses on how you usespace. It is also called proxemics. The perception of territory differs by culture.
Most Americans are comfortable with anindividual space that is about an arm’s lengthin diameter. Most Indians are comfortable
with shorter space.
What message are you sending if you keep moving
closer to a person who is backing away from you?
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Body language - tone
Tone is a factor of your voice Pitch is the highness or lowness of voice
Volume is how loud your voice is
Emphasis is your inflection
What message are you sending if during a disagreement you start speaking very loudly?
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Body language - time
Time focuses on how you use time.It is also called chronemics.
Pace is how quickly you speak
Response is how quickly you move
Punctuality is your timeliness
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Questions Please