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Daisy and Kinali: Sharing Custody with a Reluctant Orangutan Mother By Devin Bailey

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  • Daisy and Kinali:

    Sharing Custody with a

    Reluctant Orangutan Mother

    By Devin Bailey

  • Planning for Motherhood

    Hand reared

    Gave birth to a son

    in Atlanta that she

    did not rear

    Lived with and

    watched a surrogate

    raise two infants

    Maternal Training

    Staff Preparations

  • May 19,2011

  • Building a Parenting Plan

    • Give Daisy EVERY

    opportunity to care

    for Kinali

    • Give Kinali the

    benefit of staying

    with his mom.

    • Provide around the

    clock supportive care

    for Kinali when

    Daisy does not.

  • The Reluctant Mother: Daisy

    No aggression was

    ever seen by Daisy

    She showed interest

    when we cared for

    Kinali and made

    consistent progress in

    training.

    Daisy’s relationship

    and trust in Kinali’s

    care-givers was

    essential.

  • Meet the Custodial Parents

    Four primary people became the “moms”. Baby sitters were

    added to his care team as he got older and Daisy had built

    more confidence.

  • The Custody Agreement

    Kinali joined Daisy

    after his 6 AM

    bottle and training.

    Daisy would

    separate when asked

    so we could care for

    Kinali.

    When Daisy was

    done for the day, we

    took Kinali for the

    night.

  • Overnight Visitation

    Kinali was only pulled

    when Daisy was “done”

    for the night.

    In the evenings, Kinali

    would be taken for

    walks for outside time,

    work on his clinging

    skills and playing.

    Daisy continued to be

    trained during Kinali’s

    feeding times.

  • Parenting Class 101

    Daisy began her

    training by simply

    touching Kinali when

    asked to.

    Daisy was taught to

    “assist” with care

    through mesh.

    She eventually

    graduated to bringing

    Kinali up for bottles.

  • Orangutan 101

    By being with Daisy everyday, Kinali started to pick

    up her habits and mimic her behaviors.

  • Modifying the Custody Agreement

    As Daisy progressed

    as a mother, we

    stepped back.

    All changes were

    monitored closely,

    but on Daisy’s terms.

    Daisy was very clear

    in her wishes and her

    limitations.

  • Daisy Gets Sole Custody

    When Kinali was 7

    months old, he

    started staying with

    Daisy every night.

    Keepers stayed

    overnight as changes

    were made to

    monitor Daisy’s

    progress.

    Kinali’s transition

    was seamless.

  • The BIG Test

    • Kinali’s first day on the indoor exhibit…Daisy

    exceeds EVERYONES expectations!!!

  • Maintaining Visitation Rights On a couple of

    occasions, we have

    had to assist Daisy

    with Kianli.

    They are trained to

    separate to facilitate

    weighing daily or

    medical procedures.

    Daisy also allows us

    (usually) to interact,

    train, examine, and

    play with Kinali.

  • Child Support Continues

    Kinali is currently

    getting only 3 bottles

    daily.

    He is spoon-fed a

    leafeater/cereal gruel.

    Kinali at times will

    seek his human

    moms for play or

    comfort, but usually

    Daisy provides these

    things.

  • Future Case Management

    Currently Panji and

    Tia are not

    cohabitating with

    Daisy and Kinali.

    The next plan is to

    integrate them into

    one cohesive family.

    Eventually, Daisy

    maybe a foster mom

    or have another baby.

  • It’s been a long journey…

    But it has had a happy ending!

  • Thank you…

    The Orangutan SSP

    Carol Sodaro

    Laura Mayo

    The staff and

    management who

    supported us.

    The orangutans who

    have taught us so

    much while we were

    trying to teach them.

  • Any Questions?