deep introduction day 1
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Deep communication
By Dr.Fady Nassif
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Who IM ?
Who others ?
How to communicate ?
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1- Agreement between us .
- ( self awareness ) human behavior
ENNEAGRAM types over view
Exercise 1 : know your own type
- how to be positive ? space mentality not particle mentality
exercise 2 ( detection your particles ,challenge )
victim mentality
self acceptance
wheel of the life , confidence
- exercise 3 own wheel of life
- exercise 4 what is your plan to overcome
Agenda day 1
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Basics of communication Exercise 5 ( bad phone )
- pinches ( irritant) :Ex: 6 what are your pinches and what pinches to others ?
Ego states ( parent – adult – child ) Exercise 7 ( ego state chairs one statement )
Ex 8 ( imagine scenario and others detect what ego states )
Attention type 3 ( colors )Exercise your own color energy
Exercise go out your comfort zone in 3 minutes presentation and try 2 new colors
Summary and closing
Agenda day 2
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Agreement
Beginner mind
Be in the level 2 of attention not in level 1 please
Ask in any time
Take the exercise serious
Don’t excuse go out and return ASAP
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Why communication ?
Did you remember once time or more ,some one be angry from you ? And you didn’t want this ?
Some one didn’t understand what you want and do another action and you lost money ,time, may be more
Some one didn’t know how you love him ?
Some one assume you arrogant
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Who IM ? Who are you ?Self awareness
human behavior
1- genetic ( nature )
2- acquired
3- welling
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Self aware
Clear
Deep
Inward
Has vision
Able
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ENNEAGRAM types
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• The main personality types* include:1. The Perfectionist –Productive, organized, wise, ethical and reliable, this type of personality is concerned with doing things right 100 % , living right and improving themselves and things around them. They can be judgmental , critical , controlling and anxious as well.
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2. The Helper –Generous, insightful
and caring, Helpers must be loved to feel their value and react positively to others. They can also be martyr شهداء like and possessive , and sometimes overly accommodating
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3. The Achiever – A pretty self , the achiever is driven by success and hates failure.
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• 4. The Romantic – A key character in almost every plot line, the Romantic is addicted to emotion and must experience her feelings. She doesn’t wish to be ordinary and can sometimes be self-conscious, moody or self-absorbed.
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• 5. The Observer – At
their best, they are
analytical and
consumed with
knowing and
understanding the
world around them. At
their worst, they can
come off as critical of
others, intellectually arrogant and negative
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• 6. The Questioner – “Do I fit in?” is a common thought for the Questioner, a personality driven by the need for security. While they can be compassionate and warm, they can also be paranoid , defensive and rigid
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• 7. The Adventurer –True adrenaline junkies, No. 7’s thrive on activities, want to contribute to the world and don’t enjoy suffering. Their confidence and spontaneity can sometimes be interpreted as narcissism and lack of discipline
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•8- The Asserter The
Asserter doesn’t want to
take “no” for an answer
and wants to be self-
reliant. Authoritative,
energetic and loyal, No.
8’s can also be
rebellious, self-centered
and aggressive to avoid
feeling inferior or dependent.
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• 9- The Peacemaker –Nines hate conflict
and want to smooth
things over, but their
emotional responses
to various situations
can vary from genteel
and polite to obsessive and forceful
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Exercise 1
• What is your type ?
• Strengths ?
• Area of development ?
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How to be positive ?
space mentality
Victim mentality
Self acceptance
Plan to overcome , improve continuous improvement KAISEN
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Self acceptance Vs self rejection
Self tolerant vs self intolerant
Self loving vs self hate
Confident vs in confident
Forgiven vs in forgiven
Self worth vs low self worth
Self motivation vs self destruction
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How ?
Admit your areas of development but don’t judge by forever that you are
If you lie not mean you are Layer forever
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Victim mentality
Don’t act the role of the
victim ?
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Space mentality vs particle menatality
Exercise 2
Detect your 5 challenges , barriers, particles
in your life , your work
space mentality Habits
Family
Money
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Space
Dynamic
+ ve
Open
Creative
Proact
Particle
- stagnant
- ve
Close
Traditional
Reactive
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Wheel of confidence / life exercise
Physical
Relationship
Money
Spirituality
Communication
Prestige
Development
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Exercise : Make your own wheel ?
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- summaryhuman behavior( self awareness ) and ENNEAGRAM types over view
- how to be positive ?
space mentality not particle mentality
victim mentality
self acceptance
wheel of the life , confidence
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Action plan day 1
• Type :
• Your strength's ?
• Challenges inside you ?
• Challenges outside you ?
• I will stop do ?
• I try to do ?
• Space mentality , what particle ?
• Wwhat solutions ?
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Thank you
This our target in
tomorrow ISA
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