dissolve stress in 20 seconds: 2 breath...
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DissolveStressin20Seconds…The2BreathTechnique
ByMichaelGusack
Stresscanhaveawayofsneakinguponyou.Itcancome“outoftheblue”without
warning.Whilecertainlythereareenvironmentalfactorsthatcantriggerdistress
andfrustration,itoftenshowsupunexpectedly.Itisasifyouareapressurecooker,
andwhenthepressurebuildstoacertainpoint,thevalveinthetopreleasesthe
pressureassteam.Thestressresponsecanactuallyprotectyoufromhavinga
strokeoraheartattack(although,whenextreme,itcanmimicaheartattackand
peopleoftencometotheemergencyroomatahospitalinthemidstofanepisode
believingtheyarehavingaheartattack).
Stresscanbedefinedas“theperceptionofathreatthatwefeelillequippedto
handle”.Noticethattherearetwopartstothedefinition…theperceptionofathreat,
and…oursenseofnotbeingequippedtohandlethethreat.Evenwhenwefeel
threatened,ifwehaveconfidenceinourabilitytohandlethethreat,ourstresslevel
ismuchmoremanageable.
ThetechniqueIamabouttoteachyouwillequipyoutoreleasethepressureina
matterof20seconds.Thatwillbegintoreversethesymptomsofstress.Sothatthis
techniquewillmakeperfectsensetoyou,Iwantyoutounderstandtheconnection
betweentheconcentrationofoxygeninyourbloodstreamandthesymptomsof
stress.Sostaywithmeforjustamomentandletmeaskyoutoimaginethe
following:
Imaginethatyouarewalkingdownatrailinthewoods,andabearjumpsoutin
frontofyou!Immediatelyandautomatically,withouteventhinkingaboutit,you
gasp,perhapsutterafewchoicewords.Thenyouholdyourbreathforabrief
time…butyoudon’tevenrealizeyouaredoingthat.Theconcentrationofoxygenin
yourbloodstreambeginstodropduetothefactthatyouareholdingyourbreath.As
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thishappens,muchlikeathermostatsensingwhethertheairconditionerinyour
homeneedstogoon,aglandinthecenterofyourskullcalledthehypothalamus
sensesthedecreaseinoxygen.Thehypothalamusthensendsmessagestoother
glandsinyourbody(liketheadrenalgland)toproducestressrelatedhormoneslike
adrenalinandcortisol.Asthesehormonescoursethroughyourbody,youfeelthe
symptomsofthe“StressResponse”(alsocalledthefightorflightresponse).Your
bodypreparestofightthebearifnecessary,andrunfromitifpossible.Yourheart
rateincreases,yourbreathingrateincreases,yoursweatglandsactivate,your
stomachknotsupandyourhandsandfeetcooloffasthebloodrushestoyourlarge
muscles,heartandbraintogetyoureadyforaction.Thereisoftenasenseof
impendingdoom.
Nowlet’simaginethatyouarelucky;yougettorun,andtosweetenthedeal…it’sa
slowbear.Youarerunningfasterthanyoueverraninyourwholelife.Thebeargets
sickofchasingyou,andeventuallyyoulookbehindandnoticethebearisnolonger
there.Youstop,andagain,withouteventhinkingaboutit,automaticallybreathea
sighofreliefandbegintocatchyourbreath.Asyoudo,theconcentrationofoxygen
inyourbloodstreamincreasesandthe“RelaxationResponse”isactivated.Your
heartrateslowsdown,yourbreathingrateslowsdown,yourhandsandyourfeet
warmup,yourstomachisnotalltiedupinknots,you’renotsosweaty.Youbeginto
calmdown.
So,nowit’stimetolearnhowyoucanintentionally,consciouslyactivatethat
relaxationresponseinaslittleas20seconds.Youmayhaveguessed,thetechnique
involvesincreasingtheconcentrationofoxygeninyourbloodstreambylearningto
breatheinaunique,scientificway.Respiratorytherapiststeachthistechniqueto
asthmapatientstohelpthemmakethebestuseofthelungpoweravailabletothem
andtoheartpatientstohelpthemregulatetheirheatrhythm.Forourpurpose,itis
aboutmanagingstress.So,let’stalkabouthowtogettheoxygenintoyoursystemas
efficientlyaspossibleintheshortestamountoftime.
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We’regettingreallyclosetoanamazinglysimpleandpowerfulexperiencethatcan
literallychangeyourlife!Alittlemoreabouthowyourlungswork.Eachofyour
lungsisshapedlikeapear…andthelargestpartofeachlungisatthebase,nearthe
lowestpartofyourribcage.Whenyouarestressed,youtendtotakeshallow
breathsthatfillonlytheupperpartofyourlungs.Yourchest,neckandshoulder
musclesareworking-yourshouldersraiseupandyourstomachtightensin.Thisis
calledCHESTbreathing.Chestbreathingtendstomagnifythesensationofdistress!
Now,thereisadifferentwayofbreathingthatactuallyhappenstobethewayour
bodiesaredesignedtobreathe.Thereisamusclecalledthediaphragmthatliesjust
beneathourlungswhichisdesignedtodo80%ofourbreathing.Itfillsourlungs
fromthebottomupand,sincethat’sthelargestpartofeachlung,wegetmore
oxygenintooursystem.WhenwebreatheusingthismuscleourbellygoesOUTas
weinhale,andINasweexhale.However,whenwearestressed(orfrustrated)we
chestbreatheandourbellypressesagainstthelowerpartofourlungsandmakesit
impossibletogetadeep,completebreath.Andwhenwearechronically,habitually
stressed,wetendtogetinthehabitofreversebreathing…ofbreathinginourchests
mostofthetime.Andsowecometothedetailsofthetechniquepromised…the20-
secondbreathingtechnique.
Tohelpyougetthehangofit,youcanputonehandonyourchestandtheotheron
yourbelly.Asyoubreathe,practicegettingthebellytoexpandonthein-breath,and
tightenontheout-breath.Itmayfeelbackwards,orawkwardatfirst,buteveryone
candothiswithalittlepractice.Chancesare,youbreathethiswaynaturallywhen
youareasleep.Anotherwaytopracticeislaydownonyourback.Thispinsthe
shoulderbladestothegroundsotheycan’tsoeasilygoupanddownastheytendto
dowhenchestbreathing.Thenplacea3-5poundbagofsugar,rice,orthe
equivalentonyourbelly.Practiceraisingtheweightupasyoubreathein,andletthe
weightpushtheairoutofyou,asyousimplyrelaxintotheoutbreath.Justrelax.
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Andhere’showitgoes.Youbreatheinthroughyournose.Youbreatheoutthrough
yourmouthandpurseyourlipslikeyou’reblowingthroughastraw.Thiscreates
backpressureinyoursinusesthatdrawstheairmoreeffectivelyoutofyourlungs.
Youwillonlyhavetotakeafewbreathstogetalltheoxygenyoursystemneeds!
Beginthetechniquebyfocusingontheoutbreath.Youwanttoslowyouroutbreath
downbybreathingoutwhileyouslowlycount1tenthousand,2tenthousand,3ten
thousand,4tenthousand.Puttingthewordsinbetweenthenumbershelpsyouset
thepaceproperly.Whenyouarestressed,youwilltendtocounttoofast.Nowthat
youhavesetthepace,allyouneedtodoisinhaleandexhaletwiceusingthe4count
pacing.That’sit!!!Itshouldn’ttakeyoumorethan20seconds!Therelaxation
responseisactivated.Andyoubegintocalmdown!
Let’sreview.Breatheusingyourbelly…inthroughyournose,outthroughyour
mouth.Setthepacetoacountof4andthenbreathein,breatheout,andonce
more…breathein,breatheout…allataboutthesamepace.Toenhancethis
technique’sbenefit,Iencourageyoutocontinuethebellybreathingforaminuteor
two,butdon’tfocusonthecounting.Justbellybreathenaturally.Thiswillhelpyou
maintaintherelaxation.
Sothereitis!Irecommendthatyoupracticethistechnique5timesadayatdifferent
timesoftheday.Thiswillgetyouintothehabitofbreathingthiswaymostofthe
time.Thisroutinewilltakelessthan2minutesoutofyourday!Youcangetsome
adhesivestickydotsatthedrugstore.Putadotsomewhereyouwillseeit
occasionallythroughouttheday.Anexamplewouldbethebottomcornerofthe
mirrorinyourbathroom.Andthenwhenyoubrushyourteethmorningand
night…takeafewbellybreathsusingyourtechnique.Thatway,notonlyareyou
spreadingyourpracticethroughouttheday;youaregettingachancetopracticeit
whenyouarenotupset!Thiswillgiveyou’rethebodythememoryofwhatitislike
toberelaxed.Thatphysicalmemorywillactlikeamagnetthatwilldrawyou
towardtherelaxationresponsemuchmoreeffectively.Otherwise…ifyouonly
practicewhenyouareupset,NORMALisasgoodasitgets.Dothispractice
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routinely…thatistosaydaily.Youwillactuallybetrainingyournervoussystemso
thatyourPHYSICALREACTIVITYTOSTRESSisresettoitsnaturalbalance!Youwill
noticethatthingsdon’tbotheryouinthesamewaytheyoncedid.Youwillalso
noticethatyourrecoverytimewhenyoudogetupsetismuchshorterthanitonce
was.Withpractice,overtime,youwillfindthatyournervoussystemautomatically
reactsdifferentlytolife’schallenges.
Youcanpracticethisanywhere,anytime.Practiceatastoplight,washingyour
hands,orcombingyourhair.Practicebeforeyougotobedtosetupagoodnight’s
sleep.Andevenifyouaremostlybreathinginyourchestinthebeginning,youwill
stillgetgoodbenefit…justevenmorewhenyoucandoitinyourbelly.Andnow,you
notonlyhaveawaytointerruptdistress,youalsohaveawaytodecreaseits
frequency.Thisisnotonlycrisisintervention;itisalsoprevention.Notonlycanyou
putoutthefire,youcanblowoutthematch!Sojustslowitdownandevenitout.
Bewell,keepbreathing,andpleaseletmeknowhowyoufindyourpractice.