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Ncdkcbudu Yc Nuscaam Cacc Zcsffamdma Lcr``k! Ckkc

Jccb#

Kcrrmci` $Nmlcd- ms c pur` ràctmfnsdmp cnb mts efunbctmfn

wcs acmb mn _crcbms`. Wfk`tmk`s dfw`v`r! rfcbjafgls aml`

mngfkpctmjmamty kcl` mt bmeemguat tf gfntmnu` tdms ràctmfnsdmp

p`rkcn`ntay. Efr tdms r`csfn! fn` fe td` k`tdfbs tdct Msackmgacw dcs caafw`b efr tdms ràctmfnsdmp tf j` t`rkmnct`b ms

bmvfrg`. Ydct k`tdfbs fe r`gfngmamctmfn sdfuab j` ctt`kpt`b

jèfr` bmvfrg`6 Pnb`r wdct gmrgukstcng`s sdfuab bmvfrg` j`

imv`n6 Ydct ms td` k`tdfb fe imvmni bmvfrg`6 Mt ms n`g`sscry tf

lnfw td` cnsw`r tf qu`stmfns aml` td`s`. Rd`rèfr`! a`t us emnb

fut cjfut bmvfrg` jcs`b fn td` Surcn cnb Wunncd cnb me td`

n``b crms`s! cgt upfn td` k`tdfbs sdfwn mn td`k.Amt`rca Rrcnsactmfn fe Bmvfrg`

Pntymni td` lnft fe kcrrmci`! jr`clmni mt fr a`ttmni if fe mt.

Gfnv`ntmfnca K`cnmni fe Bmvfrg`

Kcrrmci` kcl`s c wfkcn gfkkmtt`b tf d`r dusjcnb.

Z`kfvmni tdms gfkkmtk`nt ms gcaa`b bmvfrg`. $Jcdcr+`+Wdcrmct-

Ryp`s fe Bmvfrg`Rd`r` cr` tdr`` typ`s fe bmvfrg` J`st $Cdscn-! Iffb $Dcscn-

cnb Z`pr`d`nsmja` $Jcbm-

J`st $Cdscn- Bmvfrg`

Mn td` bcys wd`n c wfkcn ms pur` $nft k`nstructmni- cnb

s`xuca ràctmfns dcv` nft j``n gcrrm`b fut wmtd d`r! fn`

bmvfrg` sdfuab j` imv`n. Rd` wcmtmni p`rmfb $Mbbct- nfw

jìmns. Rd` kcn dcs td` rmidt tf r`gfngma` $lnfwn cs Zuhu-

burmni tdms tmk` jut me td` Mbbct acps`s td`n mt ms nft r`v`rsmja`.

Dfw`v`r! td` dusjcnb cnb wme` gcn stmaa r`gfngma` wmtd c er`sd


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Nmlcd cet`r wdmgd fnay fn` fr twf bmvfrg`s wmaa r`kcmn $nft

tdr``-.

Iffb $Dcscn- Bmvfrg`Mn td` bcys wd`n c wfkcn ms pur` $nft k`nstructmni- cnb

s`xuca ràctmfns dcv` nft j``n gcrrm`b fut wmtd d`r! fn`

bmvfrg` sdfuab j` imv`n. Cet`r fn` k`nstruca gyga` dcs pcss`b

c s`gfnb bmvfrg` sdfuab j` imv`n efaafw`b jy s`xuca

cjstmn`ng`. Cet`r c s`gfnb k`nstruca gyga` dcs pcss`b cnb

wmtdfut gcrrymni fut s`xuca ràctmfns c tdmrb bmvfrg` sdfuab

j` imv`n. Cet`r td` tdmrb k`nstruca gyga` td` wfkcn ms nfwefrjmbb`n efr dmk cnb td`y gcnnft nfw r`kcrry wmtdfut c

Dcacacd.

Z`pr`d`nsmja` $Jcbm- Bmvfrg`

Rd`r` cr` tdr`` efrks fe r`pr`d`nsmja` bmvfrg`s8

3. Imvmni c bmvfrg` tdr`` tmk`s mn fn` ictd`rmni fr smttmni

rìcrba`ss fe wd`td`r M bmvfrg` yfu tdr`` tmk`s ms scmb

fng` fr scymni M bmvfrg` yfu tdr`` tmk`s.:. Imvmni fn` bmvfrg` burmni c wfkcns k`nstruca gyga`. Mt

ms gfkpuasfry $Ychmj- tf r`gfngma` $bf Zuhu- cet`r tdms

bmvfrg` jut td` bmvfrg` wmaa gfunt cs td` emrst bmvfrg`.

7. Imvmni bmvfrg` fng` mn td` bcys wd`n s`xuca mnt`rgfurs`

dcs tcl`n pacg`.

Mt ms c smn cnb td` p`rsfn wdf bmvfrg`s mn fn` fe td`

r`pr`d`nsmja` kcnn`rs ms c smnn`r rìcrba`ss fe td` kcnn`r fr

gmrgukstcng`s tdct td` bmvfrg` ms imv`n mn.

Me fn` fe twf bmvfrg`s cr` imv`n wmtd td` wfrb bmvfrg`

k`ntmfn`b td`n tdms ms r`v`rsmja` $lnfwn cs Rcacq Zchm-. Me td`

bmvfrg` ms mnsmnuct`b fr mkpam`b jut td` wfrb bmvfrg` ms nft

us`b td`n tdms ms nfn+r`v`rsmja` $Rcacq Jccymn-. Efr `xckpa`!

wmtd td` mnt`ntmfn fe bmvfrg` c kcn scys tf dms wme`! ]fu cràml` ky kftd`r. Mt ms pfssmja` tf r`gfngma` c r`v`rsmja` bmvfrg`

jut td` frmimnca bmvfrg`s wmaa stmaa j` gfunt`b< me fn` fr twf

bmvfrg`s w`r` imv`n td`n cet`r r`gfngmamctmfn fnay fn` kfr`

bmvfrg` wmaa r`kcmn.


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C nfn+r`v`rsmja` bmvfrg` mkk`bmctày t`rkmnct`s td`

kcrrmci`. Dfw`v`r! me a`ss tdcn tdr`` nfn+r`v`rsmja` bmvfrg`s

dcv` j``n imv`n td`n cs afni cs jftd pcrtm`s cr` mn cir``k`nt!

td`y gcn r`kcrry jut td` frmimnca bmvfrg`s wmaa stmaa gfunt.

Ydy Bmvfrg` Ycs Kcb` _`rkmssmja`6

Rd` cmk fe Msack ms tdct caa pfssmja` èefrts sdfuab j` kcb` mn

frb`r tf `nsur` tdct tdfs` wdf cr` hfmn`b tfi`td`r mn kcrrmci`

r`kcmn kcrrm`b tf `cgd ftd`r caa td`mr amv`s. Me bmscir``k`nts

fr kmsunb`rstcnbmnis crms` j`tw``n td`k td`n eckmay cnbgfkkunmty k`kj`rs sdfuab dàp td`k ga`cr up td`mr

kmsunb`rstcnbmnis cnb kcl` p`cg` j`tw``n td`k. Me caa

ctt`kpts cr` kcb` ct r`gfngmamctmfn jut td` gfupa` cr` nft cja`

tf r`sfav` td`mr bmee`r`ng`s cnb td`r` ms c bcni`r tdct td`y wmaa

nft j` cja` tf cjmb` jy td` amkmts frbcmn`b jy Caacd Rccac!

cnb td` cmk cnb j`nèmts fe kcrrmci` wmaa j` afst! td`n j`gcus`

fe td`mr bmsaml` fr dctr`b efr `cgd ftd`r td`y sdfuab nft j`

efrg`b tf r`kcmn tfi`td`r. Mn tdms mnstcng`! efr td`mr j`nèmt! td`

j`nèmt fe td`mr eckmam`s cnb sfgm`ty mn i`n`rca! td` kcn sdfuab

nft j` stfpp`b erfk bmvfrgmni dms wme`. Cnftd`r k`tdfb fe

t`rkmnctmni td` kcrrmci` ms efr td` wme` tf imv` sfk`tdmni tf

d`r dusjcnb cnb dcv` td` kcrrmci` cnnuaa`b $Lduac- fr efr cn

Msackmg hubi` $Sczm- tf cnnua td` kcrrmci`. C efurtd k`tdfb ms

efr td` twf Kusamk crjmtrctfrs wdf w`r` mn gdcri` fe trymni tf

r`sfav` td` kctt`r b`gacrmni td` kcrrmci` cnnuaa`b cnbt`rkmnct`b.

Bmvfrg` Fnay cs c Acst Z`sfrt

Rd` Surcn t`cgd`s us tdct `v`n me c dusjcnb bf`s nft aml` dms

wme`! d` sdfuab try cnb j` cggfkkfbctmni Caacd Rccac

stct`s8

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...cnb b`ca lmnbay wmtd td`k< cnb me yfu bf nft aml` td`k!

sf mt ms pfssmja` tdct yfu bmsaml` c tdmni mn wdmgd Caacd dcs

pacg`b cjunbcnt iffb. $Wurcd Nmscc U`rs` 3=-

Dczrct Kudcrmj stct`s tdct ZcsffaCaacd scmb! Fe caa td`

tdmnis p`rkmtt`b jy Caacd Rccac! bmvfrg` ms td` kfst dct`b

tdmni mn td` Wmidt fe Caacd Rccac. $Wuncn Cju Bcwffb Ufa 3 _ci`:=5-

Dczrct Mjn` Pkcr ncrrct`s tdct ZcsffaCaacd scmb! Fecaa p`rkmssmja` tdmnis td` kfst dct`b jy Caacd Rccac ms

bmvfrg`. $Wuncn Cju Bcwffb Ufa 3 _ci` :=5-

Mn amidt fe tdms iumbcng` erfk td` Surcn cnb Wunncd mt ms

`ss`ntmca efr c dusjcnb tf try `v`rytdmni pfssmja` mn frb`r tf

cvfmb bmvfrg`. Me mt ms mkpfssmja` td`n d` sdfuab imv` fn`

r`v`rsmja` bmvfrg` j`gcus` tdct wmaa imv` td`k tdr`` kfntds

$tmk` fe Mbbct- tf r`gfnsmb`r ftd`rwms` cet`r td` wcmtmni$Mbbct- p`rmfb td`y wmaa j` s`pcrct`b. Nfwcbcys! p`fpa` tdmnl

tdct bmvfrg` gcn fnay j` imv`n tdr`` tmk`s sf td`y td`ksàv`s

`mtd`r imv` bmvfrg` tdr`` tmk`s fr wrmt` tdr`` bmvfrg`s mn erfnt

fe c acwy`r fr gfkkmssmfn`r fe fctds $Rdr`` bmvfrg`s kcl`s

td` bmvfrg` emnca cnb nfn+r`v`rsmja`-. Yd`n td`y r`cams` tdct

td`y dcv` imv`n tdr`` bmvfrg`s cnb tdct td` kcrrmci` ms nfw

fv`r td`y pcnmg cnb gfk` runnmni tf Wgdfacrs $Kuetms- cnb

csl efr td` k`tdfb tf r`v`rs` td` bmvfrg`. Rd`y `v`n j`gfk`

wmaamni tf gcrry fut td` $mngfrr`gt- efrk fe Dcacacd `v`n

tdfuid tdms efrk fe Dcacacd dcs j``n gurs`b jy ZcsffaCaacd

. Dfw`v`r! mn frb`r tf try cnb scv` td`mr gdmabr`n erfk

kms`ry cnb scv` td`ksàv`s erfk ftd`r `vmas! jftd pcrtm`s cr`

wmaamni tf r`gfngma` ct cny gfst.

Surcnmg Gfb` efr L``pmni Zàctmfnsdmps Mntcgt

Caacd Rccac stct`s8


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J IZ...cnb td` wfk`n erfk wdfk yfu e`cr bmsfj`bm`ng`! $ct

emrst- cbvms` td`k cnb $td`n- bf nft gfdcjmt wmtd td`k! cnb

$acstay- j`ct td`k $amidtay-< td`n me td`y fj`y yfu! bf nfts``l tf bf mnhustmg` tf td`k< mnb``b Caacd ms Wupr`k`! Ir`ct.

Cnb me yfu e`cr c bmsput` j`tw``n dusjcnb cnb wme`! s`nb

cn crjmtrctfr erfk td` kcns eckmay cnb cn crjmtrctfr erfk

td` wfkcns eckmay< me td`s` twf wmsd r`gfngmamctmfn! Caacd

wmaa unmt` td`k< mnb``b Caacd ms Caa Lnfwmni! Yàa Cwcr`.

$Wurcd Nmscc U`rs`s 72+70-

Mn gfkk`ntctmni fn td`s` v`rs`s! Dczrct Caackc _``rKudckkcb Lcrck Wdcd Czdcrm wrmt`s8

Cafni wmtd kcny iffb nctur`b wfk`n td`r` cr` casf sfk`

wfk`n wdf dcv` c v`ry dft t`kp`r cnb t`kp`rck`nt cnb

td`s` v`rs`s t`cgd td` k`tdfb fe trymni tf rèfrk td`k.

Bmsfj`bm`ng` d`r` k`cns wd`r` td` wme`! j`gcus` fe prmb`!

crrficng` cnb dctr`b! if`s cicmnst td` frb`rs fe td` dusjcnb.

E`cr bf`s nft k`cn suspmgmfn fr bfujt jut mt k`cnsgfkpa`t` g`rtcmnty $Surtcjm-. Rdms k`cns tdct me yfu cr`

gfkpa`tày g`rtcmn fe td`mr bmsfj`bm`ng` td`n bf nft afs`

gfntrfa fr yfur t`kp`r! jut rctd`r emrst gcakay `xpacmn tdmnis

tf td`k. Me tdms bf`s nft wfrl td`n bf nft sp`nb td` nmidts

wmtd td`k cnb bf nft tcal cjfut afv` cnb s`xuca ràctmfns

wmtd td`k. Rd` wfkcn wdf dcs sfk` vmrtu` cnb nfjmamty mn

d`r wmaa unbfujt`bay rèfrk d`rsàe ct tdms stci`. Dfw`v`r! me

tdms bf`s nft wfrl `mtd`r td`n yfu gcn j`ct d`r jut td` j`ctmni

sdfuab j` amidt cnb sdfuab nft j` dcrb `nfuid tdct mt wfuab

a`cv` kcrls fr jrums`s fn d`r jfby. Rd`r` ms eurtd`r

gacrmemgctmfn fn tdms erfk Dczrct Mjn` Cjjcs wdf ncrrct`s


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tdct me td` smtuctmfn ms sugd tdct yfu kust j`ct d`r td`n j`ct

d`r wmtd c Kmswcl fr smkmacr amidt tdmni. Nfwcbcys! kcny

minfrcnt p`fpa` j`ct td`mr wmv`s aml` cnmkcas< Msack bf`s nft

imv` cny sugd p`rkmssmfn wdctsf`v`r.

Me c wfkcn stfps d`r bèmcng` cnb j`gfk`s fj`bm`nt tf d`r

dusjcnb td`n mt ms `ss`ntmca efr dmk tf stfp j`mni fppr`ssmv`

cnb tr`ct d`r wmtd afv` cnb r`sp`gt. Rdms ms td` frb`r fe td`

Afrb Ydf ms td` Ir`ct`st fe caa cnb td` r`suats fe turnmni cwcy

erfk Dms frb`rs cr` `xtr`kày bcni`rfus.

Dfw`v`r! me td`mr èefrts cr` nft sugg`sseua cnb mt s``ks aml`

td` smtuctmfn wmaa fnay `nb mn bmvfrg` td`n td` dusjcnb cnb

wme` fr td`mr eckmam`s sdfuab gdffs` twf p`fpa` tf amst`n tf

jftd td`mr irm`vcng`s cnb dàp td`k emnb c sfautmfn. Me td`

bmsput` if`s tf gfurt td`n td` hubi` sdfuab nft dcstmay

bmssfav` td` kcrrmci`. Zctd`r d` sdfuab us` dms cutdfrmty tf

frb`r td`k tf try cnb emnb c sfautmfn. Me td` crjmtrctfrs cnb

hubi`s iumb` td`k smng`rày td`n td` iumbcng` fe Caacd Rccacwmaa unbfujt`bay j` wmtd td`k.

Cggfrbmni tf sfk` gfkk`ntctfrs td` wfrbs me td`s` twf

wmsd r`gfngmamctmfn k`cns tdct me td` dusjcnb cnb wme`

b`smr` r`gfngmamctmfn smng`rày td`n Caacd Rccac wmaa gr`ct` td`

k`cns efr td`k tf j` r`gfngma`b. $Rces``r Xmc+ua+Surcn Ufa 3_ci`s 72:+727-

Amkmt fe Bmvfrg`

Caacd Rccac stct`s8

c gb c Rdms typ` fe bmvfrg` ms up tf twmg`< td` wfkcn kust td`n

j` r`tcmn`b fn iffb t`rks...

$Wurcd Jcqcrcd U`rs` ::=-


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kclmni cppcr`nt dms mnt`ns` bmsaml` ms sf tdct dms efaafw`rs

wmaa try `v`rytdmni pfssmja` mn frb`r tf cvfmb bmvfrg`.

Mn sdfrt! bmvfrg` ms acweua jut ms `xtr`kày bmsaml`b jy CaacdRccac cnb Dms Jàfv`b _rfpd`t cnb wfrtdy fe wrctd cnb

cni`r. Rd`rèfr` jftd k`n cnb wfk`n sdfuab ctt`kpt tf stcy

fut fe td` tcri`t fe tdms wrctd cnb sdfuab try cnb sp`nb td`mr

amv`s cs `cgd ftd`rs gfv`rmnis cnb a`cb c dcppy! p`cgèua ame`.

@sp`gmcaay fng` Caacd Rccac dcs casf ircnt`b yfu gdmabr`n

j`gcus` cet`r gdmabr`n cr` jfrn td` pcr`nts amv`s cr` nft efr

td`ksàv`s! td`y cr` efr trcmnmni cnb iumbmni td`mr gdmabr`n.Yd`n`v`r c kcn fr c wfkcn tdmnls cjfut s`pcrctmfn td`y

sdfuab affl ct td`mr j`cutmeua gdmabr`n cnb tdmnl tdct me w`

s`pcrct` dfw wmaa td`s` gdmabr`n r`g`mv` fur hfmnt afv`. Rd`

p`cg` cnb sugg`sseua trcmnmni cnb iumbcng` fe gdmabr`n

b`p`nbs wdfaay fn r`g`mvmni hfmnt afv` erfk td`mr pcr`nts. Me

gdmabr`n cr` b`nm`b tdms hfmnt afv`! td`n rìcrba`ss fe dcvmni

`nfrkfus w`catd! tdms acgl fe afv` gcnnft j` gfkp`nsct`b efr

jy `mtd`r td` ectd`r fr kftd`r cafn`. Me tdms gfnsmb`rctmfn ms

l`pt ct td` efrèrfnt td`n td` tdfuidt fe bmvfrg` wmaa nft `nt`r

td` kmnb! td` dfk` gcn j` scv`b cnb td` gdmabr`ns eutur` wmaa

nft j` rumn`b. @xckmn` gafsày wdct td` Jàfv`b _rfpd`t

ms tàamni us.

Dcppmn`ss fe Wctcn

Dczrct Hccjmr ncrrct`s tdct ZcsffaCaacd scmb! Wctcn

pacg`s dms tdrfn` fn wct`r $`v`ry kfrnmni d` pacg`s dms

tdrfn` fn td` wct`r cnb fp`ns dms rìmst`r cnb imv`s dms

bmsgmpa`s td`mr butm`s efr tdct bcy-. Rd`n d` s`nbs tdms irfup

ckfnist p`fpa` mn frb`r tf gcus` cnb gr`ct` strme` cnb gfneamgt.

Mn td` `v`nmni td`y r`turn cnb ràct` `v`rytdmni tdct td`y bmb

burmni td` bcy. Rd`y caa b`sgrmj` td`mr bcy fn` jy fn` untma

fn` fe td`k scys! M bmb nft a`cv` sugd cnb sugd c p`rsfn

cafn` untma M kcb` sur` M gr`ct`b gfneamgt cnb bmscir``k`nt

j`tw``n dmk cnb dms wme`. Ppfn d`crmni tdms Wctcn td`


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cggurs`b ms fv`rhfy`b cnb duis tdms bmsgmpa` fe dms cnb scys!

]fu dcv` bfn` r`caay wàa. $Kusamk Wdcr`è-

Me tdms gfneamgt gcus`s bmvfrg` td`n mt ms jcb jut me mt gcus`ss`pcrctmfn wmtdfut bmvfrg` mt ms `v`n wfrs` j`gcus` tdct

kcl`s mt kfr` amlày efr td`k tf j`gfk` `kjrfma`b mn eurtd`r

smns cnb bmsfj`bm`ng`. N`v`rtdà`ss! Wctcn ms `xtr`kày dcppy

wmtd tdfs` fe dms bmsgmpa`s wdf gcus` ermgtmfn j`tw``n c

dusjcnb cnb wme`. Dcv` yfu `v`r tdfuidt cjfut wdy tdms ms6

Mt ms j`gcus` d` dcs lmaa`b kcny jmrbs wmtd fn` stfn`. D` dcs

jrfl`n td` ràctmfnsdmp tdct wcs hfmn`b tfi`td`r jy Wdcrmcd!d` dcs kcb` mt `csm`r tf t`kpt td` kcn cnb wfkcn tf gfkkmt

smn! td` ràctmfnsdmp j`tw``n td` twf eckmam`s dcs j``n

b`strfy`b cs td`y cr` nfw `n`km`s cnb nft fnay cr` td`

gdmabr`ns eutur`s rumn`b jut td`r` ms nfw kfr` amlàmdffb fe

td`k j`gfkmni kmsgdm`vfus cnb trfuja`sfk`. Rd` kfr` yfu

tdmnl cjfut mt! td` r`csfn efr Wctcn j`mni sf dcppy wmaa

j`gfk` kfr` cnb kfr` cppcr`nt.

Me c dusjcnb cnb wme` criu`! `v`n me mt ms `v`ry bcy! mt ms nf jmi

b`ca cs tdms ms dukcn nctur` cnb dcpp`ns caa td` tmk` jut cs

sffn cs td` tdfuidt fe bmvfrg` `nt`rs td` kmnb burmni cn

criuk`nt! r`cams` tdct Wctcn dcs nfw ift mnvfav`b mn td`

criuk`nt. Jèfr` d` gcn j` sugg`sseua mn dms cmk! r`gmt` gurs`

fn dmk $Ac Dcwac- cnb `nb td` criuk`nt cnb scv` yfur fwn

cnb yfur gdmabr`ns eutur`s erfk j`mni rumn`b.

Bmvfrg` Imv`n mn Cni`r

Z`k`kj`r tdct Wctcn us`s td` dàp fe cni`r mn frb`r tf gr`ct`

ermgtmfn! criuk`nts cnb bmvmsmfns. D` lmnba`s td` emr` cnb td`

criuk`nt stcrts. Cs td` emr` rci`s td` criuk`nt i`ts wfrs`.

Zìcrba`ss fe wd`td`r td` wfkcn csls efr c bmvfrg` fr nft!

td` kcn scys td` wfrb bmvfrg`. Cs sffn cs td`mr cni`rsujsmb`s! td`y jftd r`cams` wdct td`y dcv` bfn` cnb if

runnmni tf Wgdfacrs $Kuetms- mn frb`r tf emnb c sfautmfn. Rd`y

tdmnl tdct j`gcus` td` bmvfrg` wcs imv`n mn cni`r mt ms nft

vcamb. Me td`y tdfuidt cjfut mt efr c kfk`nt td`y wfuab r`cams`


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dfw maafimgca cnb stupmb td`mr tdmnlmni ms. Nf fn` stcjs fr

sdffts c p`rsfn wmtd afv`. Yd`n cni`r cnb dctr`b r`cgd`s mts

d`midt td` w`cpfn ms emr`b. Zìcrba`ss fe wd`td`r c juaa`t ms

emr`b wmtd afv`! dcppmn`ss fr cni`r! mt wmaa cawcys bf wdct mt ms

b`smin`b tf bf cnb tdct ms tf lmaa. Bmvfrg` ms aml` c juaa`t tf td`

ràctmfnsdmp fe kcrrmci` cnb rìcrba`ss fe dfw mt ms emr`b! mt

wmaa tcl` td` ame` fe tdms ràctmfnsdmp. Cni`r ms minmt`b! td`

juaa`t ms emr`b cnb td` ràctmfnsdmp ms b`strfy`b. Me fnay fn` fr

twf juaa`ts wfuab j` emr`b td`r` wfuab j` sfk` rffk tf emx

td` wfunb cnb jrmni td` ràctmfnsdmp jcgl tf d`catd.

Dfw`v`r! Wctcn ms c v`ry gruà `n`ky cnb cawcys kcl`s sur`tdct caa tdr`` juaa`ts cr` emr`b mn frb`r tf tcl` td` ame` fe jftd

td` dusjcnb cnb wme`. Rd` Wgdfacrs nfw bf nft dcv` cny

k`bmgmn` wmtd wdmgd tf imv` ame` jcgl cnb `v`n me td`y bf dcv`

td` k`bmgmn`! mt ms sf jmtt`r tdct nf sàe r`sp`gtmni p`rsfn ms

wmaamni tf brmnl mt. Rdms ms wdy td` Wdcrmcd dcs kcb` cni`r

unacweua cnb wdy ZcsffaCaacd frb`r`b us tf stcy cwcy

erfk cni`r mn frb`r tf sceìucrb fursàv`s erfk mts bckcimnièe`gts.

Dczrct Cju Durcmrcd ncrrct`s tdct fn fn` fggcsmfn

ZcsffaCaacd scmb r`p`ct`bay! Bf nft j`gfk` cniry! bf

nft j`gfk` cniry. Rd`n d` cbb`b! C strfni p`rsfn ms nft

td` p`rsfn wdf tdrfws dms fppfn`nt tf td` irfunb. C strfni

p`rsfn ms td` p`rsfn wdf gfntcmns dmksàe wd`n d` ms cniry.

Dfw w`cl ms tdct p`rsfn wdfs` em`ry cni`r s`t emr` tf dmsdfus` cnb d` ms uncja` tf put fut td` emr`. Zìcrba`ss fe tdms! me

c p`rsfn imv`s bmvfrg` mn cni`r td` bmvfrg` ms vcamb cnb

cppam`s.

Cafni wmtd kcny gfkefrtmni imets! kcrrmci` $Nmlcd- casf

imv`s c kcn c v`ry b`strugtmv` w`cpfn. C wms` p`rsfn ms d`

wdf kcl`s us` fe td` gfkefrtmni imets mn frb`r tf kcl` dms ame`

r`steua! pa`csmni cnb s`gur` cnb puts td` b`strugtmv` w`cpfn

mn c gfrn`r fe td` dfus` cnb efri`ts cjfut mt.

Gfkpuasfry tf Bmvfrg`


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Wfk`tmk`s mt ms gfkpuasfry $Ychmj- cnb `ss`ntmca tf us` td`

w`cpfn fe bmvfrg` cnb t`rkmnct` td` ràctmfnsdmp. Efr

`xckpa`! me td` kcn ms jfrn mkpft`nt fr j`gcus` fe jacgl+

kcimg fr sfk` ftd`r maan`ss d` ms uncja` tf p`refrk s`xuca

ràctmfns cnb sctmsey dms wme`! cnb mt bf`s nft s``k cs tdfuid

d` wmaa j` gur`b! td`n td` kcn dmksàe sdfuab bmvfrg` dms wme`

cnb er`` d`r j`gcus` mn tdms smtuctmfn td` gdcng`s fe td`

wfkcn gfkkmttmni smn ms ir`ctay mngr`cs`b. @v`n me td`

wfkcn ms c v`ry pmfus wfkcn! d`r ame` $wmtd sugd c kcn- wmaa

stmaa nft j` p`cgèua cnb td` wcy c kcrrm`b dfk` sdfuab j`. Me

c kcn bf`s nft er`` td` wme` mn tdms smtuctmfn td`n d` ms iumatyfe j`mni fppr`ssmv` cnb kclmni tdmnis bmeemguat efr dms wme`! fr

wmaa j` iumaty fe pusdmni d`r mntf gfkkmttmni cgts fe smn cnb

jftd fe td`s` grmk`s cr` ir`ct smns. Mn frb`r tf scv` dmksàe

erfk td`s` smns d` sdfuab bmvfrg` dms wme`.

Mt dcs j``n stct`b tdct mt ms j`tt`r cnb kfr` prè`rr`b tf

bmvfrg` mn sfk` smtuctmfns. Efr `xckpa`! me td` wfkcn bf`s

nft p`refrk Wcacd! fr irm`v`s d`r mn acws cnb eckmay k`kj`rs!

fr dct`s td`k cnb bf`s nft aml` tf `v`n s`` td`k! fr ms efrg`b

mntf tdms kcrrmci` cnb sd` ms cttrcgt`b tf sfk`fn` às`! fr sd`

ms bmsdfn`st wmtd dms w`catd cnb prfp`rty. Mn caa td`s` cnb

smkmacr smtuctmfns mt ms j`tt`r tf bmvfrg` sugd c wfkcn cnb er``

yfursàe erfk td` dcrkeua cnb bckcimni èe`gts fe d`r cgtmfns.

Dfw`v`r! tdms sdfuab fnay j` bfn` cet`r caa Msackmg cnb

sfgm`tca k`tdfbs fe rèfrkmni cnb gfrr`gtmni d`r dcv` ecma`b.

C smkmacr mngmb`nt wcs pr`s`nt`b mn td` gfurt fe ZcsffaCaacd

wd`n Dcjmjc jmnt` Wcdca! wdf wcs td` wme` fe Rdccjmt jmn

Scms ! gck` cnb csl`b efr s`pcrctmfn $Lduac- erfk dmk cs

d` wcs nft v`ry dcnbsfk`! wcs sdfrt cnb bcrl wdmast Dczrct

Dcjmjc! wdf wcs td` smst`r fe Cjbuaacd jmn Pjcm! wcs tcaa cnb

v`ry j`cutmeua. Rd`rèfr` sd` bmb nft emnb Dczrct Rdccjmt

cttrcgtmv` cnb gck` tf ZcsffaCaacd cnb scmb! M bf nft

dcv` cny prfja`k wmtd Rdccjmts gdcrcgt`r fr dms pm`ty cs d` ms

c v`ry nmg` cnb ràmimfus p`rsfn. Dfw`v`r! M bf nft wcnt

mnembàmty tf `nt`r ky ràmimfn k`cnmni M bf nft wcnt tf prcms`


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dmk wmtd ky tfniu` jut bf nft afv` dmk mn ky d`crt. Rdms ms

b`g`ptmfn wdmgd ms nft caafw`b mn Msack! cnb td`rèfr` pa`cs`

csl dmk tf bmvfrg` k`. Ppfn d`crmni tdms ZcsffaCaacd

bmb nft bmspacy ir`ct cni`r jut d` csl`b! Ymaa yfu r`turn td`

frgdcrb tf Rdccjmt tdct d` icv` yfu cs K`dr6 Wd` r`pam`b

tdct sd` wfuab. ZcsffaCaacd gcaa`b Dczrct Rdccjmt cnb

scmb! Rdccjmt tcl` tdms frgdcrb fe yfurs cnb imv` d`r fn`

bmvfrg`. Dczrct Rdccjmt bmb cs d` wcs frb`r`b cnb icv`

d`r fn` bmvfrg`.

Rdms mngmb`nt kcl`s mt ga`cr tdct me td`r` ms nf afv` j`tw``n cdusjcnb cnb wme` cnb td`y bf nft aml`! afv` fr emnb `cgd ftd`r

cttrcgtmv`! td`n rctd`r tdcn efrg` td`k tf sp`nb td`mr amv`s

tfi`td`r! mt ms j`tt`r efr td`k tf s`pcrct` cnb mn tdms smtuctmfn

td`y sdfuab bmvfrg`.

Mbbct $Ycmtmni _`rmfb-

Mbbct k`cns tf gcaguact` cnb gfunt. Mn Msackmg acw Mbbct ms td`gfuntmni cnb gcaguactmni fe td` bcys j`tw``n fn` Nmlcd

`nbmni cnb cnftd`r Nmlcd j`mni p`rkmssmja`. Mt ms efrjmbb`n tf

p`refrk kcrrmci` burmni td` bcys fe Mbbct cnb mt ms nft aml`b

tf `v`n tcal cjfut fr pr`pcr` efr kcrrmci` burmni td`s` bcys.

Mbbct ms fnay efr wfk`n cnb nft efr k`n j`gcus` td` cmk fe

Mbbct ms tf `nsur` td` wfkcn ms nft prìncnt cnb `nsurmni

td`r` ms nf gfneusmfn cs tf wdf td` ectd`r ms me sd` ms prìncnt.Rd` a`nitd fe Mbbct efr c prìncnt wfkcn ms untma sd` imv`s

jmrtd cnb cs sffn cs sd` imv`s jmrtd d`r Mbbct ms fv`r. Rdms

fjvmfusay fnay cee`gts wfk`n cnb bf`s nft cee`gt k`n.

Dfw`v`r! me c kcn wcnts tf kcrry c wfkcn wdf d` ms nft

caafw`b tf kcrry wdmast j`mni kcrrm`b tf dms gurr`nt wme` $m.`.

d`r smst`r! nm`g`! cunt `tg- td`n d` kust bmvfrg` dms gurr`nt

wme`! wcmt untma d`r Mbbct ms fv`r cnb td`n d` gcn kcrry dms

n`w wme`. Rdms ms j`gcus` burmni td` Mbbct p`rmfb td`y cr` stmaa

gfnsmb`r`b kcrrm`b cnb gcn r`gfngma` cnb td`rèfr` kcrrymni

dms n`w wme` burmni tdms tmk` wmaa k`cn d` ms kcrrm`b tf td`k

jftd ct td` sck` tmk` cnb tdms ms nft caafw`b.


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Ryp`s fe Mbbct

Rd`r` cr` tdr`` typ`s fe Mbbct8

3. Mbbct cet`r b`ctd K`cnmni td` Mbbct fe td` wfkcn

wdfs` dusjcnb dcs pcss`b cwcy cnb sd` ms nfw c

wmbfw. D`r Mbbct ms efur kfntds cnb t`n bcys.

:. Mbbct cet`r bmvfrg` wdmgd ms tdr`` k`nstruca gyga`s

rìcrba`ss fe wd`td`r td` wfkcn ms fe cn ci` wd`r` sd`

dcs rìuacr k`nstruca gyga`s fr dcs pcss`b td` ci` fe

k`nfpcus` wdmgd ms cpprfxmkctày 00 y`crs fe ci`.

7. Mbbct fe c prìncnt wfkcn ms cs sffn cs td` gdmab ms jfrn

rìcrba`ss fe wd`td`r tdct ms rmidt cet`r bmvfrg` dcs j``n

imv`n fr sfk` bcys fr w``ls cet`r tdct. Rd`r` ms nf Mbbct

efr c wfkcn wdf ms bmvfrg`b jèfr` s`xuca ràctmfns dcv`

tcl`n pacg`.

Y` dcv` j``n frb`r`b tdrfuid ZcsffaCaacd tf tdmnl

cjfut td` wfkcns Mbbct jèfr` bmvfrgmni d`r. Rdms k`cns

tdct bmvfrg` sdfuab j` imv`n wd`n sd` ms pur` cnb s`xuca

ràctmfns dcv` nft tcl`n pacg` wmtd d`r sf tdct d`r bcys fe

Mbbct cr` nft a`nitd`n`b cnb sd` bf`s nft dcv` tf wcmt afni`r

mn frb`r tf i`t r`kcrrm`b. Caacd Rccac dcs stct`b8

I R R Pk IP F Jàfv`b _rfpd`t# Yd`n yfu p`fpa` bmvfrg` wfk`n!

bmvfrg` td`k ct td` tmk` fe td`mr gfkpa`tmni td` cppfmnt`b

p`rmfb! cnb l``p gfunt fe td` cppfmnt`b p`rmfb...

$Wurcd Rcaccq U`rs` 3-

Mt ms c ir`ct ja`ssmni fe Msackmg acw tdct mt cmks tf r`kfv`

bmeemguatm`s efr wfk`n jy frb`rmni k`n tf `nsur` tdct me td`ymnt`nb tf bmvfrg` td`mr wmv`s! l``p mntf cggfunt td`mr Mbbct

cnb bmvfrg` td`k ct c tmk` wd`n td`y wmaa dcv` td` sdfrt`st

tmk` tf wcmt tf r`kcrry. Cs dcs j``n k`ntmfn`b `cram`r! tdms

k`cns bmvfrg` td`k mn td` bcys wd`n td`y cr` pur` $nft


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k`nstructmni- cnb yfu dcv` nft dcb s`xuca ràctmfns wmtd

td`k. Me td`y cr` bmvfrg`b burmni tdms tmk` td`n td`y wmaa fnay

dcv` tf wcmt efr tdr`` k`nstruca gyga`s. Bu` tf td` ecgt tdct

Mbbct ms v`ry mkpfrtcnt mn Msackmg acw Caacd Rccac sp`gmemgcaay

frb`rs us tf l``p gfunt fe td` bcys fe Mbbct cnb nft tf kcl`

c kmstcl` mn gcaguactmni td`k. Efr tdfs` wfk`n wdf cr` pcst

td` ci` fe k`nfpcus` $bf nft dcv` k`nstruca p`rmfbs cnb ms

ct cpprfxmkctày 00 y`crs fe ci`- fr tdfs` yfuni`r wfk`n

wdf efr wdct`v`r r`csfn bf nft dcv` rìuacr k`nstruca

p`rmfbs td` a`nitd fe Mbbct ms k`ntmfn`b cs efaafws8

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I Cnb efr tdfs` fe yfur wfk`n wdf dcv` nf dfp` fe

k`nstructmfn! me yfu bfujt! td` cppfmnt`b p`rmfb ms tdr``

kfntds + cnb casf efr tdfs` wdf dcv` nft y`t dcbk`nstructmfn


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Cnb tdfs` ckfni yfu wdf bm` a`cvmni wmv`s j`dmnb td`k!

td`n sugd wmbfws sdcaa r`strcmn td`ksàv`s efr efur kfntds

cnb t`n bcys... $Wurcd Jcqcrcd U`rs` :72-

Z`spfnsmjmamtm`s fe td` Dusjcnb Burmni Mbbct

C kcn bf`s nft dcv` td` cutdfrmty fr pfw`r tf csl dms wme` tf

a`cv` td`mr dfk` jèfr` td` Mbbct p`rmfb ms fv`r sf tdct mt ms

`csy efr td`k me td`y b`gmb` cnb wmsd tf r`gfngma`.

Cbbmtmfncaay! td`r` cr` kfr` gdcng`s fe td`k r`gfngmamni me

td`y cr` amvmni mn td` sck` dfus` cs td`y wmaa j` s``mni cnbtcalmni tf `cgd ftd`r rìuacray cnb td` mssu`s tdct a`b tf td`

bmvfrg` kcy j` r`sfav`b jy td`ksàv`s cnb td`y kcy b`gmb`

tf r`kcmn tfi`td`r cnb amv` dcrkfnmfusay. Rdms ms td` wmsbfk

j`dmnb frb`rmni td` kcn tf caafw dms wme` tf r`kcmn mn td`mr

dfk` burmni td` Mbbct p`rmfb cs Msack b`smr`s tdct td`

kcrrmci` sdfuab r`kcmn mntcgt me ct caa pfssmja`. Rd` Dfay

Surcn stct`s8

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RZ@P Q # ...bf nft `xpà td`k erfk td`mr dfus`s burmni td`

cppfmnt`b p`rmfb nfr sdfuab td`y a`cv` fn td`mr fwn! una`ss

td`y jrmni cjfut sfk` kctt`r fe jactcnt a`wbn`ss... $Wurcd

Rcaccq U`rs` 3-

Dfw`v`r! cs c r`suat fe td` bmvfrg`! me td` wfkcn ms

tfrk`ntmni fr cjusmni td` eckmay k`kj`rs! bmsr`sp`gtmni d`r

dusjcnb! usmni efua cnb cjusmv` acniuci` cnb i`n`rcaay

bmsruptmni td` p`cg` fe td` dfk` td`n mn caa td`s` mnstcng`s mt

ms p`rkmssmja` tf efrg` d`r tf a`cv` td` dfk` cnb mt ms cgtucaay

j`tt`r tf bf sf. Caacd Rccac stct`s8

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yfur k`cns! cnb bf nft dcrcss td`k tf kcl` mt bmeemguat

upfn td`k< cnb me td`y cr` pr`incnt! imv` td`k td`

prfvmsmfn tmaa td`y b`amv`r td`mr jurb`n< td`n me td`y sugla`

td` gdmab efr yfu! pcy td`k mts bu`< cnb gfnsuat wmtd `cgdftd`r mn c r`csfncja` kcnn`r< cnb me yfu gr`ct` dcrbsdmp efr

fn` cnftd`r! td` gdmab wmaa i`t cnftd`r jr`cst e``bmni nurs`.

Ydf`v`r dcs td` gcpcgmty kust imv` prfvmsmfns cggfrbmni tf

dms k`cns< cnb td` fn` wdfs` sust`ncng` ms r`strmgt`b upfn

dmk! kust imv` prfvmsmfns erfk wdct Caacd dcs imv`n dmk

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