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ASHBURTON ANTI-BULLYING PTA NIGHT
November 3, 2009Andrea Gillespie
Ashburton School Counselor
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What Do All These People Have in Common???
Tom Cruise, Famous Actor
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What Do All These People Have in Common???
Hillary Clinton, Senator of New York
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What Do All These People Have in Common???
Michael Phelps, many time Olympic champion
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What Do All These People Have in Common???
Tiger Woods, #1 Golfer in The World
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What Do All These People Have in Common???
Tyra Banks, Model
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ALL OF THEM WERE BULLIED AS CHILDREN!!!
• Bullying can happen to anyone. It is not something to be ashamed of, and you do not need to be afraid to ask for help
• Being bullied does not make you less of a person. People who are bullied can grow up to be the most talented, intelligent, athletic, and beautiful people in the world
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What do Bullies Look like??
CLOSE YOUR EYES
TRY TO IMAGINE A BULLY IN YOUR HEAD
WHAT DO THEY LOOK LIKE?WHAT ARE THEY DOING?
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Which one is the bully??
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Bullies can be anyone
Boys or girls Older or Younger
Big or small Fast or slow
Any variety of interests
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Was your bully doing something like this…
• Beating someone up
• Shoving someone in a locker
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What about this????
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People often think of bullying as something physical but…
• Bullying can include physical
aggression (wedgies, stuffing in lockers)• Bullying can be verbal (name calling, teasing,
threatening)• Bullying can be social/emotional (gossiping,
rumors, exclusion)• Cyberbullying can be done without even having
another person around!!!!!!!
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Being bullied can affect your body and your mind
• Bullying can make kids feel sick, have trouble sleeping, feel hopeless, feel fearful, have trouble concentrating
• Physical wounds can heal, but emotional scars can last a lifetime!
• ACTIVITY WITH BARBIE
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Ok, So How Can I Deal With a Bully?
• POSITIVE VS. NEGATIVE WAYS TO DEAL WITH A BULLY
• Good body language
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Getting adult help
• Many children do not report bullying to school staff, but our teachers, counselor, recess aides, and administrators are all here to help
• An Ashburton survey found that 95% of kids felt that teachers and other adults helped them if they were bullied, 96% of students knew how to get help if they were bullied, and 97% of kids felt safe at school.
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Think about it…
• Imagine that you see someone who is being bullied on the playground.
• Stand up if you think you would help that person
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Who really helps?
A National Study asked the questions, “What do you do when you see a student being bullied?
• 38%, Nothing, it’s not my business
• 27%, I don’t do anything, but I think I should help
• 35%, I try to help
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BYSTANDERS
• Bystanders can spur the bully on or stop the bullying
• A study found that when onlookers acted, 57% of bullying incidences stopped within ten seconds
• You may not be the bully or be the one being bullied but laughing, watching, egging the bully on, or not reporting bullying can make you guilty too!
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What are we already doing?
Classroom Guidance lessons on bullying/teasingPeacemakers Peer Mediation Program
Bullying Reporting/Follow UpYMCA Youth and Family Services
Call to the counselor formsPTA Involvement
TQ stars/TQ raffle systemIndividual counseling
Town Meetings
http://stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/kids/
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Let’s Share…
Let’s Make a Parents and Children
Together (P.A.C.T) Against Bullying!