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Physical Attractiveness
• According to research, physical attractiveness is a key factor when considering a potential romantic or sexual partner.
• Attraction: forces and factors that draw people together.
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Is beauty in the eye of the beholder?
• Cultural standards for physical attractiveness exist…what are they?
• Fact vs. Fiction.
• Ex. Across many cultures, some facial features are associated with beauty…
• How do we define physical attractiveness?
• Is our interpretation of physical attractiveness related to our life experiences?
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What about nonphysical traits?
• A person’s attractiveness or “beauty” may be enhanced by such traits as familiarity, liking, respect, and sharing of values and goals.
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Gender Roles…Attractiveness?
• Gender-role perceptions affect perceptions of physical attractiveness.
• People who act consistent with gender-role expectations typically are viewed as more attractive.
• People’s names affect perceptions of attractiveness..• Matthew vs. Slyvester
• Christine vs. Gertrude
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What about long-term relationships?
• Physical attractiveness is not the most important quality sought for long-term relationships.
• Physical attractiveness is most important for a sexual relationship.• Women seek partners with the following qualities:
• Intelligence, stability, vocation status, earning potential, expressiveness, kindness, consideration, dependability, fondness for children.
• Men seek partners with the following qualities:• Youth, attractiveness, cooking ability, frugality
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Evolutionary Perspective
• Certain traits provide reproductive advantages:• Women are valued for reproductive potential
• Youth and physical attraction may be markers
• Men are valued as providers
• Factors such as reliability, income indicate stability
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Attraction-Similarity Hypothesis
• The view that people tend to develop romantic relationships with people who are similar to themselves in factors such as physical attractiveness, cultural background, personality traits, and interests.
• Exceptions occur when lack of attractiveness is compensated for by other factors.
• Matching can apply to similarity in ethnicity, age, educational level and religion.
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Who is right for you?
• Do opposites attract?
• Do birds of a feather flock together?
• Similarity in attitudes is important to attraction.
• Propinquity: (nearness) we tend to live near those who are similar to us in many ways.
• Similarity is more important to women than to men.
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Reciprocity
• Mutual exchange of feelings and behaviors.
• Potent determinant of attraction.
• Reciprocating positive words or actions can stoke mild feelings into strong feelings of attraction.
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Love
• Romantic Love:• Western culture idealizes the concept of romantic love.
• In the U.S, most people believe romantic love is a prerequisite for marriage or other kinds of long-term or permanent relationships.
• Romantic love involves emotional highs and lows.
• Women may justify sexual activity with love, but men do not need to attribute love to sex urges and behavior.
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Infatuation
• A state of intense absorption in or focus on another person.• Usually involves sexual desire, elation, general physiological arousal or
excitement (passion)• At first, difficult to differentiate from ore enduring forms of love.• As times passes, begin to view more realistically.• Can be passing fancy, may develop into more enduring relationship.• Not necessarily a first step to lasting, mutual love.
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Contemporary Models of Love
• Biological Mechanisms:• Bodily changes occur when we experiences feelings of love.
• Brain chemistry stimulates pleasure center.
• Hormones stimulate physiological responses.
• Heightened levels of nerve growth factors increase awareness.
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Steinberg’s Triangular Theory of Love
• Intimacy: • Feelings of closeness, bondedness, and connectedness.• Desire to share one’s innermost thoughts with the other.• Desire to give and receive emotional support.
• Passion:• Intense romantic or sexual desire for another person, which is accompanied by physiological
arousal.
• Commitment:• Commitment to maintain the relationship despite potential hardships.
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Consummate Love =
A complete loveIntimacy + Passion +
Commitment
Intimacy
Passion Commitment