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Communicating across cultures – an interpersonal approach Bob Dignen, York Associates Annual IATEFL Besig Conference Stuttgart, Germany 16 - 18 November 2012
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Developing focus of BELT
Linguistic
Situational
Intercultural
Interpersonal
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• Exchanging relevant information
• Building relationships • Creating a network (mobilisation potential) • Developing trust
• Deciding what to do (in groups) • Influencing
• Managing conflict • Giving / Getting feedback
• Enabling group performance (I,you,we)
Why do people communicate in business?
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1. Understand the skill (using ‘scoping’ questions) 2. Reflect on example of skill (via DVD dramatised sequences)
3. Identify ‘best practice’ or guidelines
4. Practise in English (followed by feedback) 5. Transfer to the workplace with a clear action plan
A way to train interpersonal skills (DVD)
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• What is feedback? • What are the challenges of giving feedback? • How (well) is feedback practised in your company?
Feedback – scoping question(s)
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An example of feedback - 1
• What do you think about the feedback given by
Rachel to Gabriele during a meeting?
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An example of feedback - 2
• Look at the next sequence. How well does everyone
react to the feedback given?
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An example of feedback - 3
• Look at how Rachel handles the second part of
the meeting. What do you think of her use of
feedback this time? Why?
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Go and get it
• Be curious and invite feedback on different aspects of your behaviour. • … • …
Give it sensitively
• Comment on things done well, not just areas for improvement. • … • …
Best practice guidelines
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Go and get it • Be curious and invite feedback on different aspects of your behaviour. • Accept the feedback as information - it is the view of the person giving it. • Avoid arguing, denying or justifying as it prevents you from really listening.
Limit your comments to clarifying details and identifying examples. Reflect! • Choose what you want to do with the feedback - accept it, reject it or accept it
in part. • Where you feel the feedback is relevant and accurate, formulate a plan to
address the issues raised.
Give it sensitively • Comment on things done well, not just areas for improvement. • Focus on observed behaviour. • Explain consequences of behaviours (what you saw and felt). • Ask questions to stimulate discussion and self-reflection (don’t judge / label). • Help to move person to actions which make a difference. • Finish positively.
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Practice giving and getting feedback
• Find two partners. Invite one partner to give you feedback,
e.g. on your communication style. • Ask the other person to observe the feedback being given. • Work through the IRCA model in around 10 minutes.
• Then stop and invite the observer to give feedback to both of you. (Focus on what was said and how it was said)
• Finally, both give feedback to the observer on their feedback. • Repeat the exercise
Invite Receive Clarify
Address
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Feedback on communication style
Achievement People
Long Short
Harmony Truth
Systematic Organic
Complex Simple
Formal Informal
Active listener Silent listener
Analytically-oriented Action-focused
Practical Ideas
Risks Opportunities
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Action planning
Actions
What am I going to do?
With whom?
By when?
How will I measure success?
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Where are we going?
Linguistic
Situational
Intercultural
Interpersonal
TEAM
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Testing your feedback skills
• Watch Rachel chairing a meeting. What feedback
would you give on her facilitation skills?