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STROKE IS ANUNIT OF HUMAN

RECOGNITION.

STROKE IS ANUNIT OF HUMAN

RECOGNITION.

STROKE IS

PSYCHOLOGICAL

OXYGEN.

STROKE IS

PSYCHOLOGICAL

OXYGEN.

STROKE IS AN EXPRESSED

FORM OF LOVE OR

STROKE IS AN EXPRESSED

FORM OF LOVE OR

H A T EH A T E

STROKES CAN EITHER BE

PHYSICAL AND NON PHYSICAL.OR VERBAL AND

NON VERBAL.

STROKES CAN BE BOTH

POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE.

POSITIVE STROKES BRING PEACE

AND HAPPINESS

TO BOTH THE GIVER AND THE RECEIVER.

POSITIVE STROKEHEALS THE WOUNDS,

MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.

HELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN

TALENTS.PERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMS

AND CHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS GOALS.

GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM TO

RAISE UP AGAIN.

POSITIVE STROKEHEALS THE WOUNDS,

MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.

HELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN

TALENTS.PERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMS

AND CHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS GOALS.

GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM TO

RAISE UP AGAIN.

POSITIVE STROKEHELAS THE WOUNDS,

MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT

THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.

POSITIVE STROKEHELAS THE WOUNDS,

MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT

THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.

POSITIVE STROKEHELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE

HITHER TO UNKNOWN

HIDDEN TALENTS.

POSITIVE STROKEHELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE

HITHER TO UNKNOWN

HIDDEN TALENTS.

POSITIVE STROKEPERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMSAND CHANNELIZES

HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS

GOALS.

POSITIVE STROKEPERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMSAND CHANNELIZES

HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS

GOALS.

POSITIVE STROKE

GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE

FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM

TO RISE UP AGAIN.

POSITIVE STROKE

GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE

FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM

TO RISE UP AGAIN.

POSITIVE STROKEMAKES PEOPLE:

RELAXED,TRUSTING AND TRUSTWORTHY,

LOVING AND LOVABLE,JOYFUL AND POWERFUL,

ENERGETIC AND ENTHUSIASTIC,CHALLENGING AND CREATIVE.

FREES PEOPLE FROM ALL KINDS OF ADDICTION.

IN A NUT SHELL POSITIVE STROKE

MAKES PEOPLE RESPONSIBLE,

PROACTIVEAND

OPTIMIST.

NEGATIVE STROKEMAKES BOTH THEGIVER AND THE

RECEIVERWOUNDED HURTAND DISEASED.

NEGATIVE STROKE

DESTROYS THE SELF WORTH OF THE RECEIVER.

NEGATIVE STROKE

DESTROYS THE SELF WORTH OF THE RECEIVER.

NEGATIVE STROKE

CONDITIONS PEOPLE TO REACT TO THE

EXTERNAL SITUATIONS BECAUSE OF THE

UNHEALED INTERNAL WOUNDS.

NEGATIVE STROKE

CONDITIONS PEOPLE TO REACT TO THE

EXTERNAL SITUATIONS BECAUSE OF THE

UNHEALED INTERNAL WOUNDS.

NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES

A FALSE SELF IN THE GIVER WHICH IN

TURN CREATES A PSEUDO HAPPINESS

AND POWER IN THE GIVER.


A FALSE SELF IN THE GIVER WHICH IN

TURN CREATES A PSEUDO HAPPINESS

AND POWER IN THE GIVER.


A FALSE SELF IN THE RECEIVER

WHICH IN TURN MAKES HIM UNHAPPY,

POWERLESS AND BOUND.


A FALSE SELF IN THE RECEIVER

WHICH IN TURN MAKES HIM UNHAPPY,

POWERLESS AND BOUND.

STROKES CAN BE

UNCONDITIONALOR

CONDITIONAL.

STROKES CAN BE

UNCONDITIONALOR

CONDITIONAL.

UNCONDITIONALSTROKES ARE

GIVEN FOR ONE’S

BEING.

UNCONDITIONALSTROKES ARE

GIVEN FOR ONE’S

BEING.

CONDITIONALSTROKES ARE GIVENFOR ONE’S

DOING.

CONDITIONALSTROKES ARE GIVENFOR ONE’S

DOING.

FIVE TYPES OF STROKES:

U+= UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE

C+= CONDITIONAL POSITIVEC-= CONDITIONAL NEGATIVE

U-= UNCONDITIONAL NEGATIVE

I= INDIFFERENCE.

FIVE TYPES OF STROKES:

U+= UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE

C+= CONDITIONAL POSITIVEC-= CONDITIONAL NEGATIVE

U-= UNCONDITIONAL NEGATIVE

I= INDIFFERENCE.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIRST LAW:

STROKES ARE AS ESSENTIAL AS AIR, WATER AND FOOD

FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EVEN

PHYSICAL EXISTENCE.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIRST LAW:

STROKES ARE AS ESSENTIAL AS AIR, WATER AND FOOD

FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EVEN

PHYSICAL EXISTENCE.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.

FIRST LAW REPHRASED:

IN THE ABSENCE OF STROKES PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DEATH

OCCURS.


FIRST LAW REPHRASED:

IN THE ABSENCE OF STROKES PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DEATH

OCCURS.


SECOND LAW :

WHEN SUFFICIENT STROKES ARE NOT PROVIDED GROWTH AND

DEVELOPMENT IS STUNTED IN ALL AREAS OF PERSONALITY.

NAMELY: PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PRANIC,

RELATIONAL, SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL.


SECOND LAW :

WHEN SUFFICIENT STROKES ARE NOT PROVIDED GROWTH AND

DEVELOPMENT IS STUNTED IN ALL AREAS OF PERSONALITY.

NAMELY: PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PRANIC,

RELATIONAL, SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL.


THIRD LAW :PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED

TOWARDS POSITIVE STROKES.THEY GO AWAY FROM NEGATIVE

STROKES. IF CONTINUOUS STREAM OF NEGATIVES STROKES POUNCES ON THEM EITHER THEY

RETALIATE OR HARM THEMSELVES.


THIRD LAW :PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED

TOWARDS POSITIVE STROKES.THEY GO AWAY FROM NEGATIVE

STROKES. IF CONTINUOUS STREAM OF NEGATIVES STROKES POUNCES ON THEM EITHER THEY

RETALIATE OR HARM THEMSELVES.


FOURTH LAW :NEGATIVE

STROKES AREBETTER THAN NO

STROKES..


FOURTH LAW :NEGATIVE

STROKES AREBETTER THAN NO

STROKES..


FOURTH LAW REPHRASED :

IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF INDIFFERENCE PEOPLE

UNCONSCIOUSLY PROVOKE OTHERS AND GET NEGATIVE

ATTENTION TO SURVIVE.


FOURTH LAW REPHRASED :

IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF INDIFFERENCE PEOPLE

UNCONSCIOUSLY PROVOKE OTHERS AND GET NEGATIVE

ATTENTION TO SURVIVE.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW :

WHAT YOU STROKE

WHAT YOU GET.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW :

WHAT YOU STROKE

WHAT YOU GET.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW REPHRASED :

ANY BEHAVIOUR (BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE) WHICH GETS CONSTANT

ATTENTION IS AFFIRMED AND A PATTERN IS FORMED IN THE

LONG RUN.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW REPHRASED :

ANY BEHAVIOUR (BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE) WHICH GETS CONSTANT

ATTENTION IS AFFIRMED AND A PATTERN IS FORMED IN THE

LONG RUN.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SIXTH LAW :

THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN STROKED

DETERMINES THE WAY YOU STROKE

OTHERS.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SIXTH LAW :

THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN STROKED

DETERMINES THE WAY YOU STROKE

OTHERS.

BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :

FAULTY MECHANISM.

IN THE ABSENCE OFGENUINE POSITIVE STROKES PEOPLE EITHER GO FOR NEGATIVE STROKES OR GET INTO

FAULTY MECHANISMS WITH THE FALSE HOPE OF GETTING

THEIR STROKE NEEDS MET.


FAULTY MECHANISM.

IN THE ABSENCE OFGENUINE POSITIVE STROKES PEOPLE EITHER GO FOR NEGATIVE STROKES OR GET INTO

FAULTY MECHANISMS WITH THE FALSE HOPE OF GETTING

THEIR STROKE NEEDS MET.


NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM.

IN FAULTY MECHANISMS PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL BE FILLED AND FEEL HAPPY IF THEY

CONTINUE TO DO THESE BEHAVIOURS (FMS) BUT UNFORTUNATELY THEY DON’T REALIZE THAT THE SAME BEHAVIOURS INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS. WHEN THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS HURTS, THEY INSTEAD OF REALIZING THAT THERE

IS A NEED TO CUT DOWN THESE BEHAVIOURS THEY INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THESE BEHAVIOURS

AND WALLOW IN SELF INFLICTED MISERY.



IN FAULTY MECHANISMS PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL BE FILLED AND FEEL HAPPY IF THEY

CONTINUE TO DO THESE BEHAVIOURS (FMS) BUT UNFORTUNATELY THEY DON’T REALIZE THAT THE SAME BEHAVIOURS INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS. WHEN THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS HURTS, THEY INSTEAD OF REALIZING THAT THERE

IS A NEED TO CUT DOWN THESE BEHAVIOURS THEY INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THESE BEHAVIOURS

AND WALLOW IN SELF INFLICTED MISERY.



FAULTY MECHANISM=BLIND

ADDICTION.



FAULTY MECHANISM=BLIND

ADDICTION.

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- - - + - -- - - - - -- - + - - -

STROKE BANKS.STROKE BANKS.

HIGH SELF WORTH LOW SELF WORTH.HIGH SELF WORTH LOW SELF WORTH.

BASED ON THE NATURE, INTENSITY, FREQUENCY, QUALITY OF STROKES

WE RECEIVES WE DEVELOP LIFE POSITIONS.

THERE ARE FOUR LIFE POSITIONS:I AM OK YOU ARE OK: GET ON WITH

I AM NOT OK YOU ARE OK: GET AWAY FROM OR GET EVEN WITH

I AM OK YOU ARE NOT OK: GET RID OFF YOU OR I WILL DO IT FOR YOU

I AM NOT OK YOU ARE NOT OK: GET NO WHERE.

c+, c-, c+ c-, c+

Match the stroke banks with life positions.Match the stroke banks with life positions.

c+, c-, c+ c-, c+

c+, c-, c+ c-, c+u+,u-

u+, u+, u+, u+, u-c+, c-

u+, c+, c-, u+, c+, c-u+,c+, c-

U-

U-,u-, u-, u-, u-, I I, I, I, I, I, I, u-, u-

FIVE POISONOUS MESSAGES.

1) DON’T ASK FOR STROKES2) DON’T ACCEPT STROKES

3) DON’T GIVE STROKES4) DON’T RJECT -VE STROKES5) DON’T STROKE YOUR SELF.

FIVE POISONOUS MESSAGES.

1) DON’T ASK FOR STROKES2) DON’T ACCEPT STROKES

3) DON’T GIVE STROKES4) DON’T RJECT -VE STROKES5) DON’T STROKE YOUR SELF.

THREE MAJOR SOURCES FROM WHERE WE GET STROKES.

THREE MAJOR SOURCES FROM WHERE WE GET STROKES.

SELF

SELF O

THERS

OTHERS

NATUREYOGAMUSICETC.

NATUREYOGAMUSICETC.

SCRIPTS(LIFE’S FUNDAMENTALOPERATING PRINCIPLE.)

SCRIPTS(LIFE’S FUNDAMENTALOPERATING PRINCIPLE.)

INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVEEXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU

HAVE INTERPRETED THESITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS--

LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMESYOU PLAY.

INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVEEXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU

HAVE INTERPRETED THESITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS--

LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMESYOU PLAY.

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