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8/27/09 www.TheDreamLounge.net

To Pooahtron and back again

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Why?This is what I’m passionate about.

This is what I can communicate best.

It’s really frikin cool =)

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Last year’s synopsisMy life up to that point

Socially awkward

No success with women

Minimal friends

Decided to change in high school.

Found the community, slowly built up going out.

Lost virginity at prom

Went to college, met Toplair, started going out a LOT

Wings drifted off, but stuck with going out



Synopsis (continued)Lot of tough times, some good times.

Knew what quality girl I wanted, but didn’t have the sense of self worth or “game” to back it up

One chick after another

Frustrated, but driven

…..

What kept me going?

A faint vision of where I wanted to be in the coming years with women. I kept breathing.

Being one stubborn son of a bitch



Picking up where we left off…”My Transformation”Felt something was wrong, couldn’t hook up

with a chick I actually liked

Was going NUTS

Tore up a loan check for a bootcamp

Looked at every top guy, realized he had gone out a ridiculous amount of nights

Decided to go out till I hit 3,000 sets, decided to GET IT HANDLED



Continued…Started going out every night, read The Way

of the Superior Man, not 2 weeks in, pulled my first snl.

2 weeks later, missed the trigger

1 week later, another snl

2 weeks later, another pull

Etc…consistency had finally arrived

Stuck with it, got the ‘skills’… became tunnel tracked, ditched my friends, ditched my wings, my room mates, everyone

Life went down hill



Continued…The most miserable time of my life

Our darkest moments are also our brightest (began writing The Dream Way)

Or…

The night is darkest before the dawn ;)

Met some really cool guys including Defixon and Homerunking (speaking tomorrow)

The fall semester ended, went home, flourished



Pitfalls to avoid (seriously!!!) Becoming TOO independent

Losing sight of the forest for the trees (cluster f***lay)

Living on pooahtron (friends disappear, social skills improve, social life dwindles)

“Who you hang out with consistently reflects upon you, and when you don’t hang out with ANYBODY consistently, that reflects upon you as well, ten fold”.

Not taking your Vitality seriously (health/fitness/mental stability/sleep/energy)



TipsBudget!! Going out is expensive even when

you don’t drink

Make a set time you’ll stay out to every night (discipline)

Keep breathing (faith in just going out)

Start a journal (INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT)



After “My transformation”Full 180, re-made friends, organized a huge

camping trip

Family vacation

Sky diving(LIFE CHANGING)

Travelling to other college towns (Tampa/Gainsvile)

Travelling to Vegas/Florida Keys/Cruise ship

Finishing The Dream Way

Travelling to Central America (LIFE CHANGING)



You learn by doingReading can be helpful, but ultimately you

learn by doing.

I was scared shitless of

Dating

Sex

Kissing

Instructing

Got through it, and learnt, by doing it. www.TheDreamLounge.net


Going out soloPros

FAST way to learn

Balls to the wall

Put out a safe vibe, “secret society” stuff

Gets you socially “lean”

Cons

Not as much fun

Hard to stick with it

EASY to get in your head



Tips for going out soloFrom Sinn/Nautlius- always be talking to

someone. Guys, girls (of all shapes)

Have faith in momentum

In time you’ll learn how to have fun (and be more comfortable) with meeting people by yourself

Over the course of a few nights it builds up, but can crash pretty quick due to boredom

Don’t bring it up, but don’t lie if they ask. You’re out alone, this is something you’re cool with.



Began accepting, stopped resistingDetached emotions from identity, no longer happy or sad, felt happy or sad. Moved past mood swings.



“I’m happy for you”• Story

• Much happier at that point in my life, but a

new concept like this kept the edge sharp

• Someone could be happy, for me?

• Simple, yet powerful and authentic.



EquilibriumFiguring out that a source of negative

emotions for me was my drive/motivation. It's a double edged sword. *recent story*

Ask so much of yourself and do great things in your life, but if you always raise the bar a SHIT LOAD every time you hit a goal, you can never be happy.

Old Anthony robbins quote

“To be truly happy we must find our highest ideals and values, and live to them on a consistent basis“

We are not always in control of our circumstances but we are ALWAYS in control of our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. We are responsible for our own happiness, and our destiny.



SummaryPut myself through a lot of tough experiences

Learned more this year, than my entire life previously combined

Transformed/changed on a deep level, but in the end just learned to relax

“You’re ability to relax is directly proportional to your ability to draw power from within”

I love myself, life, and everyone in it a lot more. Appreciate what you have and keep pushing.



The Dream Way


•Printed and Signed•Limited copies•CD includes

• TDW electronic version

• My Transformation (~200 page ebook)

• The Dream Chronicles (100+ page ebook)

• The Making of The Dream Way pdf (never before released

• ALL NEW, never before released….The Lost Chapters of TDW

• A 20 Minute phone consult to answer ANY and ALL questions about TDW after you’ve been in field with it

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