Family Crisis Intervention(The Make Love Card)

• Listen carefully with the intent to understand

• Then encourage soldier to Make Love…

Apologize & Forgive

Volunteer Kindness

Be Determined

Reach-out for Help

Exercise Loyalty

• Not because they earned it, but because you have decided to love • To rebuild their emotional bank account

• Be humble enough to apologize• Be gracious enough to forgive

• Do not slander behind their back• Be loyal to your marriage vows / Family

• Chaplain, Military One Source, JMHS, ACS, Family Life Chaplain, etc.• Connect to civic / religious communities

• Fight for you marriage; don’t give up!