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Finding Her Tribe:Women’s Relationships with
Peers and CommunityApril 11, 2017
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Deborah Werner, M.A., PMP
Project Director
SAMHSA’s Women, Children and Families Technical Assistance and Training.
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Relationship Matters! Webinars
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Tuesday, February 21, 2017, 2:00-3:30 P.M. EST (1:00 CST, 12:00 MST, 11:00 PST)
TODAY’S FEATURE:
Finding Her Tribe: Women’s Relationships with Peers and Community
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Recovery
SAMHSA defines as a process of change through which individuals improve their
health and wellness, live self-directed lives, and strive to reach their full potential.
Community
Four major dimensions that support a life in recovery:
• Health• Home• Purpose• Community
Today’s Schedule
Lonnetta AlbrightForward Movement, Inc.
Tara MoseleyYoung People in Recovery
Mary Ellen Copeland, Ph.DWellness Recovery Action Plan®
Lonnetta Albright, B.S. Ed, CPEC
President
Forward Movement, Inc.
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Finding Her TribeWomen’s Relationship with Peers &
Community
Lonnetta Albright, B.S. Ed, CPEC, PresidentForward Movement, Inc.
As part of the Relationship Matters Webinar SeriesApril 11, 2017
• Adding Value to You & Your Clients– Relationship Begins With Self First– Cultivate Positive Emotions– Don’t Go It Alone
• Social & Community Well-being• ROSC as a guiding framework
Relationship(s) Begin With You
Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action, Simon Sinek 2009
Cultivate Positive Emotion
Don’t Go It Alone
Successful Women Think Differently~Valorie Burton
Successful Women Think Differently: 9 Habits to Make You Happier, Healthier & More Resilient, Valorie Burton, 2012
Positive Emotions
Practical Ways to Build Positive Emotion
• Giving feedback: balance your delivery - light tone of voice; acknowledge several positives; nodding and listening rather than cutting them off.
• Know what brings you joy and incorporate it into your everyday life
• Social well-being• Physical well-being• Spiritual well-being
“People may not remember what you looked like; They may not even remember
what you said – But they will remember how you made
them feel”
Successful Women Think Differently: 9 Habits to Make You Happier, Healthier & More Resilient, Valorie Burton, 2012
Don’t Go It Alone• Learn from others
• Build Coalition
• Fulfillment happens through connection
• Successful women collaborate, communicate and celebrate each other
• Community Well-Being
WHAT DOES IT MEAN FOR SUPPORTS TO BE COMMUNITY-BASED?
Community Integration
Recovery-Oriented Systems of Care (ROSC)Shifts the question from
“How do we get the client into treatment?”
to “How do we support the process of recovery within
the person’s life and environment?”
William (Bill) White with Great Lakes ATTC, Recovery Management Monograph 2006
Recovery and Resilience Oriented System of Care
Great Lakes ATTC & Achara Consulting Inc.
Factors that Influence Health Status
Arthur C. Evans Jr.Arthur C Evans, Jr. and Achara Consulting Inc., 2016
8 Domains of Community Inclusion
• Housing
• Employment
• Friends
• Education
• Health & Wellness
• Religion & Spirituality
• Family
• Intimacy
Recommended Next Steps• During the assessment include the question What’s Your Why (Purpose) • Connect to and partner with community mutual support groups 12 steps
(NA or AA); and the Faith community• Partner with clients to start 12-step groups for women: formats online, or
order materials from AA or NA World Service Office• Make arrangements for childcare so women can attend support groups• Learn about the recovery messaging - Language is a key element • Get involved with Association for Recovery Community Organizations
(ARCO)• Collaborate and Partner with a workforce development group• Hire a specialist to work with companies that hire felons/people in
addiction• Create jobs and hire those who you feel are healthy enough to work in the
field
ContactLonnetta Albright, B.S. Ed, CPEC
www.johnmaxwellgroup.com/lonnettaalbrightFacebook: LonnettaAlbrightCoachInstagram: ForwardMovement01
LinkedIn: Lonnetta Albright
Questions and Discussionwith Lonnetta Albright
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Tara Moseley
Program Manager
Young People in Recovery
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youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Finding Her Tribe:Relationships Matter, Peers and Role of the
CommunityPresenter: Tara Moseley, Program Manager
Young People in Recovery
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Collegiate Recovery Programs
Community Organizations/Churches
Young People in Recovery (YPR) Chapters
Alternative Peer Groups Pathways of Recovery
Identifying Resources
Making Connections
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
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Collegiate Recovery Programs (CRP)- http://collegiaterecovery.org/programs/ Young People in Recovery- http://youngpeopleinrecovery.org/ Alternative Peer Groups-
http://generationfoundfilm.com/2016/12/05/alternative-peer-groups-powerful-tool-youth-recovery-across-nation/
Pathways of Recovery: 12 Step, Harm Reduction, LifeRing, Medicated Assisted Recovery, Celebrate Recovery, Moderation Management etc.
• Most of these groups can be found online, look in your area to see if there how many different mutual aid groups are offered in your area.
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Finding Her TribeOther FUN Activities:
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Recovery Events• Pathway of Recovery Events- Rally For Recovery
– Different pathways of recovery have events that transpire throughout the year for 12 step, Smart Recovery, Life Ring, Celebrate Recovery, Medicated Assisted Recovery, and others…
September is National Recovery Month- Do you have events that month in your community?
https://www.recoverymonth.gov/
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Empowerment
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Social Media
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Social Media
Encourage:
Using empowering language
Know the use of social media
Be cautious about…
I avoid the use of stigmatizing language (Why?)
I am aware what I should post on a public page- as to not harm myself or someone else
youngpeopleinrecovery.org
Social Media
Online Resources:
https://www.smartrecovery.org/community/calendar.php
https://www.intherooms.com/
http://moberapp.com/
http://www.refugerecovery.org/podcasts/
Questions and Discussionwith Tara Moseley
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Mary Ellen Copeland, Ph.D.
Author and Advocate
Wellness Recovery Action Plan®
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WRAP®
Personal Development in Community
Objective
To describe how women, using the WRAP group
model, develop relationship and community
building skills that will support them in
relationship and community building.
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Overview of the Wellness Recovery Action Plan®
WRAP Includes:
Wellness Toolbox
Daily Maintenance Plan
Triggers and Action Plan
Early Warning Signs and Action Plan
When Things are Breaking Down and Action Plan
Crisis Plan and Post Crisis Plan
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Overview of the WRAP® Model
Women join WRAP groups voluntarily, usually with
the encouragement of a counselor or case
manager. They may be scared, anxious and
traumatized and have little experience with
positive relationships with other women and in the
community.
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Overview of the Wellness Recovery Action Plan®
Groups of 8-12 women meet in a series of
meetings facilitated by a trained facilitator.
With input and support from the other group
members, each person figures out their own
intensive recovery protocol.
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Overview of the Wellness Recovery Action Plan®
Women in the group share what works for them,
giving each other new ideas and perspectives. The
result is a personal WRAP that is more powerful
and effective than each woman could develop
working on her own.
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Overview of the WRAP® Model
The WRAP group process
1. A facilitator describes the way the group works
together.
2. Women begin having discussions about things
that are easier to talk about and more generic,
less personal.
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Overview of the WRAP® Model
3. Moving on, as they feel more and more safe and
comfortable, and gain experience, discussing those things
that are more personal and “loaded”
4. Completing their WRAP and deciding how they will stay in
relationship with each other and be involved in the
community as they move forward with their lives.
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Developing the “Container”
The process begins by developing a ” a safe
container” where the women in the group begin to
feel comfortable with each other.
As they become used to sharing with each other
they can let go of the anxiety and shame they may
be feeling.
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Values and Ethics
First with the Values and Ethics—each is shared,
discussed and posted for easy reference.
1. WRAP supports hope. People get well, stay
well for long periods of time, and do the things
they want to do with their lives.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
2. WRAP promotes self-determination, personal
responsibility, empowerment, and self-
advocacy.
3. People are treated as equals, with dignity,
compassion, mutual respect, and
unconditional high regard.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
4. WRAP is based on the premise that there
are “no limits” to recovery.
5. WRAP is totally voluntary.
6. The person who is developing their WRAP is
the only expert on themselves.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
7. In WRAP, the focus is on individual strengths
and away from perceived deficits.
8. The use of clinical, medical, and diagnostic
language is avoided.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
9. Whenever possible, people work together and
learn with peers, to increase mutual
understanding, knowledge, and promote
wellness.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
10. The emphasis is on strategies that are simple
and safe and away from strategies that are
invasive or that may have serious or
devastating side effects.
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Values and Ethics (cont.)
11. It is understood that difficult feelings and
behaviors are normal responses to traumatic
life circumstances, and that what is happening
in your life is not a “symptom” or a diagnosis.
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Comfort Agreement
To continue developing the feelings of comfort
and safety that are necessary to relationship and
community building, the group develops together
a contract that includes things like:
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Comfort Agreement (cont.)
Everyone that wants to gets a chance to share.
No bullying or teasing.
No interrupting when others are sharing.
No judging or criticizing.
No shaming or blaming
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Wellness Toolbox
The groups works together to develop a list of
resources that women can use to help themselves
feel better and move forward in their lives and to
build the action plans that are key to WRAP. This
is an easy thing to do and gets people talking and
sharing.
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Examples of Wellness Tools
Some of these Wellness Tools will have to do with
relationship and community building
Support groups
Getting together with friends and supporters
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Examples of Wellness Tools
Volunteering
Attending faith-based services
Attending classes or community events
together
Taking responsibilities for community activities
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Daily Maintenance Plan
A list of the Wellness Tools a person chooses to use
every day to stay as well as possible.
Three healthy meals and two healthy snacks
each day
Exercise for at least ½ hour
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Daily Maintenance Plan (cont.)
8 hours of sleep
Spend at least an hour doing something I enjoy
Avoid sugar and processed foods
Contact at least one supporter
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Things I might need to do
A list of things I might choose to do on any given
day:
Go to church, synagogue or mosque
Go to AA or NA
Contact a family member
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Things I might need to do (cont.)
Buy groceries
Pay bills
Clean and organize
Invite someone for lunch
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Triggers
Things that might come up unexpectedly that
would be unsettling or upsetting. Talking about
Triggers gets more difficult, more uncomfortable.
Being treated badly
Seeing someone being abusive
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Triggers (cont.)
People yelling at each other
Being “snubbed” by a person I thought was a friend
Feeling threatened
Being in a crowd
Not being able to meet expectations of others
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Triggers Action Plan
Making a list of things I can do that would help
me get through this upsetting time.
Calling a specific friend
Getting together with a supporter or a group
of supporters
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Triggers Action Plan (cont.)
Peer counseling
Going for a walk with a friend
Attending a meditation group
Doing meditation exercises
Listening to music
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Early Warning Signs
Identifying subtle signs that things aren’t quite
right is harder and more personal, things like:
A headache
A heavy feeling in my chest
A feeling of unease
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Early Warning Signs (cont.)
Being impatient and argumentative
Being tempted to use substances that I am
trying to avoid
Isolating
Being obsessed with bad things that have
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Early Warning Signs Action Plan
And then again, working together as a group so
that each person comes up with an action plan
that they feel will work for them:
Going to a support group
Calling a friend
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Early Warning Signs Action Plan (cont.)
Spending extra time doing something I love to do
Spending extra time with my partner
Peer counseling
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When Things are Breaking Down
Signs that things have become much worse.
These are things that are much harder to talk
about, to admit, and yet women can do it as they
feel more and more connected with each other.
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When Things are Breaking Down (cont.)
Being with people that treat me badly
Avoiding supporters
Being rude to to others
Using substances that I have been trying to avoid
Thinking a lot about hurting myself
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When Things are Breaking DownAction Plan
Working together so that each woman has a much
more directive plan to guide them through these
hard times.
Contacting supporters and asking them to have
someone stay with me, making sure I am not
alone
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When Things are Breaking DownAction Plan (cont.)
Intensive peer counseling
Asking a supporter to watch funny movies with
me for the afternoon
Spending at least two hours doing things I love
to do
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Crisis Plan and Post Crisis Plan
Both give opportunities to think about things with
peers in non-conventional ways. Now things are
even more difficult to talk about, but because of
what they have been through together they can
do this hard work.
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Crisis Plan and Post Crisis Plan (cont.)
Signs that others need to step in and take over
What I want others to do for me
What I wouldn’t want others to do for me
A plan for staying at home or in the community
A schedule for resuming my responsibilities
Changes I need to make in my WRAP
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In Conclusion
As a result of making WRAP available to women in recovery, we can expect that women will be more successful:
In relationship with each other
With family members, partners and other people in their lives
In their interactions with people in the community
and will become active, participating members of their chosen communities.
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Resources
WRAP Resources WRAPandRecoveryBooks.com
Copeland Center TrainingCopelandCenter.com
maryellencopelandphd.com
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Questions and Discussionwith Mary Ellen Copeland, Ph.D.
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Panel Comments
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Lonnetta Albright Tara Moseley Mary Ellen Copeland, Ph.D.
Deb Werner, M.A.
Introduction to Women with SUDs online course http://healtheknowledge.org/
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Resources: Documents
• Access to Recovery (ATR) Approaches to Recovery-Oriented Systems of Care: Three Case Studies
• Action Planning for Prevention and Recovery
• Decisions in Recovery: Treatment for Opioid Use Disorder
• Action Steps for Improving Women’s Mental Health
• Sustaining Grassroots Community-Based Programs: A Toolkit for Community- and Faith-Based Service Providers
• Resilience Annotated Bibliography
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Resources: Websites
• Recovery and Recovery Support
• Bringing Recovery Supports to Scale Technical Assistance Center Strategy (BRSS TACS)
• Faith-based and Community Initiatives (FBCI)
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