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Flirting 101 – Are You a Looker, Listener or Feeler? Email: [email protected] Copyright ©2010 Flirting 101 Ready-Match.com Phone: 847-650-6503 by Michelle Lia Lews & Andrew Bryant A Division of LifeQuest Alliance, Inc. Rapport building is fun to learn! Practice these exercises and you’ll really get a feel for building rapport. Circle ALL the responses that apply to you! 1. What attracts me to others is... A. How they look B. How they sound C. How they move 2. When I am talking to someone, I… A. See what they are saying B. Hear what they are saying C. Get a feeling for what they mean 3. When I am lost, I … A. Refer to a map B. Ask for Directions C. Trust my gut instinct 4. I prefer to… A. Go to the movies, watch TV or a video B. Go to a concert, listen to music or the radio C. Play a sport or do something physical 5. When I have lots of things to do, I… A. Make a list or imagine myself doing them B. Keep reminding myself to do them C. Feel uneasy until they are done 6. I prefer books or magazines… A. With lots of pictures B. With great articles C. Which are practical and how to

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Flirting 101 – Are You a Looker, Listener or Feeler?

Email: [email protected] Copyright©2010Flirting101 Ready-Match.com Phone: 847-650-6503 by Michelle Lia Lews & Andrew Bryant ADivisionofLifeQuestAlliance,Inc.

Rapportbuildingisfuntolearn!Practicetheseexercisesandyou’llreallygetafeelforbuildingrapport.CircleALLtheresponsesthatapplytoyou!1.Whatattractsmetoothersis... A.Howtheylook B.Howtheysound C.Howtheymove2.WhenIamtalkingtosomeone,I… A.Seewhattheyaresaying B.Hearwhattheyaresaying C.Getafeelingforwhattheymean3.WhenIamlost,I… A.Refertoamap B.AskforDirections C.Trustmygutinstinct4.Ipreferto… A.Gotothemovies,watchTVoravideo B.Gotoaconcert,listentomusicortheradio C.Playasportordosomethingphysical5.WhenIhavelotsofthingstodo,I… A.Makealistorimaginemyselfdoingthem B.Keepremindingmyselftodothem C.Feeluneasyuntiltheyaredone6.Ipreferbooksormagazines… A.Withlotsofpictures B.Withgreatarticles C.Whicharepracticalandhowto

Flirting 101 – Are You a Looker, Listener or Feeler?

Email: [email protected] Copyright©2010Flirting101 Ready-Match.com Phone: 847-650-6503 by Michelle Lia Lews & Andrew Bryant ADivisionofLifeQuestAlliance,Inc.

7.Igotoplaceswhere… A.Icanwatchpeople B.Thereismusic,conversationorquiet C.Therearethingstodo8.IfIhaveaproblem,I… A.Lookforwaystosolveit B.Talkaboutsolutions C.Churnitoveruntilitfeelsright9.Whenlearningsomethingnew,itiseasierformeto… A.Havesomeoneshowmehowtodoit B.Havesomeoneexplainwhattodo C.GetinanddoitmyselfCountupthenumberofA,B,andCresponses!A(Looker)__________B(Listener)_________C(Feeler)__________Nowthatyouknowyourtendency,you’llfinditeasiertoflirtwithpeoplewithasimilarpreferenceandyoucandevelopaflexibilitytoflirtwiththosewhohaveadifferentpreference!