Genuineness

Co 528 Week 4

Reading AssignmentsCheydleur, 29-51Collins, 59-74Crabb, 31-56

In Cheydleur note the stages of the counseling process

changing gears (34-35)

time structure (35-37)

give-and-take (38-40)

the question trap (42-44).

Reading Notes

In CollinsHelping process

on pages 59-74 Key points (64-

65)Decision making

(65-68).

In CrabbSeparate But

EqualTossed SaladNothing ButterySpoiling the

Egyptians

GenuinenessBeing real, true, and

authenticNot a role but a

lifestyleBe congruent with

body language and words

Don’t be caught up in your role or title

Don’t be defensiveCounsel from life and

Scripture

Be aware of your feelings

Be able to accept criticism and judge its validity

Be spontaneous without artificial or contrived behaviors

Be open with appropriate self-disclosure

See Collins, p. 26