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NIFTYLANE .com GET OUT OF A RUT, REINVENT YOURSELF, AND LOSE 4,000LBS (of stuff) IN THE PROCESS

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NIFTYLANE .com

GET OUT OF A RUT, REINVENT YOURSELF, AND LOSE 4,000LBS

(of stuff)IN THE PROCESS

Step 1

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How Did I Get Here?

I Thought I Was …#NIFTYLANE

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If you’re not where you want to be, you need to evaluate:

Character

Finanacial Wealth

Taking Care of Others

Having Fun

Building a Career

Pursuit of a Mate

HOW HAVE YOU INVESTED VS WHAT YOU VALUE

Value Investment #NIFTYLANE

Where Do You

Spend YourEnergy/Time/Money?

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•Texting?•Facebook?•Watching the Real Housewives? •Cute cat videos?•Happy Hour?

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Take a Minute to Identify Where and How You Use Your

Assets

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“One of the things I realized is that if you do not take control over your time and your life, other

people will gobble it up.

If you don’t prioritize yourself, you constantly start falling lower and lower on

your list…”

MICHELLE OBAMA

NIFTY LANE

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Do they align with what you thought you

wanted?

Step 2

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Million Dollar Question

in3…2...1

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When You

are 95, and You

look back…#NIFTYLANE

What Do YouWant to Say You

Did with YourLife?

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•The Next Oprah •Food Truck Owner •Raised Happy Kids •Went to Italy

•Climbed a Mountain •Found the of My Life•Bought a Chanel Bag•Went Out on My Own•Happy Hour Queen

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Does Your Answer Incorporate All of

Your Wheels?

Heart+ Mind + Body + Soul

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Or Are You Doing A

Wheelie?

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Remember: You Won’t Get Anywhere,

If You Don’t Start Somewhere

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Pick ONE Criteria: It Must Create a Sensation in Your Heart,

Mind, Body, and Soul #NIFTYLANE

BUT Give Yourself Permission to Learn, Change Courses, and Stop What You Are

Doing NIFTYLANE .com

Step 3

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What is Getting in Your Way?

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Behaviors, Thoughts, Actions, Physical Things…

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Identify whether you lash out, lash in, or a combo...

• Retail therapy• Alcohol• Overeating

Lashing In Lashing Out • Condescending • Judgemental• Divisiv

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If Your Arms Are Full, There’s No Room to Receive

or Manifest Anything New

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HOW to

MAKE ROOM

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What Do You Need to Let Go or Outgrow?

Why Are You Holding on to Stuff?

• Fear/Loss/Grief • Loneliness • Emotional Attachment• Investment

Stuff can create a false sense of stability, comfort and control.

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If You Don’t Love It, You Can’t Keep It

Don’t Be Afraid to Cut Your Losses

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Is it an heirloom, do you love it, do you need it, or is

it just excess?

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SELL

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SHARE

#NIFTYLANE

• Charities that Pick Up Donations from your doorstep:

• Salvation Army• Purple Heart

IT’S DEDUCTIBLE

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Prevent the Pile Up Of Stuff

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Create a Budget!

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Be mindful: Identify the Core Emotion

Instead of Just Satisfying the Urge

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Change Your Mindset

• Focus on Big Picture Goals• Remember that A Deal Is NOT Always a Deal• Keep Your $$$ in Rotation

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Be mindful: Identify the Core Emotion

Instead of Just Satisfying the Urge

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Realign Your Resources with

Your Goals

Operational To be a Healthy Balanced

Person, I Need to:

StrategicTo Get You to Your Goals:

Eliminated (for now)

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Live with No Regret

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