Good Manners

in England

Made by German students

Every country has its own culture and if one is smart,

one should study the etiquette of that country

before visiting that country. One always wants to show

that he is a good ambassador of his own country and one does not want to offend the

people of the country one will visit. By knowing what some of the written and unwritten

rules are, one can have a successful and enjoyable trip.

The English are said to be

reserved in manners, dress

and speech. They are famous for our

politeness, self-discipline and

especially for our sense of humour. Basic politeness (please, thank

you, excuse me) is expected.

Greetings in EnglandEnglish people are quite reserved when

greeting one another. A greeting can be a bright 'Hello' 'Hi' or 'Good morning', when you arrive at work or at school. The HandshakeA handshake is the most common form of greeting among the English and British people and is customary when you are introduced to somebody new.The KissIt is only when you meet friends, whom you haven't seen for a long time, that you would kiss the cheek of the opposite sex. In Britain one kiss is generally enough.

Formal greetings The usual formal greeting is a 'How do you do?' and a firm handshake, but with a lighter touch between men and women. Informal greetings Hi - Hi or hello Morning / Afternoon / Evening ( We drop the word 'Good' in informal situations). How's you? - Fine thanks. You? Thank you / thanks / cheersIt is sometimes said 'cheers' instead of thank you. You may hear 'cheers' said instead of 'goodbye', what is really said is 'thanks and bye'.

Table manners in EnglandThe British generally pay a lot of attention to

good table manners. Even young children are expected to eat properly with knife and fork.They eat most of food with cutlery. The foods we don't

eat with a knife, fork or spoon include sandwiches, crisps, corn on the cob, and fruit.

DOIf you cannot eat a certain type of food or have some special needs, tell your host several days before the dinner party. If you are a guest, it is

polite to wait until your host starts eating or indicates you should do so. It shows

consideration. Always chew and swallow all the food in your mouth before taking more or taking

a drink. Always say thank you when served something. It shows appreciation.

DON’’T Never lick or put your knife in your mouth.

It is impolite to start eating before everyone has been served unless your host says that you don't need to wait.

Never chew with your mouth open. No one wants to see food being chewed or hearing it being chomped on. It is

impolite to have your elbows on the table while you are eating. Don't reach over someone's plate for something, ask for the item to be passed. Never talk with food in your mouth. It is impolite to put too much food in your mouth. Never use

your fingers to push food onto your spoon or fork. It is impolite to slurp your food or

eat noisily.

Punctuality in England

British people place considerable value on

punctuality. If you agree to meet friends at three o'clock, you can bet that they'll be there just after three. In Britain, people

make great effort to arrive on time. It is often

considered impolite to arrive even a few

minutes late. If you are unable to keep an appointment, it is

expected that you call the person you are

meeting.

Inviting guests in England

Never accept an invitation unless you really plan to go. You may refuse by saying, “Thank you for inviting me, but I will not be able to come.” If, after accepting, you are unable to attend, be sure to tell those expecting you as far in advance as possible that you will not be there. Although it is not necessarily expected that you give a gift to your host, it is considered polite to do so, especially if you have been invited for a meal. Flowers, chocolate, or a small gift are all appropriate. A thank-you note or telephone call after the visit is also considered polite and is an appropriate means to express your appreciation for the invitation.

Everyday dress is appropriate for most visits to

peoples' homes. You may want to

dress more formally when attending a holiday dinner or

cultural event, such as a concert or

theatre performance.

Clothes in Enagland

Good behaviour in EnglandTheatre

School

1. You should come to the theatre early enough to "spiritually" ready to participate in the spectacle.2. During the intermission, spending time in the foyer, or remaining in the audience, continue to keep in mind that this site requires special culture, not proper to argue loudly, run, laugh out loud, noisy behavior disturb others in the contemplation of the spectacle.3. Prior to submission you must switch off your mobile phone.4. Headwear (particularly large hats) left in the locker room so as not to obstruct the view, sitting behind us.5. Do not leave the theatre until the end of the show.

Schools in England is often associated with uniforms-indeed they are found in private schools. Youth changes from generation to generation in every country. England is a country adheres to the principles of cultural junior at the school: do not chew gum in class, ask the teacher with due respect, the lessons run there stoically.

Cinema

Transportation

You must not disturb others in watching the movie. A rude comment on the scenes are not accepted.When you go to the cinema with friends, do not interfere, but focus on the film. In England popular are taxis, and the students often go by bus to school. Remember that the bus passengers disembark first, and only later other people get in. Do not push up.

Behaviour in accordance to women in EnglandPrinciples of a gentleman

in every country are very similar, result from man's personal culture. Keep in mind that a nice gesture is pass a woman in the

doorway, give her clothes and offer help. Women

pay attention to this. If a man invites a woman to

dinner, he should pay for it. You should also remember buying a bouquet of flowers.

DOIf an elderly person enters a bus or train, the younger offers him/her a seat.

Open doors for the elderly and for women

Hold doors open for whoever is following you in (or out)- don't let it slam in their face

Use please and thank you

Show respect for those older and wiser than you

Lower the music or TV volume when others are talking or trying to sleep.

Children should learn at a young age to help in the household and take over responsibility.

Girls/women should always dress modestly.

A man should always offer the woman to enter a room first.

If you are in a mixed group, always greet the elders and the women first.

Be helpful. Open doors (regardless of gender). Men should always open doors for women.

Have a calming, happy influence in any stressful situation and maintain your composure.

At a restaurant/official dinner, the man moves the chair away from the table and offers the woman her seat

Stand when the national anthem is playing. Show respect to the flag.

Introduce guests to everyone in your home.

Offer something to drink (a glass of water, a cup of tea/coffee) to anyone who steps into your home/office.

Be involved in a variety of community service organisations.

Wear clean clothes at home.

Wash your hands before and after a meal.

Be hospitable and friendly.

Listen before speaking. Never interrupt. Look people in the eye, and listen carefully.

Be thankful and show appreciation for gifts, help, etc. Write “thank you cards” rather than sending e-mails to show your appreciation.

Always introduce yourself and others.

Respect people's time and be punctual. If you make an appointment, arrive on time or even a bit early. If you're going to be late, always call and let them know. Never arrive early for a social engagement; your host may still be getting dressed.

Always say, “Thank you” - this is a way of praising others and one of the keys of good manners; not forgetting “Excuse me”, “Please”, “You are welcome”, “Hello” and “Goodbye”.

When leaving a place, men should help the women to put on their coats/jackets.

Wear a nice, clean dress on Sundays.

DON’T × Don't point - it's rude

× Don't smoke or eat in the street - it looks 'common‘

× Don't talk with your mouth full - disgustingly, you may spit some of it out!

× Don't shout - Keep your voice down

× Don't interrupt - it's selfish and ill-mannered

× Don't swear - it impresses nobody (it's the language of low lives and those with a limited vocabulary)

× Don't gang up on anybody anywhere

× Don't talk behind other's backs

× Never point or stare, especially at people with disabilities or those who are “different”.

× Do not embarrass others - treat others as you would like to be treated, and think of how you can put them at ease. Never demean anyone with rude jokes or an unwelcome nickname.

× Do not be boastful, arrogant or loud - always exercise restraint. Let your deeds speak for themselves.

× Do not criticise or complain - a person with good manners is above criticising others or complaining about circumstances. Negativity in any form is to be avoided. If you hear gossip, don't join in, be indifferent to it. If you disagree with others, do so respectfully. Don't verbally attack or condemn them.

× Never be ruffled.

× Do not ask too many intimate or invasive questions the first few times that you meet a person.

×T o strangers/new ones: Do not comment on personal appearances or clothes in a negative way; if you cannot say something complimentary, do not say anything at all.

× Don't address elders and seniors by their names, unless they have specially asked you to. Stand up when an elder or a guest enters the room and don't sit until you've offered them a seat.

× Do not continue to watch TV or surf the Net when you have a visitor.