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Before we start …Statistics about herpes:
1 in every 5 people in the adolescent and adult population is infected
90% are unaware they have been infectedWhen getting tested you have to be your own
advocate.Couple nearly divorces over herpes scare.
Human BehaviorHuman Behavior - Bjork
Human Behavior - Bjork“If you ever get close to a human and human
behavior be ready, be ready to get confused”“There’s definitely, definitely, definitely no
logic to human behavior but yet so, yet so irresistible”
“And there’s no map and a compass wouldn’t help at all”
Human BehaviorWhy do people behave the way they do?One explanation for our behavior is that we
are born with certain basic human needs. By becoming aware of these basic needs, we can begin to understand ourselves, our families, and others better.
Understanding Basic Human NeedsBasic needs are divided into physical /
physiological needs and psychological needs.Physical / Physiological Needs
Satisfying need for Food Water Air Shelter from elements Sleep Sex Exercise Activity
Physical / Physiological NeedsPhysiological needs are not hard to understand.
Eat when hungry, drink when thirsty, etc.But why do we eat when were are not hungry?
It must be to satisfy some other need.Example: You already ate lunch but a friend asks
you out for lunch so you eat again. The need to be with someone becomes the reason for eating instead of hunger. The need to be with other is considered to be a psychological need.
Psychological NeedsPsychological Needs
Satisfying need for Love Esteem Sense of worth Recognition Status New Experiences Approval from others
Understanding Basic Human NeedsPhysical and psychological needs vary from
person to person and may vary day to day.It is not always so easy to know what needs is
lacking and what need is being met which is why human behavior is so interesting.
Understanding Basic NeedsYour growing awareness of your own
psychological needs will help you to understand how other people are motivated by their needs and why they behave the way they do.
Examples of Basic NeedsSecurity Needs
Babies are totally helpless Get love and care from primary caregiver Learn to trust and feel secure
Importance of routines ComfortAdults sense of security can be destroyed by
unexpected changes Death of a loved one Loss of a job Break-up
Uncertainty = Loss of security
Examples of Basic NeedsStructural Needs
Routines of daily living Get up Breakfast Go to school Period A, B Lunch Period C, D Home Dinner Sleep
Structure brings securityMore secure, more able to adapt to changes
Examples of Basic NeedsLove, Affection and Belonging
To be loved, to love others, to belong to a family or a group of people whom you love and who love you Infants Parents / Primary Caregivers Children Classmates / Teachers / Neighbors Adolescents Romantic relationships / Friends
Some who aren’t in romantic relationships may feel left out or like they are missing something.
We cannot be secure without love, Cannot have love without security.
Examples of Basic NeedsInteraction
Humans are social animalsWe need interaction.We also need others to help us make sense of
the world we live in.
Examples of Basic NeedsSelf-Esteem
The need to value yourself highly and to think of yourself as a worthwhile person
Low self-esteem may lead to fear of change and depression
Examples of Basic NeedsMastery and Achievement
Achievement of goalsMastering a skill helps to become independent
from others Example: A child mastering the use of a spoon and
fork allows that child to eat independently
Examples of Basic NeedsStimulating, Challenging and New
ExperiencesWe do not like to be bored. We need variety.Expanding your horizons.Pushing toward new and interesting
accomplishments. Example: Children who are physically cared for but
aren’t played with or given toys (basically put in cribs or beds left to stare at their sheets) are unlikely to survive or will have developmental impairments.
Examples of Basic NeedsRespect and Admiration
Feeling valuedIncreases self-respectFlattery or false admiration can be damaging.
Only give honest / valuable feedback.
Understanding Basic Human NeedsNeeds motivate our behavior.Which needs are most important?Which needs motivate behavior most
strongly?
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human NeedsAbraham Maslow proposed that all people
are motivated by their basic needs which he categorized into 5 levels.PhysicalSafety and Security Deficiency NeedsLove
Esteem Growth NeedsSelf-Actualization
Maslow’s HierarchyPhysical NeedsSafety and Security
Safety includes law and order (police, government) as well as security and structure that we get from gaining trust of our primary caregivers as infants.
LoveEsteemSelf-Actualization
Growing to your fullest potential. Becoming everything you can be. Curiosity, Exploration, Mastery, Achievement
According to Maslow, can only be achieved as an adult.
Maslow’s HierarchyAlthough the needs are organized into a
hierarchy and you may not be able to move on to a higher level if the lower more basic needs are not met, there are no real boundaries between the levels.Example: A man and his wife break up. He
feels the need to master the guitar to be able to express his lost feelings of love.
How do we know how to satisfy our basic needs?
Learned BehaviorMost behavior is learned through interactions
with the environment, especially the people we come into contact with most frequently during the early years of life.
Some responses are not learned and are based on our genetic make-up or our heredity.Reflexes are one example.
i.e. Rooting and sucking behavior of infants allows them to drink breast milk; Blinking protects your eyes from flying objects; Pulling hand away from a hot pot prevents you from being burned
Learned BehaviorLearning theorists believe that learning takes
place through a process of associations or connections in which the learner connects good feelings with behavior that brings a reward or reinforcements. The person repeats the behavior in the future.
Learned BehaviorWe won’t go much further into learned
behavior theories, however, this is an example of the concept of “delayed gratification”.
Marshmallow Test