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How To Get A GirlfriendBy Jad T Jones www.How2GetAGirlfriend.org Sample Version 1.00 July, 2011Limits of Liability & Disclaimer of Warranty All the advice in this book is for entertainment purposes only.The author and publisher of this ebook and the associated materials have used their best efforts in preparing this material. The author and publisher make no representations or warranties with respect to the accuracy, applicability, fitness, or completeness of the contents of this material. They disclaim any warranties expressed or implied, merchantability, or fitness for any particular purpose. The author and publisher shall in no event be held liable for any loss or other damages, including but not limited to special, incidental, consequential, or other damages. If you have any doubts about anything, the advice of a competent professional should be sought. No portion of this book may be reproduced, distributed or sold without the direct written consent of Jad T Jones. This material contains elements protected under International and Federal Copyright laws and treaties. Any unauthorized reprint or use of this material is prohibited.

Table of ContentsIntroduction ............................................................................................................3 Step 1 - The Mindset Of Successful Seducers .....................................................4 Step 2 - How To Be Confident ...............................................................................8 Step 3 - Womens Biggest Need Exposed ..........................................................10 Step 4 - ABCs Of Style & Body Language ..........................................................12 Step 5 - How To Naturally Start Conversations With Any Woman .......................14 Step 6 - How To Stay Out Of The Friend Zone ....................................................15 Step 7 - How to Keep The Conversation Flowing ...............................................18 Step 8 - The Secrets Of Flirting Revealed ...........................................................21 Step 9 - How To Ask Her Out ...............................................................................24 Step 10 - How To Use Facebook & Texting To Get Her On A Date With You ......27 Step 11 - How To Go On Your First Date & What To Do ......................................28 Step 12 How To Know When Shes Ready To Be Kissed .................................31 Conclusion ...........................................................................................................34

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IntroductionHi, my name is Jad T Jones. Now, I know you're thinking, who is this guy, why should I care, and is this a good book to read? I'd like to start off by telling you that I understand completely where you're coming from, because I have been in your shoes. I grew up as a very shy person. I was mostly raised by my mother. My father was always away on business and trips, and when he was at home he didn't really talk to us about anything. So, what happened? For years and years growing up, I was extremely frustrated with my situation with women. On one side, I had a huge desire and love for girls. I wanted to have a girlfriend so badly ever since I was a young teenager. But at the same time, I was extremely shy and insecure. I had no one to help me out with this problem. I was too ashamed to ask for help from other people. After all, men should be macho. Men should just naturally know how to get a girlfriend. Well, I didn't. It took me years and years before I figured out how to consistently get a girlfriend in my life. I would have a girlfriend here and there, but most of the time I would spend years, months, or even years alone just waiting, hoping for something to happen. Until one day, I made a decision that I needed to get this part of my life handled. So, for the past few years, I have almost exclusively focused on the mastery and understanding of women and dating. And now, I know how to get a girlfriend more easily. And I'm writing this book to every man out there who hasn't had a role model, who didn't have anyone to teach him and guide him on the way of getting a girlfriend.

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Step 1 - The Mindset Of Successful SeducersThe first step to getting a girlfriend starts from within yourself. In order to be successful in getting a girlfriend, you have to have the proper mindset. I want you to write this down somewhere or memorize it. Mindset trumps mechanics every time. What does this mean? This means that your mindset is more important than the specific actions you take. Another way to say this is that your beliefs determine your outcomes in life. If you believe that you can get a girlfriend then you will very likely end up with a girlfriend. If however you don't believe you can have a girlfriend, but then you go out every weekend and try to get a girlfriend, it'll be very hard for you to get one. And it simply comes down to your belief systems. So the starting point of all success with women and dating is to believe that you can get a girlfriend. So how can I believe it, you ask? Here is how. Our mind works in pictures. You cannot have anything in the external world unless you can first see it in your internal world, in your mind. Therefore right now we are going to do an exercise. I want to you to imagine yourself with your ideal woman, your ideal girlfriend. I want you to take out a piece of paper and write down in detail exactly what you are looking for in your next girlfriend. Details are very important because the mind works in details. The more clearly an image you have in your mind, the better your mind can help you in getting what you want. The mind does not recognize vagueness very well. When we have vague pictures of what we want in our minds, our brains have very hard time giving us what we desire. So I would like you to devote some actual time to sitting down and listing out exactly how your ideal girlfriend would be, would look like. Draw a mental image. I want you to mention what kind of personality you'd like her to have, what kind of body type, what kind of intelligence, education, age range. You can mention hair color, race, whatever it is that is important to you.

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I need you to write down an exact description of your ideal woman. This is not for you. This is for your mind. Your mind works with specifics. The more clear the image is in your head, the higher the possibility and the quicker you will get your next girlfriend. Again, you need to see it in your mind in order to believe it. The next mindset you need to have around women is you need to understand that not all women are going to be ready to be your girlfriend. After years of being in the world of women & dating, I have discovered that there is a basic ratio you should expect when hitting on women. If you ask 10 women out, you will have an average of seven that are not interested and one to three that are. Now a lot of men take rejection very personally. But rejection is not personal at all. You never know why a woman rejects you or says no to you. It could be for many reasons. Maybe she just broke up with her boyfriend. Maybe she has a boyfriend she's deeply in love with. Maybe she's in a bad mood. Maybe she has her period. Maybe someone in her family just died. Maybe she's in a rush. Maybe she was hurt by a man 10 years ago and can't trust men. Maybe you remind her of someone that she doesn't like. And the list can go on and on and the possibilities are infinite. So it is very important when going forward and looking for a girlfriend to know that not every woman is going to be interested in you, and it's not personal. People have things going on. Just imagine a woman who is very beautiful but not your type came up to you and you graciously and kindly declined her, her advances. Should she take this personally? Of course not. It's not personal. So I want you to have the same outlook with women. A big mistake a lot of men make is that they only go for one girl. They put all their eggs in one basket and they have their happiness and selfesteem dependent on one woman, and if that woman says no or isn't interested, the man is crushed. This is a recipe for failure. In the world of dating and seduction, you can never narrow your choices down to only one girl. There may be one girl that you areCopyright 2011 All Rights Reserved. Page 5 www.how2getagirlfriend.org

primarily interested in, and by all means go for her and try to make her your girlfriend. But understand that there is no guarantee that that one girl will be your girlfriend. All the most successful men in the world keep their options open. They always go after many women, because they understand that to some degree it is a numbers game. Some woman may not be interested in you today. But she will be interested and ready for a relationship with you two months down the line. In order to be successful in getting a girlfriend, you have to pursue at least three or more women. If you neglect this, you will find that unless you get lucky and you get a hole in one, you will find that you will still be alone. So please do not neglect this. My recommendation is go after 10 women and then you are guaranteed to at least get one to three that you can choose from. Another very important mindset to have is the following. You need to know that women are waiting and longing to be romanced and swept off their feet. The whole time they're growing up, they're watching those romantic Disney movies where Prince Charming comes in, sweeps them off their feet, and they live happily ever after. Well, women are still waiting for this to