habit # 4 think win-win. paradigms of interdependence independence: habit 1 – proactivity habit 2...
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Habit # 4
Think Win-Win
Paradigms of Interdependence
Independence:Habit 1 – ProactivityHabit 2 – Begin with the End in MindHabit 3 – Put First Things FirstPrivate Victory
Interdependence: Public VictoryDepending on others and others depending on you.
Think Win-Win
Six Paradigms of Human Interaction:
Win/Win Lose/Lose
Win/Lose Win
Lose/Win Win/Win or No Deal
Win/Win
• Seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions
• Sees life as a cooperative, not competitive arena
Win/Lose
• If I win, you lose
• I get my way, you don’t get yours
Lose/Win
• I lose, you win
• I’m a loser, I’ve always been a loser
• Step on me again, everyone else does.
Lose/Lose
• Results when two Win/Lose people get together.
• Vindictive, Stubborn, get back at
Win
• Thinks in terms of getting their own way, others are on their own.
Win/Win or No Deal
Agree to Disagree Agreeably