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Although this is designed for a religious education environment, the principles are the same in a secular setting as well. Find out the five types of people shutting down conversation in your class and discover the tips you need to fix it.

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But why not just let

sleeping dogs lie?

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It can

disinvite

the Spirit.

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At first, class

members will

be irritated

with the

problem

person.

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And then,

they will

point the

finger

at you.

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Class members can

begin to tune out.

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It’s hard to

teach when

you feel like

you’re in the

crosshairs.

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What are

common

problems

teachers

can

expect to

see?

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real

fake

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You know, the

ones waaaaaay

out here

Image courtesy of kevinalanlamb.com

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Fixing it

takes more

than a wish

on a

dandelion.

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Preparation is the

bread and butter of

handling all of these issues.

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An engaging,

well-designed,

balanced

learning

experience is

the best

defense.

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Don’t make people wonder how

the class is going to go.

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If you want people

to raise their hands,

tell them.

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Even the length of

responses is in your hands.

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“Let’s see

how many

responses we

can get in a

minute.”

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“Let’s keep

responses to

less than

30 seconds

or so.”

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Let’s take a closer look at our 5

specific problems.

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Image Credit: Missy Saunders

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Teacher

Individual

class

member

Content

Class as

a whole

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get to the heart of

why they are

dominating the

conversation

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What is

their

need?

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Do they crave

attention?

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Are they

trying to fill

awkward

space?

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Are they trying to

make up for our

inadequacies?

{ouch}

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Get outside

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real

fake

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(not everything is worth addressing, and

some things aren’t worth addressing in

front of everyone)

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Ask them to clarify

what they mean.

{sometimes it’s not as

crazy as it sounds}

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“Hmmm, can you

find the source for

that for next week?”

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“What else have you read about this?”

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Don’t get bogged down in it

{because it’s not helping}

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You know, the

ones waaaaaay

out here

Image courtesy of kevinalanlamb.com

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“That will be a

crucial idea in a

coming lesson.

Please remind

me of that

when it comes

up again.”

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When I wink

at you, it’s

time to stop.

No, really.

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Make sure

everyone

knows the

goal is this:

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Not a series

of mini-

lectures…

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It locks out the Spirit.

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When you feel

the Spirit shift, it is

your duty to bring

it back to class.

No matter what.

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Dear Spirit, Please come back…

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“No point or opinion is

as vital as keeping the

Spirit in the class. Let’s

move on to a different

topic in order to

preserve the Spirit.”

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To recapture the Spirit, use music.

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Tell a story.

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Or even say a prayer.

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get to the heart of

why they are not

participating in

the conversation

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Are we allowing overparticipators

to shut people down?

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Do we call on

the same

people over

and over?

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Is speaking in

class out of

their comfort

zone?

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Do they feel they have

nothing to contribute?

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Are they unprepared?

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Are they electronically

distracted?

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Are we lecturing & only the

boldest feel they can chime in?

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You have to find the why before you can find the right intervention (if one is needed).

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Evaluate which issues

you’re having

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Decide on a few

strategies to try.

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Pray about your

decision.

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Make a plan.

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Set your

expectations.

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Repeat.

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The Master Teacher

is fully invested in your

having a successful class,

and He will help you.