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High Kappa Operations Guide

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As the High Kappa of ________________ Zeta,I, _____________________, hereby promise to

uphold the ideals of Lambda Chi Alpha and dilligently perform the duties and responsibilities

associated with this position.

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Operations GuideFraternity Educator: High Kappa

The Official Charge of the High KappaBrother High Kappa, to you is entrusted the education and development of each and every chapter member as a student, as a leader, and as a fully participating member in this chapter.

Make it your goal to develop and maintain a program of mature acceptance of responsibility on the part of every undergraduate in this chapter based on the history, aims, ideals, and traditions of our country, your school, and Lambda Chi Alpha.

In Order to Lead, You Must First MODEL ITTo MODEL IT means to implement the required functions of your office in order to lead the chapter effectively. These seven directives are the basic expectations for each brother during his term in office.

Motivate: Members to learn about the Fraternity.

Organize: Events for experiential learning for brothers and associate members..

Delegate: The development of the chapter’s educational programming to appropriate officers and other members.

Evaluate: The effectiveness of associate members and chapter education.

Lead: By providing a meaningful experience for the members.

Inspire: All members to be excited about learning.

Teach: The Seven Core Values as the purpose for caring for members and guests.

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Congratulations brother on your appointment as your chapter’s High Kappa. This position will require you to work diligently to ensure that your chapter lives up to its highest standards. The document you are currently accessing is your officer Operation’s Guide. This interactive document will be your go-to resource in successfully implementing the standards this officer position entails.

The first part of the Operations Guide is the specific operations you should be completing. These operations are separated by Basic, Advanced, and Exceptional. With each of these operations, you can click on the “Jump to Section” to view a page that will give you a description on how to complete that operation. The operations list also has a checkbox you can use when you have completed the operation. When your Educational Leadership Consultant visits with you, he will evaluate you on whether or not you have completed these operations.

There is also a navigation tab at the bottom of the screen that can take you to the previous or next page or the first or last page. You can click on the Basic, Advanced, or Exceptional tabs on the right side of each page to jump back to the operations list at the beginning of the document. At the end of this document, there is a textbox where you can keep notes and blank list where you can create your goals and task.

Should you have any additional questions about the operations of your officer position that are not covered in this Operations Guide please feel free to e-mail the Chapter Service’s staff at [email protected].

From all of us at Lambda Chi Alpha International Headquarters, we wish you the best going forward as you continue to promote the values and lessons of our Fraternity.

In ZAX,

Nicholas ZunigaDirector of Chapter ServicesLambda Chi Alpha Fraternity

Operations GuideA Message from the International Headquarters

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Basic / Core The lamp is symbolic with learning and consistent with the initial levels of the Inner Circle and True Leader (Faithful Steward). At the basic level, the officer demonstrates an understanding of the essential duties needed to meet the most basic duties of his High Zeta position.

Operations GuideBasic Operations

Officer Task Jump to Section Frequency

1. Prepare and complete officer transition Jump to Section First week in office2. Prepare for and participate in the High Zeta Retreat Jump to Section Prior to the High

Zeta Retreat 3. Prepare and complete a High Kappa education plan,

including a budget and calendar Jump to Section Prior to each

academic term 4. Coordinate with all other officers the educational

programming for the associate and initiated members Jump to Section Each academic term

5. Ensure at least 70% of all chapter members attend all fraternity education sessions

Jump to Section Ongoing (365 days)

6. Create and implement a fraternity education program organized around the Seven Core Values

Jump to Section Each academic term

7. Present and implement the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model

Jump to Section Ongoing (365 days)

8. Coordinate the assignment of big brothers with the Big Brother Coordinator or Big Brother Committee (if applicable)

Jump to Section Within one week after the Associate Member Ceremony

9. Create a Big Brother Contract to be approved by the Executive Committee and signed by all big brothers

Jump to Section Each academic term

10. Hold a training session for all big brothers to ensure that all requirements and expectations are understood

Jump to Section At the start of each academic term

11. Coordinate and present the Associate Member Ceremony with High Phi

Jump to Section Within one week of Bid Acceptance

12. Work with the chapter High Phi to develop a pre-Initiation curriculum

Jump to Section Once per academic term; at least 30 days before pre-Initiation week

13. Prepare for and meet with the ELC during a chapter visit

Jump to Section Each academic term

14. Prepare and complete outgoing officer transition Jump to Section Upon election of incoming High Kappa

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Operations GuideAdvanced Operations

Advanced / EssentialThe cross & crescent are symbolic of growth and the cross is our guide in folowing that ideal. At the advanced level, the officer not only meets basic expectations but demonstrates a higher understanding and is able to effectively teach and delegate officer tasks to associate members and other brothers in the chapter.

1. Coordinate with High Zeta officers to present the duties and responsibilities of their respective offices to the chapter

Jump to Section Weekly

2. Hold a reflection and meaning-making session after each pre-Initiation activity with all associate and initiated members

Jump to Section During Pre-Initiation Week

3. Appoint or elect a Big Brother Coordinator separate from the High Kappa

Jump to Section Prior to the High ZetaRetreat

4. Ensure big brothers are meeting for one-on-one sessions weekly during the fraternity education process.

Jump to Section Ongoing

5. Hold a debrief following the Associate Member Ceremony

Jump to Section Within 48 hours of theAssociate Member Ceremony

6. Coordinate and present the Big Brother Ceremony with the Big Brother Coordinator and the High Phi

Jump to Section Upon selection of big brothers

Officer Tasks Jump to Section Frequency

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Operations GuideExceptional Operations

The exceptional officer incorporates the basic and advanced expectations and is able to tie the Core Values and Learning Model in his efforts to teach and delegate officer tasks to associate members and other brothers in the chapter.

Exceptional / Preferred

Jump to AppendixSupplementary material that

support each task required as an officer

Jump to Personal TasksWrite in your own personal goals for your term as

an officer task required as an officer

Officer Tasks Jump to Section Frequency

1. Ensure all other officers utilize the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model during their educational sessions

Jump to Section Ongoing (365 days)

2. Prepare for and submit Lambda Chi Alpha (Lewis A. Plourd Fraternity Education) and campus awards pertaining to fraternity education

Jump to Section Each academic year

3. Prepare and utilize a survey to receive constructive criticism from associate members and brothers concerning the overall Associate Member Program

Jump to Section Within a week after Initiation

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The High Kappa is the fraternity educator for the entire chapter. The member entrusted with this obligation and privilege must be a strong leader because within his office the High Kappa can exert influence over both new and older members. It is this influence which can play an important role in determining whether the men of his chapter will be true fraternity men for life or if they will merely wear the letters of Lambda Chi Alpha.

The fate and the mindset of the chapter rely on your ability to lead each member and to provide lessons and experiences that stimulate deep thinking, during and post lesson. Knowing the definition of a value is great, but understanding it and defining it yourself is desired.

Constitution & Statutory Article II Code III-24 reads as follows: “The High Kappa shall be Chairman of the Committee on Fraternity Education. He shall plan and supervise a course of Fraternity Education for all members based on the history, aims, ideals, laws, programs, policies, and traditions of the institution, the General Fraternity, and the Active Chapter.”

There are many aspects of the duties and responsibilities of the High Kappa which need a more detailed description. After looking through the qualities needed for a High Kappa it appears that the position is suited for none other than a man of sterling character, supreme leadership, and immutable resolve. This observation is not far from the truth when we consider that the High Kappa is required to direct the development of young men with assorted personalities and varied backgrounds, as well as demand and receive support from the members’ opinions and attitudes. The High Kappa must stress the importance of fraternity education to the entire chapter.

The High Kappa must see that each member, whether initiated or associated, fulfills his obligations of membership. When a man joins Lambda Chi Alpha, he makes a commitment to:

• Have time to give the proper attention to the interests of Lambda Chi Alpha.

• Meet all his financial obligations.

• Regard Lambda Chi Alpha with a spirit of sincerity and respect.

• Give Lambda Chi Alpha’s teachings all his earnest consideration.

• Conduct himself as a gentleman at all times and show courtesy to all.

• Work diligently in the pursuit of academic excellence.

• Take part in all suitable extracurricular activities.

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Prepare and complete officer transition

• Receive every member of Lambda Chi Alpha as a brother.

• Maintain secrecy with respect to ritualistic matters.

• Strive for improvement.

• Support freedom, justice, and patriotism.

• Employ his abilities and skill for the good of society.

• Ensure the strict adherence to all ideals, laws, oaths, and traditions of the fraternity.

The High Kappa has the essential opportunity of providing information about membership obligations in a manner that will allow our members the opportunity to understand and fulfill these obligations. It is the duty of the chapter, the officers, and especially the High Kappa to see that these obligations are learned.

To assist in this process, an Officer Duties and Responsibilities / Transition Checklist was created and can be found in the Appendix.

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Depending on the chapter’s circumstances, there may be annual or semiannual retreats for the High Zeta. A retreat for the High Zeta focuses on goal setting and calendar planning. In preparation you should review what the previous High Kappa has achieved and explore new ways to conduct your office. The Operations Guide can be a huge help in creating your goals at the retreat. Here are some sample goals a High Kappa should achieve during his tenure in office:

• Plan and execute different experiential learning sessions for all members each week this semester.

• Have 80% chapter attendance for all fraternity education events this semester.

• Have all big brothers sign a Big Brother Contract by the time of the Big Brother Ceremony.

• Hold an educational session on the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model for associate members in the first week following bid acceptance.

Reflect on how these educational events and goals are consistent with our Seven Core Values. The goals you create need to be structured. They should include a deadline and you should constantly work towards achieving them. After you have completed your goals, challenge yourself to create new goals.

The duties and responsibilities of the High Kappa work in concert with many other chapter offices, especially the High Phi. It is essential that the High Kappa and High Phi work together to educate associate members and execute a successful pre-Initiation week.

Additional Goals and Objectives can be determined using the following questions:

• How can we completely integrate associate members into the chapter at-large?

• How can we continue each member’s fraternity education throughout his undergraduate career as an associate member and initiated brother?

• How can we completely eliminate all forms of unnatural separation?

• How can we establish a unified chapter using our Seven Core Values?

Prepare for and participate in the High Zeta Retreat

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There are several items to take into consideration when building an education plan and calendar. Among the factors to consider are Lambda Chi Alpha standards and expectations, university regulations, chapter feedback on previous fraternity education events, and other items on the chapter calendar. Some universities might have a specific time frame regarding the time between association and initiation (ask the campus official overseeing the IFC for guidance); if no specific time frame is given, the associate member program should last about eight weeks. One week should be reserved for each of the Seven Core Values and the final week should include several pre-Initiation activities to prepare men to receive our Initiation Ritual.

While planning your Fraternity Education Program, refer to the section “Create and implement a fraternity education program organized around the Seven Core Values,” to gain different ideas on activities for our Core Values.

Before solidifying the education calendar, consult the chapter calendar created by the High Gamma and a calendar of university events. The benefits here are twofold. First, you may want to schedule all fraternity education at the same time each week and need to know the best time for all members to be able to attend. Second,, it is easy to take advantage of events already taking place on campus that are relatable to our Seven Core Values to lighten the burden of fraternity education for yourself and for all undergraduate members.

Additionally, when creating your High Kappa education plan it is important to utilize all other High Zeta members and appointive officers (examples, Big Brother Coordinator, Historian, etc.). Refer to section “Coordinate with all other officers the educational programming for the associate and initiated members.“ The High Kappa is not the only officer that has something to teach.

Writing a budget is simple once you have created your calendar, organized all of your events, and list the materials you will need. You can find a sample budget in the appendix. Make sure that after you complete your budget you turn it into the Executive Committee for review and approval so that you are “good to go, financially,” for the academic term that correlates.

Prepare and complete a High Kappa education plan, including a budget and calendar

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Ensuring that all chapter officers are included in fraternity education is extremely important. It is the High Kappa’s role and expectation to utilize every High Zeta’s officers and appointive officers, to assist in the chapter’s education sessions. Many other offices (High Iota, High Epsilon, High Phi, etc.) contain an educational programing component and should lead sessions under their charge.

In order to complete this task it is your role to collaborate with all officers on what educational curriculum should be presented. Many officers have required education that must be completed every year if not every academic term.

For example the following officers have education sessions included in their duties as officers.

Some examples include the following:

• High Delta: Include his recruitment education sessions or a recruitment event as the experience and lesson for Duty

• High Theta: Include his service/philanthropy events and education sessions as the experience and lesson for Service and Stewardship

Again, the High Kappa doesn’t need to add more to the schedule if the schedule already provides a strong fraternity education program. Don’t reinvent the wheel, instead direct the wheel to where you want it to go.

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High AlphaRoberts Rules of OrderChapter meeting expectationsExecutive Committee expectations

High GammaOfficer Portal trainingHistorian obligations

High EpsilonSober monitor education

High PhiRitual educationZAX Sessions

High BetaExtracurricular activity importanceImportance of committees

High TauBreakdown of chapter financesPersonal finances

High SigmaStudy skillsTime managementGraduate school prep

High RhoHow to be a good alumnus

High ThetaImportance of servicePublic relations

High DeltaCore Value identification in conver-sationsRecruitment proceduresBid discussion education

High IotaEvent Planning FormFederal, state, local law and uni-versity policiesHarm reduction education

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It is essential that the membership is actively involved in the new member education process. Brothers should contribute during debriefing sessions and continue their own growth and development. Men who have not been appointed as big brothers will get to know the associate members and will be actively involved in the associate member process.

As a fraternity, Lambda Chi Alpha uses the rich diversity within each chapter to enhance the undergraduate experience. No significant difference exists between associate members and initiated brothers except the knowledge of the ritualistic mysteries of Lambda Chi Alpha. All other distinctions are artificial, and hence create a barrier between men. Having the entire active membership present for fraternity education sends a reassuring message to associate members and demonstrates the pursuit of strong brotherhood.

To accomplish this task, many different approaches could be taken. Listed below are examples:

• Turn brotherhood events into fraternity education experiences.

-Shift the chapter mentality from boring brotherhood events and boring fraternity education sessions to more exciting brotherhood/fraternity education sessions.

-Combining two events into one drives attendance, because it frees up the chapter schedule.

-Pooling High Beta and High Kappa budgets for brotherhood/fraternity education events allows for larger, more memorable events.

• Host fraternity education sessions at a time where everyone is already present.

-Before a chapter meeting

-After a chapter meeting

-After other required events (university presentation, etc.)

Ensure that at least 70% of all chapter members attend all fraternity education sessions

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“Perhaps the most fundamental change which was made at this Assembly was the complete elimination of pledgeship, and the adoption of Fraternity Education to replace pledge education. The term ‘pledge’ was officially replaced by ‘Associate Member.’ We feel in fact that this action is one of the most significant changes by any fraternity in the past 50 years.”

-George Spasyk, Executive Director, 1969-1990, following the 1972 Portland General Assembly.

The concept of fraternity education is as old and as deep as those of the fraternity itself. In fraternity education, men are brought into the chapter as individuals and are involved in the entire chapter as responsible and participating members. Their talents are used to further the experience offered by the chapter. Associate Members are given the same privileges and responsibilities as an Initiated Brother except for the right to witness the Initiation Ritual, to vote on matters concerning the Initiation Ritual, or to vote on candidates for initiation or termination of Associate Membership.

In short, there are no distinctions between Associate Members and Initiated Brothers except those stated above; rather, each man is accepted on his own merits and is made a responsible member of Lambda Chi Alpha from the beginning. Every man is an individual, coming from every conceivable background. As a fraternity, Lambda Chi Alpha uses the rich diversity within each Chapter to enhance the Lambda Chi Alpha experience. Every chapter must learn to find a place for every individual to grow within Lambda Chi Alpha. In Lambda Chi Alpha, no great difference exists between Associate Members and Initiated Brothers except knowledge in the ritualistic mysteries of Lambda Chi Alpha. All other distinctions are artificial, and hence create a barrier between men. When two men become friends in a social setting, it is normally through finding common interests and they then pursue those interests together. Lambda Chi Alpha is not any different. Through involvement in Lambda Chi Alpha, a new member can find those with whom he has the most in common. This is a natural process and there need be only an opportunity for people to come together for this to occur naturally.

Fraternity education is a natural process which through creative programming, a chapter can provide a positive growing and learning experience. Different people will integrate into the chapter at different rates. Actually, a chapter is a continuous process of getting to know people, so there need not be any alarm if some men appear to be a bit slow in responding to others. Let each man proceed at his own pace, and give everyone the opportunity to get to know each other through quality programming, a high degree of involvement, and a diversification of chapter activity. A true fraternity education program gives a chapter a sound sense of fraternalism because equality and sharing are all a member knows. Each man will learn how to open up to other individuals in order to get to know them and in order to bring them into his society. This is an important lesson in fraternity. The cornerstone of fraternity education is simple: with regard to each other all individuals in the chapter interact with one another on a fraternal level. In short, the correct way in which to treat an Associate Member is just as you would a friend or brother. To make a rigid institution of what is essentially a friend making process is to falsify that process and generally leads to hazing.

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There is no “making work” in Lambda Chi Alpha. There is no pledge class (or Associate Member) officers because there is no emphasis on class unity, only on the chapter’s. There are no special duties designated only for the Associate Members; we are all equally involved in all responsibilities and obligations. There is no place for deliberately insufficient work, like cleaning floors with toothbrushes or even relying only on one set of members to clean up for us; we must all participate and use our time and resources to the maximum degree possible. Lambda Chi Alpha has no excessive manpower or time to waste – everything we do should be designed to contribute to the chapter’s programming.

The Goals and Objectives of Fraternity Education

• To totally and completely integrate an Associate Member into the mainstream of the Chapter.

• To continue each member’s fraternity education throughout his undergraduate years as an Associate Member and Initiated Brother.

• To completely eliminate all forms of unnatural separation.

• To establish a standard of treatment for both the Associate Member and Initiated Brother – complete equality.

• To establish a unified Chapter as the standard and for each member to assist in the complete elimination of pledgeship as the antiquated standard.

• To plan fraternity education for all Initiated Brothers and Associate Members in the Chapter.

During your undergraduate career, you will partake in many new experiences that you would not have had elsewhere. Being a college student is as much about learning outside of the classroom as it is within the classroom. Experiential learning is recognized by Lambda Chi Alpha as a crucial element to a member’s growth and development. The fundamental experiential learning process in Lambda Chi Alpha begins in associate member orientation and remains consistent throughout one’s entire life. During fraternity education, an event should be held each week to illustrate that session’s respective Core Value. For example, a weekend camping retreat at a national park where brothers and associates clean and refurbish a campground illustrates Service and Stewardship. Events such as bringing in a veteran to speak on the Core Value of Duty or bringing in a guest from a women’s advocacy group to speak on Respect are simple, but effective. It is your duty as High Kappa to facilitate this learning process by arranging rich experiences for all members

A breakdown of Core Values and possible experiential learning activities are located in the Appendix.

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The Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model is a four step process. The True Brother Initiative involves a progression from experience focused on the Seven Core Values and Four Roles of True Brotherhood to self-reflection about this experience to creating a sense of personal meaning for it to sharing this process with other brothers. The High Kappa’s responsibility is to facilitate and support this learning model. Have Associate Members share their experiences with big brothers then ask them to spend some private time reflecting on the experience. You might suggest some ideas or questions to help your big brothers and little brothers reflect productively. Then, have the pair spend time together discussing the experi-ence, the associate member’s reactions to it, and its meaning/significance in relation to the focus of the week’s curriculum—The Seven Core Values and Four Roles of True Brotherhood. Be sure to share your own thoughts, feelings, and related experiences. It is often useful to periodically review your debriefing experiences with everyone in conversation or group meetings.

Remember:

• Share the experience.

• Encourage self-reflection

• Discuss and debrief the experience

• Relate experiences to Outer Circle concepts and goals

• Share your own experience and journey

Here is an example of the learning model

• Experience – Conduct the bridge builder activity

• Reflection – Spend time thinking about what exactly happened during the bridge builder activity

• Making Meaning - Make connections between the experience and the Fraternity/your personal experiences

• Share - Discuss your thoughts during the debrief

An experience should be conducted every week to educate the entire chapter. After having conducted the experience you should host a chapter-wide debrief. After receiving time to think through their shared experience, all members should come together to make meaning of the exercise and how it relates to the Fraternity, its values, and our mottos and symbols. Continuing to grow in the knowledge of Lambda Chi Alpha is essential to keep chapter members motivated throughout their time as an active member. Big brothers should also follow up with the associate members and host another small debrief to review the event. This debrief may be separate or during a full High Kappa session, which includes discussion and even reviewing the journal questions found in the Paedagogus. This is another opportunity to have the men reflect on what they are learning as they progress through Associate Membership.

Present and implement the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model

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It is an honor and privilege in Lambda Chi Alpha to serve as a big brother. A big brother will guide his little brother throughout his associate membership and beyond. A High Kappa must trust all big brothers and be able to delegate responsibilities to them over the course of the semester. To prevent common missteps in big brother selection, look below:

• If a member does not assist with recruitment of an associate member or does not regularly attend recruitment events, he should not be eligible for being selected as a big brother.

• If a member is in bad standing with the chapter, he should under no circumstances be the big brother of a member. The big brother must be an example and guide to his little brother at all times and if he is not in good standing with the chapter, he is likely not fit for that role.

• A Big Brother Contract should be distributed to all big brother candidates and should be signed before any are considered. If a brother fails to fulfill his obligations as stated in the contract, then they are expected to resign as a big brother.

Because of the big brothers’ roles in setting an example for all associate members, men who are selected as big brothers should exemplify the highest ideals of membership. Things to consider when choosing big brothers:

Chapters face long-term problems when High Kappas and Big Brother Coordinators weigh the wrong characteristics in big brother selection. Things not to consider when choosing big brothers:

Ultimately the big brother/little brother relationship should serve to provide support and assistance to the associate member. Selfish considerations in big brother selection fail to accomplish that central goal.

Coordinate the assignment of big brothers with the Big Brother Coordinator or Big Brother Committee

• Adherence to the values of the Lambda Chi Alpha

• Participation in chapter activities

• Involvement in recruitment

• Academic performance

• Time-management skills

• Interest in mentoring younger members

• Offices held

• Seniority

• Whether a man has previously served as a big brother

• How recently a man has served as a big brother

• Whether the member is “social”

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A good Big Brother Contract is all encompassing. The specific duties of the Big Brother need to be laid out plainly. Likewise, all expectations outside of the normal duties of a big brother should be highlighted.

The minimum standards for a Big Brother Contract are as follows:

• Be in and remain in good standing with the chapter and the Fraternity (scholastic, financial, and disciplinary)

• Attend all High Kappa sessions and ceremonies of the chapter

• Meet weekly with your little brother

• Attend big brother training

• Follow all oaths of membership and all laws of the fraternity

An example Big Brother Contract can be found in the Appendix

Create a Big Brother Contract to be approved by the Executive Committee and signed by all big brothers

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A Big Brother must be trained on how to properly fulfill all requirements and expectations. Leading up to the assignment of big brothers, you may begin to hold big brother training sessions for all brothers that may be interested in taking a little brother in the future. In these sessions, you should outline ALL expectations of a big brother.

The Role of Big Brothers

The role of the Big Brother in Lambda Chi Alpha’s True Brother initiative is incredibly important. Along with the High Kappa, the Big Brothers are entrusted with the responsibility of teaching our Associate Members about Lambda Chi Alpha and about brotherhood. Each Big Brother also has the duty to prepare his Little Brother to participate in our initiation ritual, as well as monitoring and facilitating his progress towards the Inner Circle.

The future of Lambda Chi Alpha and the quality of our brotherhood are literally in their hands. The role of the Big Brother is a very personal one. The relationships with their Little Brother will forever shape the Little Brother’s views about Lambda Chi Alpha, dedication to our ideals and values, and commitment to a vital sense of brotherly love. More than any other person, the Big Brother will direct and shape the kind of brother the Little Brother becomes.

At the same time, the Big Brother will exert a powerful influence on the development of their Little Brother’s character and values as he grows towards manhood. The friendship which Big Brothers form with their Little Brothers will last a lifetime and will reciprocally nurture the Big Brothers as well. Lambda Chi Alpha and all of our brothers within the bond are counting on you and the Big Brothers to take this role and its responsibilities seriously. Your dedication will make a critical difference to the future of your Chapter and the success of Lambda Chi Alpha.

Below, you will find some expectations of a big brother.

• Be in and remain in good standing with the Fraternity (scholastic, financial, and disciplinary)

• Attend all High Kappa sessions, experiential learning sessions, and ceremonies of the chapter

• Meet weekly with your little brother

• Attend big brother training

• Follow all oaths of membership and all laws of the fraternity

• Involve oneself in extracurricular activities

• Serve as the ideal example of a chapter member for your little brother

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Big Brother Training Curriculum

Effective Big Brothers require training, development, and practice. It is an honor to serve in this role. Earning that honor requires commitment and hard work. It is recommended that each chapter develops some form of Big Brother training and requires that each brother who wishes to serve in this role complete the training. Here is a sample outline for a Big Brother Training Curriculum.

Who Should Be a Big Brother?

• Review of Requirements

• Review of Big Brother Contract

• Panel discussion by several experienced Big Brothers about how to be an effective Big Brother

Exercise: Each participant lists 10 adjectives to describe his Big Brother and then describes how each characteristic impacted him and their relationships. Share/discuss in pairs, and follow up with group discussion.

Roles and Responsibilities of a Big Brother

• Review/discuss the characteristics of an ideal Big Brother

• Review/discuss the five (5) areas of Big Brother responsibility

• Examine/discuss the “Sharing the Journey” form

Exercise: Break into small groups of three and practice effective communication skills by role playing three sample discussions. Rotate the roles of Big Brother, Little Brother, and Observer (who watches the discussion and provides feedback). Sample discussion topics:

What are your personal goals?

What do you consider your greatest personal strength and weaknesses?

Describe the worst thing that ever happened to you.

Why did you join Lambda Chi Alpha?

What does brotherhood mean to you?

Process this experience with the entire group, and discuss what builds a strong and lasting friendship.

Exercise: Trust fall - Experience with several volunteer brothers. Discuss the role of trust in relationships and how it develops.

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Exercise: Brothers for Life—Ask your High Pi or another alumnus to describe his Big Brother and their relationships with a focus on how it impacted him across the years. Describe any continuing contact. Ask any seniors to reflect on their Big Brothers and the course of that relationship across time. Discuss the implications of these reflections for the current group of Big Brothers.

Review of True Brother Outer Circle Curriculum

• Discuss the Learning Model

• Experience ~ Reflect ~ Make Meaning ~ Debrief/Share

• Review the Seven Core Values

• Review the Four Roles of True Brotherhood

• Review Core Learning Goals for Each Week

Exercise: Role play in small groups processing the learning experience for one of the week’s curricula. Focus on one Core Value and one Role of Brotherhood per role play. Trade the roles of the Big Brother and Little Brother. Discuss in small groups and report experiences to the entire group. Develop a list of value-related experiences (events used to teach the week’s Core Value through experiential learning) for each of the Seven Core Values.

Panel discussion by the High Kappa, High Phi, and High Pi: How do you facilitate personal growth and fraternal identity in your Little Brother?

Transition to the Inner Circle

• Review and discuss Pre-Initiation activities and how to debrief them

• ZAX session with the High Phi/High Pi regarding ritualism and symbols

• Review the protocol to process the Initiation experience (2nd Degree) with Little Brothers

Exercise: Role play appropriate and effective processing of the ritual experience (2nd Degree), and discuss what comes next—How to help your Little Brother begin his Inner Circle Journey.

Closing Exercise: After a period of self-reflection, list the strengths and weaknesses which you bring to your role as a Big Brother. Divide into pairs and discuss with your partner. Discuss how to compensate for weakness. Process this with the entire group. Close with a reading of “The Bridge Builder” and a candle pass focusing on your related thoughts and feelings and your goals as a Big Brother.

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The Associate Member Ceremony is an open ceremony to which may be invited parents and families of associate members, local alumni, college or university officials, friends of members, and recruitment prospects.

This ceremony is a condensation of the pledge degree and three initiation degrees of the Theta Kappa Nu Fraternity. At the Union in 1939, this means was selected as the primary device for preserving the ritual heritage of Theta Kappa Nu in the combined brotherhood.

Although the script calls for the individuals holding the offices of High Alpha, High Beta, High Phi, High Delta, and High Kappa to perform the ceremony, substitutes may be used. The officers and all attendees (brothers, associate members, and guests) should be similarly attired, preferably in jacket and tie.

The Associate Member Ceremony must be completely memorized, including all movements. Therefore, sufficient rehearsals must be conducted to assure that the ceremony proceeds smoothly.

Equipment

• altar and plain white altar cloth

• coat of arms painting on wall

• flag of the country or countries of the candidates

• Greek lamp and lamp oil

• the Bible

• list of the full names of the candidates

• a copy of form 600A for each candidate to sign (High Gamma supplies)

• an associate member pin for each candidate

• a fire extinguisher

Coordinate and present the Associate Member Ceremony with High Phi

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Pre-Initiation, similar to the nature of man himself, has evolved over the years. The first kinds of Pre-Initiation were very similar to that of a “hell-week” mentality. In these types of events, new members called “pledges” would be directed to participate in activities that would humiliate them and the older brothers would try to test their passion for the fraternity by means of useless tests, activities, and other strange methods.

In 1925, Bruce McIntosh met with the Grand High Zeta to discuss Pre-Initiation events with many of the chapters that he visited. He was very concerned with the events in two major areas. The first area was the safety of the pledges (or new members), and the second area was if the practices were compatible with our ideals of the Fraternity. With the brothers’ forcing pledges to participate in hazing, they were going against all of the teachings learned in our ritual.

With this information provided by our chapters, the fraternity begins to slowly explore abolishing many practices that should never have been a part of Lambda Chi Alpha. While this process was tedious, pledgeship was abolished, and the term Associate Member was adopted in 1972. This changed the concept of Pre-Initiation as well, but it would take a few years after 1972 to implement changes. As Lambda Chi Alpha entered the 1980’s, Fraternity Education moved away from Associate Member only activities to chapter unity experiences. Programs were evaluated for their overall benefit to all the members.

Our Pre-Initiation is designed for all chapter members, both initiates and associates. The reason behind this is to prepare the entire chapter for the taking or re-taking of one’s fraternal oaths. The events are planned to enhance each members’ experience as a dedicated chapter member through the celebration of brotherhood. This is to be an experience that all members treasure as a vital part of the Lambda Chi Alpha experience.

The Goals of pre-Initiation

The chapter is about to undergo the most sacred part of our fraternity, the aspect of Lambda Chi Alpha that separates us from all other groups. This is our Initiation Exemplification. This ceremony should be prepared for in a variety of ways. Of course the actual ceremony should be memorized, equipment cleaned and washed, and a proper place should be secured. Besides the physical preparation for the ceremony it is important to be mentally prepared as well. This is where Pre-Initiation comes in. If your chapter does not feel mentally prepared for Ritual, then it would be a good idea to re-evaluate your chapter’s events.

Work with the chapter High Phi to develop a Pre-Initiation curriculum

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The goals of Pre-Initiation should be the rejoicing of our values and the celebration of brotherhood for the entire chapter. Here are four ways this is done:

Rededication

In this aspect Pre-Initiation serves to refresh the memory of both the old and new brothers about the ideals of the Fraternity. These ideals are not secret, and can be found in the Associate Member Ceremony as well as our Creed. Pre-Initiation events should be focused on the understanding of these teachings and ideals.

Celebration

Pre-Initiation is a time for rejoicing and fun! These are the times that the chapter should be the closest. Differences are put aside, members try to develop tighter relationships with each other and all are included in a variety of events that celebrate the bond of Lambda Chi Alpha.

Inspiration

Pre-Initiation should be a time of enjoying each other’s friendship and awaiting our Ritual Exemplification. The brothers know how inspiring of a ceremony it is and need to work as an entire chapter to make sure that the Associate Members feel inspired as well. All should be inspired by the work and dedication of all members that have prepared themselves for the upcoming ceremony.

Reflection

Pre-Initiation should be a time when all members reflect on their motives for being in the chapter. It is a time when members re-evaluate their involvement in the chapter based on our ideals. Have they met their goals as a member? What are some aspects they can work on for next semester? Have they been arguing with other members in the chapter? Can members resolve conflicts?

Making a Great Pre-Initiation Experience

The best way to create a great experience during Pre-Initiation is to have as many members participating in all events as possible. The effects of Pre-Initiation are essential to the understanding of Lambda Chi Alpha. Therefore, most of these events should be mandatory. Obviously, if members have prior engagements one cannot be forced to attend, but most members should want to attend these events because of their importance. Not to mention that they are important but they are also fun and crucial to the bond that we all possess as members of Lambda Chi Alpha. Now that attendance has been stated as an important element in a good Pre-Initiation experience, let’s look at other critical parts to a great experience.

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Being Mindful to Reduce the Potential for Harm

While all members know that preparing for ritual is very important, brothers must also consider the obligation to offer a safe and secure environment to share the experiences. Though not always solemn, these events should be treated with a degree of reverence and respect.

• The presence of alcohol and other controlled substances are strictly forbidden.

• Being under the influence of any controlled substance should disqualify attendance.

• Any time an open flame is present, a working fire extinguisher should be at hand.

• Events should be in compliance with all local, state and federal laws.

Selecting Worthy Pre-Initiation Experiences

In order to make your Pre-Initiation a successful one it will be important to assess your chapter’s needs. In planning the different kinds of activities needed, it will be important for the High Kappa and High Phi to evaluate the chapter by asking the following questions:

1. What are the strengths of my chapter?

2. What are some of the challenges that are faced by my chapter?

3. How prepared are all members for receiving our Ritual?

4. Was there an event that may have strained chapter relations?

5. What are the current trends of the chapter?

After the High Kappa and High Phi have addressed these questions, it will be important to then plan out the chapter Pre-Initiation events. Let’s say that during the semester, there was a fight during the chapter after an intramural football game. This fight has separated the chapter ever since. It would be a good idea then to focus the events on unity, teamwork, and the bond that we all share together. This special emphasis may not be required next semester, but instead may need to focus more on the some of the teachings of our Associate Member Ceremony.

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Once the Pre-Initiation events have been created, after every event it will be important for the High Kappa and High Phi (or committee) to evaluate the events. Have an honest discussion on how the event went. The debriefing section of each activity is critical for evaluation of each activity.

Areas to look at could be:

1. What were the members’ reactions? Did it seem like they enjoyed the event?

2. What was the meaning of the event? How does it relate to the Ritual?

3. Did it foreshadow any part of the Ritual?

a. If it did, it will be important to revise the events for next time.

4. How long was the event? Should it have taken this long?

Three examples of Pre-Initiation schedules

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In addition to this Operation Guide, during your meeting with the ELC you should bring the following items to your meeting:

• Officer goals and action plan

• Copy of the fraternity education lesson plans with the purpose and mechanics of the lessons

• Big Brother Program overview and contracts

Please Describe the Experiential Learning Sessions for the Seven Core Values:

Loyalty

Duty

Respect

Prepare for and meet with the ELC during a chapter visit

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Service and Stewardship

Honor

Integrity

Personal Courage

How is the Learning Model Explained

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Are Big Brothers present at all Kappa Sessions?

Yes No

Are follow-up sessions performed by Big Brothers each week?

Yes No

It is also highly encouraged that the Big Brother Coordinator attends the meeting as well or schedules a separate meeting with the representative from the Office of Administration.

Meetings should be around one hour and if you are asked to complete any addition forms or handouts, please do so before the meeting takes place.

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Officer Transition

For a chapter/colony to be successful, it is important that its officers don’t “reinvent the wheel”. Valuable information and resources are lost each year due to an ineffective transition process. To assist in this pro-cess, an Officer Duties and Responsibilities / Transition Checklist was created and can be found in the Appendix. It is recommended that both the incoming and outgoing officers review the checklist before the actual transition occurs.

Prepare and complete outgoing officer transition

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Every chapter officer should have the opportunity to discuss their duties and responsibilities with the chapter. This should occur at a High Kappa session. By reviewing their office with the associate mem-bers especially, officers have a chance to encourage younger chapter members to contemplate running for election to an office. Additionally, this serves as an orientation to the High Zeta for all members.

All officers should review the following information before presenting during an education session:

• Officer Operations Guide

• Constitutional duties

• Local chapter responsibilities

Coordinate with High Zeta officers to present the duties and responsibilities of their respective offices to the chapter

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During Pre-Initiation, it is essential that the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model is followed. By following the Learning Model, members not only have meaningful experiences, but they’ll also gain understanding of the purpose of each pre-Initiation event.

The journey to becoming a brother in Lambda Chi Alpha begins with self-awareness. The more you know yourself, the more easily and completely you can commit yourself to our teachings and our broth-erhood. The True Brother Initiative greatly emphasizes experiential learning and reflection. We must constantly be looking to learn from our experiences in order to grow as men. During the short time that you are in college you will have the opportunity to learn about yourself in many different ways. During the next few weeks and the months ahead in your undergraduate career you will have the opportunity to learn about yourself in many different ways. Participating in all the different activities of the fraternity will provide avenues to learn your strengths and weaknesses, things about your interpersonal style and more about who you are and what you value.

To begin the journey this exercise offers the opportunity to take an inventory about who you are and some of the ways you think and feel about yourself.

Hold a reflection and meaning making session after each pre-initiation activity with all associate and initiated members

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To accomplish the tasks of both educating the Chapter and organizing the orientation program would be too large a job for any member. The High Kappa needs someone to be in charge of Associate Member Orientation. That person is the Big Brother Coordinator. The Big Brother Coordinator serves with the High Kappa and directs the Big Brother education of the Associate Members. The Big Brother Coordinator may be selected by the High Kappa, appointed by the High Zeta or elected by the Chapter. The method of selection of this office should be spelled out in the Chapter’s by-laws.

The Big Brother Coordinator has several responsibilities ranging from Big Brother selection to weekly management of big brothers. Some duties of the Big Brother Coordinator are:

• Ensuring that all big brothers attend a training session and sign a Big Brother Contract before serving as a big brother

• Following up with all big brothers and little brothers that all of the tasks on the big brother contract are being completed

• Hold bi-monthly big brother forums to hear how the process is being completed and if any big brothers need assistance

• Work with the High Kappa or Education Committee to develop curriculum

• Assisting the High Kappa with all necessary tasks and events as needed

The High Kappa should have weekly meetings with the Big Brother Coordinator to ensure that all of his duties are taking place and offering help when it is needed.

Appoint or elect a Big Brother Coordinator separate from the High Kappa

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If you have an appointed or elected Big Brother Coordinator, include this duty within his office. If he is already tasked with too many duties or you do not have a Big Brother Coordinator, complete these tasks as the High Kappa of the chapter.

During the weekly one-on-one sessions between big brothers and associate members, the following should be reviewed:

• The week’s experiential learning session and Core Value

• Academic responsibilities for the week (tests, quizzes , papers and exams)

• Chapter events coming up

• Personal events coming up

It is crucial the Big Brother regularly discuss their Little Brother’s progress with him and give him honest feed-back regarding your perception of his growth and development in our brotherhood. This discussion should be a shared dialogue not just a critique or report card. Ask him how he sees his progress and respond with affirmation, reinforcement, clear and constructive feedback, and suggestions for improvement. Be sure to include compliments as well as constructive criticism. Offer help to achieve goals where Little Brothers may be falling behind. Explore the reasons for lack of progress and related feelings and motivational issues.

When the time comes to vote on candidates for Initiation, the big brother should be his little brother’s main advocate and offer honest insight into his associate member experience.

Weekly one-on-one sessions can be performed over meals and can be a great way to connect. Some chapters may want to utilize a signature sheet to be turned into the High Kappa or Big Brother Coordinator showing that the men are meeting weekly.

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The Associate member ceremony is the beginning of the journey to brotherhood. This is the introduc-tion of our fraternity, obligations, and values. It is important for the associate to truly grasp what has happened during the ceremony. This ceremony is a condensed version of Theta Kappa Nu Fraternities’ pledge degree and three initiation degrees. This session can be used as a transition into a discussion on Theta Kappa Nu history.

Debrief

With all of the brothers and associate members, the High Phi should discuss the importance and mean-ing behind Associate Member Ceremony. The Phi should be prepared to ask the associate members what they experienced and how that experience made them feel. Emphasis should be placed on the oath and the values presented in the ceremony and the application of those values to life.

Sample questions:

• Begin a discussion about Fraternity and its meaning for each person.

• Why does the Delta talk about Fraternity?

• How do the clasped hands reflect Fraternity?

• What are the stereotypes involving Fraternities in the media and on your campus?

• How do you overcome these stereotypes?

• Begin a discussion of Patriotism and what it means for each person.

• Why does the Beta talk about Patriotism?

• How does a flag reflect Patriotism?

• How does a person show Patriotism?

• Do you know someone who has demonstrated a great sense of Patriotism?

• How has this person’s example influenced your thinking about what it means to be Patriotic?

• How do you show your Patriotism in your day-to-day life?

• Begin a discussion on Learning and what it means for each person.

• Why does the Phi talk about Learning?

Hold a debrief following the Associate Member Ceremony

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• How does the Greek lamp reflect Learning?

• What is the importance of Learning to Lambda Chi Alpha?

• What is the importance of Learning to society?

• Begin a discussion on Morality and what it means for each person.

• Why does the Kappa talk about Morality?

• How does the Bible reflect Morality?

• What morals do you live your life by?

• What does “Every Man a Man” mean to you?

• What values should a man possess?

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This is where the Title goes for the Header of the Manual Officer TaskCoordinate and present the Big Brother Ceremony with the Big Brother Coordinator and the High Phi

Lambda Chi Alpha does not have an official big brother ceremony; chapters and colonies have shared their big brother ceremonies and rituals at Conclaves and summer conferences for several years, however and a large number are quite similar. A copy of the Big Brother Ceremony is included in the Appendix. Utilizing a big brother ceremony lends importance to what will be the central personal relationship throughout associate membership. Work with the High Phi and Big Brother Coordinator to present a Big Brother Ceremony.

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Ensure that all other officers utilize the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model during their educational sessions

Utilizing the Learning Model is expected not just for High Kappa sessions. Many other officers present educational programming and the Learning Model should be reflected in those events as well.

• Pre-Initiation events

• Harm reduction education sessions

• Social education

• Scholastic programming

• Financial education sessions

The more a chapter focuses on education using the Learning Model, the easier and more powerful all education sessions become.

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At every Lambda Chi Alpha summer conference up to three chapters receive the Lewis A. Plourd Fra-ternity Education Award. The award recognizes outstanding programing and initiative of Lambda Chi Alpha undergraduate chapters in developing a culture of fraternity education utilizing the Lambda Chi Alpha Learning Model.

They can be emailed to [email protected]. As the semester progresses, you should fill out as much information as possible so that when it comes time to submit an application the majority of it may already be completed.

Award applications can be found by logging on to Officer Portal and opening the Document Library.

Many colleges and universities present a similar award at their Greek awards ceremonies at the end of each academic year. Receiving recognition for your chapter’s success in fraternity education program-ming can be a great source of pride for the chapter.

Prepare for and submit for Lambda Chi Alpha (Lewis A. Plourd Fraternity Education) and campus awards pertaining to Fraternity Member Education

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The only way to improve fraternity education from year to year is to receive feedback from participants and to adapt the program when necessary. This can be done by utilizing websites such as Survey Monkey or a Google document to develop a survey to send out to the chapter. Here are some mock questions to ask:

• How often did you meet with your big brother?

• What was your favorite Kappa session?

• What was your least favorite Kappa session? Why?

• What is one area you feel we can improve in regards to fraternity education?

• What can we do to improve the big brother program?

Prepare and utilize a survey to receive constructive criticism from associate members and brothers concerning the overall associate member program

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This checklist will provide the incoming and outgoing officer with many talking points that should be covered during the transition.

Duties and Responsibilities• What are my officer duties and responsi-

bilities?• Approximately how much time do I spend

with each?

Officer Operations Guide• Do you have a copy of the officer manu-

al?• Were there any sections that you found

more beneficial?

Ceremonies/Rituals• Do I have a role in the Associate Member

Ceremony?• Do I have a role in the Ritual for Conduct-

ing Business Meetings?

Officer Notebook • Do you have an officer notebook?• What should be included in it?

Officer Reports• Are there any reports that I am responsible

for?• If so, when, by whom, and how do they

need to be completed?

Event Planning Form• What is the Event Planning Form?• When do I need to complete them?

Constitution and Statutory Code, By-Laws• Are there any policies that directly relate to

this office?• Are there any policies that I am responsible

for enforcing?

Advisers• Do I have an adviser? If so, what is the

role between the two of us?• What is my role with the Greek adviser?• Who is the educational leadership consul-

tant in this area?

Committees• What committees am I on?• What do I need to know?

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Yearly Calendar• When did you schedule your

events? When should I?• Are there any deadlines I should

know about?

Meetings • What is my role at the chapter meet-

ing? High Zeta meeting?• Am I a member of the Executive Com-

mittee?

Budget• Can I see a copy of your budget from

last term?• What areas do I need more or less

money?• Brainstorm and develop a budget

proposal.

Officer Goals• What were your goals?• What goals were met and which ones

were not? Why?• Brainstorm and develop new goals.

Advice• If you had an additional year, what

would you do different?• What advice do you have for me?

Programs and Events• What programs, projects, and/or

events were effective during the year? Why?

• What programs, projects, and/or events were not effective during the year? Why?

Additional Questions/Concern

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iii. Sample Budget You should develop a budget or operating plan for the entire academic year. It is recommended that you plan for each semester or quarter and add the summer months if applicable.

Budget Notes: List events, activities, supplies, etc. that you would like to implement or utilize. Example: Office of the High Kappa - Purchasing Education Materials (Binders, Pens, Pencils, Journals, etc). - Fraternity Education Costs - Big Brother Program Costs - Food, etc. Budget Proposal: What do you project your expenditures to be during the next budget timeline (semester,quarter/year)? **Please e specific** Example of Budget Proposal:

Next, have the High Alpha, High Tau, the previous officer, and one at-large officer offer feedback on your budget proposal. The officers should answer the following questions: What is missing? What should be deleted? Is an item over/under budget? Any other thoughts?

Office of the High Kappa

Education Materials Binder x 10 $40.00 Journal x 10 $30.00 Total $70.00

Fraternity Education Candles $25 Laser Tag $150.00 Total $175.00

Big Brother Program Gifts $200.00 Game night $100.00 Total $300.00

Food Chapter member Grill out$250.00 Total $250.00

Grand Total $795.00

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Duty Experiential Learning Activities for Duty:

• Candle / Lamp pass (duty to brotherhood)

• Police ride-along • Canned food journey • Brotherhood Dinner • Volunteer in the community • House Jobs • Visit the International

Headquarters building in Indianapolis

• Work at a soup kitchen • Have an associate member

shadow a High Zeta officer for a week

• Flag drop • Web of Brotherhood • Wheat Rx • Work Concessions as a chapter

fund-raiser • Possible movies to watch: Good

Morning Vietnam, 300, The Last Castle, We Were Soldiers, u571, Pearl Harbor, Saving Private Ryan

• Guest Speakers on Duty: War Veteran, ROTC member, Pastor / Minister / Clergyman

                       

Duty Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Duty:

 1. What  does  the  phrase  “fulfill  your  duties”  

mean  to  you?  (Write  common  themes  on  a  flip  chart.)  

 2. Relate  answers  to  the  above  question  to  

the  Chapter  and  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.    (The  object  here  is  to  establish  the  existence  of  an  agreed  upon  set  of  expectations  for  a  brother  tied  to  the  notion  of  Duty.)  

 3.   Have  you  known  anyone  who  demonstrated  a  highly-­‐developed  sense  of  Duty?  Who?    4.   How  did  they  demonstrate  their  sense  of  Duty?  What  did  they  do?    5.   How  did  their  example  influence  how  you  think  about  Duty?    6.   What  does  the  phrase  “not  subordinate  Duty  to  expediency”  mean  to  you?    7.   The  formal  definition  of  Duty  speaks  of  exceeding  one’s  Duty  in  ethical  matters.    What  does  this  mean?  Can  you  think  of  some  examples?    8.   What  does  a  leader  do  to  inspire  a  sense  of  Duty  in  those  he  leads?  

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Respect Experiential Learning Activities for Respect:

• Visit a Veterans Cemetery • Participate in Double Vision • Flag Drop • Sorority women speaking on

respecting women • Invite teachers to a banquet

sponsored by the chapter • Mock Exec Trial • Human Knot • Badge/Pin • Visit a historical figures monument • Host an Etiquette Dinner • Teach how to dress properly • Attend a police or military funeral • Watch Cinderella Man, Coach

Carter, Remember the Titans, Tuesdays with Morey, Sandlot, Taking Chance, Rain Man, The Elephant Man, Money Ball

• Host a guest speaker from a women's advocacy group

Respect Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Respect:

1. Give Webster’s Dictionary definition of Respect as a starting point for discussion. Compare that definition of Respect to our Core Value of Respect. Discuss the differences. 2. Identify someone in your life, not in the Chapter, that you Respect. 3. How did this person gain your Respect? 4. Identify someone in the Chapter that you Respect. 5. How did this person gain your Respect? (Look for common themes in answers to Number III and V.) 6. How is Respect earned in the Chapter? 7. Is it important to be Respected in the Chapter? Why? 8. How can a person lose Respect in the Chapter? 9. Have you observed behaviors in the Chapter that were disrespectful? What were they? 10. How should disrespectful behaviors be dealt with? (Opportunity here for discussion of conflict resolution.) 11. How does a leader demonstrate Respect?

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Service and Stewardship Experiential Learning Activities for Service and Stewardship:

• Volunteer at a soup kitchen • Participate in assisting the elderly • Have the associate members and big

brothers participate in a service project together

• Bring in a guest speaker from a non-profit organization

• Participate in an all-campus cleanup • Participate in local philanthropies • Watch Patch Adams, Finding

Forrester, Pay it Forward, Dark Knight, Ratatouille, Saving Private Ryan, and Radio

                                             

Service and Stewardship Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Service and Stewardship:  

1. What does the phrase “service before self” mean to you? 2. How do we “Serve” Lambda Chi Alpha? 3. What are we doing when we are “good Stewards” of Lambda Chi Alpha? (List these on a flip chart.) 4. What are some of the things we do when we are NOT good Stewards of Lambda Chi Alpha? (List these on a separate flip chart and compare with chart from No. 3.) 5. How does the concept of Service and Stewardship relate to the values of Loyalty, Duty, and Respect? (Object here is for Associate Members to begin to see the Core Values as interrelated rather than isolated concepts.) 6. “Effective leaders always exercise authority as opposed to power.” If the above is true, what does the quote, “authority is always built on service and sacrifice,” mean? What in this quote sounds familiar to you? 7. Effective leaders identify the legitimate needs, rather than wants, of their people and their organization and serve them. What are the differences between “wants” and “needs?” (Remember, as we develop our Associate Members we are moving them from “I want” to “We need”.) 8. What do the words “Servant Leader” mean to you?

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Honor Experimental Learning Activities for Honor:

• Interview a couple that has been married for over 25 years

• Watch Last Samurai, Men of Honor, 300, The Thin Red Line, Slumdog Millionare, Cool Runnings

• Visit a War Memorial • Host an ROTC member or

instructor as a guest speaker • Visit a Marine Base • Volunteer at a retirement home • Bring in a commander from ROTC

Honor Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Honor:  

1.   What  do  the  words  “Honorable  Person”  mean  to  you?  (List  characteristics  on  flip  chart.)    2.   Do  you  know  someone  you  would  describe  as  Honorable?    3.   Who  are  they  and  how  do  they  demonstrate  the  value  of  Honor  in  their  behavior?    4.   Is  there  someone  in  the  Chapter  whom  you  regard  as  an  Honorable  person?  Why?    5.   What  does  the  phrase  “Honor  provides  the  motive  for  action,”  mean?    6.   How  could  one  be  dishonorable?    7.   How  does  the  value  of  Honor  relate  to  the  other  Core  Values  we  have  discussed?    8.   Can  an  Honorable  person  ever  countenance  hazing  in  any  form?  Explain?    9.   Is  an  Honorable  person  someone  who  just  follows  the  rules?  Elaborate.    10.  How  does  a  leader  act  Honorably?  

 

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Integrity Experiential Learning Activities for Integrity:

• Watch Twelve Angry Men, Crash, American History X, The Scent of a Woman, The Dark Knight, V for Vendetta

• Host a pastor / clergyman as a guest speaker

• Participate in the Heinz Dilemma • Exec mock role play • Develop and have all members sign

a chapter social contract • Cross the Line • 3 Questions • Have a stock broker come in as a

guest speaker • Have associates find articles about

people they think have integrity and people they think who do not. Discuss what distinguishes one from the other and who gets more play in the media?

• Role play some typical situations in which a group of people try to put pressure on one person to do something that is against Lambda Chi Alpha's core values. Do this several times with different outcomes, such as caving into the group's pressure, or mustering the courage to stand up for what you believe. After the improvisation, discuss what the associates learned from this and find out if they can use it they are in a similar situation?

Integrity Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Integrity:

1. Why is Integrity important? In a Brother? In a leader? 2. What do we really mean when we say someone lacks Integrity? (Can not be trusted. Discuss Intent vs. Impact.) 3. What are things that can undermine a person’s Integrity? 4. Do you know someone you would describe as a person of Integrity? Who? 5. What do they say and do that tells you they are a person of Integrity? (List these characteristics on a flip chart.) 6. Can you imagine a situation in the Chapter where you might be pressured to compromise your Integrity? Elaborate. (Older Brothers can contribute here with their experiences.) 7. “Integrity is the bridge between character and conduct.” What does this quote mean? 8. What does the phrase “walk the talk” have to do with the value of Integrity? 9. How does a leader demonstrate Integrity?

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Personal Courage Experiential Learning Activities for Personal Courage:

• Ropes Course • Burning of the Faults • High/Low activity • Lamp Pass • If you really knew me you would

know “blank” • Roses and Thorns • Cross the Line • Guest speaker from soldier in the

armed forces • Crescens Somnium • Discuss problems in the chapter • Write a journal entry explaining a

personal weakness • Watch Glory Road, Tale Tale,

Behind Enemy Lines, Pay it Forward, Friday Night Lights, Money Ball, Black Hawk Down

• Discuss examples of personal courage in life

Personal Courage Debrief Questions for the Experiential Learning Activities for Personal Courage:

1. There are two types of Personal Courage. What are they?

a. Physical Courage b. Moral Courage c. (ZAX sessions or Post-Initiation

discussions should make the connection with the crossed

swords on the coat of arms and 2nd Degree.)

2. Is Courage the absence of fear? 3. Do you know someone who has demonstrated moral Courage? Who? 4. What were the circumstances? 5. What did they do? 6. Why do you think they acted as they did? What motivated them? 7. Did they suffer repercussions for their actions? If so, was that fair? 8. Why would “self-examination and willingness to change” require Courage? 9. Why is Personal Courage important in Lambda Chi Alpha? 10. How might your moral Courage be challenged in Lambda Chi Alpha? 11. How would you know that your response to this challenge was the correct one? (Here’s where they use all of the values to arrive at a decision or course of action.) 12. Why do leaders have to possess Personal Courage?

 

     

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v.  Pre-­‐Initiation  Schedules  Example  1:  

 Sunday   Monday   Tuesday   Wednesday   Thursday   Friday   Saturday     6:00  PM:  

Introduction  of  Pre-­‐Initiation  Schedule  to  Associate  Members  and  Brothers    6:15  PM:  Lamp  Pass    8:30  PM:  Lamp  Pass  Debrief/  dismissal  

7:00  PM:  Bridge  Builder    7:30  PM:  Bridge  Builder  Debrief    8:00  PM:  Introduction  to  Mock  Ritual    8:30  Dismissal      

7:00  PM:  Three  Questions    8:00  PM  Three  Questions  Debrief    8:30  Dismissal    

12:00  PM  Big  Brother/  Associate  Member  Lunch    7:00  PM:  Mock  Ritual    7:45  PM  Mock  Ritual  Debrief    8:15  Dismissal  

5:00  PM:  Initiation  Ritual  Begins  

1:00  PM:  ZAX  Session  

 Example  2:    Sunday   Monday   Tuesday   Wednesday   Thursday   Friday   Saturday       7:00  PM:  

Introduction  of  Pre-­‐Initiation  Schedule  to  Associate  Members  and  Brothers      7:30  PM:  Burning  of  the  Faults    9:00  PM:  Dismissal    

6:30  PM:  Individual  Coat  of  Arms    7:30  PM:  Burning  of  the  Faults  Debrief    8:00  PM:  Badge/Pin    9:00  PM:  Dismissal    

7:30  PM:  Badge/Pin  Debrief    8:00  PM:  Crescens  Somnium    9:00  PM:  Dismissal  

12:00  PM:  Big  Brother/  Associate  Member  Lunch    1:00  PM:  Crescens  Somnium  Debrief    7:30  PM:  Movie  Night    9:30  PM:  Movie  Debrief  and  dismissal    

11:00  AM:  Initiation  Ritual  Begins          **ZAX  Session  occurring  the  next  Monday  night.**  

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 Example  3:    Sunday   Monday   Tuesday   Wednesday   Thursday   Friday   Saturday       6:00  PM:  

Big  Brother/  Little  Brother  review  of  fraternity  education    7:00  PM:  Celebration  of  Life    7:45  PM:  Celebration  of  Life  Debrief/  dismissal      

5:00  PM:  Big  Brother/  Little  Brother  review  of  creed  and  fraternity  history    6:00  PM:  Mock  Ritual    6:15  PM:  Mock  Ritual  Debrief/  dismissal  

5:30  PM:  Silent  Supper    7:00  PM:  Initiation  Ritual  Begins    

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Big Brother Contract

   

 vi  Big  Brother  Contract    Big  Brother  Contract    I,  ___________________,  agree  to  serve  as  a  Big  Brother  of  Phi-­‐Beta  Zeta.  I  commit  to  serve  as  a  mentor  and  guide  to  my  Little  Brother,  to  be  a  role  model  of  the  ideals  and  principles  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha,  to  participate  in  all  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  education  programs  and  activities,  to  discuss  and  process  his  Associate  Member  experience  with  my  Little  Brother,  to  review  all  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  education  assignments  and  to  monitor  the  progress  of  my  Little  Brother,  and  to  assess  and  promote  his  readiness  for  Initiation.  I  certify  that  I  have  met  and  shall  continue  all  of  the  following  requirements:  

1. Recruitment  –  I  will  actively  promote  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  and  assist  in  all  Recruitment  Events.  As  well  as  assist  in  the  training  of  my  little  brother  in  the  best  practices  of  the  Cole  Recruitment  Program.  

2. Academics  –  I  will  obtain  /  maintain  a  2.65  GPA  or  higher  unless  the  Executive  Committee  by  unanimous  consent  allows  me  to  forgo  this  requirement  but  at  no  times  can  I  be  approved  to  be  a  big  brother  if  my  GPA  is  below  a  2.5.  

3. Extracurricular  Activities  –  I  will  be  actively  involved  in  one  or  more  Registered  Student  Organization  on  campus  and  will  encourage  /  assist  my  little  brother  being  involved  in  one  as  well.  

4. Finances  –  I  will  at  all  times  be  fully  paid  of  my  dues  with  Phi-­‐Beta  Zeta  or  will  at  all  times  be  in  full  compliance  with  my  payment  plan  approved  by  the  Executive  Committee.  

5. Alumnus  –  Once  my  time  as  an  active  undergraduate  member  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  comes  to  an  end,  I  will  volunteer  as  needed  my  time,  talent  and  treasure  to  the  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  International  Fraternity  and  Phi-­‐Beta  Zeta.  

6. General  Fraternity  Functions  –  I  will  promote  chapter  attendance  at  all  general  Fraternity  Functions  including  Conclaves,  Stead  Leadership  Conferences  and  General  Assemblies.  

7. Property  –  I  will  respect  all  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  symbols,  trademarks,  and  Rituals  of  the  fraternity.  I  will  also  respect  the  chapter  floor  in  Depree  Hall  and  set  a  good  example  for  my  little  brother  and  all  brothers  to  follow.  

8. Chapter  Functions  –  I  will  attend  all  meetings,  serve  as  a  sober  monitor,  assist  the  officers  as  needed,  promote  attendance  at  cultural  events  and  encourage  my  little  brother  to  do  so  as  well.  

9. Lambda  Chi  Alpha  Policies  –  I  will  follow  all  Lambda  Chi  Alpha,  university,  local,  state,  and  federal  rules  and  regulations.  I  will  at  no  time  participate  in  or  promote  activities  that  are  or  could  be  interpreted  as  hazing.  

10. Officers  –  I  will  follow  all  directions  given  by  express  wording  from  the  High  Kappa,  High  Phi  and  High  Pi  regarding  new  member  education  /  programming.  

11. Training  –  I  will  attend  and  participate  in  Big  Brother  and  informal  training.  12. Follow  Up  Sessions  –  I  will  meet  with  my  little  brother  at  least  once  a  week  outside  of  functions,  

new  member  education,  or  events  to  answer  any  questions  he  may  have  as  well  as  follow  up  on  each  week’s  education.  

 For  any  reason,  If  I  ____________________(print  name),  do  not  meet  the  above  standards,  my  position  as  a  big  brother  will  be  revoked  by  my  own  doing.    I  will  hold  myself  to  the  highest  standards  in  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.    I  will  at  all  times  be  an  exemplar  to  my  little  brother  and  all  members  of  Eastern  Kentucky  University.    Big  Brother:  _____________________________  High  Kappa:  _____________________________    

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   vii  Big  Brother  Ceremony    

Big  Brother  Ceremony    

This  is  an  open  ceremony  to  which  may  be  invited  parents  and  families  of  associate  members,  local  alumni,  college  or  university  officials,  friends  of  members,  and  recruitment  prospects.  

The  officers  (and  all  members  present,  initiated  and  associate)  should  be  attired  in  coat  and  tie.  Although  the  five  officers  named  ordinarily  perform  the  ceremony,  substitutes  may  be  used.  

Equipment  Alter  and  plain  white  alter  cloth  Coat  of  Arms  painting  on  the  wall  Greek  Lamp  and  lamp  oil  A  fire  extinguisher  

Opening  H.  Alpha  

Brothers,  there  await  our  pleasure  [state  the  number]  candidates  whom  we  have  welcomed  as  members  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.    Brother  High  Kappa,  you  will  retire  and  summon  these  men  to  our  chamber.  [The  High  Kappa  retires  and  directs  the  associates  to  form  a  single  file  line  facing  the  door.]  

 Induction  

H.  Kappa  [The  High  Kappa  knocks  on  the  door  four  times.]  

[The  High  Phi  moves  to  the  door  and  opens  it  slightly.]    

H.  Kappa  The  candidates  seek  one  who  will  be  their  guide.  

 [The  High  Phi  moves  to  the  base  of  the  alter]  

 H.  Phi  

Brother  High  Alpha,  Brother  High  Kappa  returns  with  the  candidates.    H.  Alpha  

Let  them  enter.    

[The  High  Phi  returns  to  the  door  and  opens  it.}    H.  Phi  

By  order  of  Brother  High  Alpha,  I  bid  you  enter.    

[The  High  Kappa  enters  the  room  followed  by  the  candidates  in  single  file.  He  indicates  to  them  where  to  stand  so  that  they  form  an  arc  facing  the  altar.  After  the  last  candidate  has  entered,  the  High  Phi  closes  the  

door  and  follows  the  procession  to  his  station.  The  High  Kappa  resumes  his  station.]      

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H.  Alpha  Brothers,  these  men  have  willingly  expressed  their  acceptance  of  our  standards  and  ideals.  

However,  only  through  our  teaching  may  they  attain  the  knowledge  they  need  to  become  brothers  of  our  bond.  We  have  gathered  here  so  that  we  may  provide  each  of  these  men  a  guide  chosen  from  the  brotherhood.  He  has  shown  the  responsibility  to  guide  not  only  now,  but  for  all  of  his  days.  

 Invocation  

H.  Alpha  Brother  High  Beta,  you  will  proceed  with  the  invocation.  

 H.  Beta  

Great  and  merciful  guide,  our  Heavenly  Father,  in  reverent  spirit  we  approach  Thee  to  invoke  Thy  blessings  upon  this  assembly.  

We  ask  for  Thy  guidance  in  our  every  thought,  word  and  deed,  and  pray  for  Thy  blessing  to  impart  our  knowledge  assembled  on  those  here  in  our  midst.  Through  Thy  wisdom  may  we  grow  in  brotherly  love,  and  through  Thy  peace,  may  we  come  to  realize  the  true  spirit  of  the  brotherhood.  

Amen.    H.  Alpha  

Brother  High  Phi,  you  will  prepare  the  altar  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.    

First  Symbolic  Lesson  H.  Alpha  

Brother  High  Sigma,  you  will  instruct  the  Associates  in  the  ways  of  chivalry  and  learning.    

[The  High  Sigma  moves  to  a  position  in  front  of  the  coat-­‐of-­‐arms.  He  points  to  the  helmet  at  the  crest  of  the  coat-­‐of-­‐arms.]  

 H.  Sigma  

Worthy  Associates,  atop  our  coat-­‐of-­‐arms  you  will  find  a  helmet.  It  is  the  helmet  of  a  squire,  the  apprentice  to  a  knight.  It  symbolizes  honor  without  rank,  and  is  the  symbol  of  a  gentleman.  At  the  time  of  your  association,  you  were  given  the  challenge  to  make  of  yourself  a  man.  At  this  time,  we  will  give  you  a  brother  to  assist  you  in  this  quest.  Just  as  the  knight  taught  his  squire  the  ways  of  honor  and  chivalry,  he  will  teach  you.    H.  Alpha  

Brother  High  Phi,  you  will  expound  on  the  purpose  of  the  Big  Brother.    H.  Phi  

Good  Associates,  attend  my  words  for  you  now  await  a  guide  for  your  journey  in  search  of  the  meaning  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.  Yet  you  are  still  in  darkness  as  to  the  true  spirit  and  meaning  of  this  bond  of  brotherhood.  May  you  grow  in  the  ideals  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha  that  you  may  develop  the  ideal  of  perfect  brotherly  love  which  is  the  enhancement  and  enrichment  of  our  bond.  

Time  alone  renders  nothing;  only  when  conjoined  with  the  resolution  of  purpose  does  it  foster  growth.  Thus  we  have  chosen  for  each  of  you  one  of  our  brothers  to  act  as  your  guide.  In  times  of  need,  you  may  turn  to  him  for  help;  in  times  of  confusion,  for  direction;  that  you  may  grow  in  the  spirit  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.  

It  is  then  symbolic  that  this  man  shall  henceforth  be  known  to  you  as  your  big  brother.  May  the  bond  between  you  grow  as  does  the  bond  which  is  the  center  of  our  brotherhood.    

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H.  Alpha  Associates,  it  is  now  time  for  each  of  you  to  meet  the  guide  which  has  been  chosen  for  you.  I  ask  

you  to  remain  facing  me.  Brothers,  take  your  places  behind  your  little  brother.    

[Each  Big  Brother  moves  in  behind  his  little  brother,  placing  their  right  hand  upon  his  shoulder,  and  holding  them  so  they  remain  facing  forward.  When  the  High  Alpha  sees  that  everyone  is  in  place,  he  may  

proceed.]    H.  Alpha  

Each  of  you  may  now  turn  around  and  greet  your  new  big  brother.    

[The  High  Alpha  should  give  a  few  minutes  for  greetings  and  congratulations.  The  Big  Brothers  should  then  be  given  a  silent  pre-­‐arranged  cue  that  it  is  time  to  begin  again.]  

 Second  Symbolic  Lesson  

H.  Alpha  Brother  High  Kappa,  you  will  instruct  the  brothers  in  the  way  of  teaching.  

 H.  Kappa  The  Bridge  Builder  by  Will  Allen  Dromgoole  

An  old  man,  going  a  long  highway  Came  at  evening,  cold  and  gray,  To  a  chasm,  vast  and  deep  and  wide,  Through  which  was  flowing  a  sullen  tide.  The  old  man  crossed  in  the  twilight  dim;  The  sullen  stream  had  no  fears  for  him;  But  he  turned  when  safe  on  the  other  side  And  built  a  bridge  to  span  the  tide.    “Old  man,”  said  a  fellow  pilgrim  near,  “You  are  wasting  strength  with  building  here;  Your  journey  will  end  with  the  ending  day;  You  never  again  must  pass  this  way;  You  have  crossed  the  chasm,  deep  and  wide  Why  build  you  the  bridge  at  eventide?”    The  builder  lifted  his  old  grey  head:  “Good  friend,  in  the  path  that  I  have  come,”  he  said  “There  followeth  after  me  today  A  youth  whose  feet  must  pass  this  way.  This  chasm  that  has  been  naught  for  me  To  that  fair-­‐haired  youth  may  a  pitfall  be.  He,  too,  must  cross  in  the  twilight  dim,  Good  friend,  I  am  building  it  for  him.”    In  these  words,  we  find  the  meaning  of  your  charge.  Just  as  you  have  traveled  along  this  road,  you  

will  guide  another.  Use  your  experiences  to  create  a  path  for  him.  Know  that  the  education  of  this  young  man  will  not  end  with  initiation,  but  will  continue  all  your  life.  

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H.  Alpha      I  now  ask  each  Big  Brother  and  Little  Brother  to  take  from  each  other  the  right  hand  of  fellowship,  

and  repeat  after  me  your  respective  oaths.      The  Big  Brothers  will  begin:      

Of  my  own  free  will  /  I,  (state  your  full  name),  /  do  promise  and  swear,/  before  God  /  and  before  the  brothers  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha,  /  that  I  will  /  for  the  rest  of  my  life  /  abide  by  these  solemn  pledges:     I  will  strive  with  diligence  /  to  impress  /  upon  my  little  brother  /  the  ideals  of  the  fraternity.  /  I  will  always  work  /  toward  the  improvement  of  his  welfare  /  the  strengthening  of  his  spirit  /  and  the  growth  of  his  character.  /  I  understand  the  obligations  /  of  a  Big  Brother  /  and  accept  them  freely  /  and  without  reservation.     To  which  I  pledge  my  oath  and  faith,  /  in  accordance  with  /  the  Christian  teachings  of  this  Ritual  /  and  as  a  gentleman.     So  help  me  God!      Now  the  Little  Brothers  will  repeat  after  me:      

Of  my  own  free  will  /  I,  (state  your  full  name),  /  do  promise  and  swear,  /  before  God  /  and  the  brothers  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha,  /  that  I  will  /  for  the  rest  of  my  life  /  abide  by  these  solemn  pledges:     I  will  work  with  diligence  /  towards  the  understanding  /  of  the  fraternity,  /  and  its  teachings.  /  Just  as  my  Big  Brother  has  sworn  to  teach  me,  /  I  so  swear  to  learn.  /  With  his  help,  /  and  the  help  of  God,  /  I  will  bring  honor  /  to  the  name  of  Lambda  Chi  Alpha.     To  which  I  pledge  my  oath  and  faith,  /  in  accordance  with  /  the  Christian  teachings  of  this  Ritual  /  and  as  a  Gentleman.     So  help  me  God!      [The  High  Alpha  will  at  this  point  signal  for  all  pairs  to  release  their  grip  and  face  him  again]    

Charge  H.  Alpha      

Brother  Phi,  you  will  now  administer  the  charge.    H.  Phi       You  were  each  taught  a  symbolic  lesson.  You  were  each  administered  a  separate  oath.  However,  you  are  charged  to  watch  over  each  other’s  welfare,  for  your  relationship  must  be  one  of  commitment  to  each  other’s  well-­‐being,  and  the  attainment  of  perfect  brotherly  love.  

 Closing  

H.  Alpha     I  wish  each  of  you  congratulations,  and  good  luck  in  your  quest.        

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