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His Word—My Life
Repeating Courses for Adult Bible Study
Lesson One—Prayer Begins with What God Has Done for Us
Lesson Two—Prayer Is a Vital Part of a Christian’s Worship Life
Lesson Three—Elements of a Well-Rounded Prayer Life
Lesson Four—In Prayer, We Seek God’s Blessings for Ourselves
and Others
Lesson Five—Pray Sincerely
Lesson Six—Pray Persistently and Expect Results
Lesson Seven—Regular and Systematic Prayer
Lesson Eight—God’s Promises Give Prayer Its Power
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Prayer
by
Kenneth A. Cherney
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Prayer
Lesson One
Worship
What makes it easy to talk to someone?
Think of how all these things apply to our gracious God. There is no one
who’s easier to talk to! David felt that way about God.
Read selected verses of Psalm 4
A: Answer me when I call to you, O my righteous God.
B: Give me relief from my distress; be merciful to me and hear my
prayer.
A: How long, O men, will you turn my glory into shame? How long will
you love delusions and seek false gods?
B: Know that the LORD has set apart the godly for himself; the LORD
will hear when I call to him.
A: Offer right sacrifices and trust in the LORD. Many are asking, “Who
can show us any good?”
B: Let the light of your face shine upon us, O LORD.
A: You have filled my heart with greater joy than when their grain and
new wine abound.
B: I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD, make
me dwell in safety.
Prayer Begins with What God Has Done for Us
1. In prayer we approach the Father through Jesus, his Son
2. In prayer we approach the Father with the help of the Spirit
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Prayer: O Lord, as we study your Word, pour out on us your Holy Spirit.
Let us learn the joy of talking with you, and move us to speak with you from
penitent and trusting hearts. We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Introduction
Have you ever heard of “active listening”? In active listening, you turn your
entire body toward the speaker. You look him or her in the eye. You nod at
appropriate moments, and you ask questions or offer brief comments to help
yourself understand the person you are listening to.
Active listening is an important skill. Communication won’t happen if the
listener expects the speaker to do all the work.
God is an active listener. In fact, he alone has opened up the lines of
communication between us and him. And, he helps us ask for the right
things. In our first lesson we’ll consider this question: When we pray—that
is, when we talk with God—who is really doing the work?
Studying God’s Word
Read John 20:10-18
1. How does Jesus refer to God in verse 17?
2. What comforting name does he give to the disciples? (verse 17)
3. Why can Jesus describe our relationship with God in these terms?
In prayer we approach the Father through Jesus, his Son
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Read John 16:22-27
4. Look closely at verses 26 and 27. Why can Christians pray to the Father?
5. What does it mean to pray “in Jesus’ name”?
6. How do Jesus’ words make you feel about praying?
7. This We Believe, the WELS statement of faith, describes the prayers of
“all who do not know Christ” as “vain babblings addressed to false
gods.” Why is this accurate?
His Word in My Life
Recently, the chaplain of the Kansas state legislature was reprimanded for
offering prayers explicitly “in the name of Jesus.” A member of the
legislature (who was a Unitarian) complained, “This man has to learn to
pray more inclusively”—meaning that the chaplain should avoid
mentioning Jesus in his prayers.
What do you think the chaplain should do?
As we study prayer, let’s keep this truth uppermost in our minds: If Jesus
had not suffered, died, and risen again, it would be impossible for us to
pray. Sinners like us would be barred forever from the throne room of a holy
God. But now, thanks to Jesus, the door to God’s throne room is always
open to believers. When you come before God with a prayer “in Jesus’
name,” God gives you the same reception he would give to Jesus himself.
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Read Romans 8:15-17,26,27
1. What is our attitude toward God thanks to the Holy Spirit’s work in us?
What can we now call God? (verses 15-17)
2. Because of our “weakness,” what difficulty do we experience in our
prayer life? (verse 26)
3. How does the Holy Spirit help us? (verse 27)
4. Evaluate: Some churches teach that an unbeliever can become a Christian
by praying a prayer in which he invites Jesus into his heart.
His Word in My Life
Noting the many secular activities her church was engaged in, one
member said in disgust, “You could take the Holy Spirit out of our church
altogether, and nobody would even notice. Ninety percent of our programs
and activities would be completely unchanged.” Is this true of our prayer
life? Why or why not?
When you talk to a friend on the phone, it’s very easy to understand what’s
going on. Your thoughts pass from your brain to your mouth, over the wires,
into your friend’s ear, and finally into his brain. Prayer to God is a bit more
complex. More than our brain and mouth is at work when we pray to God.
God the Holy Spirit is dwelling within us. Through the gospel he has opened
the lines of communication between us and God. He has also created a new
In prayer we approach the Father with the help of the Spirit
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mind in us so we can pray according to God’s will. Even more, he himself
from within us offers prayers to the Lord that are in perfect accordance with
his will.
Summary
God is at work when we pray. The Father has sent his Son to open the lines
of communication between us and him. Jesus has made us his brothers and
God’s children. The blood of Jesus that atoned for our sins is the reason why
we can pray with confidence to our God. The Holy Spirit sustains this faith
in us and prays to our Father on our behalf. The Triune God is the most
active listener there is.
Life with God
Include the following thoughts in your personal prayers this week.
Day 1: Thank Jesus for giving you a gracious heavenly Father.
Day 2: Thank God for the amazing privilege of speaking with him.
Day 3: Think of an area of your life in which you don’t know what to pray
for. Thank the Holy Spirit for his ministry of intercession.
Day 4: Ask Jesus to send the Holy Spirit to help you toward a more active
prayer life.
Day 5: Think of several specific places around the world where Christ is
not known. Ask God to spread the gospel to people there so that prayers
can be heard from those places.
Day 6: Ask God to deepen your knowledge of him for the specific purpose
of helping you to pray better.
Day 7: Reread (or recall) Luther’s explanation to the First Petition of the
Lord’s Prayer in the Small Catechism. Pray the entire Lord’s Prayer with it
in mind.
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Prayer
Lesson Two
Worship
What is the most awe-inspiring sight you have ever seen? An approaching
storm? The birth of a baby? A night sky full of stars?
It’s been said that Americans are losing the ability to be struck with awe.
Thanks to the wonders of technology—for example, the special effects we
see at the movie theater or the rides at a theme park—the awesome is in
danger of becoming commonplace.
It would be a real shame to lose our sense of awe at things like an
approaching storm, the birth of a baby, or a night sky full of stars. It would
be an even greater shame to lose a sense of awe in the presence of God.
Reflect on the psalmist’s awe in the presence of the Lord.
Read selected verses of Psalm 66
A: Shout with joy to God, all the earth! Sing the glory of his name; make
his praise glorious!
B: Say to God, “How awesome are your deeds! So great is your
power that your enemies cringe before you.
A: All the earth bows down to you; they sing praise to you,
B: They sing praise to your name.”
A: Come and see what God has done, how awesome his works in man’s
behalf!
B: He rules forever by his power, his eyes watch the nations—let not
the rebellious rise up against him.
Prayer Is a Vital Part of a Christian’s Worship Life
1. Prayer is an act of worship that pleases God
2. Christians worship God with both private and group prayers
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A: If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened;
B: But God has surely listened and heard my voice in prayer.
A: Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer
B: Or withheld his love from me!
Prayer: O Lord God, you who are enthroned in the heavens, we thank you
for the privilege of worshiping you in prayer. Teach us now to pray in awe
of your power and love. Amen.
Introduction
Perhaps you attend a civic function where some religious leader is asked to
offer a prayer. As he begins his prayer, some people cross themselves, some
fold their arms or their hands, and some put their hands in their pockets. As
he prays, the officiant is careful not to offend any religious group, and so he
says little beyond a vague request that “God” would “bless” the occasion.
Really, the only purpose for his prayer is to inject “a little religion” into the
proceedings. This done, an audible sigh of relief goes up from the crowd.
The prayer is over with, and everyone can sit down.
God, too, sighs with relief when such prayers are over with. Today we will
look at the kind of prayer that is satisfying to God’s people and pleasing to
him.
Studying God’s Word
Read Psalm 50:9-15
1. God had given Israel the privilege of offering him animal sacrifices. Even
though God had commanded sacrifices in the Old Testament, what was
wrong with the sacrifices Israel was bringing? (verses 9-13)
2. What higher form of worship does God ask for? (verses 14 and 15)
Prayer is an act of worship that pleases God
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3. Why is such a prayer a wonderful way of worshiping God?
Read Psalm 141:2
4. How are our prayers like “incense”?
His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: Since prayer is an act of worship, the best place to pray
is in church.
God knows exactly what we need, and we always can count on him to give it
to us. Still, he is honored when we ask, for our asking is an act of worship.
We worship God by asking him for all kinds of things, at all kinds of times
and places.
Read Luke 5:15,16
1. What was Jesus’ regular practice?
2. What lesson is there for us in this regular practice of Jesus?
Read Matthew 18:19,20
3. When we join with other Christians in prayer, what does Jesus promise?
Christians worship God with both private and group prayers
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4. Commenting on these verses, Saint Cyprian said: “He [Jesus] shows that
he is rather with two or three who pray with one mind, than with a great
many who differ, and that more can be obtained by the concordant prayer
of a few, than by the discordant supplication of many” (“Treatise I: On
the Unity of the Church,” The Ante-Nicene Fathers, [Grand Rapids:
Eerdmanns, 1970], Vol. V, No. 12, p. 425). Put this thought into your
own words.
5. Explain: When we pray, we are saying something about God; when we
pray with someone, we are also saying something about that person.
His Word in My Life
Some families have the custom of joining hands around the table when
they offer prayers. What does this custom mean? Do you find it helpful?
“I don’t need to come to church to pray; I can pray alone at home.” You’ve
probably heard this one before. The proper response is “Of course you can
pray alone at home, and I hope you do.” The right to go off by ourselves and
share our most intimate thoughts with God is one of the most precious
privileges Jesus won for us.
It is second only to the privilege of joining in prayer with other Christians
with whom we share a common faith. We Christians find that group prayer
enhances our private prayer lives, and our private prayer lives enhance our
corporate prayer. It is not either/or; it is both/and.
Summary
To summarize this lesson, discuss the following:
1. What makes prayer an act of worship?
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2. What are the benefits of praying alone? What are the benefits of praying
in a group?
Life with God
Day 1: Before you begin your personal devotion, look around at the place
where you’re doing it. Is it private? worshipful? conducive to meditation
and prayer? Make a list of things you could do to make it more so.
Day 2: Do the things to enhance your “prayer corner” that you listed on
Day 1.
Day 3: When you sit down to a meal, after praying, ask the members of
your family about your mealtime prayers. Do they like the way you’ve
been doing them? Would they suggest any changes?
Day 4: Choose at least one of your family’s suggestions and implement it.
Day 5: At your local library, look in the Reader’s Guide to Periodical
Literature for articles in current, secular magazines (Time, Newsweek, etc.)
about prayer. Read one or more of the articles. Does the author view
prayer as worship? Does he seem to recommend praying? Why? Do his
remarks agree with what Scripture says about prayer?
Day 6: Ask your pastor about the prayers he uses in the worship service
(the Prayer of the Day, the General Prayer or Prayer of the Church, etc.).
What is their purpose? Where does he find the prayers he uses?
Day 7: Make a point of arriving at church early. Find a seat near the
entrance. Before the service begins, thank God for the privilege of joining
with other Christians in prayer. As your fellow members file in, thank God
for bringing them to church to pray with you.
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Prayer
Lesson Three
Worship
David, the author of Psalm 139, began his prayers by praising God’s
wisdom.
Read selected verses of Psalm 139
A: O LORD, you have searched me and you know me.
B: You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts
from afar.
A: Where can I flee from your presence? If I rise on the wings of the
dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea,
B: Even there your right hand will guide me, your right hand will
hold me fast.
A: I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
B: Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
A: How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
B: Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand.
A: Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious
thoughts.
B: See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way
everlasting.
Elements of a Well-Rounded Prayer Life
1. Adoration
2. Confession
3. Thanksgiving
4. Supplication
(ACTS)
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Prayer: Heavenly Father, send us your Holy Spirit. Enrich the content of
our hearts, so that you are pleased when we open them to you in prayer. In
the name of Jesus and for his sake we ask it. Amen.
Introduction
A story is told about a country boy who, at age fourteen, fell completely
silent. For seven years he didn’t say a word to anyone. At first, his family
and friends were astonished, but finally they came to accept Junior’s silence
as a fact of life.
Then, one day, Ma burned the biscuits. She was scolding herself softly as
she carried them to the table.
“Ma, you burned the biscuits,” Junior said.
Ma dropped the plate on the floor. The family looked at Junior in shock.
“Son,” Dad said, “you haven’t opened your mouth in seven years! Why
not?”
“Because,” Junior said, “up ‘til now, everything’s been okay.”
Is our prayer life a little like that? Do we feel no need to pray as long as
everything’s “okay”? If so, let’s remember: in our prayers, we can talk about
much more than our own lives and what’s wrong with them.
Today we will look at one way of keeping our prayers well-rounded, filled
with a variety of things God wants us to pray for. Remember the word
ACTS. It will help you organize your prayer.
Studying God’s Word
Read Psalm 138
1. Find a verse that expresses the main point of this psalm.
2. What does it mean to “praise” someone?
Adoration
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3. List the things David praises the Lord for. Which ones are characteristics
of the Lord? Which ones are things God does?
ADORATION = prayers in which we praise God for who he is and what he
has done.
His Word in My Life
Many Christians find that beginning their prayers with adoration is the
easiest way to get started praying. Why do you think they feel that way?
Who says our prayers have to be about us? Why not pray to God about
God? Think of all that you know about God, and start there. Praise him for
who he is and what he has done. Because there is no end to his loving
actions, you will find thoughts and words coming easily.
Read Luke 18:9-14
1. Why did the Pharisee and the tax collector go to the temple?
2. What was wrong with the Pharisee’s “prayer”? (See NIV footnote.)
3. What made the tax collector’s prayer God-pleasing?
Confession
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4. Discuss: Whenever we want to pray about ourselves and our needs, we
should begin with the tax collector’s prayer.
CONFESSION = prayers in which we acknowledge our sinfulness and ask
God for forgiveness.
His Word in My Life
Explain the following statement: If you’re looking for a prayer topic you
can never exhaust, try the goodness of God. If you’re looking for another,
try human sinfulness.
There is a saying, “Everyone grabs for the bench when it’s the piano that
needs to be moved.” When faced with a heavy, unpleasant job, we sometimes
try to avoid it by fastening on something lighter and more pleasant, hoping
no one notices.
God isn’t at all like that when he answers our prayers. The many, smaller
requests we make of God day by day pale in comparison with our biggest
problem: our sin. That’s the piano. Compared with it, all our other needs
are small benches.
But God grabs the piano first. He takes our burden of sin on his own
shoulders and carries it to the cross, where he gets rid of it forever. Then,
along with the forgiveness of our sins, he lovingly and cheerfully gives us
everything else we need, according to his will. We can pray with the hymn
writer: “With my burden I begin: Lord, remove this load of sin” (from CW
409:3).
Read Philippians 1:3-6
1. For what does Paul thank God? (verse 5)
Thanksgiving
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2. How is thanksgiving similar to praise? How is it different?
3. After a prayer of confession, what is the first thing we should thank God
for?
THANKSGIVING = prayers in which we acknowledge God’s many
kindnesses and express our gratitude for them.
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Explain: The more a Christian grows in his faith, the more aware he is of
how ungrateful he’s been.
God loves to hear us thanking him for the many blessings he’s given us.
Read Philippians 1:9-11
1. How does Paul continue his prayer?
2. On whose behalf does he make this request?
3. What does Paul ask that God would enable the Philippians to do?
Supplication
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4. Evaluate: What Jesus tells us to pray for in the Lord’s Prayer can serve as
a good list of things to pray for on behalf of others.
SUPPLICATION = prayers in which we make requests to God on behalf of
ourselves and others.
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Agree or disagree: It is in our supplications that our selfish sinful nature
most often rears its head.
God wants us to pray for all that we need and for the needs of others. He is
honored when we place ourselves completely in his hands.
Summary
It’s Monday morning; the sun is shining, and the weather is beautiful.
You’re on your way to work, where you face a major task that has you a
little bit worried.
Take a moment and compose a brief prayer that’s appropriate to this
situation. Build that prayer around the four elements we learned in this
lesson: adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication. Then, share yours
with the group.
Remember ACTS.
Life with God
Day 1: In your prayers today, focus on adoration. Make a list of attributes
of God, and praise him for being who he is.
Day 2: In your catechism, read the Apostle’s Creed with Luther’s
explanation. Pray a prayer of adoration that praises God for what he has
done.
Day 3: Read the Ten Commandments with Luther’s explanations. Offer an
appropriate confession of your sins.
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Day 4: Now find the Table of Duties in your catechism. Find where it
mentions the duties of your station in life, and confess to God the ways in
which you have neglected them.
Day 5: List the evidences of God’s goodness that you can see from where
you are right now. Thank God for them.
Day 6: Make a mental list of people who have been significant in your
spiritual life. Thank God for each of them.
Day 7: To think about: What is the most pressing need I feel right now?
What is my most important need? Are they the same? If not, how are they
related? After thinking for a few minutes about these needs, take them to
God in prayer.
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Prayer
Lesson Four
Worship
David’s psalms are full of prayers for the church of his day.
Read selected verses of Psalm 122
A: I rejoiced with those who said to me, “Let us go to the house of the
LORD.”
B: That is where the tribes go up, the tribes of the LORD, to praise
the name of the LORD.
A: Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: “May those who love you be secure.
B: May there be peace within your walls and security within your
citadels.”
A: For the sake of my brothers and friends, I will say, “Peace be within
you.”
B: For the sake of the house of the LORD our God, I will seek your
prosperity.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, by your Holy Spirit, make us sensitive to what our true
needs are and to the needs of others. Move us to call earnestly upon you in
prayer. Amen.
In Prayer, We Seek God’s Blessings for Ourselves and Others
1. God encourages us to pray about any need we have
2. We take the needs of others to God in prayer
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Introduction
“I can do it myself!” If you have, or have had, a four-year-old in your house,
those are familiar words. Moms and dads often watch with pride as their
four-year-olds insist on dressing themselves, tying their own shoes, and
pouring their own juice. Parents understand this as a vital part of the
maturation process, and they don’t even mind when the juice gets spilled
once in a while, or when the shoes are tied with granny knots, or when the
shirt gets put on inside out.
It’s a different matter, however, when an adult goes through life insisting “I
can do it myself!” Self-reliance and independence are important virtues, but
not when they prevent us from seeking or accepting help when we need it.
The worst kind of self-reliance is the kind that refuses to ask for help from
God. That’s the mark of a spiritual four-year-old, and we need to be on our
guard against it.
Studying God’s Word
Read Philippians 4:6
1. When we try to “do it ourselves,” we can’t help but become anxious
about unmet needs. What does Paul tell us to do?
2. How many needs should we take to the Lord in prayer?
Read James 4:1-3
3. What do unfulfilled desires lead to? (verse 1)
God encourages us to pray about any need we have
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4. What is the wrong way to deal with unfulfilled desires? (verse 2)
5. What is the right way to deal with our desires? (verse 2)
6. What should we do, however, before we ask God to fulfill our desires?
(verse 3)
7. Agree or disagree: James is saying that prayers for more money are
unacceptable.
His Word in My Life
Discuss this situation: A certain Christian complains to others about his
wants and needs but won’t pray about them because he considers most of
them “too trivial to bother God with.”
The Lord wants us to take all our needs to him in prayer. But he warns us to
examine our motives lest we pray selfishly or to satisfy sinful desires.
Read 1 Timothy 2:1-4
1. For whom should we pray? (verses 1 and 2)
We take the needs of others to God in prayer
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2. What blessings might we ask God to give to government authorities?
Why? (verses 2-4)
Read 1 Thessalonians 3:9-13
3. Review the elements of prayer that we learned in the last lesson. Then
locate those elements in the prayer Paul offered to God on behalf of the
Thessalonians.
4. If you prayed Paul’s prayer for your own congregation, which parts
would you leave as is? Which would you modify? What specific requests
would your prayer contain?
His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: It is very important that we know all the details about
the lives of our fellow Christians so that we can pray about them
intelligently.
For whom are you praying—regularly, specifically, confidently? God wants
us to pray for the spiritual and temporal needs of those around us, especially
fellow Christians.
Summary
Taking our own needs to the Lord demonstrates our trust in the Lord’s
power and desire to help us.
When our prayers include the needs of others, it demonstrates that the Holy
Spirit is teaching us to love our neighbor as ourselves.
On the other hand, when we’re beset by such sins as pride, self-centeredness,
or ingratitude, these will inevitably rear their heads in our prayer lives too.
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The Lord wants us to guard ourselves from prayers driven by these sinful
emotions.
Life with God
Day 1: In your prayer time, make today your Self Day. Make a list of your
material and spiritual needs. Evaluate the items on your list, prioritize
them, and pray about them.
Day 2: Today is Family Day. Do the same for the needs of your family.
Day 3: Workplace Day. Do the same for the people you work with.
Day 4: Neighborhood Day. Do the same for the people who live near you.
Day 5: Nation Day. Do the same for your country.
Day 6: Synod Day. Do the same for the WELS—its pastors, teachers,
administrators, and employees.
Day 7: Congregation Day. Do the same for the people at your church.
(Don’t forget the pastor!)
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Prayer
Lesson Five
Worship
Heartfelt, open, and sincere—qualities of Christian prayer. Listen for those
qualities as you read this psalm.
Read selected verses of Psalm 116
A: I love the LORD, for he heard my voice; he heard my cry for mercy.
B: Because he turned his ear to me, I will call on him as long as I live.
A: The cords of death entangled me, the anguish of the grave came upon
me; I was overcome by trouble and sorrow.
B: Then I called on the name of the LORD: “O LORD, save me!”
A: The LORD is gracious and righteous; our God is full of compassion.
B: The LORD protects the simplehearted; when I was in great need,
he saved me.
A: Be at rest once more, O my soul,
B: For the LORD has been good to you.
Prayer: Holy Spirit, open our eyes to the spiritual perils that surround us
and to the great saving acts of our God. Let them move us to hearfelt and
sincere prayer. Amen.
Pray Sincerely
1. Warnings against insincerity
2. Examples of heartfelt prayer
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Introduction
What is the most honest form of speech human beings are capable of? It has
to be the cry of an infant. Babies are still incapable of flattery, subtlety,
duplicity, or any of the other forms of insincerity that plague adults. When
they’re hungry, or hurt, or afraid, they know exactly how they feel, and they
don’t hesitate to let the whole world know.
The prayers of the psalmists are like the cries of babies. Sometimes they’re
anguished cries; sometimes they’re jubilant; sometimes they’re calm and
reflective. But they are never anything but completely open and honest with
the Lord as they speak with him. For that and other reasons, they’re ideal
models for our prayers.
Today’s lesson explores warnings and examples to encourage us toward
sincere prayer.
Studying God’s Word
Read Matthew 6:5-8
1. Why do the “hypocrites” pray? (verse 5)
2. Using verse 6, complete this thought: We pray sincerely when we
remember that . . .
3. What is wrong with the way pagans pray? (verse 7)
4. Using verse 8, complete this thought: We pray sincerely when we . . .
Warnings against insincerity
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His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: Brief prayers are always better than long prayers.
Have you ever sat down to write a letter and struggled with how to begin?
One author observed that when this happened to him, it was usually because
he was trying to impress someone. Prayer is similar.
Before you pray, remind yourself that you are addressing your heavenly
Father. You don’t need to impress him, nor can you. But he loves you and
wants to hear from you.
Remember: “Few words and much meaning is Christian; many words and
little meaning is heathenish” (Martin Luther).
Read 1 Samuel 1:1-20
1. List the words in the account that describe Hannah’s state of mind as she
prayed. (Example: “downhearted,” verse 8.)
2. How does Hannah describe her act of praying? (verse 15)
3. Why did Hannah feel better after she prayed?
4. Evaulate: If our prayer is to be sincere, we must have all the emotions
Hannah displayed in her prayer. If they are not present, we should work
on it.
Examples of heartfelt prayer
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Read 2 Kings 19:14-19
5. Hezekiah had just received a letter from the powerful king of Assyria in
which that wicked king threatened to destroy Jerusalem. What did
Hezekiah do with the letter?
6. How is Hezekiah’s prayer similar to Hannah’s? How is it different?
His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: We should pray only for those things we feel very
strongly about.
There are many examples of heartfelt prayer in Scripture. They are based on
trust and confidence in God’s power and love.
Summary
The Lord is pleased with prayer that comes from the heart. Such prayers
acknowledge God’s goodness, power, and love.
God wants us to avoid prayers that are mere empty words or that are prayed
so that others will congratulate us for our piety.
He wants us to come to him as did Hannah and Hezekiah, not worrying
about how we look or feel but with full attention on him as the giver of all
good things.
Life with God
Day 1: Open your hymnal to the liturgy your church uses most often. Read
it, and after each element think of an adjective that describes the emotions
it evokes (for example, confession evokes feelings of sorrow). List the
adjectives in order on a piece of paper.
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Day 2: Find a psalm that conveys the same emotions (note: not necessarily
the same thoughts) as an adjective on your list.
Day 3: Find a hymn in the hymnal the conveys the same emotions (note:
not necessarily the same thoughts) as the psalms on your list.
Day 4: Reverse what you did in the first three days. Read a psalm and find
a section of the liturgy or a hymn that evokes the same emotions.
Day 5: In a book of prayers (or the hymnal), find a prayer that, when you
read it, doesn’t sound like you at all. Edit it so that it does, and pray it.
Day 6: Rather than pray orally or mentally, write God a letter (remember
ACTS). Save it in your Bible.
Day 7: Pull out the letter you wrote to God yesterday. Does it convey what
you want to say today? What would you add? subtract? change?
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Prayer
Lesson Six
Worship
God does answer prayer. The Bible makes that clear, and the prayers of the
psalms ring with the confidence that they will stir God to action. Note that
truth as we pray these words.
Read selected verses of Psalm 55
A: Listen to my prayer, O God,
B: Do not ignore my plea.
A: I call to God, and the LORD saves me.
B: Evening, morning and noon I cry out in distress, and he hears my
voice.
A: He ransoms me unharmed from the battle waged against me,
B: Even though many oppose me.
A: Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you;
B: He will never let the righteous fall.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, send the Holy Spirit into our hearts. May he renew our
faith in your gracious promises so that we pray with joy and confidence.
Amen.
Pray Persistently and Expect Results
1. Pray expecting an answer
2. Don’t give up until you get an answer
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Introduction
At a public hearing before the city’s planning commission, a church was
requesting authorization for its new building. The congregation’s president
was explaining the church’s plans. As he told the commission how the
church had acquired the land, suddenly eyes were rolling and muffled
snickers could be heard all around the room. The congregation’s president
had just said that the land had become available “in answer to our prayers.”
That’s the way it usually goes. These days, the world tolerates—in fact, is
fascinated by—prayer, just so long as you don’t maintain there’s a real,
personal God who listens and answers.
Yet Scripture encourages us to pray expectantly and persistently. Today’s
lesson will underline that fact.
Studying God’s Word
Read James 1:5-8
1. What does James encourage us to pray for at the beginning of this
section? (verse 5)
2. What powerful promise about prayer does James give us? (verse 5)
3. What does it mean that God gives “without finding fault”?
4. What is wrong when a person doubts that he will get what he’s praying
for? (verses 6 and 7)
Pray expecting an answer
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5. Compare James 1:6,7 with Mark 9:21-27. Does James mean that one
doubtful thought is enough to render our prayer ineffective? Explain your
answer.
His Word in My Life
A certain church does no evangelism or mission work—on the grounds
that it prays for the salvation of the heathen every Sunday and knows this
prayer will be answered. What is that church losing sight of?
James stresses that real prayer is a fruit of faith. Faith that knows God as
the Savior from sin and the giver of all good things will pray with
confidence. When you pray, expect an answer. And don’t be surprised when
you get it!
Read Genesis 32:22-30
1. With whom was Jacob wrestling?
2. Why did God allow Jacob to wrestle with him all night?
3. When Jacob “pinned” God, what request did Jacob make of him?
Don’t give up until you get an answer
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4. Agree or disagree: When we pray for something and don’t get it, we
should conclude that it isn’t God’s will that we have it and should stop
praying for it.
His Word in My Life
Evaluate this statement: God is not someone we can win over simply by
continuing to bother him with our requests.
Wrestling is an excellent picture of a Christian at prayer. When we bring
our requests to God, he challenges us to a spiritual wrestling match. It’s an
amazing thought—but even more amazing is God’s promise that for Jesus’
sake we will win!
Why does God deal with us like this? We benefit tremendously from our
wrestling matches with him. Remember, prayer is faith at work. Sometimes
God wants it to be hard work. God knows that, like any other living thing,
our faith occasionally needs serious exercise.
Summary
Read Luke 18:1-8. How did the widow show that she confidently expected
an answer? How did she demonstrate a spirit of persistence?
Life with God
Day 1: Read God’s description of the future glory of the church in Isaiah
62:1-7.
Day 2: Read Luke 11:5-10.
Day 3: Reread Luke 18:1-8.
Day 4: Read 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18. (Note Luther’s comment:
“Therefore, wherever there is a Christian, there is none other than the Holy
Spirit, who does nothing but ‘pray without ceasing.’”)
Day 5: Read Matthew 15:21-28.
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Day 6: Read 2 Samuel 12:15-24.
Day 7: Read Luke 22:39-46.
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Prayer
Lesson Seven
Worship
The prophets and apostles knew about the benefits of regular prayer. So did
the author of Psalm 119.
Read selected verses of Psalm 119
A: In the night I remember your name, O LORD, and I will keep your law.
B: At midnight I rise to give you thanks for your righteous laws.
A: I rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in your word.
B: My eyes stay open through the watches of the night, that I may
meditate on your promises.
A: Seven times a day I praise you for your righteous laws.
B: Oh, how I love your law! I meditate on it all day long.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, we again thank you for the privilege of speaking
with you in prayer. Enrich our prayer lives so that we use this privilege at
every opportunity. Amen.
Introduction
There are two excellent ways to destroy our prayer lives.
One way is to create an elaborate system of rules for which prayers should
be said and when. Prayer then becomes a matter of keeping the rules instead
of a joyful, heart-to-heart talk with God. The result is a ritualistic going
Regular and Systematic Prayer
1. Examples from fellow Christians
2. The greatest example of all
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through the motions. Most people become irritated with the rules and
abandon prayer altogether.
The other way is to insist that all prayers must be completely spontaneous,
that giving any thought to when we’ll pray or what we’ll say is somehow
wrong, that we should pray only when the mood strikes us and we’re 100%
certain we “feel like it.” In theory that sounds like a good way to make sure
prayer never becomes forced or artificial. In practice, however, it can
become a good way to make sure prayer never happens.
Surely it’s possible to avoid both extremes and cultivate a prayer life that has
elements both of regularity and spontaneity.
Studying God’s Word
Read Daniel 6:6-11
1. What was Daniel’s regular practice of prayer?
2. What potential obstacle to this practice did he encounter?
3. Daniel’s practice is not commanded anywhere in Scripture. Why then did
he keep at it even when it put his life in danger?
Read Acts 2:1,15; 10:9; 10:3
4. What three regular times for prayer does the early church seem to have
observed?
Examples from fellow Christians
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Respond to these objections to regular prayer.
a. I don’t have time.
b. I just know I’ll forget.
c. My family is never together. There’s no good time when we can pray
together.
d. It all seems so mechanical.
e. I don’t know how to start.
Christians of the past made prayer a regular part of their schedule.
1. Read the following verses from Luke’s gospel. What can we conclude
about Jesus’ prayer life?
Luke 3:21
Luke 6:12
Luke 9:18
Luke 9:28
Luke 11:1
Luke 22:39,40,44
The greatest example of all
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His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: We shouldn’t make it the pastor’s job to pray regularly
for our needs when we can do that ourselves. This is just another example
of how we ask our pastors to live our Christianity for us.
Jesus provides the perfect example of regular prayer.
Summary
To summarize this lesson, discuss the following quotation: “Praying is very
difficult work. This is the reason it is also very rare” (Luther).
It is the last thing the devil, the world, and our sinful flesh want us to do, but
prayer is a wonderful privilege God has given us.
Life with God
Day 1: Compose (or find in Scripture) a short morning prayer and a short
evening prayer for yourself. Save them.
Day 2: Read “Luther’s Small Catechism—Daily Prayers” (Luther’s
Catechism, David Kuske, p. 16). Compare Luther’s prayers with what you
wrote yesterday.
Day 3: Compose (or find in Scripture) a short before-meal and a short
after-meal prayer your family can use.
Day 4: Reread “Luther’s Small Catechism—Daily Prayers” (Luther’s
Catechism, David Kuske, p. 16). Compare it with what you wrote
yesterday.
Day 5: Read “Luther’s Small Catechism—The Lord’s Prayer,” (Luther’s
Catechism, David Kuske, pp. 6-8).
Day 6: Read Luther’s “A Simple Way to Pray” (Luther’s Works, Vol. 43,
pp. 193ff. Also available in tract form from Northwestern Publishing
House, stock #06N0564).
Day 7: Select a paragraph from your daily Scripture reading, adapt it as
necessary, and pray it as a prayer:
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Example: Matthew 18:10-14 (chosen at random) becomes:
Lord Jesus, send your Holy Spirit to teach me, so that I never look down
on those whom the world might consider little ones. Let me be a
blessing and not a hindrance to all the little ones I know. I thank you,
Father, for sending angels to watch over them. Let me see the vision of
glory those angels always see.
Lord, I’m amazed at the love you show in leaving your ninety-nine sheep
to go after one that’s lost. I thank you for going after me, finding me,
and bringing me home on your shoulders. Let me learn to see the lost in
the same way you do. Make me your instrument as you seek the lost.
Amen.
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Prayer
Lesson Eight
Worship
The Book of Psalms is Jesus’ prayerbook, which he has given to the church.
When we use the psalms, we make the prayers of Jesus our own prayers.
We, the Body of Christ, come before God with the very same prayers that
were prayed by Jesus, our Head.
Read selected verses of Psalm 40, a Messianic psalm.
A: I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry.
B: He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set
my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.
A: He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.
B: Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD.
A: Many, O LORD my God, are the wonders you have done.
B: The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I
to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare.
A: Yet I am poor and needy; may the Lord think of me.
B: You are my help and my deliverer; O my God, do not delay.
Prayer: O Lord God, the promises you make about our prayers astonish us.
Give us faith to trust them. May they move us to call upon you in prayer at
every opportunity. Amen.
God’s Promises Give Prayer Its Power
1. God promises that prayers do much good
2. God promises to give us what we ask for in his name
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Introduction
Human reason has a terrible time understanding prayer. “If God already
knows everything that’s going to happen, how can my prayer accomplish
anything? If God’s will is always done, what’s the point in praying for
something to happen? When a farmer prays for rain and a vacationer prays
for sunshine, how can God answer both of them?”
Faith listens to these objections, shrugs its shoulders, and goes right on
praying. How God can answer prayer is unfathomable. Why God should
answer our prayers is even more so. But God does answer them. That fact is
revealed in the clear words of Scripture. To paraphrase an old children’s
song: “Jesus hears me; this I know, for the Bible tells me so.”
Studying God’s Word
Read James 5:16-18
1. Whose prayer does James say is powerful and effective?
2. Read 1 Kings 18:1,41-46. Why could Elijah pray confidently for rain?
3. How can we be sure that we are among the righteous whose prayers the
Lord answers?
4. Agree or disagree: There is a big difference between Elijah’s
righteousness and our righteousness.
God promises that prayers do much good
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His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: God never really says no to the prayer of a Christian.
God has promised us that our prayers are powerful and effective. We can
pray, confident of this fact, not because of our goodness but because God
has promised to listen to the prayers of those who are clothed in Christ’s
righteousness.
Read John 14:13,14
1. What astounding promise does Jesus make regarding prayer?
2. In order for this to happen, in whose name must we pray?
3. Read a similar promise in 1 John 5:14. What kind of prayer does John
say God will answer?
4. Explain: Prayer in Jesus’ name will always be prayer according to God’s
will.
5. Go back to John 14:13,14. Why does Jesus answer our prayers?
God promises to give us what we ask for in his name
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His Word in My Life
Agree or disagree: We are sinning if we are disappointed when we ask for
something and don’t get it.
God promises to give us what we ask for in Jesus’ name. In areas where we
know what God’s will is, we can be certain he will answer us. In areas
where we don’t know what God’s will is, we will be content with the
gracious answer God provides, even if it is not what we prayed for.
Summary
Summarize this course by thinking about the following statement. Agree or
disagree: You could define a Christian as a person who prays.
Life with God
How does God answer prayer? Note how each reading answers that
question.
Day 1: Read Exodus 9:22-35.
Day 2: Read Ezra 8:21-23.
Day 3: Read Nehemiah 4:1-9.
Day 4: Read Isaiah 38.
Day 5: Read Luke 22:31-34.
Day 6: Read Luke 22:39-46.
Day 7: Read John 11:38-44.