how to love hatred

8/11/2019 How to Love Hatred

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xJoy from the UK writes:

"I've got another problem which I nd dicult to solve is theinterest to study I thin! I have the interest as I promise myselfto study every day but as soon as I pic! up my boo!s to study Ilose interest immediately

It ta!es me so much time to understand a few lines of words whilestudying and I can hardly remember them too which is to say Ithin! they do not register

It has been a great concern to me and I have been too shy to spea!to anybody I !now and have this condence in me that ma!es methin! I am intelligent and can ma!e it but as soon as I encounter adicult tas! I become wea! and #ust give up I am afraid I willfail and have to repeat a class if I don't nd a solution $uic!

I need your help please and hope to hear from you soon

%egardsJoy"

&y response:

here are two issues at play here:

he rst is you (I)K you are interested in the sub#ect matter

but the reality is you're not If you were you'd have no troublestarting I'll prove it to you

If you are a stamp collector and you start to read about the newissue of the new *lympic +tamps for the ,ondon -ames . you have noproblem with focus attention or retention do you/

hat's because you're I)0%0+01

he challenge we all have as students is that every academic

programhas courses we don't li!e I remember hating hermodynamicsin 0ngineering +chool 2hemistry in 2ollege and &ulti.variate+tatistics in 3usiness +chool 45h16

3ut y'!now what/

7*U 1*)' (890 8 2(*I20 It's part of the curriculum and you haveto pass the course to get the diploma and the degree


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I suggest you do (8 homewor! I%+ -et it out of the way 1*)'1* ;(8 7*U ,IK0 I%+ hat is a recipe for disastrous grades . itwill increase your chance of failure 3028U+0 you'll spend &*%0 timeon what you li!e and not enough time on what you don't li!e

1on't do it

*f course that's easier said than done 3ut if you start studyingwhat you don't li!e you'll feel %0,I0 and a ,* ,0++ +%0++

;e all have to study stu< we don't li!e . we )001 * ;e need tobe aware of things because that's what education is all about

here is )*(I)- you can do about it 0=205 to get it out of theway I%+ and >UI2K,7

If you want to get through the boring sub#ects $uic!ly get yourhands on my "+peed %eading 9ideo 5rogram" so you spend ,0++ time onthe sub#ects you hate

? %ead more about it at http:@@www+peed%eading9ideocomA

+peed %eading forces you to focus and concentrate and get it out ofthe way in a fraction of the time Imagine spend (8, the time onchemistry physics or geography (ow cool would that be/B/

hat being said the +02*)1 issue you have is with condence andself.esteem

hat is a lot harder to deal with If you are !een todeal with this I have a colleague who can help you get abrea!through (er name is 7vonne &cIntosh and she o


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